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BadgeIsBack Jan 27th 2007 7:46 pm

Re: Making Friends
 

Originally Posted by gardnma (Post 4333562)
You are in Oz........imagine a whole nation of people who take it all "so very seriously"........

Thats the US. :eek: :eek:

Maybe. But - where did I mention seriousness? At work I'm the least serious person(!) I spend all my day being irreverent - I can't help myself..

BadgeIsBack Jan 27th 2007 7:50 pm

Re: Making Friends
 

Originally Posted by kiwi_child (Post 4333739)
This 'balancing act' is an art form Badge. It takes time to learn it and for some while it brings benefits it still resonates a falseness. But you are right, we live in a system and we need in ways to conform to it (at present), but we also need to be aware of it and seek for a more fufilling and richer (not financial) life.

The thing is if enough people become more aware and start demanding more from life, we might start to see the growth of a new age in human sociology and politics.

Wow(!) But this is happening - its why I like Australia - I don't need to be financially rich. And I think the move has started already - with choice, lifestyle etc. Think back to the 50s...there has been change what with the internet etc..

If you mean falseness in a sort of 'work ethic' way there is a degree of truth in this. But we all need to ''falsely' toe the line or there would be a breakdown in law and order.

kiwi_child Jan 28th 2007 6:55 pm

Re: Making Friends
 

Originally Posted by BadgeIsBack (Post 4334041)
Wow(!) But this is happening - its why I like Australia - I don't need to be financially rich. And I think the move has started already - with choice, lifestyle etc. Think back to the 50s...there has been change what with the internet etc..

If you mean falseness in a sort of 'work ethic' way there is a degree of truth in this. But we all need to ''falsely' toe the line or there would be a breakdown in law and order.

I mean 'falseness' in terms of the surreal or lack of authenticity and meaning and fufilment. Law and order is a construct, not an absolute and as such it exists on a continuim. Changing the system does not equate to a breakdown of society or order...that's just neo-conservative political rhetoric.

Dizzillusioned Jan 29th 2007 7:43 am

Re: Making Friends
 

Originally Posted by kiwi_child (Post 4336739)
I mean 'falseness' in terms of the surreal or lack of authenticity and meaning and fufilment. Law and order is a construct, not an absolute and as such it exists on a continuim. Changing the system does not equate to a breakdown of society or order...that's just neo-conservative political rhetoric.

Eh?????

TruBrit Jan 29th 2007 7:49 am

Re: Making Friends
 

Originally Posted by Dizzillusioned (Post 4339056)
Eh?????

haha or as us scousers would say 'yer wha' :D

Dizzillusioned Jan 29th 2007 7:51 am

Re: Making Friends
 

Originally Posted by TruBrit (Post 4339091)
haha or as us scousers would say 'yer wha' :D

My Scouse friend just tells me to shurrup ;)

It's too ruddy early for deep thinking, I need a gallon of coffee first - then I'll dig out the dictionary ;)

gardnma Jan 29th 2007 8:39 am

Re: Making Friends
 

Originally Posted by kiwi_child (Post 4336739)
I mean 'falseness' in terms of the surreal or lack of authenticity and meaning and fufilment. Law and order is a construct, not an absolute and as such it exists on a continuim. Changing the system does not equate to a breakdown of society or order...that's just neo-conservative political rhetoric.

I understand the meaning of every word you just typed.....:)

Having a bit of trouble with the order though..........

eeagles Jan 29th 2007 9:45 am

Re: Making Friends
 
Making friends takes time and patience. If you haven't kept in contact with the people you left behind, you may find they've just moved on, and so you might feel disappointed at first when you return home. But, then again it might be as if you never left - it depends on alsorts of things.
I would say if you have the right personality and right approach, you'll make friends easily here, in time. But, you have to be patient and get involved to make your presence known for a while, i.e. help out of local events or something like that, etc. There are always people about who are happy to meet a new friend, even if they already have many. Good luck.

kiwi_child Jan 29th 2007 4:18 pm

Re: Making Friends
 

Originally Posted by gardnma (Post 4339332)
I understand the meaning of every word you just typed.....:)

Having a bit of trouble with the order though..........

Two topics whacked in the one para...sorry mate. Try reading earlier posts between me and Badge to get the context.

gardnma Jan 29th 2007 9:34 pm

Re: Making Friends
 

Originally Posted by kiwi_child (Post 4340527)
Two topics whacked in the one para...sorry mate. Try reading earlier posts between me and Badge to get the context.

Wow, I just re-read it and got it......must be the early morning thing. :D

kiwi_child Jan 30th 2007 4:00 pm

Re: Making Friends
 

Originally Posted by gardnma (Post 4341022)
Wow, I just re-read it and got it......must be the early morning thing. :D

Glad you 'got it'. Strong coffee is good for the early morning mind fog I find :thumbup:

Dizzillusioned Jan 30th 2007 5:45 pm

Re: Making Friends
 

Originally Posted by kiwi_child (Post 4344494)
Glad you 'got it'. Strong coffee is good for the early morning mind fog I find :thumbup:

I need stronger coffee or a new brain cos it still went Woooooshhhhh over my head :rofl:

kiwi_child Jan 30th 2007 7:03 pm

Re: Making Friends
 

Originally Posted by Dizzillusioned (Post 4344680)
I need stronger coffee or a new brain cos it still went Woooooshhhhh over my head :rofl:

No probs Dizzi, it's academic lingo. I'm afraid that having spent time at uni it can become a difficult to try and convey these types of concepts in a more "down to earth" style.

Dizzillusioned Jan 30th 2007 7:06 pm

Re: Making Friends
 

Originally Posted by kiwi_child (Post 4344774)
No probs Dizzi, it's academic lingo. I'm afraid that having spent time at uni it can become a difficult to try and convey these types of concepts in a more "down to earth" style.

Translated as "I can't dumb it down for the lesser mortals who've had kids and lost half their braincells" :rofl:

kiwi_child Jan 30th 2007 7:10 pm

Re: Making Friends
 

Originally Posted by Dizzillusioned (Post 4344778)
Translated as "I can't dumb it down for the lesser mortals who've had kids and lost half their braincells" :rofl:

:lol: Actually given the right environment, eg; a chat over a cuppa tea or that I probably could. It's just that on a post your constricted really. It would take a lot of typing to draw out the meanings and give them justice I think. For probably 95% of readers this would just become boring.


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