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brits1 Aug 31st 2010 8:27 pm

Re: The long goodbye
 

Originally Posted by lilybilly101 (Post 8817756)
So, it has been amazing with friends after a short but strange spell. I guess it was part of the process of leaving and me feeling out of sorts and them adjusting to us leaving. People have been so VERY, VERY kind with their time, helping us with the kids and the move in general. So sweet. I feel guilty for ever doubting those relationships! I am a fool sometimes.....I blame the stress of leaving!

So, we are now in an empty house and have one blanket between the 4 of us. The baby has already fallen off the bed once so must try to be more diligent. Oops. The dog looks REALLY sad and stressed but she is off to a lovely home for a couple of months while we are away. Our little boy asks if we are going to England today every day! Cute. He is very excited about everything.

The tent trailer is set up at the campground, British passports are here and Brit visa has been issued so will be here in three days. MADNESS. It is all coming together slowly. Weère off to the Rockies and heading down the US and maybe into Baja.

It has been a long and difficult few days and I feel exhausted. We both look like crap. No concealer will hide these bags. I LOOK LIKE BARRY BLOODY NORMAN!

So, farewell to all for a wee while......or just the morning which will be a mad scramble to get out of the house by 12 :ohmy:

SAD to leave HAPPY to go home. It is a big emotional roller coaster ride for me but hanging on....white knuckling it!

Best wishes to all.


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Lilly....now is the time to enjoy yourself....enjoy the sights you are going to see and experience.....try and relax and for now don't think to far ahead....all the best and have a great "break".....

brits1 Aug 31st 2010 8:31 pm

Re: The long goodbye
 

Originally Posted by lilybilly101 (Post 8695769)
Is anyone finding it difficult with relationships. I feel quite strange around our friends here right now and that we are the subject of much 'discussion'. Only one couple have truly wished us a heart felt goodbye and 'understand' why you're leaving, with others there seems to be a lot of how could you or silence. It's making me even more desperate to leave!

Lil...we had the same but we endured it...it's not nice as I have friends from years ago...both at home and oversea's......and to find friends who just dropped us like a ton of bricks as soon as they found out we were heading home was just ....well..awful......look at it like this you have a friend who has wished you well....and that can be more than some can say.....one more good friend is better than a handful of "rent a crowd" as my OH says....all the best and try not to let these feelings get to you too much..

bettyboo67 Sep 1st 2010 3:29 am

Re: The long goodbye
 
Goodluck Lillybilly and enjoy your well deserved holiday, I will miss your posts so let us know how things go back in blighty. We may be going back sooner than we thought too ,OH's job is v iffy right now- it may be a blessing as then the decision is made for us, I just want someone to tell me what to do really then its not my fault if it all goes pear shaped ;)

charleygirl Sep 1st 2010 11:51 am

Re: The long goodbye
 
Aw lilly, have a wonderful trip and please let us know when you are safely Home.
Enjoy the sites and relax:)

Lorry1 Sep 1st 2010 11:54 am

Re: The long goodbye
 
Good luck Lily, let us know how you're doing in England :D


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