Getting Married in the USA on ESTA
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Getting Married in the USA on ESTA
Hi everyone...all new to this so please bear with me !!!
I've looked at a lot of similar threads and stories from others, so it does appear I'm not the only person that's been in this position
I'm 52 and engaged to my American fiance. We met nearly 2 years ago whilst she was based in the UK with work.
She's now had to move back to the US due a job change. We currently get to spend around 5 weeks together every 3 months - taking it in turns to visit each other, as we're lucky enough to be able to work remotely.
The idea was always for us to live in the US in the future...this has now been brought into focus quicker than we were anticipating.
Our plan is for us to get married when I next visit her in the US, with a view to me then returning to the UK and us beginning the process for an "I-130 Petition for Alien Relative".
I know the processing time for this can be up anything up to 18 months - so during this time I can hopefully put my affairs in order in the UK as I have a house to sell, job etc.
I know we're at the beginning of a potentially long journey - obviously, there's a lot to do and considerations for an immigration lawyer to ensure everything is processed correctly.
But does this generally sound like a viable plan ? Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Jon
I've looked at a lot of similar threads and stories from others, so it does appear I'm not the only person that's been in this position
I'm 52 and engaged to my American fiance. We met nearly 2 years ago whilst she was based in the UK with work.
She's now had to move back to the US due a job change. We currently get to spend around 5 weeks together every 3 months - taking it in turns to visit each other, as we're lucky enough to be able to work remotely.
The idea was always for us to live in the US in the future...this has now been brought into focus quicker than we were anticipating.
Our plan is for us to get married when I next visit her in the US, with a view to me then returning to the UK and us beginning the process for an "I-130 Petition for Alien Relative".
I know the processing time for this can be up anything up to 18 months - so during this time I can hopefully put my affairs in order in the UK as I have a house to sell, job etc.
I know we're at the beginning of a potentially long journey - obviously, there's a lot to do and considerations for an immigration lawyer to ensure everything is processed correctly.
But does this generally sound like a viable plan ? Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Jon
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Re: Getting Married in the USA on ESTA
Hi everyone...all new to this so please bear with me !!!
I've looked at a lot of similar threads and stories from others, so it does appear I'm not the only person that's been in this position
I'm 52 and engaged to my American fiance. We met nearly 2 years ago whilst she was based in the UK with work.
She's now had to move back to the US due a job change. We currently get to spend around 5 weeks together every 3 months - taking it in turns to visit each other, as we're lucky enough to be able to work remotely.
The idea was always for us to live in the US in the future...this has now been brought into focus quicker than we were anticipating.
Our plan is for us to get married when I next visit her in the US, with a view to me then returning to the UK and us beginning the process for an "I-130 Petition for Alien Relative".
I know the processing time for this can be up anything up to 18 months - so during this time I can hopefully put my affairs in order in the UK as I have a house to sell, job etc.
I know we're at the beginning of a potentially long journey - obviously, there's a lot to do and considerations for an immigration lawyer to ensure everything is processed correctly.
But does this generally sound like a viable plan ? Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Jon
I've looked at a lot of similar threads and stories from others, so it does appear I'm not the only person that's been in this position
I'm 52 and engaged to my American fiance. We met nearly 2 years ago whilst she was based in the UK with work.
She's now had to move back to the US due a job change. We currently get to spend around 5 weeks together every 3 months - taking it in turns to visit each other, as we're lucky enough to be able to work remotely.
The idea was always for us to live in the US in the future...this has now been brought into focus quicker than we were anticipating.
Our plan is for us to get married when I next visit her in the US, with a view to me then returning to the UK and us beginning the process for an "I-130 Petition for Alien Relative".
I know the processing time for this can be up anything up to 18 months - so during this time I can hopefully put my affairs in order in the UK as I have a house to sell, job etc.
I know we're at the beginning of a potentially long journey - obviously, there's a lot to do and considerations for an immigration lawyer to ensure everything is processed correctly.
But does this generally sound like a viable plan ? Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Jon
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Re: Getting Married in the USA on ESTA
I think she can in the UK. The US is pretty much alone when it comes to this kind of thing, most other countries have moved with the times and are happy for visitors to work remotely.
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Re: Getting Married in the USA on ESTA
Hi everyone...all new to this so please bear with me !!!
Our plan is for us to get married when I next visit her in the US, with a view to me then returning to the UK and us beginning the process for an "I-130 Petition for Alien Relative".
I know the processing time for this can be up anything up to 18 months - so during this time I can hopefully put my affairs in order in the UK as I have a house to sell, job etc.
I know we're at the beginning of a potentially long journey - obviously, there's a lot to do and considerations for an immigration lawyer to ensure everything is processed correctly.
Jon
Our plan is for us to get married when I next visit her in the US, with a view to me then returning to the UK and us beginning the process for an "I-130 Petition for Alien Relative".
I know the processing time for this can be up anything up to 18 months - so during this time I can hopefully put my affairs in order in the UK as I have a house to sell, job etc.
I know we're at the beginning of a potentially long journey - obviously, there's a lot to do and considerations for an immigration lawyer to ensure everything is processed correctly.
Jon
As for the timelines, we applied online in May and it looks like (and I'm really tempting fate here) that the i-130 will be complete early December so if that date is met we'll probably complete the process in less than 12 months (possibly 10)
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Re: Getting Married in the USA on ESTA
I'm currently going through this and slightly ahead of you (married in May this year), what I can say is that you probably don't need an immigration lawyer as the advice given on this forum has been excellent and has made the form filling pretty straight forward.
As for the timelines, we applied online in May and it looks like (and I'm really tempting fate here) that the i-130 will be complete early December so if that date is met we'll probably complete the process in less than 12 months (possibly 10)
As for the timelines, we applied online in May and it looks like (and I'm really tempting fate here) that the i-130 will be complete early December so if that date is met we'll probably complete the process in less than 12 months (possibly 10)
Last edited by christmasoompa; Nov 8th 2023 at 11:08 am.
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Re: Getting Married in the USA on ESTA
Yes, marry in the US and SHE applies initially via I-130. YOU will apply for the CR/LP visa when the I-130 and required documentation have been approved stateside and sent to the UK.
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Re: Getting Married in the USA on ESTA
I'm currently going through this and slightly ahead of you (married in May this year), what I can say is that you probably don't need an immigration lawyer as the advice given on this forum has been excellent and has made the form filling pretty straight forward.
As for the timelines, we applied online in May and it looks like (and I'm really tempting fate here) that the i-130 will be complete early December so if that date is met we'll probably complete the process in less than 12 months (possibly 10)
As for the timelines, we applied online in May and it looks like (and I'm really tempting fate here) that the i-130 will be complete early December so if that date is met we'll probably complete the process in less than 12 months (possibly 10)
However, if you enter the US on the visa after the first anniversary you will be a LPR (legal permanent resident) and there will be no conditions to be removed.
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Re: Getting Married in the USA on ESTA
Word of advice - if you have your approval and the visa in your passport before your first anniversary try not to emigrate to the US before said anniversary. If you enter before the first year anniversary you will be a Conditional Resident 1 (CR1) which means you have to file to have the conditions removed 90 days before the expiration date on the two year green card.
However, if you enter the US on the visa after the first anniversary you will be a LPR (legal permanent resident) and there will be no conditions to be removed.
However, if you enter the US on the visa after the first anniversary you will be a LPR (legal permanent resident) and there will be no conditions to be removed.
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Re: Getting Married in the USA on ESTA
Hi everyone...all new to this so please bear with me !!!
I've looked at a lot of similar threads and stories from others, so it does appear I'm not the only person that's been in this position .......
The idea was always for us to live in the US in the future...this has now been brought into focus quicker than we were anticipating.
Our plan is for us to get married when I next visit her in the US, with a view to me then returning to the UK and us beginning the process for an "I-130 Petition for Alien Relative".
I know the processing time for this can be up anything up to 18 months - so during this time I can hopefully put my affairs in order in the UK as I have a house to sell, job etc.
I know we're at the beginning of a potentially long journey - obviously, there's a lot to do and considerations for an immigration lawyer to ensure everything is processed correctly.
But does this generally sound like a viable plan ? Any advice would be greatly appreciated. ....
I've looked at a lot of similar threads and stories from others, so it does appear I'm not the only person that's been in this position .......
The idea was always for us to live in the US in the future...this has now been brought into focus quicker than we were anticipating.
Our plan is for us to get married when I next visit her in the US, with a view to me then returning to the UK and us beginning the process for an "I-130 Petition for Alien Relative".
I know the processing time for this can be up anything up to 18 months - so during this time I can hopefully put my affairs in order in the UK as I have a house to sell, job etc.
I know we're at the beginning of a potentially long journey - obviously, there's a lot to do and considerations for an immigration lawyer to ensure everything is processed correctly.
But does this generally sound like a viable plan ? Any advice would be greatly appreciated. ....
I also agree with the advice to skip an immigration lawyer. The forms are not particularly demanding, and in any case the lawyer would ask you for all the information required to fill in the forms anyway. And even if you were to miss something the form only gets returned for correction/ completion, it doesn't cause the your entire application to implode.
Last edited by Pulaski; Nov 8th 2023 at 2:49 pm.
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Re: Getting Married in the USA on ESTA
Word of advice - if you have your approval and the visa in your passport before your first anniversary try not to emigrate to the US before said anniversary. If you enter before the first year anniversary you will be a Conditional Resident 1 (CR1) which means you have to file to have the conditions removed ....