Marriage on Tourist Visa, etc
Mar 2nd 2007, 9:38 am
#46
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Re: Not all marriages are shams
ok,i think i follow you.
ian-mstm wrote:
>> yet that is so true.but what about true love.most people be.looking
>> for true
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>> >marriage from a USC to another person from a different culture is
>> >haunted by marriage fraud.
>
>That which you call "true love" is an illusion. In order to exist, true
>love must be completely selfless - and to live and exist completely for
>another person is to deny the single basic quality that separates
>humans from other life forms... our individualism; our distinctiveness,
>if you will... our own sense of ego! Whatever you choose to call it,
>when you destroy the "self" in favor of something or someone else, you
>might as well cash in the chips and go home because it's all over
>except for the funeral.
>
>Ian
ian-mstm wrote:
>> yet that is so true.but what about true love.most people be.looking
>> for true
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>> >marriage from a USC to another person from a different culture is
>> >haunted by marriage fraud.
>
>That which you call "true love" is an illusion. In order to exist, true
>love must be completely selfless - and to live and exist completely for
>another person is to deny the single basic quality that separates
>humans from other life forms... our individualism; our distinctiveness,
>if you will... our own sense of ego! Whatever you choose to call it,
>when you destroy the "self" in favor of something or someone else, you
>might as well cash in the chips and go home because it's all over
>except for the funeral.
>
>Ian
Mar 2nd 2007, 9:40 am
#47
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Re: Marriage on Tourist Visa, etc
i'm not sur of all the details but i'm sure as well.
Ray wrote:
>> i understanding what you are typing.of course,there will always be
>> loop holes
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>> >objective. Just as there are people who are willling to assist in
>> >perpetrating this fraud by becoming the USC spouse.
>
>I'm sure the US has some sort of operation similar to the UK
>Operation Maxim ... which has been quite sucessful
>
>http://www.met.police.uk/op_maxim/
Ray wrote:
>> i understanding what you are typing.of course,there will always be
>> loop holes
>[quoted text clipped - 18 lines]
>> >objective. Just as there are people who are willling to assist in
>> >perpetrating this fraud by becoming the USC spouse.
>
>I'm sure the US has some sort of operation similar to the UK
>Operation Maxim ... which has been quite sucessful
>
>http://www.met.police.uk/op_maxim/
Mar 2nd 2007, 10:41 am
#48
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Re: Marriage on Tourist Visa, etc
well that is good for you,but lets see when you get to the 10th yr.
Macieo wrote:
>> please,take the advice from someone that knows,these kind of marriages
>> do not
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>> >
>> >Please help!!! His tourist visa expires in 1 month!
>
>I meet my current husband when I was at college for a semester in
>England we then continued to talk on the phone and email he never wanted
>to live in America and the original plan was for me to move to England.
>He came to visit me in the US we did not plan on getting married but we
>eloped and we are still together 7 years later. I think these marriages
>work fine. He did the adjustment of status I don't know if we did things
>right but we had no issue with anything we got a lawyer and they did all
>the work basically.
Macieo wrote:
>> please,take the advice from someone that knows,these kind of marriages
>> do not
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>> >
>> >Please help!!! His tourist visa expires in 1 month!
>
>I meet my current husband when I was at college for a semester in
>England we then continued to talk on the phone and email he never wanted
>to live in America and the original plan was for me to move to England.
>He came to visit me in the US we did not plan on getting married but we
>eloped and we are still together 7 years later. I think these marriages
>work fine. He did the adjustment of status I don't know if we did things
>right but we had no issue with anything we got a lawyer and they did all
>the work basically.
Mar 2nd 2007, 10:54 am
#49
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Re: Marriage on Tourist Visa, etc
Yeah we will. If I did get divorced from my wife (macieo) then it wouldn't have anything to do with wanting to come to the USA. On the contrary one of the biggest issues we have had is the fact that I never wanted to come to the USA to being with and have not applied for citizenship because at some point I would like to live somewhere else away from here. I can imagine people from 3rd wolrd countries wanting to come here to get green cards but believe it or not England and many other countries are quite civilised and there are plenty of Americans that I know in England who married and moved over there. I am sorry you got duped by someone but frankly that is due to your poor judgement rather than the pernicious nature of immigrants as a whole.
Not everyone in the world wants to come to the USA. So don't let a few of the bad apples, ruin it for someone who truly loves you and is willing to give up a comfortable lifestyle where they have friends and family support in their home country to be with you.
Mar 2nd 2007, 3:52 pm
#51
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Re: Marriage on Tourist Visa, etc
are you saying i got dumped.
fatbrit wrote:
>> Yeah we will. If I did get divorced from my wife (macieo) then it
>> wouldn't have anything to do with wanting to come to the USA. On the
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>> you got duped by someone but frankly that is due to your poor
>> judgement rather than the pernicious nature of immigrants as a whole.
>
>This is a common reason FOR getting naturalized!
fatbrit wrote:
>> Yeah we will. If I did get divorced from my wife (macieo) then it
>> wouldn't have anything to do with wanting to come to the USA. On the
>[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
>> you got duped by someone but frankly that is due to your poor
>> judgement rather than the pernicious nature of immigrants as a whole.
>
>This is a common reason FOR getting naturalized!
Mar 2nd 2007, 3:59 pm
#52
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Re: Marriage on Tourist Visa, etc
yeah but i'm not there yet.i do think jamaica is a beautiful country country.
when i go i do have a nice time.if i had to go there to be w/my spouse.i
would ajust a little.but i've been there enough to know 3mo out of the
year;when it's cold here.but please share some more.i am healing.
Epitomee2000 wrote:
>> Yeah we will. If I did get divorced from my wife (macieo) then it
>> wouldn't have anything to do with wanting to come to the USA. On the
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>> you got duped by someone but frankly that is due to your poor
>> judgement rather than the pernicious nature of immigrants as a whole.
>
>To be perfectly honest, my husband would prefer that we lived in Jamaica
>(developing country) as opposed to the USA. He is very leery with alot
>of local custom issues such as obvious racism and the rat chase in the
>USA just to exist is overwhelming.
>
>Not everyone in the world wants to come to the USA. So don't let a few
>of the bad apples, ruin it for someone who truly loves you and is
>willing to give up a comfortable lifestyle where they have friends and
>family support in their home country to be with you.
when i go i do have a nice time.if i had to go there to be w/my spouse.i
would ajust a little.but i've been there enough to know 3mo out of the
year;when it's cold here.but please share some more.i am healing.
Epitomee2000 wrote:
>> Yeah we will. If I did get divorced from my wife (macieo) then it
>> wouldn't have anything to do with wanting to come to the USA. On the
>[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
>> you got duped by someone but frankly that is due to your poor
>> judgement rather than the pernicious nature of immigrants as a whole.
>
>To be perfectly honest, my husband would prefer that we lived in Jamaica
>(developing country) as opposed to the USA. He is very leery with alot
>of local custom issues such as obvious racism and the rat chase in the
>USA just to exist is overwhelming.
>
>Not everyone in the world wants to come to the USA. So don't let a few
>of the bad apples, ruin it for someone who truly loves you and is
>willing to give up a comfortable lifestyle where they have friends and
>family support in their home country to be with you.
Mar 3rd 2007, 2:16 am
#53
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Re: Marriage on Tourist Visa, etc
Mar 3rd 2007, 2:23 am
#54
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Re: Marriage on Tourist Visa, etc
yeah but i'm not there yet.i do think jamaica is a beautiful country country.
when i go i do have a nice time.if i had to go there to be w/my spouse.i
would ajust a little.but i've been there enough to know 3mo out of the
year;when it's cold here.but please share some more.i am healing.
when i go i do have a nice time.if i had to go there to be w/my spouse.i
would ajust a little.but i've been there enough to know 3mo out of the
year;when it's cold here.but please share some more.i am healing.
Mar 4th 2007, 3:32 am
#56
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Re: Marriage on Tourist Visa, etc
thanks!i'm just a little out of the loop!
USA & Pakistan wrote:
>> Abj - not "dumped". He said "duped".
>>
>> Rene
>
>Hey, I was just going to say that! lol.
>
>
Marnee
USA & Pakistan wrote:
>> Abj - not "dumped". He said "duped".
>>
>> Rene
>
>Hey, I was just going to say that! lol.
>
>
Marnee
Mar 4th 2007, 3:35 am
#57
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Re: Marriage on Tourist Visa, etc
no. but i am researching with another person.
fatbrit wrote:
>> please,take the advice from someone that knows,these kind of marriages
>> do not
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>> >
>> >Please help!!! His tourist visa expires in 1 month!
>
>Could we perhaps inquire where this special knowledge comes from? Are
>you a researcher, for example?
fatbrit wrote:
>> please,take the advice from someone that knows,these kind of marriages
>> do not
>[quoted text clipped - 18 lines]
>> >
>> >Please help!!! His tourist visa expires in 1 month!
>
>Could we perhaps inquire where this special knowledge comes from? Are
>you a researcher, for example?
Mar 4th 2007, 3:39 am
#58
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Re: Marriage on Tourist Visa, etc
right,but never tried it.but i did here it was stonger there than it is here
in the ststes.more pointent.
Ray wrote:
>> yeah but i'm not there yet.i do think jamaica is a beautiful country
>> country.
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>> >and
>> >family support in their home country to be with you.
>
>Good place for the ganja .....allegedly
in the ststes.more pointent.
Ray wrote:
>> yeah but i'm not there yet.i do think jamaica is a beautiful country
>> country.
>[quoted text clipped - 26 lines]
>> >and
>> >family support in their home country to be with you.
>
>Good place for the ganja .....allegedly
Mar 4th 2007, 3:51 am
#59
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Re: Marriage on Tourist Visa, etc
you may be right.but still we have to treat everyone,no matter where we come
from .all people should be treated with respect.in other words,treat people
the way you want to be treated.heres the thing.in america we have been tought
how to treat our fellow man,love, kind and honor.we have pretty much an
astablished government that allowes us to become what ever we want and be
able to take care of our families even we we fall down we can get up.in alot
of other place the goverment is so different.we don't have the best.but we
the people can make a difference and can change things to make our system
work.even when it take years for something to be enforced.please understand.
i'm not out to attack anyone.but we have a right to be informed and the
person that we marry.rather they are an immiagrant,or an american,to be
honest.saint or sinner.we just want the best for our selves and our families.
thanks my friend.
fatbrit wrote:
>> Yeah we will. If I did get divorced from my wife (macieo) then it
>> wouldn't have anything to do with wanting to come to the USA. On the
>[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
>> you got duped by someone but frankly that is due to your poor
>> judgement rather than the pernicious nature of immigrants as a whole.
>
>This is a common reason FOR getting naturalized!
from .all people should be treated with respect.in other words,treat people
the way you want to be treated.heres the thing.in america we have been tought
how to treat our fellow man,love, kind and honor.we have pretty much an
astablished government that allowes us to become what ever we want and be
able to take care of our families even we we fall down we can get up.in alot
of other place the goverment is so different.we don't have the best.but we
the people can make a difference and can change things to make our system
work.even when it take years for something to be enforced.please understand.
i'm not out to attack anyone.but we have a right to be informed and the
person that we marry.rather they are an immiagrant,or an american,to be
honest.saint or sinner.we just want the best for our selves and our families.
thanks my friend.
fatbrit wrote:
>> Yeah we will. If I did get divorced from my wife (macieo) then it
>> wouldn't have anything to do with wanting to come to the USA. On the
>[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
>> you got duped by someone but frankly that is due to your poor
>> judgement rather than the pernicious nature of immigrants as a whole.
>
>This is a common reason FOR getting naturalized!
Mar 4th 2007, 3:51 am
#60
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Re: Not all marriages are shams
And from which book did you gleam this bull or is it an original thought?
That which you call "true love" is an illusion. In order to exist, true love must be completely selfless - and to live and exist completely for another person is to deny the single basic quality that separates humans from other life forms... our individualism; our distinctiveness, if you will... our own sense of ego! Whatever you choose to call it, when you destroy the "self" in favor of something or someone else, you might as well cash in the chips and go home because it's all over except for the funeral.
Ian
Ian
