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Sorry but are you a troll?
The situation is outrageous and very very difficult to swallow.
And on top of that you are saying an immigration attorney advised you to get a divorce and remarry someone you pick up off the street so that you can file for residency? Did he also tell you to be sure that she is a good actress and that you paid her enough not to slip the beans to the USCIS and have you imprisoned and deported and that she can be fined and jailed as well for complicity?
The situation is outrageous and very very difficult to swallow.
And on top of that you are saying an immigration attorney advised you to get a divorce and remarry someone you pick up off the street so that you can file for residency? Did he also tell you to be sure that she is a good actress and that you paid her enough not to slip the beans to the USCIS and have you imprisoned and deported and that she can be fined and jailed as well for complicity?
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It obvious this person is either a troll, or someone who is just looking to stay in th US anyway he can.
He comes here on VWP in June 09, meets someone straight away.... and then gets married two months later in August.... Now hes already got someone else lined up to marry.... what a waste of space.
He comes here on VWP in June 09, meets someone straight away.... and then gets married two months later in August.... Now hes already got someone else lined up to marry.... what a waste of space.
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It obvious this person is either a troll, or someone who is just looking to stay in th US anyway he can.
He comes here on VWP in June 09, meets someone straight away.... and then gets married two months later in August.... Now hes already got someone else lined up to marry.... what a waste of space.
He comes here on VWP in June 09, meets someone straight away.... and then gets married two months later in August.... Now hes already got someone else lined up to marry.... what a waste of space.
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Englishpony:
I am sorry what happened to you. Your story is preposterous and wacky.
Pony up the cash for a ticket and go back to England.
Your rascal-like counselor is giving you whimsical ideas that prepetrate fraud.
Please do not use this forum to fuel your roguish ideas.
Use a honest legal counselor who can help you rather than harm you given your current situation.
Good Luck.
I am sorry what happened to you. Your story is preposterous and wacky.
Pony up the cash for a ticket and go back to England.
Your rascal-like counselor is giving you whimsical ideas that prepetrate fraud.
Please do not use this forum to fuel your roguish ideas.
Use a honest legal counselor who can help you rather than harm you given your current situation.
Good Luck.
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I'm not sure why people are talking about a (3-year) ban from the US. By his own words, he "came to CA on June 1st 09 on the VWP". That being the case, the VWP was good until the end of August... and it hasn't been 180 days since then = no ban. Mind you, he can't use the VWP ever again, but he's not subject to a ban if he leaves the US in the next 4-5 weeks.
Personally, I think he's an idiot to remain in the US under these circumstances... but that's just me!
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Personally, I think he's an idiot to remain in the US under these circumstances... but that's just me!
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I wish you the best of luck and if you do find your wife, be supportive of her getting help for it.
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It obvious this person is either a troll, or someone who is just looking to stay in th US anyway he can.
He comes here on VWP in June 09, meets someone straight away.... and then gets married two months later in August.... Now hes already got someone else lined up to marry.... what a waste of space.
He comes here on VWP in June 09, meets someone straight away.... and then gets married two months later in August.... Now hes already got someone else lined up to marry.... what a waste of space.
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Everyone: for the time being please assume the person is not a troll or a wind-up.
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I'm not sure why people are talking about a (3-year) ban from the US. By his own words, he "came to CA on June 1st 09 on the VWP". That being the case, the VWP was good until the end of August... and it hasn't been 180 days since then = no ban. Mind you, he can't use the VWP ever again, but he's not subject to a ban if he leaves the US in the next 4-5 weeks.
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You said in post 2 "This is a tough one. One option would be to return to the United Kingdom".
I then pointed out that the word 'pony' in the OPs username means 'crap' in London cockney rhyming slang (pony & trap = crap)
Therefore - a return to the UK might be unlikley, given the OPs thoughts on England...................
I then pointed out that the word 'pony' in the OPs username means 'crap' in London cockney rhyming slang (pony & trap = crap)
Therefore - a return to the UK might be unlikley, given the OPs thoughts on England...................
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