whats the best way forward for me to marry my usa boyfriend??
Aug 16th 2006, 1:55 am
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Re: whats the best way forward for me to marry my usa boyfriend??
jenny........please if you dont like me ,my style ,type, calibre
,education..........retaliation,responses,question s, after
thoughts...perphaps even contra-indications..then please..feel free not
to answer anymore of my questions!.wasnt asking you.or anyone specific
for that mattter just anyone passing by who might have a vague idea..of
maybe afew starting points i could start at....hypocrite iam
not!...remember this:.....i didnt start this......i. just came on here
for general information...you obviously are happy to continue with this
even though i have said ...really all i want to discuss is the mattters
i put forward..........rude??? why of course i,m going to be alittle
rude........if you going to be rude yrself jenny...which i will once
again remind you it was you who first took it upon yrself to be
so..then in all seriousness...you think ..i,m going to sit here and
take it!!??........i dont think so!.......if yr going to dish it
out...which i will remind you once again you did first...then you have
to be willing ...to be able to accept...yr most highly likely to
recieve it back!...unless of course its somebody with no substance
about themselves thats happy to tolerate and be walked all over!?.but
that somebody isnt me...and yr correct in yet yr another assumption .no
i havnt been here long....but i,ve intelligence enough to know you dont
go shooting yr mouth off....especailly when..somebodys upbringing
education etc etc is actually nobody elses bussiness..but the persons
in hand!........seriously if iwanted asummery of myself i would of
asked!.....but sorry..i do have to chuckle..as.i,m seriously wondering
what on earth it is that folks could assume form me having adaughter
with disabilities..erm what perphaps that i bludge off the
government..and dont pay my way??.no!....the fact...of the matter
is......it was asimple question..which doesnt warrent me
unearthing.....that much intricate detail about my daughter.,especailly
across the internet,just wanted a starting point..aguide.........not
somebody to hold my hand and show me the way!! ty Lorna..and p.s no
luck involved..lifes what you make it.. luck has absolutely nothing to
do with it!
,education..........retaliation,responses,question s, after
thoughts...perphaps even contra-indications..then please..feel free not
to answer anymore of my questions!.wasnt asking you.or anyone specific
for that mattter just anyone passing by who might have a vague idea..of
maybe afew starting points i could start at....hypocrite iam
not!...remember this:.....i didnt start this......i. just came on here
for general information...you obviously are happy to continue with this
even though i have said ...really all i want to discuss is the mattters
i put forward..........rude??? why of course i,m going to be alittle
rude........if you going to be rude yrself jenny...which i will once
again remind you it was you who first took it upon yrself to be
so..then in all seriousness...you think ..i,m going to sit here and
take it!!??........i dont think so!.......if yr going to dish it
out...which i will remind you once again you did first...then you have
to be willing ...to be able to accept...yr most highly likely to
recieve it back!...unless of course its somebody with no substance
about themselves thats happy to tolerate and be walked all over!?.but
that somebody isnt me...and yr correct in yet yr another assumption .no
i havnt been here long....but i,ve intelligence enough to know you dont
go shooting yr mouth off....especailly when..somebodys upbringing
education etc etc is actually nobody elses bussiness..but the persons
in hand!........seriously if iwanted asummery of myself i would of
asked!.....but sorry..i do have to chuckle..as.i,m seriously wondering
what on earth it is that folks could assume form me having adaughter
with disabilities..erm what perphaps that i bludge off the
government..and dont pay my way??.no!....the fact...of the matter
is......it was asimple question..which doesnt warrent me
unearthing.....that much intricate detail about my daughter.,especailly
across the internet,just wanted a starting point..aguide.........not
somebody to hold my hand and show me the way!! ty Lorna..and p.s no
luck involved..lifes what you make it.. luck has absolutely nothing to
do with it!
Last edited by Rete; Aug 16th 2006 at 6:36 am.
Aug 16th 2006, 1:59 am
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Re: whats the best way forward for me to marry my usa boyfriend??
Originally Posted by Jenney & Mark
Now you are asking about what kinds of schools are available to accommodate your daughter's disabilities. How do you expect us to help answer that for you?? You haven't told us what her disabilities are, what kind of assistance she needs, how old she is, what grade she's in, or what US city/state she'll be living in.
You can't have it both ways, Lorna -- you either provide all the relevant details when you first ask the question or people will be forced to make assumptions about your situation -- something you obviously can't stand.
~ Jenney
You can't have it both ways, Lorna -- you either provide all the relevant details when you first ask the question or people will be forced to make assumptions about your situation -- something you obviously can't stand.
~ Jenney
Aug 16th 2006, 2:55 am
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Re: whats the best way forward for me to marry my usa boyfriend??
Lorna,
Depending on the nature of your daughter's disabilities, she may be able to attend public school. If her disabilities prevent this, there are other options. We have no way of knowing which will be the case for your daughter. This would be a good thing for your USC husband to research.
I find it interesting that you still haven't answered some basic questions...for example, do you have persmission to move your daughter overseas?
Best Wishes,
Rene
Depending on the nature of your daughter's disabilities, she may be able to attend public school. If her disabilities prevent this, there are other options. We have no way of knowing which will be the case for your daughter. This would be a good thing for your USC husband to research.
I find it interesting that you still haven't answered some basic questions...for example, do you have persmission to move your daughter overseas?
Best Wishes,
Rene
Aug 16th 2006, 2:55 am
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Re: whats the best way forward for me to marry my usa boyfriend??
Originally Posted by gruffbrown
That's pretty comprehendabubbleybibblybobble.
Aug 16th 2006, 3:24 am
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Re: whats the best way forward for me to marry my usa boyfriend??
Odassity LOL
Aug 16th 2006, 3:36 am
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Re: whats the best way forward for me to marry my usa boyfriend??
Originally Posted by Sallyanne
Odassity LOL
Aug 16th 2006, 3:40 am
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Re: whats the best way forward for me to marry my usa boyfriend??
.wow! really thats was areal nasty below the belt stoop...what goes
round comes round remember that..and please dont answer anymore of my
questions ...
Boiler wrote:
> > Wow, that's amazing. I didn't know there was a new synonym for the
> > word "hypocrite", and it's called "sparklylorna"!
> >
> > BTW... Lorna? If you think I'M being judgmental and rude then you
> > obviously haven't been around here that long. Especially considering
> > that you've been equally rude and equally judgemental to those on
> > here. You've been very lucky, IMO.
> >
> > Now you are asking about what kinds of schools are available to
> > accommodate your daughter's disabilities. How do you expect us to help
> > answer that for you?? You haven't told us what her disabilities are,
> > what kind of assistance she needs, how old she is, what grade she's
> > in, or what US city/state she'll be living in.
> >
> > You can't have it both ways, Lorna -- you either provide all the
> > relevant details when you first ask the question or people will be
> > forced to make assumptions about your situation -- something you
> > obviously can't stand.
> >
> > ~ Jenney
> We might assume they are hereditary.
>
> --
> Posted via http://britishexpats.com
round comes round remember that..and please dont answer anymore of my
questions ...
Boiler wrote:
> > Wow, that's amazing. I didn't know there was a new synonym for the
> > word "hypocrite", and it's called "sparklylorna"!
> >
> > BTW... Lorna? If you think I'M being judgmental and rude then you
> > obviously haven't been around here that long. Especially considering
> > that you've been equally rude and equally judgemental to those on
> > here. You've been very lucky, IMO.
> >
> > Now you are asking about what kinds of schools are available to
> > accommodate your daughter's disabilities. How do you expect us to help
> > answer that for you?? You haven't told us what her disabilities are,
> > what kind of assistance she needs, how old she is, what grade she's
> > in, or what US city/state she'll be living in.
> >
> > You can't have it both ways, Lorna -- you either provide all the
> > relevant details when you first ask the question or people will be
> > forced to make assumptions about your situation -- something you
> > obviously can't stand.
> >
> > ~ Jenney
> We might assume they are hereditary.
>
> --
> Posted via http://britishexpats.com
Aug 16th 2006, 3:50 am
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Re: whats the best way forward for me to marry my usa boyfriend??
free lunch??i agree no such thing........thats why i educated myself
have avery well paid career...and bludge off no-one!..........whinge
maybe alittle ..but hey why the hell not seems to be the general
consenus on here..n after all.......everybody else seems to be free to
whinge at whatever they like..!!.cryy.!! hahaah!..nope not atear
shed..sorry to disappoint!..owe me.....?whoever said anybody was owed
anything.....or mentioned owing................apart from you!!?.sad
..very sad indeed..but hey as mentioned before each to there own!..ty
very much for yr...input ....hm..and maybe its you who needs to get
over it!?...i was never under the influence of anything you stated in
the first place to get over!...give..and you shall recieve....thanks
again Lorna
have avery well paid career...and bludge off no-one!..........whinge
maybe alittle ..but hey why the hell not seems to be the general
consenus on here..n after all.......everybody else seems to be free to
whinge at whatever they like..!!.cryy.!! hahaah!..nope not atear
shed..sorry to disappoint!..owe me.....?whoever said anybody was owed
anything.....or mentioned owing................apart from you!!?.sad
..very sad indeed..but hey as mentioned before each to there own!..ty
very much for yr...input ....hm..and maybe its you who needs to get
over it!?...i was never under the influence of anything you stated in
the first place to get over!...give..and you shall recieve....thanks
again Lorna
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Aug 16th 2006, 3:57 am
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Re: whats the best way forward for me to marry my usa boyfriend??
thankyou very much rene..for yr helpful answer without judgement ,much
appreciated.and yes i have consent to take my daughter overseas.she
currently does have help here at the school she attends at the
moment.but obviously withit being adifferent country...the educational
regular system is more than likey going to be different..let alone i
would have thought a child with needs.......once again ty very much for
yr input..Lorna.and there isnt any reason behind the unanswered
questions.i just felt it early days..and was at this current stage just
putting out the feelers..
Noorah101 wrote:
> > We might assume they are hereditary.
> Lorna,
> Depending on the nature of your daughter's disabilities, she may be
> able to attend public school. If her disabilities prevent this,
> there are other options. We have no way of knowing which will be the
> case for your daughter. This would be a good thing for your USC
> husband to research.
> I find it interesting that you still haven't answered some basic
> questions...for example, do you have persmission to move your
> daughter overseas?
>
> Best Wishes,
> Rene
>
> --
> Posted via http://britishexpats.com
appreciated.and yes i have consent to take my daughter overseas.she
currently does have help here at the school she attends at the
moment.but obviously withit being adifferent country...the educational
regular system is more than likey going to be different..let alone i
would have thought a child with needs.......once again ty very much for
yr input..Lorna.and there isnt any reason behind the unanswered
questions.i just felt it early days..and was at this current stage just
putting out the feelers..
Noorah101 wrote:
> > We might assume they are hereditary.
> Lorna,
> Depending on the nature of your daughter's disabilities, she may be
> able to attend public school. If her disabilities prevent this,
> there are other options. We have no way of knowing which will be the
> case for your daughter. This would be a good thing for your USC
> husband to research.
> I find it interesting that you still haven't answered some basic
> questions...for example, do you have persmission to move your
> daughter overseas?
>
> Best Wishes,
> Rene
>
> --
> Posted via http://britishexpats.com
Aug 16th 2006, 4:09 am
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Re: whats the best way forward for me to marry my usa boyfriend??
Originally Posted by sparklylorna
.wow! really thats was areal nasty below the belt stoop...what goes
round comes round remember that..and please dont answer anymore of my
questions ...
Boiler wrote:
> > Wow, that's amazing. I didn't know there was a new synonym for the
> > word "hypocrite", and it's called "sparklylorna"!
> >
> > BTW... Lorna? If you think I'M being judgmental and rude then you
> > obviously haven't been around here that long. Especially considering
> > that you've been equally rude and equally judgemental to those on
> > here. You've been very lucky, IMO.
> >
> > Now you are asking about what kinds of schools are available to
> > accommodate your daughter's disabilities. How do you expect us to help
> > answer that for you?? You haven't told us what her disabilities are,
> > what kind of assistance she needs, how old she is, what grade she's
> > in, or what US city/state she'll be living in.
> >
> > You can't have it both ways, Lorna -- you either provide all the
> > relevant details when you first ask the question or people will be
> > forced to make assumptions about your situation -- something you
> > obviously can't stand.
> >
> > ~ Jenney
> We might assume they are hereditary.
>
> --
> Posted via http://britishexpats.com
round comes round remember that..and please dont answer anymore of my
questions ...
Boiler wrote:
> > Wow, that's amazing. I didn't know there was a new synonym for the
> > word "hypocrite", and it's called "sparklylorna"!
> >
> > BTW... Lorna? If you think I'M being judgmental and rude then you
> > obviously haven't been around here that long. Especially considering
> > that you've been equally rude and equally judgemental to those on
> > here. You've been very lucky, IMO.
> >
> > Now you are asking about what kinds of schools are available to
> > accommodate your daughter's disabilities. How do you expect us to help
> > answer that for you?? You haven't told us what her disabilities are,
> > what kind of assistance she needs, how old she is, what grade she's
> > in, or what US city/state she'll be living in.
> >
> > You can't have it both ways, Lorna -- you either provide all the
> > relevant details when you first ask the question or people will be
> > forced to make assumptions about your situation -- something you
> > obviously can't stand.
> >
> > ~ Jenney
> We might assume they are hereditary.
>
> --
> Posted via http://britishexpats.com
Aug 16th 2006, 4:11 am
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Re: whats the best way forward for me to marry my usa boyfriend??
Originally Posted by Sallyanne
Anyone remember Guinevere?
Aug 16th 2006, 4:32 am
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Re: whats the best way forward for me to marry my usa boyfriend??
Originally Posted by sparklylorna
ahhhh.but theres a difference...its my perogative to be judgemental if
thats what you think iam being..?? and my coment was on a whole a
generalisation! personallly...my answer to the question was based on
experience!! theres a subtle difference!.and whats with all the
benifits bussiness?....i wouldnt be needing benfits in any
form.......just was trying to understand the nature of the us
system...i have an awsome income..but clearly will have to rely on my
fiance until such times as i myself are eligible to work.ty for yr
input Lorna
thats what you think iam being..?? and my coment was on a whole a
generalisation! personallly...my answer to the question was based on
experience!! theres a subtle difference!.and whats with all the
benifits bussiness?....i wouldnt be needing benfits in any
form.......just was trying to understand the nature of the us
system...i have an awsome income..but clearly will have to rely on my
fiance until such times as i myself are eligible to work.ty for yr
input Lorna
you might have a great salary now, but bare in mind, you ain't got US work history and your university will have bugger all kudos in the US unless you went to Oxbridge, so it isn't as easy getting a job for everyone as they might think, so it's best to be prepared for the worst, that and you'll not be working for a while anyway going the K1 route.
Aug 16th 2006, 4:33 am
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Re: whats the best way forward for me to marry my usa boyfriend??
Originally Posted by sparklylorna
ok...another question which i,m seeming to find very little information
about..is obviously a school for my daughter..she has some
disablities..which she has had from birth...and was wondering in the
usa if they would perphaps have schools to cater for this or..is it
going to be more of a specialised area iam needing to look at.......ot
perphaps..just a normal school she would attend?..ty Lorna
about..is obviously a school for my daughter..she has some
disablities..which she has had from birth...and was wondering in the
usa if they would perphaps have schools to cater for this or..is it
going to be more of a specialised area iam needing to look at.......ot
perphaps..just a normal school she would attend?..ty Lorna
Aug 16th 2006, 4:37 am
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Re: whats the best way forward for me to marry my usa boyfriend??
Originally Posted by gruffbrown
I can't answer that.
Queen Guinevere had fled the court...
Aug 16th 2006, 4:38 am
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Re: whats the best way forward for me to marry my usa boyfriend??
Originally Posted by sparklylorna
.....i,m seriously wondering
what on earth it is that folks could assume form me having adaughter
with disabilities..erm what perphaps that i bludge off the
government..and dont pay my way??.no!....the fact...of the matter
is......it was asimple question..which doesnt warrent me
unearthing.....that much intricate detail about my daughter.,especailly
across the internet,just wanted a starting point..aguide.........not
somebody to hold my hand and show me the way!! ty Lorna..and p.s no
luck involved..lifes what you make it.. luck has absolutely nothing to
do with it!.
what on earth it is that folks could assume form me having adaughter
with disabilities..erm what perphaps that i bludge off the
government..and dont pay my way??.no!....the fact...of the matter
is......it was asimple question..which doesnt warrent me
unearthing.....that much intricate detail about my daughter.,especailly
across the internet,just wanted a starting point..aguide.........not
somebody to hold my hand and show me the way!! ty Lorna..and p.s no
luck involved..lifes what you make it.. luck has absolutely nothing to
do with it!.
You want a tip on where to start, I'd suggest "google" stick in special needs school and the town/state your looking for and you'll find the info you need.
