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Adrian Harison Feb 23rd 2014 11:54 am

So glad I made the move
 
I have been in Calgary for about 18 months now and I am now coming to the end of my first trip back to the UK.. I I'm so glad I never gave up on my dream of moving to Canada and I'm so glad i made that move in the first place... after spending the last two week back here in the uk I cannot wait to get back to Calgary.. just wounding how many of you thought the same after coming back to your old homes for the first time?

R I C H Feb 23rd 2014 11:57 am

Re: So glad I made the move
 
Have never made the trip back. Nine years since I left.

Adrian Harison Feb 23rd 2014 11:59 am

Re: So glad I made the move
 
Nine years!

mandymoochops Feb 23rd 2014 12:04 pm

Re: So glad I made the move
 
As soon as I got off the plane on my first trip back I wanted to get right back on it.

Howefamily Feb 23rd 2014 12:04 pm

Re: So glad I made the move
 
I went back last week after almost three years. It was sad to see it so storm battered and LHR T3 car park looked like a German car showroom to me, but I liked it there which was a surprise to me, I appreciated it for the first time although I am still glad to live here.

Oink Feb 23rd 2014 12:09 pm

Re: So glad I made the move
 
Made me appreciate how nice life in the UK was and how rubbish and vulgar life is in north America. But I'd made my Faustian bargain and there was no going back for longer than few months at a time.

Atlantic Xpat Feb 23rd 2014 12:10 pm

Re: So glad I made the move
 
I've been here 9 years and have traveled back at least once a year most years. Current job means I go to UK 2-3 times a year. I look forward to returning back to family & fresh air here on The Rock but honestly, I don't see anything in the UK that would prevent me from living back there again if circumstances called for it. The "I'd never set foot in the UK again" thing sometimes quoted here has never gelled with me. To each their own and all that...

Adrian Harison Feb 23rd 2014 12:15 pm

Re: So glad I made the move
 

Originally Posted by Atlantic Xpat (Post 11144820)
The "I'd never set foot in the UK again" thing sometimes quoted here has never gelled with me. To each their own and all that...

I can see that, never say never.. just dont see me moving back here with the way things are

Mr Bean Feb 23rd 2014 1:04 pm

Re: So glad I made the move
 
We landed Feb 1st 2007. I have no desire to visit, let alone move back. Been back a few times for family reasons etc. Each time I couldn't wait to get back HOME.

stu1972hamilton Feb 23rd 2014 1:19 pm

Re: So glad I made the move
 
been here 4 yrs dont think ye ever get back home out your brain lol.

dbd33 Feb 23rd 2014 1:35 pm

Re: So glad I made the move
 
I've been in Canada long enough to have had a daughter born here, grow up and emigrate, to London, from whence I came. In London she enjoys a life Canada doesn't offer, she lives by the river, two stops on the DLR from the city airport; that means lots of cheap trips, lots of weekends in culturally different places. When I'm home we meet, in Camden or in the West End and go to the pub and for curry. And I wish I could live there.

Novocastrian Feb 23rd 2014 1:42 pm

Re: So glad I made the move
 
Is there a point to this thread?

dbd33 Feb 23rd 2014 1:46 pm

Re: So glad I made the move
 

Originally Posted by Novocastrian (Post 11144863)
Is there a point to this thread?

The OP feels the need to share a desire to be in Calgary. One reads much the same of Philadelphia.

Novocastrian Feb 23rd 2014 1:48 pm

Re: So glad I made the move
 

Originally Posted by dbd33 (Post 11144867)
The OP feels the need to share a desire to be in Calgary. One reads much the same of Philadelphia.

Ah, I see. I would like to share my desire to be anywhere but Canada.

HTH.

dbd33 Feb 23rd 2014 1:50 pm

Re: So glad I made the move
 

Originally Posted by Novocastrian (Post 11144869)
Ah, I see. I would like to share my desire to be anywhere but Canada.

HTH.

Right now I'd rather like to be on Frenchman Street.

dbd33 Feb 23rd 2014 1:52 pm

Re: So glad I made the move
 
Damn, I like that idea, I'll fetch my bike and start a-peddlin'.

Novocastrian Feb 23rd 2014 1:57 pm

Re: So glad I made the move
 

Originally Posted by dbd33 (Post 11144877)
Damn, I like that idea, I'll fetch my bike and start a-peddlin'.

That's all a bit Norman Tebbit don't you think. <I've probably got that wrong> but the very idea that someone would fall in love with Calgary of all places is simply weird.

Now Mississauga I could understand.

Shard Feb 23rd 2014 1:59 pm

Re: So glad I made the move
 

Originally Posted by R I C H (Post 11144808)
Have never made the trip back. Nine years since I left.

Is there a reason for that?

Novocastrian Feb 23rd 2014 2:00 pm

Re: So glad I made the move
 

Originally Posted by Shard (Post 11144886)
Is there a reason for that?

Perhaps he's been busy?

Shard Feb 23rd 2014 2:03 pm

Re: So glad I made the move
 

Originally Posted by Novocastrian (Post 11144890)
Perhaps he's been busy?

Perhaps his gladness has not yet come to pass.

R I C H Feb 23rd 2014 3:05 pm

Re: So glad I made the move
 

Originally Posted by Shard (Post 11144886)
Is there a reason for that?

Any of your business? ;)

Just no reason or need to go.

Adrian Harison Feb 23rd 2014 9:19 pm

Re: So glad I made the move
 

Originally Posted by Novocastrian (Post 11144882)
but the very idea that someone would fall in love with Calgary of all places is simply weird.

Now Mississauga I could understand.

never said I had fallen in love with Calgary, just be glad to get back there..to be honest I'm moving to BC next year

MikeUK Feb 23rd 2014 11:50 pm

Re: So glad I made the move
 
Well, I haven’t looked back, after 10yrs and then stepping out of Canada and on to the UK..

Sitting here working from home, looking out over a garden with flowers just starting to bloom, with a high of 10 today

There is no way I’ll go back to Canada, I never want to commute under those winter conditions ever again…. Couldn’t pay me enough……
Also knowing I don’t have to give any concern to the use of DEET in the summer anymore is a plus

And so far from my limited perspective, the UK education system we are currently getting is superior in the case of my two boys, I’ve seen significant measurable improvement in under 5weeks, didn’t realize how poor the school they were in Canada was.

I liked Canada, but I’m pretty sure now that in my current place in life, the UK and Europe suits me much better….

Dashie Feb 24th 2014 2:13 am

Re: So glad I made the move
 
Been here 9 years, first half of that I couldn't wait to get back on the plane to Canada, since then, I have dreaded getting back on the plane to Canada. Regardless of where I had flown to.

Oink Feb 24th 2014 2:21 am

Re: So glad I made the move
 

Originally Posted by MikeUK (Post 11145378)
Well, I haven’t looked back, after 10yrs and then stepping out of Canada and on to the UK..

Sitting here working from home, looking out over a garden with flowers just starting to bloom, with a high of 10 today

There is no way I’ll go back to Canada, I never want to commute under those winter conditions ever again…. Couldn’t pay me enough……
Also knowing I don’t have to give any concern to the use of DEET in the summer anymore is a plus

And so far from my limited perspective, the UK education system we are currently getting is superior in the case of my two boys, I’ve seen significant measurable improvement in under 5weeks, didn’t realize how poor the school they were in Canada was.

I liked Canada, but I’m pretty sure now that in my current place in life, the UK and Europe suits me much better….


People's own needs often allows them to justify their children being subjected to inferior education. But you see that with a lot of other things as well. :(

iaink Feb 24th 2014 2:26 am

Re: So glad I made the move
 

Originally Posted by Adrian Harison (Post 11144805)
I have been in Calgary for about 18 months now and I am now coming to the end of my first trip back to the UK.. I I'm so glad I never gave up on my dream of moving to Canada and I'm so glad i made that move in the first place... after spending the last two week back here in the uk I cannot wait to get back to Calgary.. just wounding how many of you thought the same after coming back to your old homes for the first time?

Count me in. 15 years and counting now, still happy here.

Shard Feb 24th 2014 2:52 am

Re: So glad I made the move
 

Originally Posted by Dashie (Post 11145579)
Been here 9 years, first half of that I couldn't wait to get back on the plane to Canada, since then, I have dreaded getting back on the plane to Canada. Regardless of where I had flown to.

What changed at year 5?

JamesM Feb 24th 2014 2:58 am

Re: So glad I made the move
 
The vision was to be a multimillionaire on a private island in the Caribbean now with scantily clad women bringing me cocktails whilst I wrote my significant memoirs for the world. My aspirations were high.

In the interim I have to settle for wings at Hooters on a Monday night. There is only one Hooters in the UK.....

colchar Feb 24th 2014 3:12 am

Re: So glad I made the move
 

Originally Posted by Oink (Post 11144819)
Made me appreciate how nice life in the UK was and how rubbish and vulgar life is in north America.


:hysterical:

Dashie Feb 24th 2014 3:14 am

Re: So glad I made the move
 

Originally Posted by Shard (Post 11145622)
What changed at year 5?

Not entirely sure to be honest. We had our first child and our outlook on things changed I suppose.

Paul_Shepherd Feb 24th 2014 4:21 am

Re: So glad I made the move
 

Originally Posted by Novocastrian (Post 11144869)
Ah, I see. I would like to share my desire to be anywhere but Canada.

HTH.

I never understood why anyone would stay in a place where they are unhappy? If you moved to Canada; surely you could move back to the UK again?

Shard Feb 24th 2014 4:26 am

Re: So glad I made the move
 

Originally Posted by Dashie (Post 11145651)
Not entirely sure to be honest. We had our first child and our outlook on things changed I suppose.

Uh-huh. Family life is a sea change.

montreal mike Feb 24th 2014 4:38 am

Re: So glad I made the move
 

Originally Posted by Paul_Shepherd (Post 11145779)
I never understood why anyone would stay in a place where they are unhappy? If you moved to Canada; surely you could move back to the UK again?

not that simple

I tried 14 years ago

it was not to be

Paul_Shepherd Feb 24th 2014 4:42 am

Re: So glad I made the move
 

Originally Posted by montreal mike (Post 11145813)
not that simple

I tried 14 years ago

it was not to be

Im sorry to hear that, must be terrible living somewhere you really don't want to be.

Maybe its because I'm presently single and have no kids, so I have not ties in either country, so it would be simple for me to move back if I wanted to. I'm happy here though.

jossie Feb 24th 2014 4:54 am

Re: So glad I made the move
 

Originally Posted by Adrian Harison (Post 11144805)
I have been in Calgary for about 18 months now and I am now coming to the end of my first trip back to the UK.. I I'm so glad I never gave up on my dream of moving to Canada and I'm so glad i made that move in the first place... after spending the last two week back here in the uk I cannot wait to get back to Calgary.. just wounding how many of you thought the same after coming back to your old homes for the first time?

This is year 7 for us and we have had no home sickness and never felt any desire to return to the UK even for a visit. The lifestyle here is amazing. Can't ever imagine wanting to return to the UK.

montreal mike Feb 24th 2014 5:07 am

Re: So glad I made the move
 

Originally Posted by Paul_Shepherd (Post 11145821)
Im sorry to hear that, must be terrible living somewhere you really don't want to be.

to clarify

i have been here since 1962

quite satisfied

in 2000 we wanted to see what it would be like to move back since none of us are getting any younger

I stayed with my sister so it did not cost me that much

but finding work was not to be, plus the high cost of living were two deciding factors in staying put

it was an interesting six months though

orly Feb 24th 2014 5:29 am

Re: So glad I made the move
 

Originally Posted by Paul_Shepherd (Post 11145779)
I never understood why anyone would stay in a place where they are unhappy? If you moved to Canada; surely you could move back to the UK again?

A few of our distinguished posters just like getting the arm in when there is any hint of a "positive Canada" thread.

It's like Steptoe and son sometimes

Dashie Feb 24th 2014 5:43 am

Re: So glad I made the move
 

Originally Posted by orly (Post 11145910)
A few of our distinguished posters just like getting the arm in when there is any hint of a "positive Canada" thread.

It's like Steptoe and son sometimes

And equally, some are genuinely unhappy here, some leave, some can't for many reasons, some are planning to go, and some just like to moan. Many are very happy. Different strokes for different folks and all that :)

rivingtonpike Feb 24th 2014 5:52 am

Re: So glad I made the move
 
I enjoy living in Canada. Mind you, on the whole I enjoyed living in London. I think on the whole I enjoy life. At the moment - and for the foreeable - I'm enjoying it in Canada!

ExKiwilass Feb 24th 2014 5:52 am

Re: So glad I made the move
 

Originally Posted by Adrian Harison (Post 11144805)
I have been in Calgary for about 18 months now and I am now coming to the end of my first trip back to the UK.. I I'm so glad I never gave up on my dream of moving to Canada and I'm so glad i made that move in the first place... after spending the last two week back here in the uk I cannot wait to get back to Calgary.. just wounding how many of you thought the same after coming back to your old homes for the first time?

me. Canada is my home now, warts & all.


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