Oh fellow expats... it's been more than 20 years I've lived here in the US. I am now a dual citizen with two dual citizen children and a US husband of many years. It has become apparent that we need to move to the UK.

My husband will need sponsoring for paperwork to move to the UK. I'll have to pay thousands to send the cat over (I sent my beloved dog to my parents in UK back in 2012, I don't relish the APHIS thing again!). I need to find a rental home, then ultimately a house for sale. I can't even work out how to open a bank account (why oh why did I shut down my Natwest account in 2013?!?).

Is there anyone on here who moved back and can tell me it's worth it? Thank you.

Loads of people on this form have written that moving back to the UK was the best thing they had ever done, totally worth it .... some people not so much

It's all according to why you want to move back and what you expect when you get there....

+1

We are among the group that think moving back after 29 years was a great decision, even leaving our adult children behind in the USA, although our son did move back a year later.

However, we are both UK/US dual citizens and were born here, as were our children so we very much knew what we were coming back to as we had made a number of long visits after retiring in the USA.

Moving back in just under 4 weeks and I felt the same way when trying to make that final decision and still having wobbles on the daily. The way I think about it is Its either going to be a really expensive holiday or we will be really happy! It does seem very overwhelming to think about planning everything but one you decide it will all click into place.

Thanks. It's mind blowing how much stuff we will have to give away/sell and then have to repurchase on the other end (but I got a guesstimate of $12k to ship about a 3rd of our stuff!!!). If we sell our house here it would be super hard to get back on the ladder so it also makes you nervous in that regard - walking back the decision after the "long, expensive holiday" (lol) would be tricky. My children would also lose their places at the school they are in here. Oh well. I suppose it's not worth fussing over the what-ifs. I hope yours goes smoothly, please let me know how you get on. We're planning to visit the UK this summer to narrow down locations.

Thanks. I think this would be less stressful if my husband were a UK citizen as he'd be able to apply for jobs and have an idea of salary/areas in advance. As it is we have lots of paperwork and guessing we have to do. He's the breadwinner here, so shifting to me taking that role in order to "support" his application isn't something I'm looking forward to either.

We're looking to move to somewhere far away from where I grew up, so at least all of us would be similarly unfamiliar with it! We're pragmatic about what to expect, having visited the UK so many times over the years. But it's such an expensive and time consuming undertaking I wish I could see how it will all pan out.

Read the following document carefully to see how you qualify for sponsoring your husband:

https://assets.publishing.service.go...equirement.pdf

This!

I am puzzled by the apparent contradiction of "It has become apparent that we need to move to the UK." and "Is there anyone on here who moved back and can tell me it's worth it?

If you "need" to move, isn't it almost automatically "worth it"?

Thank you, we did review previously

I just wanted to wish you all the very best for your move to the UK. It can be such a hard decision to make . A roller coaster emotional turmoil in the mind.

A little reassurance from those that have achieved it goes a long way to soothing the worries eh?

You go girl !

You can.

And as of 9:15am UK time this morning, I have

Congratulations!!

Thanks. Feels a bit strange to say that I live here now.

I would occasionally wake up slowly in a morning and then realize that we were in England and that we had actually done it. It is a wonderful feeling but it's now been a long time since such awakenings happened. We moved back to the small town we lived when our children were born and where we had such great memories. We only actually lived there for just over 6 years ('79 to'85) even though memory makes it seem longer, and it has now been just over 6 years since we moved back, in May 2016.