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Butch Cassidy Sep 13th 2008 9:21 am

Re: Rats and a Sinking Ship
 
:o:(:eek:

Originally Posted by Morwenna (Post 6780810)
Do so!! :frown: :p


Alberta_Rose Sep 13th 2008 9:27 am

Re: Rats and a Sinking Ship
 

Originally Posted by Butch Cassidy (Post 6780818)
:o:(:eek:

Silly! :rofl:

DaveLovesDee Sep 13th 2008 9:33 am

Re: Rats and a Sinking Ship
 

Originally Posted by Coffeepot (Post 6780429)
Oh ok im 21

You only look 18! How do you do it?


Originally Posted by mandymoochops (Post 6780633)
Lol do you think that may be the way to go - disclaimers under every post to avoid offence!

I'm sure someone on here had a similar signature, along the lines of 'This isn't professional advice." Can't remember who, or if it was even Expats I'm thinking of.

mandymoochops Sep 13th 2008 9:35 am

Re: Rats and a Sinking Ship
 

Originally Posted by CaptainHook (Post 6780839)
You only look 18! How do you do it?



I'm sure someone on here had a similar signature, along the lines of 'This isn't professional advice." Can't remember who, or if it was even Expats I'm thinking of.

Yes that is someone on here - and people do pick up on signatures so you could be onto something! :thumbsup:

Coffeepot Sep 13th 2008 9:37 am

Re: Rats and a Sinking Ship
 

Originally Posted by CaptainHook (Post 6780839)
You only look 18! How do you do it?

Why thank you kind sir ;)



I'm sure someone on here had a similar signature, along the lines of 'This isn't professional advice." Can't remember who, or if it was even Expats I'm thinking of.

I think your right, i remember that ?

Butch Cassidy Sep 13th 2008 9:41 am

Re: Rats and a Sinking Ship
 

Originally Posted by Coffeepot (Post 6780853)
I think your right, i remember that ?

At your age I'm shocked you can even remember your own name:p

Coffeepot Sep 13th 2008 9:48 am

Re: Rats and a Sinking Ship
 

Originally Posted by Butch Cassidy (Post 6780869)
At your age I'm shocked you can even remember your own name:p


Don't push your luck sunshine :p

Butch Cassidy Sep 13th 2008 9:50 am

Re: Rats and a Sinking Ship
 

Originally Posted by Coffeepot (Post 6780882)
Don't push your luck sunshine :p

Sorry Granny,

Should I just push your bathchair then??

:sneaky:

Coffeepot Sep 13th 2008 9:53 am

Re: Rats and a Sinking Ship
 

Originally Posted by Butch Cassidy (Post 6780888)
Sorry Granny,

Should I just push your bathchair then??

:sneaky:

:p

sans Sep 13th 2008 10:53 am

Re: Rats and a Sinking Ship
 

Originally Posted by Morwenna (Post 6780796)
It's odd. I was thinking along the lines of this thread while I was out tidying the garden this morning.

I'm all for free speech and all that, but I think some people post on here things that they wouldn't think of saying to somebody face to face. I know I do too! - hopefully not in a nasty way, but because it's easy to be brave in the relative anonymity, and easy to plan what you are going to say, when you have the chance to write it down and review it.

Of course people are entitled to an opinion, but I really feel that each of us should realise that there are real people sitting at their keyboards. Normally common decency would prevent most people from deliberately being hurtful when they can see the recipients' reaction.

Those people on here who would really say exactly what they are thinking without regard to another's beliefs, opinions or feelings in the presence of those they are talking about are people I would rather not know. In real life I would not choose their company, and in virtual life I think I feel the same way.

There are many, the majority on here probably, who are kind and sensitive and inclined to be helpful, and those I respect. There are some who just like to clown around and make a noise. I can tolerate those and sometimes find them amusing, whether they meant to be or not. There are others who think a lot of themselves and look down on the rest of us. That's OK, I guess. One can ignore them to an extent, but when they are deliberately hurtful just because they can be, it seems to me like cowardly bullying.

There are times when I think there is too much of the latter on here, and then I withdraw for a bit. There's no point in trying to call people like that out on their behaviour ... that is just grist to their mill.

What am I trying to say? .... nothing much really, just musing. Back to the real world, I guess.

:) Mo you have just said exactly what i wanted to say, but without the spelling mistakes...................God Bless Ya:thumbsup:

fledermaus Sep 14th 2008 12:39 am

Re: Rats and a Sinking Ship
 

Originally Posted by sans (Post 6781025)
:) Mo you have just said exactly what i wanted to say, but without the spelling mistakes...................God Bless Ya:thumbsup:

Ah good, back on track. I thought another thread was going to degenerate into feeble "oo er missus" comments :frown:

D15NEY Sep 14th 2008 1:11 am

Re: Rats and a Sinking Ship
 
Its funny how now that Sas has left us that it seems ok for others to come out of the woodwork and join in with the 'Saskia Bashing'!

I was never her bezzie or anything but if people didn't like her why didn't they respond in such a way when she was here to defend herself :confused:



Also amazes me how certain people can change.......those few people that seemed to be her 'cyber friends' have now turned into the 'cyber school bullies'. :frown:

purple80 Sep 14th 2008 2:54 am

Re: Rats and a Sinking Ship
 

Originally Posted by Morwenna (Post 6780796)
It's odd. I was thinking along the lines of this thread while I was out tidying the garden this morning.

I'm all for free speech and all that, but I think some people post on here things that they wouldn't think of saying to somebody face to face. I know I do too! - hopefully not in a nasty way, but because it's easy to be brave in the relative anonymity, and easy to plan what you are going to say, when you have the chance to write it down and review it.

Of course people are entitled to an opinion, but I really feel that each of us should realise that there are real people sitting at their keyboards. Normally common decency would prevent most people from deliberately being hurtful when they can see the recipients' reaction.

Those people on here who would really say exactly what they are thinking without regard to another's beliefs, opinions or feelings in the presence of those they are talking about are people I would rather not know. In real life I would not choose their company, and in virtual life I think I feel the same way.

There are many, the majority on here probably, who are kind and sensitive and inclined to be helpful, and those I respect. There are some who just like to clown around and make a noise. I can tolerate those and sometimes find them amusing, whether they meant to be or not. There are others who think a lot of themselves and look down on the rest of us. That's OK, I guess. One can ignore them to an extent, but when they are deliberately hurtful just because they can be, it seems to me like cowardly bullying.

There are times when I think there is too much of the latter on here, and then I withdraw for a bit. There's no point in trying to call people like that out on their behaviour ... that is just grist to their mill.

What am I trying to say? .... nothing much really, just musing. Back to the real world, I guess.

I think you said a lot Morwenna...
All true, maybe what people should start to pretend is that they are in a room having a conversation, the 'virtual world' appears to give everyone bravado and rudeness in equal measures.

So maybe before people answer with a hasty/nasty comment they should think about whether or not they would say that to a person's face. I think in most cases people they would not, as most people would be too polite and not overstep certain social boundaries.

The world is full of different people, that is what makes it an interesting place.

Charlie

fuschiagirl Sep 14th 2008 3:43 am

Re: Rats and a Sinking Ship
 

Originally Posted by Morwenna (Post 6780796)
It's odd. I was thinking along the lines of this thread while I was out tidying the garden this morning.

I'm all for free speech and all that, but I think some people post on here things that they wouldn't think of saying to somebody face to face. I know I do too! - hopefully not in a nasty way, but because it's easy to be brave in the relative anonymity, and easy to plan what you are going to say, when you have the chance to write it down and review it.

Of course people are entitled to an opinion, but I really feel that each of us should realise that there are real people sitting at their keyboards. Normally common decency would prevent most people from deliberately being hurtful when they can see the recipients' reaction.

Those people on here who would really say exactly what they are thinking without regard to another's beliefs, opinions or feelings in the presence of those they are talking about are people I would rather not know. In real life I would not choose their company, and in virtual life I think I feel the same way.

There are many, the majority on here probably, who are kind and sensitive and inclined to be helpful, and those I respect. There are some who just like to clown around and make a noise. I can tolerate those and sometimes find them amusing, whether they meant to be or not. There are others who think a lot of themselves and look down on the rest of us. That's OK, I guess. One can ignore them to an extent, but when they are deliberately hurtful just because they can be, it seems to me like cowardly bullying.

There are times when I think there is too much of the latter on here, and then I withdraw for a bit. There's no point in trying to call people like that out on their behaviour ... that is just grist to their mill.

What am I trying to say? .... nothing much really, just musing. Back to the real world, I guess.

Well said:thumbup:

Rich_007 Sep 14th 2008 3:59 am

Re: Rats and a Sinking Ship
 

Originally Posted by purple80 (Post 6782533)
I think you said a lot Morwenna...
All true, maybe what people should start to pretend is that they are in a room having a conversation, the 'virtual world' appears to give everyone bravado and rudeness in equal measures.

So maybe before people answer with a hasty/nasty comment they should think about whether or not they would say that to a person's face. I think in most cases people they would not, as most people would be too polite and not overstep certain social boundaries.

The world is full of different people, that is what makes it an interesting place.

Charlie

Likewise people should also grow a pair of balls and be prepared to actually listen to the other side of the conversation instead of getting all moody and upset. Sorry to ruin the "fluffy pink poodle comforter" version of life but sometimes a good dose of reality is just not present in peoples heads.

R


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