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Was it a conspiracy ?
Before leaving the UK 18 months ago, I was caught up in the whole negative thing, everywhere I went people were moaning about the country and the government, immigration, youth culture, lack of respect. crime, safety etc, etc :eek:
Me and OH were feeling really unhappy about the way the country was and worrying about where it would all end and surely something terrible would happen soon (again, etc, etc) :eek: So, we jumped ship before it sunk, whatelse could we do, it was a really bad situation - apparently Now I have this feeling of betrayal, I feel that I started running and when I finally stopped to look round nobody had followed, all those people that hate it there are still living there, in the 18 months that I have been gone nothing has changed :frown: I gave up my home, job, moved my children and they all carried on like normal as if none of these terrible things are happening at all and it was one big joke :o Don't get me wrong, I'm not bitter or resentful and I'm not directing this at anyone in particular it is just that I can't explain the feeling any other way. We are now stuck in limbo, we don't regret leaving but have this strong feeling of wanting to return but are now scared of making the wrong decision I know that none of you can tell me what I should do but I would appreciate any sort of feedback, perhaps some of you can relate to this feeling ;) |
Re: Was it a conspiracy ?
Originally Posted by bramblebush
(Post 4595443)
Before leaving the UK 18 months ago, I was caught up in the whole negative thing, everywhere I went people were moaning about the country and the government, immigration, youth culture, lack of respect. crime, safety etc, etc :eek:
Me and OH were feeling really unhappy about the way the country was and worrying about where it would all end and surely something terrible would happen soon (again, etc, etc) :eek: So, we jumped ship before it sunk, whatelse could we do, it was a really bad situation - apparently Now I have this feeling of betrayal, I feel that I started running and when I finally stopped to look round nobody had followed, all those people that hate it there are still living there, in the 18 months that I have been gone nothing has changed :frown: I gave up my home, job, moved my children and they all carried on like normal as if none of these terrible things are happening at all and it was one big joke :o Don't get me wrong, I'm not bitter or resentful and I'm not directing this at anyone in particular it is just that I can't explain the feeling any other way. We are now stuck in limbo, we don't regret leaving but have this strong feeling of wanting to return but are now scared of making the wrong decision I know that none of you can tell me what I should do but I would appreciate any sort of feedback, perhaps some of you can relate to this feeling ;) Maybe some of us have to justify our leaving somewhere by "trashing it" - so to speak. We see "problems" that are not really there - or are blown out of realistic proportion by the press. I think I am guilty of doing this - it made me feel better about leaving! |
Re: Was it a conspiracy ?
Originally Posted by bramblebush
(Post 4595443)
Before leaving the UK 18 months ago, I was caught up in the whole negative thing, everywhere I went people were moaning about the country and the government, immigration, youth culture, lack of respect. crime, safety etc, etc :eek:
Me and OH were feeling really unhappy about the way the country was and worrying about where it would all end and surely something terrible would happen soon (again, etc, etc) :eek: So, we jumped ship before it sunk, whatelse could we do, it was a really bad situation - apparently Now I have this feeling of betrayal, I feel that I started running and when I finally stopped to look round nobody had followed, all those people that hate it there are still living there, in the 18 months that I have been gone nothing has changed :frown: I gave up my home, job, moved my children and they all carried on like normal as if none of these terrible things are happening at all and it was one big joke :o Don't get me wrong, I'm not bitter or resentful and I'm not directing this at anyone in particular it is just that I can't explain the feeling any other way. We are now stuck in limbo, we don't regret leaving but have this strong feeling of wanting to return but are now scared of making the wrong decision I know that none of you can tell me what I should do but I would appreciate any sort of feedback, perhaps some of you can relate to this feeling ;) Yesterday, on the moving to aus forum another reason listed for leaving the Uk was having to buy your children bullet proof vests, complete with media article to back it up:rofl: If thats not hysteria I dont know what is. I think many people are giving up really good lives there and they know that deep down, they have to justify leaving by clutching at any old reason no matter how silly it is. |
Re: Was it a conspiracy ?
Originally Posted by bramblebush
(Post 4595443)
Before leaving the UK 18 months ago, I was caught up in the whole negative thing, everywhere I went people were moaning about the country and the government, immigration, youth culture, lack of respect. crime, safety etc, etc :eek:
Me and OH were feeling really unhappy about the way the country was and worrying about where it would all end and surely something terrible would happen soon (again, etc, etc) :eek: So, we jumped ship before it sunk, whatelse could we do, it was a really bad situation - apparently Now I have this feeling of betrayal, I feel that I started running and when I finally stopped to look round nobody had followed, all those people that hate it there are still living there, in the 18 months that I have been gone nothing has changed :frown: I gave up my home, job, moved my children and they all carried on like normal as if none of these terrible things are happening at all and it was one big joke :o Don't get me wrong, I'm not bitter or resentful and I'm not directing this at anyone in particular it is just that I can't explain the feeling any other way. We are now stuck in limbo, we don't regret leaving but have this strong feeling of wanting to return but are now scared of making the wrong decision I know that none of you can tell me what I should do but I would appreciate any sort of feedback, perhaps some of you can relate to this feeling ;) Great post - I totally relate to this as we too got caught up in all the hype and negativity enough to sell up and move to a country that on reflection, we knew very little about. We too were convinced that the UK had nothing to offer anymore but that Australia would be wonderful. How totally stupid and utterly foolish we were. If only we hadn't believed all the crap, we wouldn't have lost everything we ever worked for :( Am now back in the UK seeing things so differently (and not reading newspapers either). |
Re: Was it a conspiracy ?
I know that none of you can tell me what I should do but I would appreciate any sort of feedback, perhaps some of you can relate to this feeling ;)[/QUOTE]
Well we left to try to "improve our lives" and our childrens future (and because we could..) although did not dislike anything about the Uk per se. Of course we would like some things improved upon here, but nowhere is perfect. We were quite shocked by how bland and limiting our future looked in Australia and much prefer being in England. I only had the limbo feeling for a while, but that was becuase my heart was screaming out to get back home and my head was trying so hard to make it work in Oz. Limbo ceased once we made a decision. Do you think France is really any better than Uk or just different? Perhaps you could try a small rural part of the Uk?! I don't know...:blink: |
Re: Was it a conspiracy ?
Originally Posted by bramblebush
(Post 4595443)
We are now stuck in limbo, we don't regret leaving but have this strong feeling of wanting to return but are now scared of making the wrong decision
I know that none of you can tell me what I should do but I would appreciate any sort of feedback, perhaps some of you can relate to this feeling ;) Personally I have been out for 7 years; when I left I never imagined I would be away for so long (was just going RTW) but now I cant imagine ever living in London again. I used to be at one with the city but every time I return to see family it seems more grimy and violent, you should never go backwards in life, seize your future and make it work. |
Re: Was it a conspiracy ?
Originally Posted by bramblebush
(Post 4595443)
Before leaving the UK 18 months ago, I was caught up in the whole negative thing, everywhere I went people were moaning about the country and the government, immigration, youth culture, lack of respect. crime, safety etc, etc :eek:
Me and OH were feeling really unhappy about the way the country was and worrying about where it would all end and surely something terrible would happen soon (again, etc, etc) :eek: So, we jumped ship before it sunk, whatelse could we do, it was a really bad situation - apparently Now I have this feeling of betrayal, I feel that I started running and when I finally stopped to look round nobody had followed, all those people that hate it there are still living there, in the 18 months that I have been gone nothing has changed :frown: I gave up my home, job, moved my children and they all carried on like normal as if none of these terrible things are happening at all and it was one big joke :o Don't get me wrong, I'm not bitter or resentful and I'm not directing this at anyone in particular it is just that I can't explain the feeling any other way. We are now stuck in limbo, we don't regret leaving but have this strong feeling of wanting to return but are now scared of making the wrong decision I know that none of you can tell me what I should do but I would appreciate any sort of feedback, perhaps some of you can relate to this feeling ;) |
Re: Was it a conspiracy ?
Great replies - keep em coming they are much appreciated :thumbsup:
Seasprite, a rural part of the UK would be perfect but not sure if it will be in our price range :( LouiseD I love reading your posts they are so positive, a breath of fresh air :thumbup: |
Re: Was it a conspiracy ?
Originally Posted by Issie
(Post 4595904)
Now i don't want to get into a slanging match about where is better but i just wanted to say that i have never felt as though i was pushed into any decision about moving to Australia. The Uk has been good to us, but an opportunity for us to make this move has come along. Whether it be a good move or a bad move only time will tell ......but you cannot blame other people for ultimately YOUR decision to move in the first place.
I did say in my original post that I wasn't directing it at anyone, which I saw as meaning I am not blaming anyone. Thanks for your opinion on this, just what I wanted - different points of view :thumbup: |
Re: Was it a conspiracy ?
Originally Posted by bramblebush
(Post 4595933)
I was expecting a reply like this, just surprised it didn't happen sooner.
I did say in my original post that I wasn't directing it at anyone, which I saw as meaning I am not blaming anyone. Thanks for your opinion on this, just what I wanted - different points of view :thumbup: |
Re: Was it a conspiracy ?
Originally Posted by ex_exile
(Post 4595888)
you should never go backwards in life, seize your future and make it work.
Sometimes it takes moving away to make you appreciate what you had and to value it more. Life is too short to be stuck miserable in a place you don't feel is home. Sometimes you just have to admit to yourself that you made a mistake. |
Re: Was it a conspiracy ?
Originally Posted by LouiseD
(Post 4595942)
Can't agree with this statement sorry. We returned to our old life because we felt that we had no future or opportunities in Oz so went back to where we knew we could make it and are thoroughly enjoying every minute of it. I don't really look on it as going backwards (although my bank balance says differently). Even though we've returned to the place we left, we have come back wiser and with a different outlook - the journey has made us stronger and we've learned so much along the way.
Sometimes it takes moving away to make you appreciate what you had and to value it more. Life is too short to be stuck miserable in a place you don't feel is home. Sometimes you just have to admit to yourself that you made a mistake. I wholeheartedley agree...going "back" is comfortable and surprising too.As Louise says you appreciate it so much more. |
Re: Was it a conspiracy ?
Originally Posted by Issie
(Post 4595904)
Now i don't want to get into a slanging match about where is better but i just wanted to say that i have never felt as though i was pushed into any decision about moving to Australia. The Uk has been good to us, but an opportunity for us to make this move has come along. Whether it be a good move or a bad move only time will tell ......but you cannot blame other people for ultimately YOUR decision to move in the first place.
Whilst I blame only myself for believing this and being so naive, I do think that the TV and newspapers should take some kind of responsibilty for what they are reporting. I (and others) put in a complaint to GMTV this week because of their feature Up Sticks to Down Under. They presented a picture of gloomy, grey UK, then cut to a picturesque Australia complete with happy family, sunny skies and beautiful beaches. To me this is nothing short of brainwashing - and unfortunately it does work. People do listen and believe. We may be thick, stupid or silly but thats the power of the box in the corner - why else do advertisers pay a fortune to market their products there. Fortunately GMTV must have listened to our complaints because they did issue a warning to viewers on Friday that emigrating isn't for everyone. I must repeat though that I do blame only myself for being sucked in and not seeing through the hype. Bloody idiot I am :o |
Re: Was it a conspiracy ?
Originally Posted by LouiseD
(Post 4596030)
I must repeat though that I do blame only myself for being sucked in and not seeing through the hype. Bloody idiot I am :o |
Re: Was it a conspiracy ?
Originally Posted by LouiseD
(Post 4595942)
Can't agree with this statement sorry. We returned to our old life because we felt that we had no future or opportunities in Oz so went back to where we knew we could make it and are thoroughly enjoying every minute of it. I don't really look on it as going backwards (although my bank balance says differently). Even though we've returned to the place we left, we have come back wiser and with a different outlook - the journey has made us stronger and we've learned so much along the way.
Sometimes it takes moving away to make you appreciate what you had and to value it more. Life is too short to be stuck miserable in a place you don't feel is home. Sometimes you just have to admit to yourself that you made a mistake. |
Re: Was it a conspiracy ?
Originally Posted by LouiseD
(Post 4596030)
Hi Issie - I think that every situation is different. Most people see the UK for what it is - some good points, some bad but would just like to try something different. Others love it here and would never consider leaving. Others like us, listened to negative news reports and believed that Australia would offer us some kind of sanctury.
Whilst I blame only myself for believing this and being so naive, I do think that the TV and newspapers should take some kind of responsibilty for what they are reporting. I (and others) put in a complaint to GMTV this week because of their feature Up Sticks to Down Under. They presented a picture of gloomy, grey UK, then cut to a picturesque Australia complete with happy family, sunny skies and beautiful beaches. To me this is nothing short of brainwashing - and unfortunately it does work. People do listen and believe. We may be thick, stupid or silly but thats the power of the box in the corner - why else do advertisers pay a fortune to market their products there. Fortunately GMTV must have listened to our complaints because they did issue a warning to viewers on Friday that emigrating isn't for everyone. I must repeat though that I do blame only myself for being sucked in and not seeing through the hype. Bloody idiot I am :o What some of the people want is the uk and everything it offers ie great pubs ,castles ,history ,in the sun .It doesnt exist and sitting on the beach is enough to bore the pants off a person after a fortnight let alone doing it for 40 years . |
Re: Was it a conspiracy ?
Originally Posted by Mrs Best
(Post 4595542)
I can sort of relate to what you are saying.
Maybe some of us have to justify our leaving somewhere by "trashing it" - so to speak. We see "problems" that are not really there - or are blown out of realistic proportion by the press. I think I am guilty of doing this - it made me feel better about leaving! I love the UK warts and all...I like the USA and can't see myself leaving it in the near future...but I'm glad I never pinned all my hopes on the place because I would of been let down to earth with a big bump.... |
Re: Was it a conspiracy ?
Originally Posted by king kong
(Post 4596514)
A lot of it is the Brits preoccupation of wanting to be some where in the sun and thats why the likes of GMTV flog the idea to death .
What some of the people want is the uk and everything it offers ie great pubs ,castles ,history ,in the sun .It doesnt exist and sitting on the beach is enough to bore the pants off a person after a fortnight let alone doing it for 40 years . |
Re: Was it a conspiracy ?
Originally Posted by bramblebush
(Post 4595443)
Before leaving the UK 18 months ago, I was caught up in the whole negative thing, everywhere I went people were moaning about the country and the government, immigration, youth culture, lack of respect. crime, safety etc, etc :eek:
Me and OH were feeling really unhappy about the way the country was and worrying about where it would all end and surely something terrible would happen soon (again, etc, etc) :eek: So, we jumped ship before it sunk, whatelse could we do, it was a really bad situation - apparently Now I have this feeling of betrayal, I feel that I started running and when I finally stopped to look round nobody had followed, all those people that hate it there are still living there, in the 18 months that I have been gone nothing has changed :frown: I gave up my home, job, moved my children and they all carried on like normal as if none of these terrible things are happening at all and it was one big joke :o Don't get me wrong, I'm not bitter or resentful and I'm not directing this at anyone in particular it is just that I can't explain the feeling any other way. We are now stuck in limbo, we don't regret leaving but have this strong feeling of wanting to return but are now scared of making the wrong decision I know that none of you can tell me what I should do but I would appreciate any sort of feedback, perhaps some of you can relate to this feeling ;) I think the British media has a hell of a lot to answer for. Between Murdoch and the Mail the "popular press" is telling everyone the UK is like hell on earth compared to wonderful spain, florida, oz, south france etc etc. People that actually leave, generally learn better. We know the press is right wing and we have Tony in Governemnt but it came to the point some years ago when the anti Britain rhetoric and sensationalist headlining stopped being poitical and started being counter productive. The editors need to get abroad, get some perspective and start realising that unfortunately they do have a huge effect on the public and in many ways its devastatingly negative. EDIT: Just read lousieD's repsonse, aye, totally agree. It's not just the blatant "fun in the sun" type reporting thats the problem imo. Its the way it has almost become habit to see which aspect of life in Britain we can run down today. |
Re: Was it a conspiracy ?
Originally Posted by bramblebush
(Post 4595443)
Before leaving the UK 18 months ago, I was caught up in the whole negative thing, everywhere I went people were moaning about the country and the government, immigration, youth culture, lack of respect. crime, safety etc, etc :eek:
Me and OH were feeling really unhappy about the way the country was and worrying about where it would all end and surely something terrible would happen soon (again, etc, etc) :eek: So, we jumped ship before it sunk, whatelse could we do, it was a really bad situation - apparently Now I have this feeling of betrayal, I feel that I started running and when I finally stopped to look round nobody had followed, all those people that hate it there are still living there, in the 18 months that I have been gone nothing has changed :frown: I gave up my home, job, moved my children and they all carried on like normal as if none of these terrible things are happening at all and it was one big joke :o Don't get me wrong, I'm not bitter or resentful and I'm not directing this at anyone in particular it is just that I can't explain the feeling any other way. We are now stuck in limbo, we don't regret leaving but have this strong feeling of wanting to return but are now scared of making the wrong decision I know that none of you can tell me what I should do but I would appreciate any sort of feedback, perhaps some of you can relate to this feeling ;) The country is still struggling on and on the surface looks much the same , However when you look under the carpet so to speak there is many things that are chipping away , which will in time lead to the inevitable crumble !! I am sure many would love to follow you , i know when i say about getting away everyone says i dont blame you , if i could afford to i would etc,etc. So its more a case of most are heavily in debt in the Uk stuffed with Mortgages or in rented accomodation which they cant just get capital enough in order to do the major move !!! In 18 months let me think Hmmmmmm whats changed ,,, 1/ Rates have gone up 10% 2/ Countrys gone NO Smoking crazy 3/ Taxation added to virtually everything , The UK is going through a sort the worlds global warming problem by itself !! With taxes added to on land fills and flying and well anything they can !! 4/ Rubbish collections changed to once a fortnight . 5/ Another 1 million immigrants have appeared , and added further drains on the dentists, hospitals ,housing etc.. 6/ House prices have gone up even further about 10 - 20% in some areas . 7/ Hospitals have severe MRSA outbreaks more regularly 8/ Numerous BIG Manufacturing Companies have closed or relocated production to the Far East 9/ Food bills rose by about 10% added costs of Haulage costs and taxation on the packaging and stuff i imagine. 10/All Computers and accessories cheaper than ever ,likewise all electric goods :thumbsup: 11/The country is now officially multi racial ,a trip up town can very often be like a International airport waitting lounge . 12/England football team still useless. 13/Weather seems to be warmer in general but wetter ,from Last November til this March has been so wet ! Add to this the warmer weather been a lot of Mossies and creepy things that normally were killed by our frosts ! so summer will be interesting ? 14/All utility bills have risen its getting so expensive to live and a lot of people work there socks off to make a living. 15/Finance is so easily achieved with low interest rates so lots of new cars and the country is favouring the buy now pay later way of life . 16/Credit cards given away like confetti , Uk has i believe one of the highest debt ratios per person than anywhere in the world , dont know if thats true or not ? heard it somewhere . 17/Crime is on the increase with more violent killings happening. 18/Have heard some towns now have micro chipped rubbish bins and if you dont recycle you get fined . 19/Coastal holiday resorts in serious decline and so dull and gloomy ,had poor summer seasons and it shows . 20/Road congestion getting worse ,travelling distance gets harder and takes longer 21/Government planning to introduce road toll charges , and even planning a car meter so they charge you by the mile on when you drive. 22/Cigarettes now up to £ 6 a pack in some places 23/Pint of Beer about £ 2.50p 24/Litre of Petrol £ 1 25/Road Tax on 4x4 vehicles now £ 400 a year 26/Many small shops in our town forced to close as Tescos , Asda, etc and excessive rates and rents are driving them out of business 27/TV licence £165 Hope this helps you ? |
Re: Was it a conspiracy ?
Originally Posted by Big Pete
(Post 4599202)
Its not a conspiracy , its just happening slowly and slower than what you predicted .
The country is still struggling on and on the surface looks much the same , However when you look under the carpet so to speak there is many things that are chipping away , which will in time lead to the inevitable crumble !! I am sure many would love to follow you , i know when i say about getting away everyone says i dont blame you , if i could afford to i would etc,etc. So its more a case of most are heavily in debt in the Uk stuffed with Mortgages or in rented accomodation which they cant just get capital enough in order to do the major move !!! In 18 months let me think Hmmmmmm whats changed ,,, 1/ Rates have gone up 10% 2/ Countrys gone NO Smoking crazy 3/ Taxation added to virtually everything , The UK is going through a sort the worlds global warming problem by itself !! With taxes added to on land fills and flying and well anything they can !! 4/ Rubbish collections changed to once a fortnight . 5/ Another 1 million immigrants have appeared , and added further drains on the dentists, hospitals ,housing etc.. 6/ House prices have gone up even further about 10 - 20% in some areas . 7/ Hospitals have severe MRSA outbreaks more regularly 8/ Numerous BIG Manufacturing Companies have closed or relocated production to the Far East 9/ Food bills rose by about 10% added costs of Haulage costs and taxation on the packaging and stuff i imagine. 10/All Computers and accessories cheaper than ever ,likewise all electric goods :thumbsup: 11/The country is now officially multi racial ,a trip up town can very often be like a International airport waitting lounge . 12/England football team still useless. 13/Weather seems to be warmer in general but wetter ,from Last November til this March has been so wet ! Add to this the warmer weather been a lot of Mossies and creepy things that normally were killed by our frosts ! so summer will be interesting ? 14/All utility bills have risen its getting so expensive to live and a lot of people work there socks off to make a living. 15/Finance is so easily achieved with low interest rates so lots of new cars and the country is favouring the buy now pay later way of life . 16/Credit cards given away like confetti , Uk has i believe one of the highest debt ratios per person than anywhere in the world , dont know if thats true or not ? heard it somewhere . 17/Crime is on the increase with more violent killings happening. 18/Have heard some towns now have micro chipped rubbish bins and if you dont recycle you get fined . 19/Coastal holiday resorts in serious decline and so dull and gloomy ,had poor summer seasons and it shows . 20/Road congestion getting worse ,travelling distance gets harder and takes longer 21/Government planning to introduce road toll charges , and even planning a car meter so they charge you by the mile on when you drive. 22/Cigarettes now up to £ 6 a pack in some places 23/Pint of Beer about £ 2.50p 24/Litre of Petrol £ 1 25/Road Tax on 4x4 vehicles now £ 400 a year 26/Many small shops in our town forced to close as Tescos , Asda, etc and excessive rates and rents are driving them out of business 27/TV licence £165 Hope this helps you ? Maybe those who have lived overseas can help you:rofl: do you think you could actually do a bit of research on other countries before posting again, just so you know what your talking about. Smoking outside in Uk, are you oblivious to the fact that in say OZ you cant smoke, in beaches, parks, 10m of buildings and soon to be cars, on the spot fines. Your always going on about hospitals, how about the 40 people in NZ with possible mad cow disease from hospital instruments, now big pete if that was the UK it would have been SLIGHTLY BIG NEWS probably acompanied by your favourite headline, " Lets get the furk out of here were all gonna die" You comments about food, taxes and and bills are laughable, given what some of that costs here :eek: Debt levels in other countries, again, do a bit of study. Just about everything your saying is similar elsewhere, but best of all your complaiining britain is multi racial :rofl: so your going to solve that one by becoming an immigrant.:thumbsup: :thumbsup: |
Re: Was it a conspiracy ?
Originally Posted by bramblebush
(Post 4596045)
Me too !! :o
Now the truth hurts as i finally realise moving away from the UK was all for the wrong reasons. This will be put right though, we all make mistakes at some stage, this one was just too bloody expensive:ohmy: |
Re: Was it a conspiracy ?
High taxes - don't make me laugh! As a self-employed person in the US I am paying 52% of my net earnings in various taxes (federal, state, Social Security, Medicare). And healthcare premiums/co-pays/non-covered-bits and property taxes on top of it. If you thought council taxes were high - come to California....).
And the significance of 'nice weather' is highly overrated. |
Re: Was it a conspiracy ?
Originally Posted by Elvira
(Post 4599440)
And the significance of 'nice weather' is highly overrated.
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Re: Was it a conspiracy ?
Originally Posted by jad n rich
(Post 4599313)
You comments about food, taxes and and bills are laughable, given what some of that costs here :eek:
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Re: Was it a conspiracy ?
Originally Posted by Big Pete
(Post 4599202)
Its not a conspiracy , its just happening slowly and slower than what you predicted .
The country is still struggling on and on the surface looks much the same , However when you look under the carpet so to speak there is many things that are chipping away , which will in time lead to the inevitable crumble !! I am sure many would love to follow you , i know when i say about getting away everyone says i dont blame you , if i could afford to i would etc,etc. So its more a case of most are heavily in debt in the Uk stuffed with Mortgages or in rented accomodation which they cant just get capital enough in order to do the major move !!! In 18 months let me think Hmmmmmm whats changed ,,, 1/ Rates have gone up 10% The average council tax rise in 2006 was 4.3%. 2/ Countrys gone NO Smoking crazy Great idea, will help some give up and save others from second hand smoke, about 5 years behind many other more progressive places. 3/ Taxation added to virtually everything , The UK is going through a sort the worlds global warming problem by itself !! With taxes added to on land fills and flying and well anything they can !! It needs someone to take the lead and show the way, good that the UK is doing it. 4/ Rubbish collections changed to once a fortnight . To promote recycling 5/ Another 1 million immigrants have appeared , and added further drains on the dentists, hospitals ,housing etc.. Most of the immigrants are the ones working in the hospitals etc keeping them afloat 6/ House prices have gone up even further about 10 - 20% in some areas. I remember the good old days when we complained about prices going down. 7/ Hospitals have severe MRSA outbreaks more regularly. As do many other countries - resistant bugs are a fact of life 8/ Numerous BIG Manufacturing Companies have closed or relocated production to the Far East. Same as for any western country, you want the cheap computer then expect it to be made overseas 9/ Food bills rose by about 10% added costs of Haulage costs and taxation on the packaging and stuff i imagine. 10/All Computers and accessories cheaper than ever ,likewise all electric goods :thumbsup: 11/The country is now officially multi racial ,a trip up town can very often be like a International airport waitting lounge . Nothing wrong in that, makes UK life more interesting 12/England football team still useless. no argument there 13/Weather seems to be warmer in general but wetter ,from Last November til this March has been so wet ! Add to this the warmer weather been a lot of Mossies and creepy things that normally were killed by our frosts ! so summer will be interesting ? see (3) above 14/All utility bills have risen its getting so expensive to live and a lot of people work there socks off to make a living. Promotes energy efficiency 15/Finance is so easily achieved with low interest rates so lots of new cars and the country is favouring the buy now pay later way of life . 16/Credit cards given away like confetti , Uk has i believe one of the highest debt ratios per person than anywhere in the world , dont know if thats true or not ? heard it somewhere . 17/Crime is on the increase with more violent killings happening. In murders per capita the UK has less than the US, Australia, Canada, Germany and around the same as Spain & France. 18/Have heard some towns now have micro chipped rubbish bins and if you dont recycle you get fined . You really have a bee in your bonnet about recycling don't you? 19/Coastal holiday resorts in serious decline and so dull and gloomy ,had poor summer seasons and it shows . 20/Road congestion getting worse ,travelling distance gets harder and takes longer 21/Government planning to introduce road toll charges , and even planning a car meter so they charge you by the mile on when you drive. In response to your complaint (20) above 22/Cigarettes now up to £ 6 a pack in some places 23/Pint of Beer about £ 2.50p 24/Litre of Petrol £ 1 promotes fuel efficiency and public transport 25/Road Tax on 4x4 vehicles now £ 400 a year - should be controlled by the price of fuel 26/Many small shops in our town forced to close as Tescos , Asda, etc and excessive rates and rents are driving them out of business 27/TV licence £165 amazing value Hope this helps you ? |
Re: Was it a conspiracy ?
Originally Posted by Cape Blue
(Post 4599775)
Boy are you going to enjoy yourself in Spain
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Re: Was it a conspiracy ?
I can understand why comments like the above are made by Big Pete and people like him. I was of a similar mind before I emigrated :embarrassed_smile:
All I ever saw was that the UK was rubbish in every way possible - how different and wonderful Oz was going to be - great lifestyle, low taxes, low cost of living :confused: OMG after a year living away did I wake up and realise that it wasn't that bad here at all. Hope your dreams come true Pete - and if you do find Utopia please give us a shout and we'll follow ;) |
Re: Was it a conspiracy ?
Just had a quick run through Costa Del Big Pete's "list of Doom", to see how many of those alledged points are having a major impact on my life. It appears to be none. Phew!
Originally Posted by Big Pete
(Post 4599202)
11/The country is now officially multi racial
Marvellous isn't it? "I don't approve of people from other "races" being here, so I'm off to the Mediterranean". |
Re: Was it a conspiracy ?
Originally Posted by Eric Hitchmo
(Post 4600135)
Marvellous isn't it? "I don't approve of people from other "races" being here, so I'm off to the Mediterranean". |
Re: Was it a conspiracy ?
Just popped in to check the boards and the first one I came across was big Petes comments on the Uk.
As I read through his list I found myself saying 'oh dear' 'oh no' 'oh shit' that sort of thing, you get the picture. By the time I read to the end of it I began to fear for the family and friends left behind in this terrible country. What can I do to persuade them to leave :eek: Then I carried on to read all the POSITIVE responses and I my faith has been restored. Yesterday OH and I had come to a 85% decision to return to the UK :thumbup: Today after reading here, I am now not sure if I am ready to return, if I was so easily put off by Big Petes list of negativity, I am concerned that if I return to blightly then it will be only a short time before I am scared shitless and want to run away again. I need to keep telling myself that it is England not one of these war torn countries where people are forced to flea because it is just not safe to stay. Decisions, Decisions...........:confused: |
Re: Was it a conspiracy ?
Originally Posted by bramblebush
(Post 4600344)
Just popped in to check the boards and the first one I came across was big Petes comments on the Uk.
As I read through his list I found myself saying 'oh dear' 'oh no' 'oh shit' that sort of thing, you get the picture. By the time I read to the end of it I began to fear for the family and friends left behind in this terrible country. What can I do to persuade them to leave :eek: Then I carried on to read all the POSITIVE responses and I my faith has been restored. Yesterday OH and I had come to a 85% decision to return to the UK :thumbup: Today after reading here, I am now not sure if I am ready to return, if I was so easily put off by Big Petes list of negativity, I am concerned that if I return to blightly then it will be only a short time before I am scared shitless and want to run away again. I need to keep telling myself that it is England not one of these war torn countries where people are forced to flea because it is just not safe to stay. Decisions, Decisions...........:confused: Oh poor you - it's awful being in limboland isnt it? Take comfort - most of the stuff on Pete's list is the same the world over - house price increases, smoking bans, taxes on everything, manufacturing moving to the Far East etc. etc. Other things are just personal moans and exaggeration - there are still plenty of small corner shops here & we've found our food bill is just the same as before we left (as are house prices). And just how much would it really affect life if the bins are emptied every two weeks - not exactly the end of the world is it? I've realised that people here just don't like change - I remember the outrage when councils introduced the wheelie bin in the first place :ohmy: What? We have to wheel our own rubbish to the side of the road - bloody councils :eek: You have to decide where you yourself are happiest and not listen to anyone else because we truly are a nation of whingers - I think if there was an event at the Olympics for doing your own country down and being negative, we'd win the gold every year without fail. Good luck with your decision - hope it all works out for you :) |
Re: Was it a conspiracy ?
Originally Posted by ex_exile
(Post 4595888)
You need to stand by your decision for a while and hopefully things will pan out. Its normal to feel pangs of regret about your former life, the grass is always greener after all.
Personally I have been out for 7 years; when I left I never imagined I would be away for so long (was just going RTW) but now I cant imagine ever living in London again. I used to be at one with the city but every time I return to see family it seems more grimy and violent, you should never go backwards in life, seize your future and make it work. Failing that after a few years in UK you can always move somewhere else ...... what the hell you only live once..... Kath |
Re: Was it a conspiracy ?
Originally Posted by LouiseD
(Post 4600452)
Oh poor you - it's awful being in limboland isnt it?
Take comfort - most of the stuff on Pete's list is the same the world over - house price increases, smoking bans, taxes on everything, manufacturing moving to the Far East etc. etc. Other things are just personal moans and exaggeration - there are still plenty of small corner shops here & we've found our food bill is just the same as before we left (as are house prices). And just how much would it really affect life if the bins are emptied every two weeks - not exactly the end of the world is it? I've realised that people here just don't like change - I remember the outrage when councils introduced the wheelie bin in the first place :ohmy: What? We have to wheel our own rubbish to the side of the road - bloody councils :eek: You have to decide where you yourself are happiest and not listen to anyone else because we truly are a nation of whingers - I think if there was an event at the Olympics for doing your own country down and being negative, we'd win the gold every year without fail. Good luck with your decision - hope it all works out for you :) I loved the comment about the wheelie bins :rofl: And yes we could win the gold at the olympics no trouble :rofl: Thanks :thumbsup: |
Re: Was it a conspiracy ?
Originally Posted by bramblebush
(Post 4596045)
Me too !! :o
I agree totally, I honestly feel like saying to people that wanna come "NO DONT DOOOOO ITTTTT:eek: :eek: ".... but its not my life, just wish people on this forum would stop judging us for wanting to return.... I thought two years of research made me knowledgeable. christ was I wrong and yes I do eat humble pie:o |
Re: Was it a conspiracy ?
Originally Posted by Big Pete
(Post 4599202)
Its not a conspiracy , its just happening slowly and slower than what you predicted .
The country is still struggling on and on the surface looks much the same , However when you look under the carpet so to speak there is many things that are chipping away , which will in time lead to the inevitable crumble !! I am sure many would love to follow you , i know when i say about getting away everyone says i dont blame you , if i could afford to i would etc,etc. So its more a case of most are heavily in debt in the Uk stuffed with Mortgages or in rented accomodation which they cant just get capital enough in order to do the major move !!! In 18 months let me think Hmmmmmm whats changed ,,, 1/ Rates have gone up 10% 2/ Countrys gone NO Smoking crazy 3/ Taxation added to virtually everything , The UK is going through a sort the worlds global warming problem by itself !! With taxes added to on land fills and flying and well anything they can !! 4/ Rubbish collections changed to once a fortnight . 5/ Another 1 million immigrants have appeared , and added further drains on the dentists, hospitals ,housing etc.. 6/ House prices have gone up even further about 10 - 20% in some areas . 7/ Hospitals have severe MRSA outbreaks more regularly 8/ Numerous BIG Manufacturing Companies have closed or relocated production to the Far East 9/ Food bills rose by about 10% added costs of Haulage costs and taxation on the packaging and stuff i imagine. 10/All Computers and accessories cheaper than ever ,likewise all electric goods :thumbsup: 11/The country is now officially multi racial ,a trip up town can very often be like a International airport waitting lounge . 12/England football team still useless. 13/Weather seems to be warmer in general but wetter ,from Last November til this March has been so wet ! Add to this the warmer weather been a lot of Mossies and creepy things that normally were killed by our frosts ! so summer will be interesting ? 14/All utility bills have risen its getting so expensive to live and a lot of people work there socks off to make a living. 15/Finance is so easily achieved with low interest rates so lots of new cars and the country is favouring the buy now pay later way of life . 16/Credit cards given away like confetti , Uk has i believe one of the highest debt ratios per person than anywhere in the world , dont know if thats true or not ? heard it somewhere . 17/Crime is on the increase with more violent killings happening. 18/Have heard some towns now have micro chipped rubbish bins and if you dont recycle you get fined . 19/Coastal holiday resorts in serious decline and so dull and gloomy ,had poor summer seasons and it shows . 20/Road congestion getting worse ,travelling distance gets harder and takes longer 21/Government planning to introduce road toll charges , and even planning a car meter so they charge you by the mile on when you drive. 22/Cigarettes now up to £ 6 a pack in some places 23/Pint of Beer about £ 2.50p 24/Litre of Petrol £ 1 25/Road Tax on 4x4 vehicles now £ 400 a year 26/Many small shops in our town forced to close as Tescos , Asda, etc and excessive rates and rents are driving them out of business 27/TV licence £165 Hope this helps you ? The fact is if you have to move to aussie and work when are you really going to experience this so called aussie way of life ,im so busy working im lucky to get 2 weeks off a year and believe me that isnt enough to experience the real australia as opposed to city australia ,which is no different to living in a city in the uk . Australia is a great country and is an absolute pleasure to see once out of the citys ,but by and large most people who migrate here are coming from one city in the uk to a city in aussie and after the intial running around getting furniture etc ,Bang they are back in the same old rut they just left behind . The only people who really see this country are backpackers and they love it ,but many have made the mistake and tried to live here . If your coming for a change ,in my experience it doesnt exist and the samr old whinging that goes on in the uk can just as easily be applied to aussie . I would say if you are the type of person who is content just to sit at home or down the beach then aussie is perfect ,if your interested in getting out and about a bit at the weekends then forget it as most places are that little bit to far .For example perth -adelaide 3 day drive ,adelaide -melbourne 8 hrs,perth-darwin 5-6 days drive ,perth-geraldton 5-6 hrs,perth -sydney 5 day drive,perth -albany 5-6 hrs ,perth -esperance 9 hrs .The answer to this is to fly but with internal connection flights an absolute rip off a weekend in sydney in a decent hotel and return flights to perth can cost you as much as going to the uk ,i know where id rather be going but thats just my personal choice of course . |
Re: Was it a conspiracy ?
Originally Posted by Big Pete
(Post 4599202)
Its not a conspiracy , its just happening slowly and slower than what you predicted .
The country is still struggling on and on the surface looks much the same , However when you look under the carpet so to speak there is many things that are chipping away , which will in time lead to the inevitable crumble !! I am sure many would love to follow you , i know when i say about getting away everyone says i dont blame you , if i could afford to i would etc,etc. So its more a case of most are heavily in debt in the Uk stuffed with Mortgages or in rented accomodation which they cant just get capital enough in order to do the major move !!! In 18 months let me think Hmmmmmm whats changed ,,, 1/ Rates have gone up 10% 2/ Countrys gone NO Smoking crazy 3/ Taxation added to virtually everything , The UK is going through a sort the worlds global warming problem by itself !! With taxes added to on land fills and flying and well anything they can !! 4/ Rubbish collections changed to once a fortnight . 5/ Another 1 million immigrants have appeared , and added further drains on the dentists, hospitals ,housing etc.. 6/ House prices have gone up even further about 10 - 20% in some areas . 7/ Hospitals have severe MRSA outbreaks more regularly 8/ Numerous BIG Manufacturing Companies have closed or relocated production to the Far East 9/ Food bills rose by about 10% added costs of Haulage costs and taxation on the packaging and stuff i imagine. 10/All Computers and accessories cheaper than ever ,likewise all electric goods :thumbsup: 11/The country is now officially multi racial ,a trip up town can very often be like a International airport waitting lounge . 12/England football team still useless. 13/Weather seems to be warmer in general but wetter ,from Last November til this March has been so wet ! Add to this the warmer weather been a lot of Mossies and creepy things that normally were killed by our frosts ! so summer will be interesting ? 14/All utility bills have risen its getting so expensive to live and a lot of people work there socks off to make a living. 15/Finance is so easily achieved with low interest rates so lots of new cars and the country is favouring the buy now pay later way of life . 16/Credit cards given away like confetti , Uk has i believe one of the highest debt ratios per person than anywhere in the world , dont know if thats true or not ? heard it somewhere . 17/Crime is on the increase with more violent killings happening. 18/Have heard some towns now have micro chipped rubbish bins and if you dont recycle you get fined . 19/Coastal holiday resorts in serious decline and so dull and gloomy ,had poor summer seasons and it shows . 20/Road congestion getting worse ,travelling distance gets harder and takes longer 21/Government planning to introduce road toll charges , and even planning a car meter so they charge you by the mile on when you drive. 22/Cigarettes now up to £ 6 a pack in some places 23/Pint of Beer about £ 2.50p 24/Litre of Petrol £ 1 25/Road Tax on 4x4 vehicles now £ 400 a year 26/Many small shops in our town forced to close as Tescos , Asda, etc and excessive rates and rents are driving them out of business 27/TV licence £165 Hope this helps you ? What and do you honestly think Australia and the rest of the flippin world isnt the same??? Someone I know moved to Spain recently, thought great life blah blah, until they had their villa vandalised and so did about 6 other people in their complex, so much for hardly any crime out there....and there are a few other bits and bobs I,ve been told as well:unsure: |
Re: Was it a conspiracy ?
Originally Posted by king kong
(Post 4600509)
All these could be applied to aussie and everywhere else in the wesrern world .There is only so much cake and the governments of the world carve it up to suit their needs, and the bottom line is when looking at britain v aussie there really isnt much in it dollar wise .
The fact is if you have to move to aussie and work when are you really going to experience this so called aussie way of life ,im so busy working im lucky to get 2 weeks off a year and believe me that isnt enough to experience the real australia as opposed to city australia ,which is no different to living in a city in the uk . Australia is a great country and is an absolute pleasure to see once out of the citys ,but by and large most people who migrate here are coming from one city in the uk to a city in aussie and after the intial running around getting furniture etc ,Bang they are back in the same old rut they just left behind . The only people who really see this country are backpackers and they love it ,but many have made the mistake and tried to live here . If your coming for a change ,in my experience it doesnt exist and the samr old whinging that goes on in the uk can just as easily be applied to aussie . I would say if you are the type of person who is content just to sit at home or down the beach then aussie is perfect ,if your interested in getting out and about a bit at the weekends then forget it as most places are that little bit to far .For example perth -adelaide 3 day drive ,adelaide -melbourne 8 hrs,perth-darwin 5-6 days drive ,perth-geraldton 5-6 hrs,perth -sydney 5 day drive,perth -albany 5-6 hrs ,perth -esperance 9 hrs .The answer to this is to fly but with internal connection flights an absolute rip off a weekend in sydney in a decent hotel and return flights to perth can cost you as much as going to the uk ,i know where id rather be going but thats just my personal choice of course . Excellent post and so true :thumbup: |
Re: Was it a conspiracy ?
Originally Posted by Big Pete
(Post 4599202)
Its not a conspiracy , its just happening slowly and slower than what you predicted .
The country is still struggling on and on the surface looks much the same , However when you look under the carpet so to speak there is many things that are chipping away , which will in time lead to the inevitable crumble !! I am sure many would love to follow you , i know when i say about getting away everyone says i dont blame you , if i could afford to i would etc,etc. So its more a case of most are heavily in debt in the Uk stuffed with Mortgages or in rented accomodation which they cant just get capital enough in order to do the major move !!! In 18 months let me think Hmmmmmm whats changed ,,, 1/ Rates have gone up 10% 2/ Countrys gone NO Smoking crazy 3/ Taxation added to virtually everything , The UK is going through a sort the worlds global warming problem by itself !! With taxes added to on land fills and flying and well anything they can !! 4/ Rubbish collections changed to once a fortnight . 5/ Another 1 million immigrants have appeared , and added further drains on the dentists, hospitals ,housing etc.. 6/ House prices have gone up even further about 10 - 20% in some areas . 7/ Hospitals have severe MRSA outbreaks more regularly 8/ Numerous BIG Manufacturing Companies have closed or relocated production to the Far East 9/ Food bills rose by about 10% added costs of Haulage costs and taxation on the packaging and stuff i imagine. 10/All Computers and accessories cheaper than ever ,likewise all electric goods :thumbsup: 11/The country is now officially multi racial ,a trip up town can very often be like a International airport waitting lounge . 12/England football team still useless. 13/Weather seems to be warmer in general but wetter ,from Last November til this March has been so wet ! Add to this the warmer weather been a lot of Mossies and creepy things that normally were killed by our frosts ! so summer will be interesting ? 14/All utility bills have risen its getting so expensive to live and a lot of people work there socks off to make a living. 15/Finance is so easily achieved with low interest rates so lots of new cars and the country is favouring the buy now pay later way of life . 16/Credit cards given away like confetti , Uk has i believe one of the highest debt ratios per person than anywhere in the world , dont know if thats true or not ? heard it somewhere . 17/Crime is on the increase with more violent killings happening. 18/Have heard some towns now have micro chipped rubbish bins and if you dont recycle you get fined . 19/Coastal holiday resorts in serious decline and so dull and gloomy ,had poor summer seasons and it shows . 20/Road congestion getting worse ,travelling distance gets harder and takes longer 21/Government planning to introduce road toll charges , and even planning a car meter so they charge you by the mile on when you drive. 22/Cigarettes now up to £ 6 a pack in some places 23/Pint of Beer about £ 2.50p 24/Litre of Petrol £ 1 25/Road Tax on 4x4 vehicles now £ 400 a year 26/Many small shops in our town forced to close as Tescos , Asda, etc and excessive rates and rents are driving them out of business 27/TV licence £165 Hope this helps you ? |
Re: Was it a conspiracy ?
Originally Posted by Eric Hitchmo
(Post 4600135)
Just had a quick run through Costa Del Big Pete's "list of Doom", to see how many of those alledged points are having a major impact on my life. It appears to be none. Phew!
I must have missed this. Was there a ceremony, or an announcement, like when we went decimal? Marvellous isn't it? "I don't approve of people from other "races" being here, so I'm off to the Mediterranean". |
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