Are you okay Sas-Lou?
Jan 22nd 2009, 4:19 am
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Re: Are you okay Sas-Lou?
This is one of the saddest stories on here, and I so wish her well.
Jan 22nd 2009, 7:18 am
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Re: Are you okay Sas-Lou?
Hope you had a safe journey and the kids are okay
Look after yourself sas, i hope you are tucked up in bed now hun having had a huge cuddle from your mum xx
Wouldn't be surprised if it all goes wrong over the other side and he comes crawling back, The grass isn't greener, unfourtunatly they don't realise till its too late,
You are still very young and have your whole life ahead of you, make the most of it, never know may yet see you in Ottawa
Jan 22nd 2009, 7:25 am
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Re: Are you okay Sas-Lou?
Good Luck Sas-Lou for the future
Jan 22nd 2009, 7:29 am
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Re: Are you okay Sas-Lou?
Hugs sent Sas-Lou to you and your boys
This is all very sad and I wish you well for the future
This is all very sad and I wish you well for the future
Jan 22nd 2009, 9:44 am
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Re: Are you okay Sas-Lou?
damn am i sad or what .. i can't stay offline and have just brought 1 hours internet connection .. Yes i am in the airport now .. hehe
Well i feel sad/disappointed/devastated, i don't want to leave .. where is the snow storm, or maybe the plane just wont work, or maybe he will leave a message asking me to call him ..
i know i have to go home to heal and become a better person .. so although i know it is right .. still it feels sooooo wrong ..
but who know what the future holds .. We may both realise that we still want to be together .. or maybe we will realise we were meant to be apart
whatever happens .. I know it is happening for a reason ..
Well i feel sad/disappointed/devastated, i don't want to leave .. where is the snow storm, or maybe the plane just wont work, or maybe he will leave a message asking me to call him ..
i know i have to go home to heal and become a better person .. so although i know it is right .. still it feels sooooo wrong ..
but who know what the future holds .. We may both realise that we still want to be together .. or maybe we will realise we were meant to be apart
whatever happens .. I know it is happening for a reason ..
Jan 22nd 2009, 12:46 pm
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Re: Are you okay Sas-Lou?
hopefully you are feeling a bit better now you are home sas , hugs for you and the boys xxxx
Jan 22nd 2009, 1:03 pm
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Re: Are you okay Sas-Lou?
There are good ones out there Sas-Lou, you just haven't found him yet!
Take care, big hugs to you and your little ones,
Linda
Take care, big hugs to you and your little ones,
Linda
Jan 22nd 2009, 8:10 pm
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Re: Are you okay Sas-Lou?
i am sitting in my mums kitchen, absolutely shattered and i am thinking about my past and things that have made me the way i am .. I am also thinking of my husband .. I shouldnt of left .. This isnt my home and it didnt feel right coming back here .. I have taken a step back .. so we are going to let the dust settle for a few days and see where we are .. My husband is a good one .. We now realise there was a total breakdown in communication .. Hey who knows .. lol .. i may start a thread sometime in the future asking where is a great place to live in Canada with children other than Ottawa or he may come here .. you never know ..
Jan 22nd 2009, 8:12 pm
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Re: Are you okay Sas-Lou?
Bugger, why do I always join a thread late:curse:
Sas, if you do log back on then I wish you well in the future, take care of your boys and remember to laugh at the stoopid things they do, you'll soon heal and be back on top fighting life again. {{{O}}}
Ohh! You just replied while I was typing, wow what a card you are being dealt at the moment, just take your time
Sas, if you do log back on then I wish you well in the future, take care of your boys and remember to laugh at the stoopid things they do, you'll soon heal and be back on top fighting life again. {{{O}}}
Ohh! You just replied while I was typing, wow what a card you are being dealt at the moment, just take your time
Jan 22nd 2009, 8:13 pm
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Re: Are you okay Sas-Lou?
i am sitting in my mums kitchen, absolutely shattered and i am thinking about my past and things that have made me the way i am .. I am also thinking of my husband .. I shouldnt of left .. This isnt my home and it didnt feel right coming back here .. I have taken a step back .. so we are going to let the dust settle for a few days and see where we are .. My husband is a good one .. We now realise there was a total breakdown in communication .. Hey who knows .. lol .. i may start a thread sometime in the future asking where is a great place to live in Canada with children other than Ottawa or he may come here .. you never know ..
Jan 22nd 2009, 8:18 pm
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Re: Are you okay Sas-Lou?
i am sitting in my mums kitchen, absolutely shattered and i am thinking about my past and things that have made me the way i am .. I am also thinking of my husband .. I shouldnt of left .. This isnt my home and it didnt feel right coming back here .. I have taken a step back .. so we are going to let the dust settle for a few days and see where we are .. My husband is a good one .. We now realise there was a total breakdown in communication .. Hey who knows .. lol .. i may start a thread sometime in the future asking where is a great place to live in Canada with children other than Ottawa or he may come here .. you never know ..
Jan 22nd 2009, 8:46 pm
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Re: Are you okay Sas-Lou?
yeah, I'm having problems with it too. But she's jetlagged and evidently has a problem with self-esteem.
Jan 22nd 2009, 8:50 pm
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Jan 22nd 2009, 8:57 pm
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Re: Are you okay Sas-Lou?
give her time to settle and get her heard back together . . . .xxx
Jan 22nd 2009, 9:01 pm
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Re: Are you okay Sas-Lou?
I hope it is jet lag and lack of self esteem, Sas love you need to get yourself into some counselling and just take each day as it comes. I hope you find the inner peace you so deserve and find someone who truly makes you happy.