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Piff Poff

Apr 19th 2013 9:17 am

Re: weddings

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Originally Posted by Zoe Bell (Post 10668469)

That's exactly what I've observed too, everyone seems to accept it as normal
I'd tell them to take a running jump

I cannot believe what people spend on weddings . You could put a decent deposit on a house.

Ben and I did our wedding on the cheap, mostly because we were at uni and I couldn't in good conscience ask my parents to pay for a big do , they were both on factory workers wages.

I brought my outfit from the rag market in Birmingham , rings were from the jewelry quarter etc. but the biggest way I made savings was when ever I was told " people expect xxxxxxx" I said " let them provide it then"

Exactly, I feel a wedding is a private thing between the two people getting married, if they want xyz, they should pay for it.

bats	Apr 19th 2013 10:09 am

Re: weddings

I think I will go to Oink's cousin's do. Maybe his Nan will be there with a flask of whisky tucked in her purse.

We upset people at our wedding by not inviting anyone. At least it didn't cost them anything. The amounts spent on attending a wedding are awful, this one says the dress code is smart suits or party dress. Well who has those handy? There should be a free bar, I think the grandparents will see to that. No kids allowed is a bit much, I don't have any ankle biters
myself but surely a wedding is about family and all that?

Fortunately the do is back home so I don't have to go.

Auld Yin

Apr 19th 2013 12:34 pm

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I'm greatly amused by those couples who have lived together for 5,6,7 years and have 1,2 children. Now it's time for her to don a white dress, he a tux and have a full blown religious wedding.
Absolutely stupid and height of hypocrisy.

Zoe Bell

Apr 19th 2013 1:24 pm

Re: weddings

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Originally Posted by Auld Yin (Post 10668782)

And expect gifts too

bats	Apr 20th 2013 1:23 am

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Originally Posted by Auld Yin (Post 10668782)

I don't think that's stupid necessarily. It's the bride and groom's expectations of guests that bothers me. The posh frock, the hotel, the travelling, the expensive gift, or 'just give us money cos we want a fancy honeymoon and don't give a thought to you having to max out your credit card after all you are getting a disco and a portion of chicken a la king'.

mandymoochops

Apr 20th 2013 2:12 am

Re: weddings

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Originally Posted by bats (Post 10668592)

:rofl: hahaha same as us. As you know we ran off to Vegas! It was a quick "come with us or don't" affair probably sent on FB :rofl:

Piff Poff

Apr 20th 2013 2:53 am

Re: weddings

Yeah, ours was on a beach in Florida, your welcome to join us if you want type thing, no party, no pressies.

Siouxie

Apr 20th 2013 9:22 am

Re: weddings

Mine was a wedding place in Niagara Falls with our respective children, dinner and a night in the Falls with the kids then 2 days later a kick ass party for all our friends and relatives to celebrate with us, complete with the band that played the night we met.. no gifts allowed and come as you are. Buffet and booze supplied by us, dance floor for partying. Fun time at no cost to anyone but ourselves!

:)

JonboyE

Apr 20th 2013 9:46 am

Re: weddings

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Originally Posted by mandymoochops (Post 10669441)

... we ran off to Vegas!

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Originally Posted by Piff Poff (Post 10669477)

... ours was on a beach in Florida

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Originally Posted by siouxie (Post 10669949)

Mine was a wedding place in Niagara Falls

Ours was at Wandsworth Town Hall.

orly	Apr 20th 2013 3:39 pm

Re: weddings

Managed to do our entire wedding for under $15k for 90+ guests. Put a fair whack of the cash up for it myself but we were fortunate to get some help too.

Never understood people who have mega expensive weddings. Those doing them while using someone elses cheque book need a good kick in the mouth.

MillieF

Apr 21st 2013 2:16 am

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Originally Posted by JonboyE (Post 10669981)

Ours was at Wandsworth Town Hall.

Ours was at St. Helier registry office, handily situated by an OAP centre so we could rustle up a couple of witnesses. A very pleasant day.

I'm with Bats and feel we should get a BE coach party organised to gate crash Oink's cousins nuptials....sounds like a good do!

dbd33

Apr 21st 2013 1:28 pm

Re: weddings

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Originally Posted by orly (Post 10670214)

Never understood people who have mega expensive weddings. Those doing them while using someone elses cheque book need a good kick in the mouth.

Well, to be fair, the Canadian workplace is all about networking; a wedding is an opportunity to advance familiarity with people of influence in one's line of work. That's not going to work well if the wedding doesn't offer the attendees a memorable experience. I can see why the dedicated parent of someone in a industry where visibility is important would put up serious money.

Souvy

Apr 22nd 2013 1:06 am

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When Souvette and I got married, it was the two of us, the notary and a couple of his secretaries as witnesses.

We got home and then told our mothers what we had done. Went down like a sack of lead shit in a balloon, with some depleted uranium bricks to give it extra ballast.

cheeky_monkey

Apr 22nd 2013 1:40 am

Re: weddings

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Originally Posted by JonboyE (Post 10669981)

Ours was at Wandsworth Town Hall.

i got married in Gretna Green:thumbup:

Oink	Apr 22nd 2013 5:11 am

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