act1980

Good luck with everything Sas-Lou. I hope you settle in back here ok!!

sarahandshaun

^^^^^^^What she said. If I had done this to my missus, I would be hung, drawn and quartered and then sent to the bottom of the Laurentian Abyss to swim with the fishes. Sas-lou, if you want to give it another go? Good luck to you, but make him realise that he'll be doing all the running for an extremely long time and 3 dozen red roses a year just won't cut it. Merry, words don't do justice to you're generosity. All the best to you and your boys sas

sarahandshaun

Yoong

Sas-Lou
I hope you do get help and work on your issues with the counsellor.
Make a new come back and you will thank yourself that you
did you get rid of the cheater for your own good.

Yoong

act1980

Hi Sas-Lou

Just wondering how you are settling in back here?

Hope your doing ok.

FlirtyKnickers

You read my mind....I was just thinking the same thing

Hope your well Sas-Lou....

sas-lou

Hello all.

Well been in the UK almost 4 weeks .. been to hell and back .. Doctor has nicely given me some sleeping tablets .. Kids are using me as their verbal punchbag, thats OK .. Well i am still waiting for him to make a decision, head no heart yes .. i know the answer is it's over but i am just waiting for him to say it ..

I have been looking into getting a place on my own in Ottawa but unfortunately as i dont have a job, references and guarantor, it is pretty much a no go .. Never mind at least i tried ..

So i am waiting for the child benefit to start up again so i can go to the council and find a private rented place .. Just start again from scratch here ..

Its OK though, i have been on one hell of a roller coaster ride and feel stronger and calmer in myself .. Dont get me wrong i am angry with hubby .. he gave me and the boys a taster of something better .. then took it away .. the boys are also angry, they want their dad (he isnt the bio father but was there for 6 years) .. i dont know .. but i shall move on on my own ..

Who knows what the future holds ..

Thank you for your concern .. I dont come on this site much now .. its like rubbing salt in the wound as you can imagine

Coffeepot

Good luck hun really mean that, we are always here and who knows maybe things may work out right eh xx big hugs

FlirtyKnickers

It's so nice to hear your ok hun, only you can decide your future....you'll do the right thing for you and the kids here or in Canada.....I wish you well in whatever you do

act1980

I can understand that, who knows though. You may get back out there in time.

Good luck to you whatever happens