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Re: Scared And Dont Know WHAT To do..
OfLoveAndFears <member27335@british_expats.com> wrote in message news:<[email protected]>...
<snip> > > > > thank you amanda..very helpful info and much much needed,i > will look into it all...i didnt know about the whole university bit > either,J may be quite pleased to know that as there are various classes > hes wished he could take but we didnt realize he actually could. i dont > know if i can help the worry im feeling..but at the same time worry or > no worry,i know it must be done. cant run from it,and its so worth > doing. i find it hard to relax but i know id probably help everything > greatly in doing so.. :o Universities are to enforce the law (or legislation) that allows I-130 pending students as residents for tuition fee purpose. Hence, instate tuition fees. Talk with the registrat of the university or college. Do not ask whether such is the case. Inform them that you know about such provision and ask for your entitlement. In your husband's case, since he can file I-485 at the same time you file Alien petitioning (i-130), he will also have I-485 application receipt. It has long been established that those with I-485 receipt are residents, may be more than just for the tuition fees purposes. About worrying, I have learned that it is better to use that energy you lose in worrying to try one thing after another. In the end, you will succeed, however many obstacles you face. This immigration process is complicated enough even for those who are in immigrant communities. |
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A couple of tips:
I know it says that your husband was learning to drive so I assuming he doesn't have he's drivers license. But if he did have he's driver's license from England he can drive in the U.S. using that license. My husband is from Australia and he is in the exact same position but we just use his foreign driver's license. If not for that he won't be able to drive in the US either b/c of the whole SS thing. If your husband wants to work he should apply for EAD.http://uscis.gov/graphics/howdoi/ead.htm With that I believe you can get a SS# since he would need it to work and you can have him get a license through that method! Also whatever you do DO NOT go on Medicaid, Medicare, Welfare or anything like that. It look really bad on your application b/c it shows you will be a burden to the system. It's ok not to have any money, as long as you have co-sponsors who say they will support you it is not a problem! Also, STOP FREAKING OUT. The whole point of you sending in these forms is to have a Green Card interview where they basically ask you questions and try to verify if you are really married. SINCE YOU A HAVE (or are going to have) A CHILD, they will more than believe you have a valid marriage. If you look at other people's experience with their interview if they had a kid it was like 5 mins. So just CHILL! It's going to be fine! PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE get a lawyer. Esp. for Visa Waiver (which is my husband's situation too (I'm the USC)). to help you with all of the forms, I think carrying a child is a lot of pressure and your hormones are all over the place. I did my husband's immigration form my self but I was working a part time job and had 6 months to research it and fill it out. Just so you can take the stress off of you and to make sure it is done right have a LAWYER do it for you. the money that was wasted in a rejected application could have been money going towards a lawyer. You do not want to screw these papers up. If one thing is slight lywrong w/ your papers the INS will not process it correctly. So just save up the money and have someone do it for you. Also, I highly sugguest making sure you have a lawyer for the Green Card Interview as well since you came on a Visa Waiver. Not that it is an issue but it's just extra protection to make sure everythign goes smooth. HIRE a lawyer and don't freak out!! E-mail me if you have any questions! Star Originally posted by OfLoveAndFears Rete: thanks loads. im only terrified,was tired as tired gets when i wrote it,and have called EVERYONE I CAN THINK OF TO GET HELP WITH NO LUCK. i said i sounded stupid. i said i rambled. so i know that part already :( *sigh* sorry..i just feel very stressed out..i know i risk sounding like i dont know the difference between a cat and a dog are but i figure if i DONT ask then i'll really be in a jam so i went for it. im not used to asking people about this...not online,anyway,so im sure i could have done a better job explaining it all. if i left out any of the emotions to it and just provided a timeline,it would probably be less of a snore to read or wouldnt be as confusing. but im a nervous wreck. i want people to know that i am desperate and really in need of help. and that i will do anything at all that i have to in order to help J. anyway in answer to your questions: 1. "Who was in prison that you had to get married in prison? If it was you, I am assuming you are out on parole or served your sentence. Criminal activity of a USC will not make a difference anyways to the USCIS." we got married there because it was a few days before he had to go back..it was an unplanned wedding so what we did was we got married by a magistrate. thats all,no one served any time for anything,people just get married "in prisons" all the time. neither my husband or i have ever stolen so much as a stick of gum so we dont have a record or anything of that sort. perhaps i should have made that more clear in my first post. dont want people thinking ive been doing time (since i havent) 2. "Didn't you go to the USCIS site for information and to order your forms? And don't you know there is no INS but there is an USCIS." i got my form (one form..i was only told of ONE form..and THIS from someone who is supposed to help people with the process,very annoying and one of my problems,i wasnt told of half of what i need) and yes,i have seen the website but it doesnt cover half of my concerns and if it does then i havent found it yet. and yes,i know its not called ins anymore but its been on all the papers weve recieved and im just very used to calling it the ins. maybe i should get in the swing of trying not to call it that but its very much what ive been used to before now. 3. "Didn't you mention you have an attorney?" no but with the way things are going i probably ought to have. since we're near charlotte it shouldnt be too hard to find someone. 4. "Why do you need a Waiver?" i dont know that we do,but he came over on visa waiver,and i dont have that slip of paper. ive been worried they would ask for it and right now its missing from our files somehow. we have a folder we keep things in and that paper (the visa waiver) was tucked into his passport. its lost now and even the little things worry me. i know i am stupid of a lot of what i should know but its not because i havent TRIED,we have. we just get ran in circles,everyone says something different,and we keep getting sent to office after office for god knows what reason. i just NEED HELP badly. im more than willing to do whatever i need to help him stay but we have been going through this for years with no one "official" ever saying the same thing twice. it isnt easy emotionally or mentally when you are told to do this by one person and then that by another..you just want to do it the RIGHT way the first time..which didnt happen with us,we've been put into some sort of immagration circus or something,its just crazy all that we've been told so far. thats why im looking for the perfect way to go about all this so we wont face anymore troubles in the future and i need to get the papers we need filed AGAIN the proper way very soon. 5. "Why was your application sent from Texas Service Center to Nebraska? Did you move?" thats the thing,your guess is as good as mine :confused: i know we sent it to texas because it was where we were told to send it to (strike one for whoever told us that one...being in sc,obviously texas isnt our local office) so we did as we were told. dunno why we got sent to nebraska of all things either,they just did. and lost our pictures between here and there so there was a rush to get new ones and find a place that knew how to and had proper film,someone who knew how to do them correctly,and so on. since theres been the problem because of only sending in the I-130 and nothing else (strike two against whoever told us THAT one....this is why im trying to find the answers myself instead of even asking someone who supposedly knows what they are talking about,i dont care where they work if they are giving me wrong info then something is WRONG with that) and him coming on visa waiver only,i believe our things are being sent somewhere in the NE (i could be wrong about that) but at any rate our papers are bounced around like you wouldnt believe and we dont know why. we havent moved (though we plan to but we will tell the office we will use before we do) 6. "Why didn't you file everything for your baby err husband at the local district office governing where you live?" G has his birth certificate (not SS # as of yet because he hasnt had any shots so he cant be issued one,but will soon) so i was just wondering if they needed to know we had a son..silly question maybe but i dont want to leave anything out that needs to be there. thats happened to us (through no fault of our own,just going by what the office told us) so yeah...worth asking i thought. 7. "Can Mommy and Grandma prove support for themselves, you, husband, and child at 125% of the poverty guidelines." we're doing ok. and i want to work. i need to find a place to work and i will. id go to work scooping rhino poo if it meant J could stay here. 8. "Has hubby done anything illegal such as work?" not one thing. in fact he finds it frustrating because he CANT do the things hed like to do (ie,he was learning to drive before he came over and cant here without a SS #)..and he wishes he could work,but he wont do anything that isnt "allowed"..and hes never done drugs or had anything to taint his record in england,either. 9. "Do you receive any type of welfare or housing assistance?" nope and nope. ive never been on welfare,ever,and neither has anyone in my family. and this house is owned by my grandmother and has been since we moved to sc (from the midwest) when i was very young. "You might want to group www.visajourney.com. They are very good with problem filers." i had a brief look at that last night before going to bed and it looks good and i am indeed going to check it out/join.. |
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Rete <member167@british_expats.com> wrote in news:1577337.1091637206
@britishexpats.com: > > Originally posted by Boiler >> Sounds like you need > serious legal advice. More that is available on a discussion board >> > There is a Marriage based Forum on this site, and that would be a better > bet to post in. >> >> Also you could have a look at www.visajourney.com. >> >> UK Immigration is much more > straightforward and fast: see http://www.britainusa.com/, > there is a page listing the issues for Marriage based immigration. > > > > Thanks a bunch boiler. > > The lady is going hell bent for 90 > and doesn't know how to lay out her life story but rattles on and on > without making much sense. > > Questions: > > 1. Who was in prison that you > had to get married in prison? If it was you, I am assuming you are out > on parole or served your sentence. Criminal activity of a USC will not > make a difference anyways to the USCIS. > > 2. Didn't you go to the USCIS > site for information and to order your forms? And don't you know there > is no INS but there is an USCIS. > > 3. Didn't you mention you have an > attorney? > > 4. Why do you need a Waiver? > > 5. Why was your application > sent from Texas Service Center to Nebraska? Did you move? > > 6. Why > didn't you file everything for your baby err husband at the local > district office governing where you live? > > 7. Can Mommy and Grandma > prove support for themselves, you, husband, and child at 125% of the > poverty guidelines. > > 8. Has hubby done anything illegal such as work? > > > 9. Do you receive any type of welfare or housing assistance? > > You > might want to group www.visajourney.com. They are very good > with problem filers. > > Rete > > This web site? I assume you are posting from Brit Expats, but you know you are also on <news://misc.immigration.usa>, which isn't even part of the World Wide Web, but Usenet instead. I have never even visited that web site, although no doubt this is appearing on it. |
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OfLoveAndFears <member27335@british_expats.com> wrote in
news:[email protected]: > >> >> The lady is going hell bent for 90 and doesn't know how to >> lay out her life story but rattles on and on without making much >> sense. > > > Rete: thanks loads. im only terrified,was >> tired as tired gets when i wrote it,and have called EVERYONE I CAN >> THINK OF TO GET HELP WITH NO LUCK. i said i sounded stupid. i said i >> rambled. so i know that part already :( > > anyway in answer to your >> questions: > > > 1. "Who was in prison that you had to get married in >> prison? If it was you, I am assuming you are out on parole or served >> your sentence. Criminal activity of a USC will not make a difference >> anyways to the USCIS." > > we got married there because it was a few days >> before he had to go back..it was an unplanned wedding so what we did >> was we got married by a magistrate. thats all,no one served any time >> for anything,people just get married "in prisons" all the time. >> neither my husband or i have ever stolen so much as a stick of gum so >> we dont have a record or anything of that sort. perhaps i should have >> made that more clear in my first post. dont want people thinking ive >> been doing time (since i havent) > > > 2. "Didn't you go to the USCIS site >> for information and to order your forms? And don't you know there is >> no INS but there is an USCIS." > > i got my form (one form..i was only >> told of ONE form..and THIS from someone who is supposed to help people >> with the process,very annoying and one of my problems,i wasnt told of >> half of what i need) and yes,i have seen the website but it doesnt >> cover half of my concerns and if it does then i havent found it yet. >> and yes,i know its not called ins anymore but its been on all the >> papers weve recieved and im just very used to calling it the ins. >> maybe i should get in the swing of trying not to call it that but its >> very much what ive been used to before now. > > > 3. "Didn't you mention >> you have an attorney?" > > no but with the way things are going i >> probably ought to have. since we're near charlotte it shouldnt be too >> hard to find someone. > > > 4. "Why do you need a Waiver?" > > i dont know >> that we do,but he came over on visa waiver,and i dont have that slip >> of paper. ive been worried they would ask for it and right now its >> missing from our files somehow. we have a folder we keep things in and >> that paper (the visa waiver) was tucked into his passport. its lost >> now and even the little things worry me. i know i am stupid of a lot >> of what i should know but its not because i havent TRIED,we have. we >> just get ran in circles,everyone says something different,and we keep >> getting sent to office after office for god knows what reason. i just >> NEED HELP badly. im more than willing to do whatever i need to help >> him stay but we have been going through this for years with no one >> "official" ever saying the same thing twice. it isnt easy emotionally >> or mentally when you are told to do this by one person and then that >> by another..you just want to do it the RIGHT way the first time..which >> didnt happen with us,we've been put into some sort of immagration >> circus or something,its just crazy all that we've been told so far. >> thats why im looking for the perfect way to go about all this so we >> wont face anymore troubles in the future and i need to get the papers >> we need filed AGAIN the proper way very soon. > > > 5. "Why was your >> application sent from Texas Service Center to Nebraska? Did you move?" >> > > thats the thing,your guess is as good as mine. i know we sent it to >> texas because it was where we were told to send it to (strike one for >> whoever told us that one...being in sc,obviously texas isnt our local >> office) so we did as we were told. dunno why we got sent to nebraska >> of all things either,they just did. and lost our pictures between here >> and there so there was a rush to get new ones and find a place that >> knew how to and had proper film,someone who knew how to do them >> correctly,and so on. since theres been the problem because of only >> sending in the I-130 and nothing else (strike two against whoever told >> us THAT one....this is why im trying to find the answers myself >> instead of even asking someone who supposedly knows what they are >> talking about,i dont care where they work if they are giving me wrong >> info then something is WRONG with that) and him coming on visa waiver >> only,i believe our things are being sent somewhere in the NE (i could >> be wrong about that) but at any rate our papers are bounced around >> like you wouldnt believe and we dont know why. we havent moved (though >> we plan to but we will tell the office we will use before we do) > > 6. >> "Why didn't you file everything for your baby err husband at the local >> district office governing where you live?" > > G has his birth >> certificate (not SS # as of yet because he hasnt had any shots so he >> cant be issued one,but will soon) so i was just wondering if they >> needed to know we had a son..silly question maybe but i dont want to >> leave anything out that needs to be there. thats happened to us >> (through no fault of our own,just going by what the office told us) so >> yeah...worth asking i thought. > > 7. "Can Mommy and Grandma prove >> support for themselves, you, husband, and child at 125% of the poverty >> guidelines." > > we're doing ok. and i want to work. i need to find a >> place to work and i will. id go to work scooping rhino poo if it meant >> J could stay here. > > 8. "Has hubby done anything illegal such as work?" >> > > not one thing. in fact he finds it frustrating because he CANT do >> the things hed like to do (ie,he was learning to drive before he came >> over and cant here without a SS #)..and he wishes he could work,but he >> wont do anything that isnt "allowed"..and hes never done drugs or had >> anything to taint his record in england,either. > > 9. "Do you receive >> any type of welfare or housing assistance?" > > nope and nope. ive never >> been on welfare,ever,and neither has anyone in my family. and this >> house is owned by my grandmother and has been since we moved to sc >> when i was very young. > > > > "You might want to group >> www.visajourney.com. They are very good with problem filers." > > i had a brief look at that last night before going to bed >> and it looks good and i am indeed going to check it out/join.. > > The point about the visa waiver is that there is no piece of paper. However, the US, like many countries, issues a landing card to anyone who is not a citizen or a resident. The US variety is called an I-94, and I suspect that this is the thing you have lost, as they would staple it in the passport. There is a form to fill in to get a substitute I-94 to replace a lost one, so don't fret about it, just fill in the form and get a new one. |
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hello,i have got some sort of good news,i think...news from the nh office which seems very positive...odd since it seems unrelated to aos...sent what they wanted so we will see how things turn out??? things look a BIT up and in our favour..still looking into getting a lawyer...thank you to all who have responded and provided important info...means a lot to us both and i think we are feeling more encouraged about the whole thing since our letter but like i said i need to confirm everything is currently go...i assume they wouldnt send us a paper about medicals exams and interviews if they had plans of deportation surely!!?? anyway this post is a bit scattered but i am yet again up very late..what im trying to say is theres some sort of flow actually going now and it seems like pretty calm waters to us..bit easier to ride thats for sure. anyway everyone take care and perhaps soon i can get everything sorted perfectly and can give and honestly wonderful update...one meaning we dont have to go through too much hassle after all..
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Re: Scared And Dont Know WHAT To do..
OfLoveAndFears <member27335@british_expats.com> wrote in message news:<[email protected] om>...
<Snip> > hello,i have got some sort of good news,i think...news from the nh > office which seems very positive...odd since it seems unrelated to > aos...sent what they wanted so we will see how things turn out??? > things look a BIT up and in our favour..still looking into getting a > lawyer...thank you to all who have responded and provided important > info...means a lot to us both and i think we are feeling more > encouraged about the whole thing since our letter but like i said i > need to confirm everything is currently go...i assume they wouldnt send > us a paper about medicals exams and interviews if they had plans of > deportation surely!!?? So you guys got interview appointment? Is it AOS interview? Seems like things are going well. You may not even need a lawyer but only if you can make sure about filing forms accurately. Might also want to call local area law schools and ask whether they have immigration help center. If you meet financial qualification, you get free help. > anyway this post is a bit scattered but i am yet > again up very late..what im trying to say is theres some sort of flow > actually going now and it seems like pretty calm waters to us..bit > easier to ride thats for sure. anyway everyone take care and perhaps > soon i can get everything sorted perfectly and can give and honestly > wonderful update...one meaning we dont have to go through too much > hassle after all.. |
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"Amanda" <[email protected]> wrote in message
news:[email protected] om... > OfLoveAndFears <member27335@british_expats.com> wrote in message news:<[email protected] om>... <Snip> > > hello,i have got some sort of good news,i think...news from the nh > > office which seems very positive...odd since it seems unrelated to > > aos...sent what they wanted so we will see how things turn out??? > > things look a BIT up and in our favour..still looking into getting a > > lawyer...thank you to all who have responded and provided important > > info...means a lot to us both and i think we are feeling more > > encouraged about the whole thing since our letter but like i said i > > need to confirm everything is currently go...i assume they wouldnt send > > us a paper about medicals exams and interviews if they had plans of > > deportation surely!!?? > So you guys got interview appointment? I doubt it, as the only form OfLoveAndFears filed previously is Form I-130. You can read the whole story on googlegroups. Is it AOS interview? Unlikely. Seems > like things are going well. You may not even need a lawyer but only > if you can make sure about filing forms accurately. I think a good lawyer is really needed in this situation. Might also want > to call local area law schools and ask whether they have immigration > help center. If you meet financial qualification, you get free help. > > anyway this post is a bit scattered but i am yet > > again up very late..what im trying to say is theres some sort of flow > > actually going now and it seems like pretty calm waters to us..bit > > easier to ride thats for sure. anyway everyone take care and perhaps > > soon i can get everything sorted perfectly and can give and honestly > > wonderful update...one meaning we dont have to go through too much > > hassle after all.. OfLoveAndFears, please consult with an immigration attorney. It's likely that your best strategy is to file Forms I-130/I-485, and either let the other I-130 go, or perhaps withdraw it. If the I-130 you already filed is approved very soon, your spouse can file the I-485 with the approval notice of the I-130. No offense intended, but your attitude always seems scattered. I think you should move quickly on hiring a competent immigration attorney. |
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ok not really sure what others said but it all seems like "call a lawyer" i'm sure you cannot afford one, so here goes.
first look at this link, it will tell you exactly what you need to do http://uscis.gov/graphics/howdoi/LPReligibility.htm#a also once you have all the correct paperwork ready go in person IN PERSON, to your local ins/bcis office and file, at the moment the financial paperwork needs do not have to be met, but they do need to be filled out, i know stupid but thats ins, you will however need to meet the requirements by your interview date. what i am telling you to do it adjust his status, not sure if this question was answered but no records are kept of the i-94;s, no really even with all the terrorist threats.... but they may have a record that he had one. even if he doesn't have it its not too important, there are a lot of things your told you need which you don't the most important thing is he is here in the usa, that does alot for the process. Sorry if this is all so vague, but theres a lot of info, I also do know what i am talking about, i did not use a lawyer, but i know more than most lawyers or ins officials, as i've studied the ins law and policies for 4 yrs now, plus i went through exactly what you are now. if you need more help here is my e-mail address i'll answer any and all info you need i know how crazy this situation can be but don't feel overwhealmed, one other thing YOU can claim benefits but your husband cannot at all under any circumstances, so you can get medicaid. [email protected] Thanks Luke |
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"ldollard" <member22819@british_expats.com> wrote in message
news:[email protected] m... | | | ok not really sure what others said but it all seems like "call a lawye- | r" i'm sure you cannot afford one, so here goes. | | first look at this link, it will tell you exactly what you need to do | | http://uscis.gov/graphics/howdoi/LPReligibility.htm#a | | also once you have all the correct paperwork ready go in person IN PERS- | ON, to your local ins/bcis office and file, at the moment the financial | paperwork needs do not have to be met, but they do need to be filled ou- | t, i know stupid but thats ins, you will however need to meet the requi- | rements by your interview date. | | what i am telling you to do it adjust his status, not sure if this ques- | tion was answered but no records are kept of the i-94;s, WRONG! Records ARE kept of the I-94s issued and when they are returned. no really even | with all the terrorist threats.... but they may have a record that he | had one. even if he doesn't have it its not too important, there are a | lot of things your told you need which you don't the most important thi- | ng is he is here in the usa, that does alot for the process. --- Outgoing mail is certified Virus Free. Checked by AVG anti-virus system (http://www.grisoft.com). Version: 6.0.742 / Virus Database: 495 - Release Date: 8/19/2004 |
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"Sylvia Ottemoeller" <[email protected]> wrote in message news:<[email protected]>...
> "Amanda" <[email protected]> wrote in message > news:[email protected] om... > > > OfLoveAndFears <member27335@british_expats.com> wrote in message > news:<[email protected] om>... > > <Snip> > > > > hello,i have got some sort of good news,i think...news from the nh > > > office which seems very positive...odd since it seems unrelated to > > > aos...sent what they wanted so we will see how things turn out??? > > > things look a BIT up and in our favour..still looking into getting a > > > lawyer...thank you to all who have responded and provided important > > > info...means a lot to us both and i think we are feeling more > > > encouraged about the whole thing since our letter but like i said i > > > need to confirm everything is currently go...i assume they wouldnt send > > > us a paper about medicals exams and interviews if they had plans of > > > deportation surely!!?? > > > > So you guys got interview appointment? > > I doubt it, as the only form OfLoveAndFears filed previously is Form I-130. > You can read the whole story on googlegroups. > > Is it AOS interview? > > Unlikely. > > Seems > > like things are going well. You may not even need a lawyer but only > > if you can make sure about filing forms accurately. > > I think a good lawyer is really needed in this situation. > > Might also want > > to call local area law schools and ask whether they have immigration > > help center. If you meet financial qualification, you get free help. > > > > anyway this post is a bit scattered but i am yet > > > again up very late..what im trying to say is theres some sort of flow > > > actually going now and it seems like pretty calm waters to us..bit > > > easier to ride thats for sure. anyway everyone take care and perhaps > > > soon i can get everything sorted perfectly and can give and honestly > > > wonderful update...one meaning we dont have to go through too much > > > hassle after all.. > > OfLoveAndFears, please consult with an immigration attorney. It's likely > that your best strategy is to file Forms I-130/I-485, and either let the > other I-130 go, or perhaps withdraw it. > > If the I-130 you already filed is approved very soon, your spouse can file > the I-485 with the approval notice of the I-130. > > No offense intended, but your attitude always seems scattered. I think you > should move quickly on hiring a competent immigration attorney. Thanks Sylvia for reminding that what she filed earlier was only I-130. I was assuming that she withdrew that and refiled I-130 & I-485 together but I should have realized that there wasn't enough time to be receiving interview appt. if she has refiled I-130 and filed I-485 as well. She definitely should let an immgration lawyer handled it ASAP. OfLoveAndFears, after reading some posts here where people got their paper stuck for even simple procedures like mine, I am spending money getting an immigration lawyer. A good one would know what should happens at each step and would realized what actions to take if something is not happening. I strongly suggest that you get a lawyer NOW. |
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thanks everyone...j and i will email you soon luke :)
we just got our aila ref. via email so will be calling this lawyer soon.. i hope he is a good one who can help us because we will be on the lookout for someone who cares,knows what theyre doing,and will help us...so this is a possible way to go for us,contacting this guy...hmmm...heres hoping...anyway still trying to sort it all out but with good support (ie helpful and caring messages here,info from official websites,and phone calls that i hope dont lead us down twenty paths all of them wrong (picture much eye rolling here..)) we will get through all this...seems rough and theres been a lot of confued information (did i mention its not our fault? yes i say i feel stupid here but i also sort of feel ive been made to feel stupid,in a way...i have to say we personally have done all we can do and have gone about everything the right way as for who we have contacted,how we filled out our forms...but everyone has said something different from everyone else...so im actually feeling better about j and i working through this..we didnt make mistakes,the only mistake we made is listening to people who were supposed to know the right things...soooo once we DO have CORRECT info in our hands i know we are perfectly capable of getting it all filed correctly and from what i know he has an excelent chance of being able to stay,i can think of no reason otherwise..)) so...onward we go from here....still a bit scared but that comes with it..as long as i can honestly tell myself and j that things are going to be able to be worked out soon and in our favour then its alright.. |
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