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mandymoochops Jul 13th 2010 10:51 am

Private messaging...................
 
I will start off by saying I am not having a go - what I outline below, I do as well but ........................

Why is it that if you send someone a pm, or reply to a pm, people then put it down on an open forum.

The recipients know that they have got a pm - it shows up on your screen as soon as it comes ffs - along with the reply. There really is no need for the "sent you a pm" - "replied to pm" business.

I think we do it to prove to the rest of the forum that are having conversations not on the board lol. How self absorbed is that :rofl:

dbd33 Jul 13th 2010 10:53 am

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Have summarised my view in a facebook post.

Danny B Jul 13th 2010 10:56 am

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Originally Posted by mandymoochops (Post 8699752)
I will start off by saying I am not having a go - what I outline below, I do as well but ........................

Why is it that if you send someone a pm, or reply to a pm, people then put it down on an open forum.

The recipients know that they have got a pm - it shows up on your screen as soon as it comes ffs - along with the reply. There really is no need for the "sent you a pm" - "replied to pm" business.

I think we do it to prove to the rest of the forum that are having conversations not on the board lol. How self absorbed is that :rofl:

Why didn't you tweet this?

kamikaze Jul 13th 2010 10:57 am

Re: Private messaging...................
 

Originally Posted by mandymoochops (Post 8699752)
I will start off by saying I am not having a go - what I outline below, I do as well but ........................

Why is it that if you send someone a pm, or reply to a pm, people then put it down on an open forum.

The recipients know that they have got a pm - it shows up on your screen as soon as it comes ffs - along with the reply. There really is no need for the "sent you a pm" - "replied to pm" business.

I think we do it to prove to the rest of the forum that are having conversations not on the board lol. How self absorbed is that :rofl:

So what is it you are saying ? You dont want people to do it ? didnt you say you do it ?

mandymoochops Jul 13th 2010 10:58 am

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Originally Posted by Danny B (Post 8699767)
Why didn't you tweet this?

It's probably the only thing I don't do

R I C H Jul 13th 2010 10:59 am

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It's a terrible thing when you get a PM from someone that admits that they 'have issues'. I mean, how do you deal with that, eh Moo? ;)

mandymoochops Jul 13th 2010 10:59 am

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Originally Posted by kamikaze (Post 8699770)
So what is it you are saying ? You dont want people to do it ? didnt you say you do it ?

Nope just think it's funny

Alan2005 Jul 13th 2010 10:59 am

Re: Private messaging...................
 

Originally Posted by mandymoochops (Post 8699752)
I will start off by saying I am not having a go - what I outline below, I do as well but ........................

Why is it that if you send someone a pm, or reply to a pm, people then put it down on an open forum.

The recipients know that they have got a pm - it shows up on your screen as soon as it comes ffs - along with the reply. There really is no need for the "sent you a pm" - "replied to pm" business.

I think we do it to prove to the rest of the forum that are having conversations not on the board lol. How self absorbed is that :rofl:

Karma sent.

mandymoochops Jul 13th 2010 11:06 am

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Originally Posted by R I C H (Post 8699775)
It's a terrible thing when you get a PM from someone that admits that they 'have issues'. I mean, how do you deal with that, eh Moo? ;)

That has to be very disconcerting. Maybe you should start up as an agony aunt :confused: ;)

mandymoochops Jul 13th 2010 11:08 am

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Originally Posted by Alan2005 (Post 8699778)
Karma sent.

See now thats another one (and I know you kow it is thats why you sent it to hilite the point) but the recipients know they have the Karma (unless they don't know where to look). So it's just an under the table way of saying I agree with you but am not going to put it into words.

That was stating the obvious wasn't it :(

R I C H Jul 13th 2010 11:08 am

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Originally Posted by mandymoochops (Post 8699793)
That has to be very disconcerting. Maybe you should start up as an agony aunt :confused: ;)

I've dealt with it via PM, in a discreet and sensitive fashion. :)

Aviator Jul 13th 2010 11:45 am

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I misread the title, thought you were starting a new business :)

JonboyE Jul 13th 2010 11:49 am

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Can mods read PMs?

mandymoochops Jul 13th 2010 11:52 am

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Originally Posted by The Aviator (Post 8699854)
I misread the title, thought you were starting a new business :)

With these calloused hands??? You're having a laugh :lol:

Nope I don't think mods can read pm's (only their own!) - wouldn't it break some sort of privacy code / law or whatever?

Alan2005 Jul 13th 2010 11:53 am

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Originally Posted by JonboyE (Post 8699857)
Can mods read PMs?

I would hope not. Somebody on the BE staff will be able to though as it's just data in a database somewhere.


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