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Concern1 Nov 18th 2007 10:39 pm

Has anyone in here made any REAL local friends?
 
I mean a REAL local friend in the gulf. And not just the office and business environment sense, where you have to get along. I doubt in the few when foreigners do come into contact with the locals, that it would amount to anything more than that. Given, the nature of the economic and power imbalance in the Gulf states, vis a' vis outsiders.

In my opinion, the Bahrainis are the easiest to know and befriend, mainly I suppose because they're a lot 'poorer' than the others, and have lot less of a power hang-up with you. I did find Kuwaitis to be impenetrable and a lot less accessible than others, but maybe that was just me.

MataHari Nov 19th 2007 2:01 am

Re: Has anyone in here made any REAL local friends?
 
yes...

Concern1 Nov 19th 2007 2:24 am

Re: Has anyone in here made any REAL local friends?
 
Wow, that is brief. Care to elaborate. Or share your experiences?

MataHari Nov 19th 2007 2:33 am

Re: Has anyone in here made any REAL local friends?
 

Originally Posted by Concern1 (Post 5572721)
Wow, that is brief. Care to elaborate. Or share your experiences?

later...

Grace O Malley Nov 19th 2007 3:59 am

Re: Has anyone in here made any REAL local friends?
 

Originally Posted by Concern1 (Post 5572188)
I mean a REAL local friend in the gulf. And not just the office and business environment sense, where you have to get along. I doubt in the few when foreigners do come into contact with the locals, that it would amount to anything more than that. Given, the nature of the economic and power imbalance in the Gulf states, vis a' vis outsiders.

In my opinion, the Bahrainis are the easiest to know and befriend, mainly I suppose because they're a lot 'poorer' than the others, and have lot less of a power hang-up with you. I did find Kuwaitis to be impenetrable and a lot less accessible than others, but maybe that was just me.

Yes. I have a UAE national, who is in very big position, loads of wasta:)

Known him and his family 17 years. We met in London, he was studuing, became friends, his family used to come over to London for shopping ! So i know all the family very well.

Meow Nov 19th 2007 4:06 am

Re: Has anyone in here made any REAL local friends?
 

Originally Posted by Concern1 (Post 5572188)
I mean a REAL local friend in the gulf. And not just the office and business environment sense, where you have to get along. I doubt in the few when foreigners do come into contact with the locals, that it would amount to anything more than that. Given, the nature of the economic and power imbalance in the Gulf states, vis a' vis outsiders.

In my opinion, the Bahrainis are the easiest to know and befriend, mainly I suppose because they're a lot 'poorer' than the others, and have lot less of a power hang-up with you. I did find Kuwaitis to be impenetrable and a lot less accessible than others, but maybe that was just me.

And what would you know about the Middle East?

According to your posts elsewhere, you have been working for the London Underground for 30 years. Funny how your English has suddenly improved now that you are no longer a 'third generation Afro-Caribbean' carrying a flag for the Tories...

*troll alert*

MataHari Nov 19th 2007 4:09 am

Re: Has anyone in here made any REAL local friends?
 

Originally Posted by Meow (Post 5572992)
And what would you know about the Middle East?

According to your posts elsewhere, you have been working for the London Underground for 30 years. Funny how your English has suddenly improved now that you are no longer a 'third generation Afro-Caribbean' carry a flag for the Tories...

*troll alert*

ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh....don't tell me that the one serious post I made in all this time I am a member is wasted on a troll...I am going to pull all my Wasta and have him killed....

Meow Nov 19th 2007 4:12 am

Re: Has anyone in here made any REAL local friends?
 

Originally Posted by MataHari (Post 5572995)
ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh....don't tell me that the one serious post I made in all this time I am a member is wasted on a troll...I am going to pull all my Wasta and have him killed....

Check his/her/its prevoius posts/threads MH. It has been posting all sort of bollocks in 'Take it Outside'.

Claimed to have worked for the London Underground for 30 years, so earned enough to buy a house in the UK, thinks all immigrants should be kicked out of the UK. Now all of a sudden it's an expert on the ME and has enough to buy an investment property in Dubai.

lionheart Nov 19th 2007 4:14 am

Re: Has anyone in here made any REAL local friends?
 

Originally Posted by MataHari (Post 5572995)
ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh....don't tell me that the one serious post I made in all this time I am a member is wasted on a troll...I am going to pull all my Wasta and have him killed....

Never mind...at least this board member was very impressed by your post... and no I am not a troll, honest.

MataHari Nov 19th 2007 4:17 am

Re: Has anyone in here made any REAL local friends?
 

Originally Posted by lionheart (Post 5573005)
Never mind...at least this board member was very impressed by your post... and no I am not a troll, honest.

it's gone now...

Grace O Malley Nov 19th 2007 4:21 am

Re: Has anyone in here made any REAL local friends?
 

Originally Posted by MataHari (Post 5572995)
ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh....don't tell me that the one serious post I made in all this time I am a member is wasted on a troll...I am going to pull all my Wasta and have him killed....

Why did u delete your post

shakh your bootie Nov 19th 2007 4:35 am

Re: Has anyone in here made any REAL local friends?
 

Originally Posted by MataHari (Post 5572995)
ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh....don't tell me that the one serious post I made in all this time I am a member is wasted on a troll...I am going to pull all my Wasta and have him killed....

You mean all those flirty posts weren't serious.... beeeatch.

lionheart Nov 19th 2007 4:56 am

Re: Has anyone in here made any REAL local friends?
 

Originally Posted by MataHari (Post 5573012)
it's gone now...

That is weird...maybe the whole story was a figment of my imagination?

W10 Nov 19th 2007 5:27 am

Re: Has anyone in here made any REAL local friends?
 
I made some fake ones. I even fashioned him out of plastic, with a lovely PVC kandoora.

Now he earns more money than me, has his own house and won't talk to me any more

Paidtoplease Nov 19th 2007 5:46 am

Re: Has anyone in here made any REAL local friends?
 

Originally Posted by W10 (Post 5573105)
I made some fake ones. I even fashioned him out of plastic, with a lovely PVC kandoora.

Now he earns more money than me, has his own house and won't talk to me any more

Betrayal is sooooo hurtful, go on make a new friend, but add in some loyalty as well in the ingredients :)


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