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I think there were links to incapacity benefits etc in Beths posts. Or maybe she'll come by and link to to them.
Or did the poster with the princess name? make a sticky of things you may need to know.
Or did the poster with the princess name? make a sticky of things you may need to know.
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PLEASE get your citizenship. If your kids are USCs who remain here long-term, you may need it to visit them. ONLY USCs are guaranteed entry to the US.
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I am moving back to the UK after being in the USA 19 years. I never took a citizenship here, so am a True Brit through and through. (Will be moving in with a British other half..renting from my brother)
My ex is a US citizen and will be paying me alimony, in return I will pay child support - I also am on disability and get a US SSDI allowance. Anyone got a clue on taxes etc; who I pay and where??
Do I apply for benefits in the UK?
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Where do I start??????
My ex is a US citizen and will be paying me alimony, in return I will pay child support - I also am on disability and get a US SSDI allowance. Anyone got a clue on taxes etc; who I pay and where??
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The brain has just about had more than it can take
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Where do I start??????
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Regarding SSDI in the UK - there is a reciprocal agreement which means I can still claim there, based on what I get here. Also the plus side is that alimony is non-taxable in the UK - my lawyer just checked into it - also when I get remarried, alimony stops, but child support is based on bio parent only, so my income will be next to nothing......
Now I have a 17 yr old who is telling me she isn't sure she wants to live with dad anymore - and I've only been out of the house a few weeks. She's telling me he's a screaming lunatic (ya think??????) and now maybe she wants to live with me.
Back to court!!!!
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You really, really need to get your citizenship before leaving.
I too have been through an ugly divorce and I know what you mean about being exhausted, but this is too important not to do.
I too have been through an ugly divorce and I know what you mean about being exhausted, but this is too important not to do.
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Excuse me for being ignorant on this, but I am trying to figure out the benefits - and the downside.......
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Tbh - having just gone through the most horrendous divorce, I just didn't even have the energy to look into it so much.... I'm totally fried, and he's totally uncooperative.
Regarding SSDI in the UK - there is a reciprocal agreement which means I can still claim there, based on what I get here. Also the plus side is that alimony is non-taxable in the UK - my lawyer just checked into it - also when I get remarried, alimony stops, but child support is based on bio parent only, so my income will be next to nothing......
Now I have a 17 yr old who is telling me she isn't sure she wants to live with dad anymore - and I've only been out of the house a few weeks. She's telling me he's a screaming lunatic (ya think??????) and now maybe she wants to live with me.
Back to court!!!!![Confused Smile](https://britishexpats.com/forum/images/smilies/msn/confused_smile.gif)
Regarding SSDI in the UK - there is a reciprocal agreement which means I can still claim there, based on what I get here. Also the plus side is that alimony is non-taxable in the UK - my lawyer just checked into it - also when I get remarried, alimony stops, but child support is based on bio parent only, so my income will be next to nothing......
Now I have a 17 yr old who is telling me she isn't sure she wants to live with dad anymore - and I've only been out of the house a few weeks. She's telling me he's a screaming lunatic (ya think??????) and now maybe she wants to live with me.
Back to court!!!!
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http://britishexpats.com/wiki/Pros_a...US_Citizenship
But the main one for your circumstances is not there: your kids are here but without taking citizenship you don't have the right to even visit them.
Are all your children US citizens?
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kids were born here, so yes....
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So that's okay.
You should also investigate the effect US citizenship has on your eligibility for social security payments while living abroad, and particularly SSDI if you're claiming it. I think payment may continue provided you are a citizen.
You should also investigate the effect US citizenship has on your eligibility for social security payments while living abroad, and particularly SSDI if you're claiming it. I think payment may continue provided you are a citizen.
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