whats the best way forward for me to marry my usa boyfriend??
#46
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Re: whats the best way forward for me to marry my usa boyfriend??
Originally Posted by Matthew Udall
Actually, the "information" she is seeking is legal advice, and very few people who engage in that activity here are authorized to do so. But hey, that's nothing new ;-).
Now if you were an English Teacher, you would have a point.
#47
Re: whats the best way forward for me to marry my usa boyfriend??
Lorna, remember you have to answer all questions honestly when you complete the immigration paperwork.. that includes drug questions.
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Re: whats the best way forward for me to marry my usa boyfriend??
no excuse!!.but as i said ...who gave you lot the lead in
judgements??lol....and i answer to no-one but myself!.ty very
muchhh!.and one more point i disagree.....yes u might not always agree
with the answers you hear....but i imagine most answers can put a
different spin on how one might of percieved her questions
before......which is wonderful......but sorry ..i felt the first
replies...were most definately more of apersonnal attack......which i
will not tollerate on any level.....and hey.....if one is into
verball..or obviously written personal attacks ,then maybe a trip to
the jerry springer show would be advised! thanks again Lorna
Boiler wrote:
> > whats the best way forward for me to marry my usa boyfriend??
> >
> > In Church, in front of a judge, or use a notary public.
> When you come on to a public board you take the good and the bad, if you
> want to complain, pay for a consulatation with a lawyer.
> The thing I find hard to understand is why after the initial comments
> that you continue to post gibberish.
> You say you are intelligent and have received an education. So whats the
> excuse now?
> Just from a selfish point of view, you want free advise, best way is to
> ask comprehensible questions.
>
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judgements??lol....and i answer to no-one but myself!.ty very
muchhh!.and one more point i disagree.....yes u might not always agree
with the answers you hear....but i imagine most answers can put a
different spin on how one might of percieved her questions
before......which is wonderful......but sorry ..i felt the first
replies...were most definately more of apersonnal attack......which i
will not tollerate on any level.....and hey.....if one is into
verball..or obviously written personal attacks ,then maybe a trip to
the jerry springer show would be advised! thanks again Lorna
Boiler wrote:
> > whats the best way forward for me to marry my usa boyfriend??
> >
> > In Church, in front of a judge, or use a notary public.
> When you come on to a public board you take the good and the bad, if you
> want to complain, pay for a consulatation with a lawyer.
> The thing I find hard to understand is why after the initial comments
> that you continue to post gibberish.
> You say you are intelligent and have received an education. So whats the
> excuse now?
> Just from a selfish point of view, you want free advise, best way is to
> ask comprehensible questions.
>
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#49
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Re: whats the best way forward for me to marry my usa boyfriend??
hm..because he doesnt have any children.......and as i do......and
women as a general rule about the ins and outs of this things tend to
have more of a clue so hence....doing the homework myself
Sallyanne wrote:
> > ok so i have another question.........so i checked out the sats for
> > the
> > minium proverty line icome for my fiance to be able to do the
> > affidavit
> > of support.under the 125% column its states for 3 people in household
> > its approx $19,750-20,650 aprox which is approxabout 11,000 i think in
> > british pounds this is fine np at all....so am i to asume correct this
> > is the minium he is allowed to earn??? to provide for us all??.also
> > another question that just poped up i was thinking off is do the usa
> > have any benifits for children at all..where as the uk has family
> > allowance for every child no matter of the families income??was just a
> > thought....trying to gauge what the full fiancial picture will be
> > like..ty Lorna
> > [email protected] wrote:
> > > heyyyyyyy.....im wanting to marry my boyfriend from the usa....i,ve
> > > kept all the hugee fone bills..emails.and am currently visiting him
> > > shortly. so will keeep all hotels bills plane tickets etc etc....my
> > > question is..could i actually marry him whilst out there then come
> > > home
> > > and apply for avisa???and would the best visa be the fiance
> > > once??.or
> > > if i married him while out there.would this cause me any
> > > problems??on
> > > getting avisa.also how long does the visa take to obtain.....and do
> > > i
> > > need to have any savings to emragrate and be with him...??or does he
> > > for that matter also what else is involved...is it straight
> > > forwardish.and i also have adaughter whom will be wanting to take
> > > alsoooo.any help would be gratefully appreciated.and if i married
> > > him
> > > whilst out there to see him am i breaking any laws??? ty very much
> > > lorna!!!!
> why don't you ask your boyfriend?
>
> --
> Posted via http://britishexpats.com
women as a general rule about the ins and outs of this things tend to
have more of a clue so hence....doing the homework myself
Sallyanne wrote:
> > ok so i have another question.........so i checked out the sats for
> > the
> > minium proverty line icome for my fiance to be able to do the
> > affidavit
> > of support.under the 125% column its states for 3 people in household
> > its approx $19,750-20,650 aprox which is approxabout 11,000 i think in
> > british pounds this is fine np at all....so am i to asume correct this
> > is the minium he is allowed to earn??? to provide for us all??.also
> > another question that just poped up i was thinking off is do the usa
> > have any benifits for children at all..where as the uk has family
> > allowance for every child no matter of the families income??was just a
> > thought....trying to gauge what the full fiancial picture will be
> > like..ty Lorna
> > [email protected] wrote:
> > > heyyyyyyy.....im wanting to marry my boyfriend from the usa....i,ve
> > > kept all the hugee fone bills..emails.and am currently visiting him
> > > shortly. so will keeep all hotels bills plane tickets etc etc....my
> > > question is..could i actually marry him whilst out there then come
> > > home
> > > and apply for avisa???and would the best visa be the fiance
> > > once??.or
> > > if i married him while out there.would this cause me any
> > > problems??on
> > > getting avisa.also how long does the visa take to obtain.....and do
> > > i
> > > need to have any savings to emragrate and be with him...??or does he
> > > for that matter also what else is involved...is it straight
> > > forwardish.and i also have adaughter whom will be wanting to take
> > > alsoooo.any help would be gratefully appreciated.and if i married
> > > him
> > > whilst out there to see him am i breaking any laws??? ty very much
> > > lorna!!!!
> why don't you ask your boyfriend?
>
> --
> Posted via http://britishexpats.com
#50
Re: whats the best way forward for me to marry my usa boyfriend??
Originally Posted by Matthew Udall
Actually, the "information" she is seeking is legal advice, and very few people who engage in that activity here are authorized to do so. But hey, that's nothing new ;-).
Welcome back, Matt buddy!
Nice to see your first post in over 2 months is on your favourite topic!
#51
Re: whats the best way forward for me to marry my usa boyfriend??
Originally Posted by sparklylorna
hm..because he doesnt have any children.......and as i do......and
women as a general rule about the ins and outs of this things tend to
have more of a clue so hence....doing the homework myself
women as a general rule about the ins and outs of this things tend to
have more of a clue so hence....doing the homework myself
But as mentioned already, a lot will depend on the state, but also mentioned, and if you've checked the links to the sponsorship guide lines, you'd also know that any means tested benefits you receive will have to be reimbursed by your sponsor.
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Re: whats the best way forward for me to marry my usa boyfriend??
Originally Posted by fatbrit
Welcome back, Matt buddy!
Nice to see your first post in over 2 months is on your favourite topic!
Nice to see your first post in over 2 months is on your favourite topic!
And waiting.....
#53
Re: whats the best way forward for me to marry my usa boyfriend??
Originally Posted by Boiler
He has been watching.....
And waiting.....
And waiting.....
Gathering evidence, perhaps?
#54
Re: whats the best way forward for me to marry my usa boyfriend??
Originally Posted by Boiler
Now if you were an English Teacher, you would have a point.
#55
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Re: whats the best way forward for me to marry my usa boyfriend??
Originally Posted by fatbrit
A beautifully formed second conditional with a fine example of the subjunctive!
English was always my worst subject.
But like so many things in life, there is always somebody better than you, and worse.
#56
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Re: whats the best way forward for me to marry my usa boyfriend??
nahhhhhhh actually.my emails are very comprehendable.ty!Lol
Kate2112 wrote:
> > why don't you ask your boyfriend?
> He has all the problems he needs reading her emails :D
>
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Kate2112 wrote:
> > why don't you ask your boyfriend?
> He has all the problems he needs reading her emails :D
>
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Re: whats the best way forward for me to marry my usa boyfriend??
hi thanks....no he doesnt....he works in afamily run firm.and his
income is more than sufficent.but actually just out of interest i have
arelative in the usa.could they of been my sponsor??.ty Lorna
Templar wrote:
> > ok so i have another question.........so i checked out the sats for
> > the
> > minium proverty line icome for my fiance to be able to do the
> > affidavit
> > of support.under the 125% column its states for 3 people in household
> > its approx $19,750-20,650 aprox which is approxabout 11,000 i think in
> > british pounds this is fine np at all....so am i to asume correct this
> > is the minium he is allowed to earn??? to provide for us all??.also
> > another question that just poped up i was thinking off is do the usa
> > have any benifits for children at all..where as the uk has family
> > allowance for every child no matter of the families income??was just a
> > thought....trying to gauge what the full fiancial picture will be
> > like..ty Lorna
> > [email protected] wrote:
> > > heyyyyyyy.....im wanting to marry my boyfriend from the usa....i,ve
> > > kept all the hugee fone bills..emails.and am currently visiting him
> > > shortly. so will keeep all hotels bills plane tickets etc etc....my
> > > question is..could i actually marry him whilst out there then come
> > > home
> > > and apply for avisa???and would the best visa be the fiance
> > > once??.or
> > > if i married him while out there.would this cause me any
> > > problems??on
> > > getting avisa.also how long does the visa take to obtain.....and do
> > > i
> > > need to have any savings to emragrate and be with him...??or does he
> > > for that matter also what else is involved...is it straight
> > > forwardish.and i also have adaughter whom will be wanting to take
> > > alsoooo.any help would be gratefully appreciated.and if i married
> > > him
> > > whilst out there to see him am i breaking any laws??? ty very much
> > > lorna!!!!
> If your sponsor takes any form of means-tested benefit from the
> government, forget about him sponsoring your fiance.
>
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income is more than sufficent.but actually just out of interest i have
arelative in the usa.could they of been my sponsor??.ty Lorna
Templar wrote:
> > ok so i have another question.........so i checked out the sats for
> > the
> > minium proverty line icome for my fiance to be able to do the
> > affidavit
> > of support.under the 125% column its states for 3 people in household
> > its approx $19,750-20,650 aprox which is approxabout 11,000 i think in
> > british pounds this is fine np at all....so am i to asume correct this
> > is the minium he is allowed to earn??? to provide for us all??.also
> > another question that just poped up i was thinking off is do the usa
> > have any benifits for children at all..where as the uk has family
> > allowance for every child no matter of the families income??was just a
> > thought....trying to gauge what the full fiancial picture will be
> > like..ty Lorna
> > [email protected] wrote:
> > > heyyyyyyy.....im wanting to marry my boyfriend from the usa....i,ve
> > > kept all the hugee fone bills..emails.and am currently visiting him
> > > shortly. so will keeep all hotels bills plane tickets etc etc....my
> > > question is..could i actually marry him whilst out there then come
> > > home
> > > and apply for avisa???and would the best visa be the fiance
> > > once??.or
> > > if i married him while out there.would this cause me any
> > > problems??on
> > > getting avisa.also how long does the visa take to obtain.....and do
> > > i
> > > need to have any savings to emragrate and be with him...??or does he
> > > for that matter also what else is involved...is it straight
> > > forwardish.and i also have adaughter whom will be wanting to take
> > > alsoooo.any help would be gratefully appreciated.and if i married
> > > him
> > > whilst out there to see him am i breaking any laws??? ty very much
> > > lorna!!!!
> If your sponsor takes any form of means-tested benefit from the
> government, forget about him sponsoring your fiance.
>
> --
> Posted via http://expatforums.com
#58
Re: whats the best way forward for me to marry my usa boyfriend??
Originally Posted by sparklylorna
hi thanks....no he doesnt....he works in afamily run firm.and his
income is more than sufficent.but actually just out of interest i have
arelative in the usa.could they of been my sponsor??.ty Lorna
income is more than sufficent.but actually just out of interest i have
arelative in the usa.could they of been my sponsor??.ty Lorna
Rene
#59
Re: whats the best way forward for me to marry my usa boyfriend??
Originally Posted by sparklylorna
hi thanks....no he doesnt....he works in afamily run firm.and his
income is more than sufficent.but actually just out of interest i have
arelative in the usa.could they of been my sponsor??.ty Lorna
income is more than sufficent.but actually just out of interest i have
arelative in the usa.could they of been my sponsor??.ty Lorna
You won't run the risk of being judged for your "Bushy" writing style there. (Altho, "stratigical input" was one of my favorites!)
#60
Re: whats the best way forward for me to marry my usa boyfriend??
Originally Posted by sparklylorna
...but actually just out of interest i have
a relative in the usa.could they of been my sponsor??
a relative in the usa.could they of been my sponsor??