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Good luck with everything Sas-Lou. I hope you settle in back here ok!! :thumbsup:

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^^^^^^^What she said. If I had done this to my missus, I would be hung, drawn and quartered and then sent to the bottom of the Laurentian Abyss to swim with the fishes. Sas-lou, if you want to give it another go? Good luck to you, but make him realise that he'll be doing all the running for an extremely long time and 3 dozen red roses a year just won't cut it. Merry, words don't do justice to you're generosity. All the best to you and your boys sas:thumbsup:

sarahandshaun

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Sas-Lou
I hope you do get help and work on your issues with the counsellor.
Make a new come back and you will thank yourself that you
did you get rid of the cheater for your own good.

Yoong

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Hi Sas-Lou

Just wondering how you are settling in back here?

Hope your doing ok.:)

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You read my mind:blink:....I was just thinking the same thing;)

Hope your well Sas-Lou....:wub:

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Hello all.

Well been in the UK almost 4 weeks .. been to hell and back .. Doctor has nicely given me some sleeping tablets .. Kids are using me as their verbal punchbag, thats OK .. Well i am still waiting for him to make a decision, head no heart yes .. i know the answer is it's over but i am just waiting for him to say it ..

I have been looking into getting a place on my own in Ottawa but unfortunately as i dont have a job, references and guarantor, it is pretty much a no go .. Never mind at least i tried ..

So i am waiting for the child benefit to start up again so i can go to the council and find a private rented place .. Just start again from scratch here ..

Its OK though, i have been on one hell of a roller coaster ride and feel stronger and calmer in myself .. Dont get me wrong i am angry with hubby .. he gave me and the boys a taster of something better .. then took it away .. the boys are also angry, they want their dad (he isnt the bio father but was there for 6 years) .. i dont know .. but i shall move on on my own ..

Who knows what the future holds ..

Thank you for your concern .. I dont come on this site much now .. its like rubbing salt in the wound as you can imagine

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Good luck hun really mean that, we are always here and who knows maybe things may work out right eh xx big hugs :wub:

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It's so nice to hear your ok hun, only you can decide your future:thumbup:....you'll do the right thing for you and the kids here or in Canada.....I wish you well in whatever you do:wub:

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I can understand that, who knows though. You may get back out there in time.

Good luck to you whatever happens :thumbsup: