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TaraC Jul 31st 2007 6:35 am

Re: Feeling sad :(
 

Originally Posted by birdynumnum (Post 5127561)
I'm a few days away from flying away from this area for a quick city jaunt (& more good byes) b4 heading back to UK. Although I do want to go back & will be glad I did, I feel really sad about leaving this little place and the lovely friends I've made - its not nice and I dont like it. Its one of the aspects of migrating that is pants I reckon (if you do decide to head back).
At the moment instead of being excited about heading back, I feel more sad to be leaving. Hope thats not a bad sign and is kind of normal!!!???

Just felt like a mini rant
T

I'm hoping you're normal Birdy, because I'm going through the same thing. Seven weeks to go, and I'm wandering around with a big old lump in my throat. Every time I go to a favourite shop or place I think, "this will be the last time." Crazy. I've been trying to get home for 25 years, and now I'm sad about it. I keep looking at all the lovely things here (yes there are quite a few) and wondering if I'm mad to give this up. Luckily we're heading into the dog days of summer in the south, so by the time the middle of Sept rolls around, I'll be more than ready to get shot of the place. I hope your move goes well. Just try and relax and enjoy the last few weeks.

TruBrit Jul 31st 2007 6:56 am

Re: Feeling sad :(
 

Originally Posted by birdynumnum (Post 5127561)
I'm a few days away from flying away from this area for a quick city jaunt (& more good byes) b4 heading back to UK. Although I do want to go back & will be glad I did, I feel really sad about leaving this little place and the lovely friends I've made - its not nice and I dont like it. Its one of the aspects of migrating that is pants I reckon (if you do decide to head back).
At the moment instead of being excited about heading back, I feel more sad to be leaving. Hope thats not a bad sign and is kind of normal!!!???

Just felt like a mini rant
T

awwww birdy, it's not a mini rant it's just you're apprehensive and that's standard from what i've heard from lots of peeps in a similar position, except you wont be hearing it from me when my time comes ;)

tons of good luck anyway :)

Big Pete Jul 31st 2007 8:51 am

Re: Feeling sad :(
 

Originally Posted by TruBrit (Post 5130367)
awwww birdy, it's not a mini rant it's just you're apprehensive and that's standard from what i've heard from lots of peeps in a similar position, except you wont be hearing it from me when my time comes ;)

tons of good luck anyway :)

Very true .:thumbup:

But i bet when the time comes TruBrit you will be the same , you will put this brave face on and as the day comes i bet you cry :)

TruBrit Jul 31st 2007 8:54 am

Re: Feeling sad :(
 

Originally Posted by Big Pete (Post 5130740)
Very true .:thumbup:

But i bet when the time comes TruBrit you will be the same , you will put this brave face on and as the day comes i bet you cry :)

no BP not moi coz we'll still have a place here and i'll be back for shopping and spending my ££ ;)

Big Pete Jul 31st 2007 9:04 am

Re: Feeling sad :(
 

Originally Posted by TruBrit (Post 5130754)
no BP not moi coz we'll still have a place here and i'll be back for shopping and spending my ££ ;)

I see , clever thinking ;)

TaraC Jul 31st 2007 9:12 am

Re: Feeling sad :(
 

Originally Posted by TruBrit (Post 5130754)
no BP not moi coz we'll still have a place here and i'll be back for shopping and spending my ££ ;)

Boy, won't that be nice? I get so jealous of all those lucky Brits I see in NYC -- spending all their dosh while I'm counting the pennies!

TruBrit Jul 31st 2007 9:21 am

Re: Feeling sad :(
 

Originally Posted by TaraC (Post 5130843)
Boy, won't that be nice? I get so jealous of all those lucky Brits I see in NYC -- spending all their dosh while I'm counting the pennies!

i wont be spending all my £'s over here as there's not much i like, certainly not clothes wise.....tbh the only shop i have a weakness for here is the DSW shoe store :)

TaraC Jul 31st 2007 9:53 am

Re: Feeling sad :(
 

Originally Posted by TruBrit (Post 5130874)
i wont be spending all my £'s over here as there's not much i like, certainly not clothes wise.....tbh the only shop i have a weakness for here is the DSW shoe store :)

For me it's cosmetics. I get orders to take back Bobbi Brown / MAC stuff to my friends at home, and it kills me that their pounds are buying so much more than my dollars. Make up is a lot cheaper here!

Clothes-wise, I'm still a big Hobbs and M&S fan.

TruBrit Jul 31st 2007 10:07 am

Re: Feeling sad :(
 

Originally Posted by TaraC (Post 5131024)
For me it's cosmetics. I get orders to take back Bobbi Brown / MAC stuff to my friends at home, and it kills me that their pounds are buying so much more than my dollars. Make up is a lot cheaper here!

Clothes-wise, I'm still a big Hobbs and M&S fan.

yep i buy Mac and also take for friends and jeans ;)

TaraC Jul 31st 2007 10:15 am

Re: Feeling sad :(
 

Originally Posted by TruBrit (Post 5131086)
yep i buy Mac and also take for friends and jeans ;)

I forgot the jeans! That and baby clothes. I'm a dab hand at Baby Gap sales!

birdynumnum Jul 31st 2007 12:30 pm

Re: Feeling sad :(
 
Hi all

Thanks for the words everyone & My God, I'm normal, now thats a turn up for the books :) hee hee

It is so funny how you appreciate things all the more once you're off. Even though I'm sure I'll miss aspects of here, think it may be less than I think & a walk in the woods or over fields followed by a pint in a country pub in UK should help & being able to go somewhwere different.
I'm planning trips too - maybe Prague for starters. Soon as I start looking forward to all that I feel better.
I keep singing Knowing me, knowing you by Abba as my theme tune - sad or what!!!!!!!!!

I'm off for a day as a tourist here now to get into practise again :)
Anyway, to anyone else planning the off and feeling funny - good luck
Big thanks
xxxx

birdynumnum Jul 31st 2007 12:38 pm

Re: Feeling sad :(
 

Originally Posted by Howard1944 (Post 5128636)
Next August 7 it will be 50 years since we left England for Canada, in those days, never was a question of going back, Canada was to be our home.

Parents Memorial Plate reads:

English by Birth

Canadians By choice.

Sure it was tough, Dad left a good paying job as an Electrician and swept floors, we moved three times the first year here.

Move was for the 8 kids, and it was a great move.


And the relevance of this is?

birdynumnum Jul 31st 2007 12:46 pm

Re: Feeling sad :(
 

Originally Posted by TaraC (Post 5130295)
I'm hoping you're normal Birdy, because I'm going through the same thing. Seven weeks to go, and I'm wandering around with a big old lump in my throat. Every time I go to a favourite shop or place I think, "this will be the last time." Crazy. I've been trying to get home for 25 years, and now I'm sad about it. I keep looking at all the lovely things here (yes there are quite a few) and wondering if I'm mad to give this up. Luckily we're heading into the dog days of summer in the south, so by the time the middle of Sept rolls around, I'll be more than ready to get shot of the place. I hope your move goes well. Just try and relax and enjoy the last few weeks.

25 years - bloody hell.
I did same the other eve - amazing sunset, rainbows bla bla - lovely - I stood on the beach thinking am I mad.
Good luck with the move - you have alot of catching up to do - enjoy it
xxxx
xxxx

TaraC Jul 31st 2007 12:51 pm

Re: Feeling sad :(
 

Originally Posted by birdynumnum (Post 5131525)
25 years - bloody hell.
I did same the other eve - amazing sunset, rainbows bla bla - lovely - I stood on the beach thinking am I mad.
Good luck with the move - you have alot of catching up to do - enjoy it
xxxx
xxxx

It does seem amazing when I think about the years of wishing and hoping. Luckily I've managed to get back quite a lot, but there's so much I don't know!

fishfinger Jul 31st 2007 1:54 pm

Re: Feeling sad :(
 
Me too Birdy! I'm leaving next month and I have mixed emotions depending on the time of day!!

I'm sure it will work out. We just need to get through those long goodbyes quickly and we will be out the other end with a fresh start.

Good luck:)


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