A guide on returning back to the UK.
Sep 7th 2007, 2:27 am
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A guide on returning back to the UK.
Hi all did a thread ages ago that I wanted to go home, as we were going through a bit of a rough patch. Things picked up for us a lot since then. Husband found a job that he loves, and good money. We are not struggling now. We moved again to a bigger house with a pool………………………
BUT the last few weeks I feel really home sick, not sure why. Might be all the rain
Daughter came home upset from school yesterday, because a boy was picking on her. Calling her names “whinging Pom was one of them” how original 
Which has got me all upset, I feel like we will never fit in.(especially with my brummie accent) and I need that sense of belonging somewhere again.
I used BE loads to get us here it was my guide, now I need it to guide us back. We have about $70,000 in the bank. We are a family of 5. Where do I start? How much will it cost? Has anyone else gone back home penniless? I need a guide to follow, like when to cancel what or whom to inform were leaving. Who the used for what. Where did they stay. Things I need to do when I get back to the UK.
As you can see i have so many questions going around my head. I would like to read about other BE members experiences of the process of going home, like you do on the update forum. Of the last few weeks in Australia, and what happened when they got the back to the UK.
Would anybody be kind enough to share there experiences with me.
Stacey x
BUT the last few weeks I feel really home sick, not sure why. Might be all the rain
Daughter came home upset from school yesterday, because a boy was picking on her. Calling her names “whinging Pom was one of them” how original Which has got me all upset, I feel like we will never fit in.(especially with my brummie accent) and I need that sense of belonging somewhere again.I used BE loads to get us here it was my guide, now I need it to guide us back. We have about $70,000 in the bank. We are a family of 5. Where do I start? How much will it cost? Has anyone else gone back home penniless? I need a guide to follow, like when to cancel what or whom to inform were leaving. Who the used for what. Where did they stay. Things I need to do when I get back to the UK.
As you can see i have so many questions going around my head. I would like to read about other BE members experiences of the process of going home, like you do on the update forum. Of the last few weeks in Australia, and what happened when they got the back to the UK.
Would anybody be kind enough to share there experiences with me.
Stacey x
Last edited by stacey and jordan; Sep 7th 2007 at 4:23 am. Reason: wording
Sep 7th 2007, 6:04 am
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Re: A guide on returning back to the UK.
Hi Stacey
I can't offer you any advice unfortunately as I'm in the same boat, but I'm in South Africa and have been here since 1982. This website is a great tool to get information and there are so many people who are willing to share their information with you. Don't you think with so many people coming and going around the work that they should all club together and write a book on how and what to do for returning expats to the UK? I did manage to buy a book called "Working and Living in the UK" but even though it gives you some really good information it's more for someone who's planning on immigrating there.
Good luck with your plans and I hope you get all the answers you need.
Donna
I can't offer you any advice unfortunately as I'm in the same boat, but I'm in South Africa and have been here since 1982. This website is a great tool to get information and there are so many people who are willing to share their information with you. Don't you think with so many people coming and going around the work that they should all club together and write a book on how and what to do for returning expats to the UK? I did manage to buy a book called "Working and Living in the UK" but even though it gives you some really good information it's more for someone who's planning on immigrating there.
Good luck with your plans and I hope you get all the answers you need.
Donna
Sep 7th 2007, 12:42 pm
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Re: A guide on returning back to the UK.
Hi all did a thread ages ago that I wanted to go home, as we were going through a bit of a rough patch. Things picked up for us a lot since then. Husband found a job that he loves, and good money. We are not struggling now. We moved again to a bigger house with a pool………………………
BUT the last few weeks I feel really home sick, not sure why. Might be all the rain Daughter came home upset from school yesterday, because a boy was picking on her. Calling her names “whinging Pom was one of them” how original Which has got me all upset, I feel like we will never fit in.(especially with my brummie accent) and I need that sense of belonging somewhere again.
Stacey x
BUT the last few weeks I feel really home sick, not sure why. Might be all the rain
Daughter came home upset from school yesterday, because a boy was picking on her. Calling her names “whinging Pom was one of them” how original Which has got me all upset, I feel like we will never fit in.(especially with my brummie accent) and I need that sense of belonging somewhere again.Stacey x
Are you sure you want to go back this time? Could it be just another rough patch? I think it's par for the course that every once in a while we'll get homesick and pine to leave. But for me, at least, the feelings usually subside after a while and I go back to enjoying it again. Sometimes it's hard to get through the bad times, and I have to remind myself that it's to be expected once in a while and to just ride it out. Maybe you should give yourself a little while longer and see if feelings change for you.
Sep 7th 2007, 12:47 pm
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Re: A guide on returning back to the UK.
Hi all did a thread ages ago that I wanted to go home, as we were going through a bit of a rough patch. Things picked up for us a lot since then. Husband found a job that he loves, and good money. We are not struggling now. We moved again to a bigger house with a pool………………………
BUT the last few weeks I feel really home sick, not sure why. Might be all the rain Daughter came home upset from school yesterday, because a boy was picking on her. Calling her names “whinging Pom was one of them” how original Which has got me all upset, I feel like we will never fit in.(especially with my brummie accent) and I need that sense of belonging somewhere again.
I used BE loads to get us here it was my guide, now I need it to guide us back. We have about $70,000 in the bank. We are a family of 5. Where do I start? How much will it cost? Has anyone else gone back home penniless? I need a guide to follow, like when to cancel what or whom to inform were leaving. Who the used for what. Where did they stay. Things I need to do when I get back to the UK.
As you can see i have so many questions going around my head. I would like to read about other BE members experiences of the process of going home, like you do on the update forum. Of the last few weeks in Australia, and what happened when they got the back to the UK.
Would anybody be kind enough to share there experiences with me.
Stacey x
BUT the last few weeks I feel really home sick, not sure why. Might be all the rain
Daughter came home upset from school yesterday, because a boy was picking on her. Calling her names “whinging Pom was one of them” how original Which has got me all upset, I feel like we will never fit in.(especially with my brummie accent) and I need that sense of belonging somewhere again.I used BE loads to get us here it was my guide, now I need it to guide us back. We have about $70,000 in the bank. We are a family of 5. Where do I start? How much will it cost? Has anyone else gone back home penniless? I need a guide to follow, like when to cancel what or whom to inform were leaving. Who the used for what. Where did they stay. Things I need to do when I get back to the UK.
As you can see i have so many questions going around my head. I would like to read about other BE members experiences of the process of going home, like you do on the update forum. Of the last few weeks in Australia, and what happened when they got the back to the UK.
Would anybody be kind enough to share there experiences with me.
Stacey x
Sep 7th 2007, 1:13 pm
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Re: A guide on returning back to the UK.
Hi Stacey
So sorry that you are feeling homesick. As lady of the lake said though are you absolutely certain that it isn't a bout of missing home. Do you really and truly want to leave Australia? I only ask because it is a huge upheaval.
We returned to the UK after 12 months in Australia but knew that we couldn't live there forever. Our circumstances meant that we would be much happier in the UK and we are so glad that we made the decision to come home. But many people return only to find that they wished they had stayed. If you are truly unhappy there and feel that you really want to come home then it can be done. Just plan ahead - contact schools/employers/rentals in the UK and get as much information as you possibly can.
We gave notice on our rental in Oz and moved out the day we left - the removals had been in the day before so we just used a $5 kettle and plastic cups and slept on the floor. We telephoned all the utilites well in advance to inform them of the date of leaving and everything went perfectly.
We came back virtually penniless - we sold our cars to pay for the air fares/shipping/dogs fares and are now trying to start again over here. We found somewhere to rent just a few weeks after returning, hubby started work immediately (planned from Oz), me a few months later and we are now saving again for a deposit for our own place.
Good luck with whatever you decide and if you need any advice at all just pm me
So sorry that you are feeling homesick. As lady of the lake said though are you absolutely certain that it isn't a bout of missing home. Do you really and truly want to leave Australia? I only ask because it is a huge upheaval.
We returned to the UK after 12 months in Australia but knew that we couldn't live there forever. Our circumstances meant that we would be much happier in the UK and we are so glad that we made the decision to come home. But many people return only to find that they wished they had stayed. If you are truly unhappy there and feel that you really want to come home then it can be done. Just plan ahead - contact schools/employers/rentals in the UK and get as much information as you possibly can.
We gave notice on our rental in Oz and moved out the day we left - the removals had been in the day before so we just used a $5 kettle and plastic cups and slept on the floor. We telephoned all the utilites well in advance to inform them of the date of leaving and everything went perfectly.
We came back virtually penniless - we sold our cars to pay for the air fares/shipping/dogs fares and are now trying to start again over here. We found somewhere to rent just a few weeks after returning, hubby started work immediately (planned from Oz), me a few months later and we are now saving again for a deposit for our own place.
Good luck with whatever you decide and if you need any advice at all just pm me
Sep 7th 2007, 1:23 pm
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Re: A guide on returning back to the UK.
Hi all did a thread ages ago that I wanted to go home, as we were going through a bit of a rough patch. Things picked up for us a lot since then. Husband found a job that he loves, and good money. We are not struggling now. We moved again to a bigger house with a pool………………………
BUT the last few weeks I feel really home sick, not sure why. Might be all the rain Daughter came home upset from school yesterday, because a boy was picking on her. Calling her names “whinging Pom was one of them” how original Which has got me all upset, I feel like we will never fit in.(especially with my brummie accent) and I need that sense of belonging somewhere again.
I used BE loads to get us here it was my guide, now I need it to guide us back. We have about $70,000 in the bank. We are a family of 5. Where do I start? How much will it cost? Has anyone else gone back home penniless? I need a guide to follow, like when to cancel what or whom to inform were leaving. Who the used for what. Where did they stay. Things I need to do when I get back to the UK.
As you can see i have so many questions going around my head. I would like to read about other BE members experiences of the process of going home, like you do on the update forum. Of the last few weeks in Australia, and what happened when they got the back to the UK.
Would anybody be kind enough to share there experiences with me.
Stacey x
BUT the last few weeks I feel really home sick, not sure why. Might be all the rain
Daughter came home upset from school yesterday, because a boy was picking on her. Calling her names “whinging Pom was one of them” how original Which has got me all upset, I feel like we will never fit in.(especially with my brummie accent) and I need that sense of belonging somewhere again.I used BE loads to get us here it was my guide, now I need it to guide us back. We have about $70,000 in the bank. We are a family of 5. Where do I start? How much will it cost? Has anyone else gone back home penniless? I need a guide to follow, like when to cancel what or whom to inform were leaving. Who the used for what. Where did they stay. Things I need to do when I get back to the UK.
As you can see i have so many questions going around my head. I would like to read about other BE members experiences of the process of going home, like you do on the update forum. Of the last few weeks in Australia, and what happened when they got the back to the UK.
Would anybody be kind enough to share there experiences with me.
Stacey x
Please don't be too hasty with your decision to come back, are you sure it's not just a little bad patch.
Whatever you decide i wish you luck on your return back to blighty
Sep 7th 2007, 8:07 pm
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Re: A guide on returning back to the UK.
Anyone out there with advise on how a British born person who was married to a U.S. seviceman ( retired now ) & divorce pending can relocate back to Britian....absent for a lot of years due to husbands career in Military, what would I be entitled to if anything?
Sep 7th 2007, 8:20 pm
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Re: A guide on returning back to the UK.
check out http://www.direct.gov.uk/en/index.htm
Sep 7th 2007, 8:25 pm
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The answer is no,just wondering how much trouble ( is any ) I would have returning to England after such a long absence. I am retired,would have income but wondering about British tax laws concerning U.S Social security & of course I would be in need of health coverage- would I be entitled?
Sep 7th 2007, 8:29 pm
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The answer is no,just wondering how much trouble ( is any ) I would have returning to England after such a long absence. I am retired,would have income but wondering about British tax laws concerning U.S Social security & of course I would be in need of health coverage- would I be entitled?
Sep 7th 2007, 8:31 pm
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Sep 7th 2007, 11:23 pm
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Re: A guide on returning back to the UK.
Are you sure you want to go back this time? Could it be just another rough patch? I think it's par for the course that every once in a while we'll get homesick and pine to leave. But for me, at least, the feelings usually subside after a while and I go back to enjoying it again. Sometimes it's hard to get through the bad times, and I have to remind myself that it's to be expected once in a while and to just ride it out. Maybe you should give yourself a little while longer and see if feelings change for you.
Stacey xx
Sep 8th 2007, 1:27 pm
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Would spousal support payments from a spouse in another country be taxed?
Sep 8th 2007, 1:32 pm
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