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No, much tougher...marriage is the quick, cheap and easy route, relatively speaking.
School over here is rather expensive though.
Oh, and doing the VWP route, apart from being a bad idea, he wouldn't be work authorised for a while, so he would be putting your friend in a bit of a spot.
School over here is rather expensive though.
Oh, and doing the VWP route, apart from being a bad idea, he wouldn't be work authorised for a while, so he would be putting your friend in a bit of a spot.
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Someone told me i needed the 145 or I-45 something form. Ive been reading the uscis website. and from what you guys tell me I only need to use the I -130 and the biographical info for both of us. Sorry to be redundant about all this just wanna get it all sorted and clear.
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Someone told me i needed the 145 or I-45 something form. Ive been reading the uscis website. and from what you guys tell me I only need to use the I -130 and the biographical info for both of us. Sorry to be redundant about all this just wanna get it all sorted and clear.
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Someone told me i needed the 145 or I-45 something form. Ive been reading the uscis website. and from what you guys tell me I only need to use the I -130 and the biographical info for both of us. Sorry to be redundant about all this just wanna get it all sorted and clear.
Isabel
You and your husband will be going the Consular Immigration Route and not the adjustment of status route. So there are different forms and procedures. When you husband is approved by the US Consulate in Lodnon he will enter the US as a permanent resident with the right to live and work here from day one of entry. The procedure goes like this:
1. You marry
2. You get the certified marriage certificate
3. You complete the I-130 (Immediate Relative Visa Form)
4. You mail it to the appropriate service center (not sure if it is NVC or MSC). The form will tell you.
5. Hubby goes back to the UK before his 90 days are up and waits
6. In 3 to 5 months the I-130 will be adjudicated (hopefully approved) and you will receive communication from the NVC as to who is the agent to receive the paperwork to be completed for the US Consulate and you will be asked to complete and Affidavit of Support (I-864) and mail it and the fee back to the NVC.
7. Once the I-864 is approved everything is sent to the US Consulate in London.
8. Your husband will then need to complete the paperwork and the checklist stating that he has all the documents that they require, i.e. police clearance certificate, etc.
9. He mails the checklist back to London
10. He makes an appointment for his medical by the USCIS approved panel physician in London
11. He receives his appointment date for the US Consulate interview
12. He takes all his paperwork with him and keeps the appointment
13. If approved he leaves his passport and in a few days it will be couriered back to him with a shiny new immigration visa in it
14. HE GETS ON A PLANE AND STARTS HIS MARRIED LIFE IN THE US WITH YOU.
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Someone told me i needed the 145 or I-45 something form. Ive been reading the uscis website. and from what you guys tell me I only need to use the I -130 and the biographical info for both of us. Sorry to be redundant about all this just wanna get it all sorted and clear.
Please, please, slow down for a bit.
Re-read Folinskinla's post. You need to stop listening to 'someone' and making these plans. You are entering into an international, legal piece of business.
Not 'hop on a plane and do what we want'. You've got to accept that there is a process here, that you don't know the first thing about it and that it's nearly equivalent to filing .. oh, say a corporate income tax return. A list of forms is not what you need right now. You need to 'get' the concept in your mind first.
OK, this is IMO only, but all of us on here have gone through your same learning curve and that's why we stay to help others.
But you are NOT going to have it figured out in 15 minutes.. each piece leads to another. So do yourself and BF a favor, and slow down a bit.
Now, to your quote. What you were told to do is not legal. Do you want to continue on that path? If yes, continue talking to 'someone'. If no, just keep reading. It really will sink in soon.
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Please do not use an online immigration service for your forms. If you need the services of an immigration attorney, it pays to pay the fee and hire one that you can talk to and see rather than a non-descript agency staffed by paralegals and whom you are hard pressed to get in touch with.
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The forms that Noorah lists are the ones that you have to file to get the visa process started. Once the I-130 is approved, the forms (& documentation) goes to the National Visa Center (NVC) they do some stuff, then forward the packet to the US consulate in London. Then London will send your hubby additional forms he has to fill out, in order to get the CR-1 visa. The I-130 is only the tip of the iceburg for filling out forms, hon!
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You and your husband will be going the Consular Immigration Route and not the adjustment of status route. So there are different forms and procedures. When you husband is approved by the US Consulate in Lodnon he will enter the US as a permanent resident with the right to live and work here from day one of entry. The procedure goes like this:
1. You marry
2. You get the certified marriage certificate
3. You complete the I-130 (Immediate Relative Visa Form)
4. You mail it to the appropriate service center (not sure if it is NVC or MSC). The form will tell you.
5. Hubby goes back to the UK before his 90 days are up and waits
6. In 3 to 5 months the I-130 will be adjudicated (hopefully approved) and you will receive communication from the NVC as to who is the agent to receive the paperwork to be completed for the US Consulate and you will be asked to complete and Affidavit of Support (I-864) and mail it and the fee back to the NVC.
7. Once the I-864 is approved everything is sent to the US Consulate in London.
8. Your husband will then need to complete the paperwork and the checklist stating that he has all the documents that they require, i.e. police clearance certificate, etc.
9. He mails the checklist back to London
10. He makes an appointment for his medical by the USCIS approved panel physician in London
11. He receives his appointment date for the US Consulate interview
12. He takes all his paperwork with him and keeps the appointment
13. If approved he leaves his passport and in a few days it will be couriered back to him with a shiny new immigration visa in it
14. HE GETS ON A PLANE AND STARTS HIS MARRIED LIFE IN THE US WITH YOU.
You and your husband will be going the Consular Immigration Route and not the adjustment of status route. So there are different forms and procedures. When you husband is approved by the US Consulate in Lodnon he will enter the US as a permanent resident with the right to live and work here from day one of entry. The procedure goes like this:
1. You marry
2. You get the certified marriage certificate
3. You complete the I-130 (Immediate Relative Visa Form)
4. You mail it to the appropriate service center (not sure if it is NVC or MSC). The form will tell you.
5. Hubby goes back to the UK before his 90 days are up and waits
6. In 3 to 5 months the I-130 will be adjudicated (hopefully approved) and you will receive communication from the NVC as to who is the agent to receive the paperwork to be completed for the US Consulate and you will be asked to complete and Affidavit of Support (I-864) and mail it and the fee back to the NVC.
7. Once the I-864 is approved everything is sent to the US Consulate in London.
8. Your husband will then need to complete the paperwork and the checklist stating that he has all the documents that they require, i.e. police clearance certificate, etc.
9. He mails the checklist back to London
10. He makes an appointment for his medical by the USCIS approved panel physician in London
11. He receives his appointment date for the US Consulate interview
12. He takes all his paperwork with him and keeps the appointment
13. If approved he leaves his passport and in a few days it will be couriered back to him with a shiny new immigration visa in it
14. HE GETS ON A PLANE AND STARTS HIS MARRIED LIFE IN THE US WITH YOU.
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1. He has a communicable disease
2. He has some sort of criminal history, esp if drugs
3. Your marriage is a sham
That's all I can think of. If he doesn't have any of those problems, he's most likely going to be approved.
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Off the top of my head, the reasons for denial could be:
1. He has a communicable disease
2. He has some sort of criminal history, esp if drugs
3. Your marriage is a sham
That's all I can think of. If he doesn't have any of those problems, he's most likely going to be approved.
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1. He has a communicable disease
2. He has some sort of criminal history, esp if drugs
3. Your marriage is a sham
That's all I can think of. If he doesn't have any of those problems, he's most likely going to be approved.
Rene
I want to thank all who responded. I admit I really was thinking of taking the illegal route and the stress of possibly being caught was getting to me. I feel much better now, happier. The only downer is the time we will spend apart
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Yay, we're gonna be approved cuz none of that applies to us!
I want to thank all who responded. I admit I really was thinking of taking the illegal route and the stress of possibly being caught was getting to me. I feel much better now, happier. The only downer is the time we will spend apart![Sad](https://britishexpats.com/forum/images/smilies/sad.gif)
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A work visa will not help you. Work visas must be applied for the employer and the application date is April 1, 2009 for a start sometime in November. Your finance must be working in a field that qualifies for an H-1B and he must have the education to back up his qualifications for the job. Apparently he does not have the education has he is planning on seeking a degree via higher education in the US.
While I do honestly feel for you, the safest way is to get married as planned and then complete the I-130, mail it in, and have hubby return to the UK before his 90 days are up. He can visit again and/or you can visit him in the UK. Have him look for any type of employment in the UK while he waits. Do you care if he slings burgers for the time being? I don't think so. At least it will pay his plane fare.
Love's not easy and there are no easy solutions, unfortunately. I'm sorry.
While I do honestly feel for you, the safest way is to get married as planned and then complete the I-130, mail it in, and have hubby return to the UK before his 90 days are up. He can visit again and/or you can visit him in the UK. Have him look for any type of employment in the UK while he waits. Do you care if he slings burgers for the time being? I don't think so. At least it will pay his plane fare.
Love's not easy and there are no easy solutions, unfortunately. I'm sorry.
Yay, we're gonna be approved cuz none of that applies to us!
I want to thank all who responded. I admit I really was thinking of taking the illegal route and the stress of possibly being caught was getting to me. I feel much better now, happier. The only downer is the time we will spend apart![Sad](https://britishexpats.com/forum/images/smilies/sad.gif)
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