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My British fiancee and I have done everything required to get her approved for a K-1 Fiancee visa to come to the U.S. and get married. We were approved for the visa last April, and we thought we had plenty of time to get the visa before our August wedding. However, it has been three months since she was approved, and the US embassy seems to be doing everything they can to delay the process. We are very worried she will not receive an interview date at the embassy to get the visa before the wedding date. Is there anything we can do to speed up the process? All the forms needed have been acquired, we're just waiting for the embassy to shedule the interview....
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My British fiancee and I have done everything required to get her approved for a K-1 Fiancee visa to come to the U.S. and get married. We were approved for the visa last April, and we thought we had plenty of time to get the visa before our August wedding. However, it has been three months since she was approved, and the US embassy seems to be doing everything they can to delay the process. We are very worried she will not receive an interview date at the embassy to get the visa before the wedding date. Is there anything we can do to speed up the process? All the forms needed have been acquired, we're just waiting for the embassy to shedule the interview....
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Thanks for your sympathy anyway! Yeah we knew that planning things without the visa was risky, but really had no choice as we were accomodating all the family's schedules. We thought 8 months might be enough time. The problem with waiting until you get the visa is that once you do you only have a few months where its good and only 3 months once you get here, so its not much time to plan a whole wedding.
We're thinking now about her coming over and we can have the ceremony but not making it official. Then she will go home and come back when she gets the visa and we can get married in the court house as soon as she's here. Anyway, I hope you're visa process goes smoothly. Ours was going smoothly until now. Good luck, I hope everything works out for you!
Thanks for your sympathy anyway! Yeah we knew that planning things without the visa was risky, but really had no choice as we were accomodating all the family's schedules. We thought 8 months might be enough time. The problem with waiting until you get the visa is that once you do you only have a few months where its good and only 3 months once you get here, so its not much time to plan a whole wedding.
We're thinking now about her coming over and we can have the ceremony but not making it official. Then she will go home and come back when she gets the visa and we can get married in the court house as soon as she's here. Anyway, I hope you're visa process goes smoothly. Ours was going smoothly until now. Good luck, I hope everything works out for you!
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My British fiancee and I have done everything required to get her approved for a K-1 Fiancee visa to come to the U.S. and get married. We were approved for the visa last April, and we thought we had plenty of time to get the visa before our August wedding. However, it has been three months since she was approved, and the US embassy seems to be doing everything they can to delay the process. We are very worried she will not receive an interview date at the embassy to get the visa before the wedding date. Is there anything we can do to speed up the process? All the forms needed have been acquired, we're just waiting for the embassy to shedule the interview....
So, you've turned in the checklist to the embassy, and are now just waiting for an interview? London typically slows down processing in the summer months, so I'm not suprised...but how long ago did you return the checklist?
You can always email the embassy and have them give you an estimate of when you can expect your interview. You can mention that you would like the visa by August xx, whatever date...don't tell them it's for the wedding, and don't demand it, just ask politely if they can accommodate that date.
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My K1 took 11 months, 8 is quite possible as they have speeded up since then.
If you marry you will go back to the start, a K1 is for a fiancee, so no longer applicable.
As has ben said by Rene you essentially have a 9 month minimum window to arrange a wedding, and a bit of flexibility as to the interview date.
If you marry you will go back to the start, a K1 is for a fiancee, so no longer applicable.
As has ben said by Rene you essentially have a 9 month minimum window to arrange a wedding, and a bit of flexibility as to the interview date.
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My K1 took 11 months, 8 is quite possible as they have speeded up since then.
If you marry you will go back to the start, a K1 is for a fiancee, so no longer applicable.
As has ben said by Rene you essentially have a 9 month minimum window to arrange a wedding, and a bit of flexibility as to the interview date.
If you marry you will go back to the start, a K1 is for a fiancee, so no longer applicable.
As has ben said by Rene you essentially have a 9 month minimum window to arrange a wedding, and a bit of flexibility as to the interview date.
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I think he is saying that they will have the ceremony, but will not legally be married (they won't get a marriage license). That would still make her eligible for the K1. However, OP needs to ensure his fiance makes it clear at her visa interview that they are not legally married, that it was just the ceremony - she wants to make sure the immigration officer understands she is still eligible for the visa.
Just out of curiosity, what kind of ceremony can they have without a marriage license?
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While you might be pushing someone else aside for a longer separation from *their* loved one, if your need is great, you might get some joy. Others have.
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No matter how "unofficial" you think it is, if USCIS finds out about this ceremony you are in for a rough ride. You are playing with fire if you try this. You might get away with it, you might have big problems. Your guests might be inconvenienced, but they don't have years of dealing with USCIS ahead of them. I strongly advise postponing all ceremonies until you have the visa.
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Ignore me - misread his post.
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The ceremony I was talking about would just be the same wedding ceremony we've been planning. It would be a huge blow to cancel everything that has been booked and cancel everyones plane tickets that are coming over to see it. It wouldnt be official in the sense that in the end we still wouldnt be legally married. But no one would have to know that but us. The immigration and visa approvers wouldn't need to know we were having an unofficial ceremony. She could come over and tell them she is coming to make arrangements for the wedding ceremony, which will be the truth.
We have both tried contacting the embassy for information and they are extremely unhelpful. They even shouted at my fiance when she rang up asking for when the interview might be scheduled and if they'd received the checklist. They said they coudnt tell her that info and it takes 3 months to process. 3 months is exceedingly rediculous, especially since the petitions been approved. The embassy doesnt have any work to do but put her name down on the calender for an interview...
Thanks for all your suggestions.
We have both tried contacting the embassy for information and they are extremely unhelpful. They even shouted at my fiance when she rang up asking for when the interview might be scheduled and if they'd received the checklist. They said they coudnt tell her that info and it takes 3 months to process. 3 months is exceedingly rediculous, especially since the petitions been approved. The embassy doesnt have any work to do but put her name down on the calender for an interview...
Thanks for all your suggestions.
Having the I-129F petition approved does not equal fast service on the embassy side. It simply means she gets in line behind all the others waiting for an interview date, and it is well known that processing time does slow down in London over the summer months, with people on vacation and such. Three months isn't exceedingly ridiculous, in my opinion. Yes, they have to put her name down on the calendar....behind all the people that are already waiting.
Plus, what would happen if your fiancee comes to the USA for that ceremony, and then London sends her an interview appointment on short notice, before the ceremony happens? She would have to return to London for the interview, and still cancel the ceremony thing anyway.
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We have both tried contacting the embassy for information and they are extremely unhelpful. They even shouted at my fiance when she rang up asking for when the interview might be scheduled and if they'd received the checklist. They said they coudnt tell her that info and it takes 3 months to process. 3 months is exceedingly rediculous, especially since the petitions been approved. The embassy doesnt have any work to do but put her name down on the calender for an interview...
Thanks for all your suggestions.
Thanks for all your suggestions.
My suggestion is to EMAIL the Immigrant Visa Unit in the actual Consulate.
(and don't presume to know what the Embassy has or has not to do to get her an interview. There are steps I'm guessing you are unaware of. There are also other people in line ahead of you.)
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I guess we have no choice but to postpone the wedding. Family issues mean that if we postpone the wedding, much of our immediate families will not be able to attend. Plus all the money we have now lost on reservations and deposits and her families plane tickets.
We planned on the time frame for everything else but we didnt know that it would take so long on the English side, which is why we thought 8 months would be ok.
We never expect any special treatment like being bumped up in line, we're just trying to understand what is going on. There aren't exactly any great resources for help on this experience.
Thanks anyway to those of you who were sympathetic.
We planned on the time frame for everything else but we didnt know that it would take so long on the English side, which is why we thought 8 months would be ok.
We never expect any special treatment like being bumped up in line, we're just trying to understand what is going on. There aren't exactly any great resources for help on this experience.
Thanks anyway to those of you who were sympathetic.
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I honestly don't understand how posts get so misunderstood.
Would you rather have us (me) boo hoo with you and plan for doom, or try to get what you actually want (to keep your wedding date plans)?
And, what is wrong with this resource? (rhetorical question--no answer required). There are accounts posted frequently about people in just your situation getting their interview jump started.
I can not email the Consulate on your behalf, though.
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