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what are you saying?we should not marry for love. Ian

Rete wrote:
>> That which you call "true love" is an illusion. In order to exist,
>> true love must be completely selfless - and to live and exist
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>>
>> Ian
>
>And from which book did you gleam this bull or is it an original
>thought?
>

ian-mstm

Before you toss this off as "bull", you should try existing solely for another person. I guarantee that you will eventually destroy yourself. It's a very difficult thing to do... exist for someone else... never a thought for yourself or your own well-being - never, not once! Eventually, when there's nothing left... when you're totally spent, you'll realize the truth.

Oh... wait, were you talking about true love being an illusion? I believe it is. Why? Because true love is selfless... and to deny the self... well, you get the idea. JMHO.

Ian

ian-mstm

A while back, you indicated that you understood what I was saying. You said, "ok, i think i follow you.". So, either you lied when you said that, or you think Rete's made some sort of point and you want in on the action! Either way, I didn't say anything about not marrying for love. My comment, in fact, had nothing whatsoever to do with marriage! Perhaps you missed that!

Ian

abj via ImmigrationKB.com

thanks Ian,no i did not lie.And I plan parties for a living and some time i
can get a little throwed off.you are not the only person i was typing with.i
hope we are on the same side.i try not to get to affended when i feel like
i'm being insulted.

ian-mstm wrote:
>> what are you saying?we should not marry for love. Ian
>>
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>> >And from which book did you gleam this bull or is it an original
>> >thought?
>
>A while back, you indicated that you understood what I was saying. You
>said, "ok, i think i follow you.". So, either you lied when you said
>that, or you think Rete's made some sort of point and you want in on the
>action! Either way, I didn't say anything about not marrying for love.
>My comment, in fact, had nothing whatsoever to do with marriage! Perhaps
>you missed that!
>
>Ian

abj via ImmigrationKB.com

Hi Ian.If you don't can you please trust me to ask.What happen in your
marraige.A lot of the things that we type are just short versions of what we
think or our opions.i think we all have a story to tell.can you please share
again.If you don't mind.i just want to type with you.So fully we can
understand each other.

ian-mstm wrote:
>> And from which book did you gleam this bull or is it an original
>> thought?
>
>Before you toss this off as "bull", you should try existing solely for
>another person. I guarantee that you will eventually destroy yourself.
>It's a very difficult thing to do... exist for someone else... never a
>thought for yourself or your own well-being - never, not once!
>Eventually, when there's nothing left... when you're totally spent,
>you'll realize the truth.
>
>Oh... wait, were you talking about true love being an illusion? I
>believe it is. Why? Because true love is selfless... and to deny the
>self... well, you get the idea. JMHO.
>
>Ian

ian-mstm

I will say this - just so there's no confusion for any of the long-time posters on the forum - any comments I have made in the last few days relating to "true love", were in relation to my first marriage... not my current marriage!

So, to quote Forrest Gump, "that's all I have to say about that!"

Ian

abj via ImmigrationKB.com

okay!

ian-mstm wrote:
>> Hi Ian.If you don't can you please trust me to ask.What happen in your
>> marraige.A lot of the things that we type are just short versions of
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>> >
>> >Ian
>
>I will say this - just so there's no confusion for any of the long-time
>posters on the forum - any comments I have made in the last few days
>relating to "true love", were in relation to my first marriage... not my
>current marriage!
>
>So, to quote Forrest Gump, "that's all I have to say about that!"
>
>Ian

Epitomee2000

We are not ganga smokers, but Jamaica is a less complicated existence. I had an epiphany, if for whatever reason, the USA became intolerable to live in and the only thing I could do is to immigrate to somewhere like Canada, I could not imagine myself marrying someone just for the immigration status.

Marriage by its definition is tool personal. Whether is is a real marriage or a sham marriage. Beyond navigating the whole immigration process, I have tangled my family, (daughter, mother, father, and etc) with someone who I am using, this would take major cohones. So I think that the fraudulent marriages are not common and the ones who commit them have some major ones.

abj via ImmigrationKB.com

I never have been to Canada,but one day I may.I just hate see and know that
there are people out there who do use people to get a visa.Now I don't know
where your are from and I do hope we are on the same page.Marriage is is a
union from God,and he gives us favor,not a visa.

Epitomee2000 wrote:
>> right,but never tried it.but i did here it was stonger there than it
>> is here
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>> >
>> >Good place for the ganja .....allegedly
>
>We are not ganga smokers, but Jamaica is a less complicated existence.
>I had an epiphany, if for whatever reason, the USA became intolerable to
>live in and the only thing I could do is to immigrate to somewhere like
>Canada, I could not imagine myself marrying someone just for the
>immigration status.
>
>Marriage by its definition is tool personal. Whether is is a real
>marriage or a sham marriage. Beyond navigating the whole immigration
>process, I have tangled my family, (daughter, mother, father, and etc)
>with someone who I am using, this would take major cohones. So I think
>that the fraudulent marriages are not common and the ones who commit
>them have some major ones.