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FlirtyKnickers Aug 9th 2009 6:21 am

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Originally Posted by Alan2005 (Post 7827261)
I've got my spoon

I'm sure you never leave home without it!:p

dingbat Aug 9th 2009 6:23 am

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Originally Posted by fledermaus (Post 7827253)
I don't visit or comment here as much as I used to. Not because of the mods but because in my opinion the content is mainly inane juvenile innuendo full of endless threads about nothing.

There's very little wit about the place, it's sunk to the lowest common denominator.

Blaming the mods for the state of the place is like blaming the police for the crime wave.

Have to agree. I miss the biting intellect and sometimes heated debates over various issues. If I wanted a bitchy coffee morning, I 'd head to Starbucks and find the hockey Mum's.

FlirtyKnickers Aug 9th 2009 6:26 am

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Originally Posted by dingbat (Post 7827269)
Have to agree. I miss the biting intellect and sometimes heated debates over various issues. If I wanted a bitchy coffee morning, I 'd head to Starbucks and find the hockey Mum's.

To be honest, your comment seems about the bitchiest one yet on this thread...well done, what times kick off?:sneaky:

fledermaus Aug 9th 2009 6:28 am

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Originally Posted by dingbat (Post 7827269)
Have to agree. I miss the biting intellect and sometimes heated debates over various issues. If I wanted a bitchy coffee morning, I 'd head to Starbucks and find the hockey Mum's.

AKA the dull housewives

micknev Aug 9th 2009 6:29 am

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new folk use this site for info,i have posted on here couple of times,one was written out by,do u call them a mod???for using the word t----r!!!!!!!!!!how sad,so whats the point in using it?also if you knock in any way the promised/holy land,that is Canada,people get the hump,not to worry, sad though

FlirtyKnickers Aug 9th 2009 6:29 am

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I have a feeling we've been here before......oh how I miss the Susan Thread;)

dingbat Aug 9th 2009 6:33 am

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Originally Posted by FlirtyKnickers (Post 7827273)
To be honest, your comment seems about the bitchiest one yet on this thread...well done, what times kick off?:sneaky:

<sigh>. I rest my case. Enjoy what's left of the forum. Keep in touch those of you who have my email.

FlirtyKnickers Aug 9th 2009 6:36 am

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And calm is restored.......:rolleyes:

fledermaus Aug 9th 2009 6:36 am

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Originally Posted by FlirtyKnickers (Post 7827283)
I have a feeling we've been here before......oh how I miss the Susan Thread;)

Exactly, thats when the rot set in. The lowest common denominator.

FlirtyKnickers Aug 9th 2009 6:43 am

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Originally Posted by fledermaus (Post 7827295)
Exactly, thats when the rot set in. The lowest common denominator.

Why do you say that? I mean, I don't think anyone who ever posted on that forum was a dull housewife ...or even a housewife? And to be honest if one of your friends on here was a housewife then your comment would be quite insulting. Why do you think just because you had no interest in it that it must be dull?:confused:

I can't be arsed to trawl thought endless threads about stuff i've no interest in or care about, but i don't go as far as to say something like that!

Alan2005 Aug 9th 2009 7:11 am

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Originally Posted by Alan2005 (Post 7827121)
You think so? I suspect it will degenerate further.


Originally Posted by FlirtyKnickers (Post 7827125)
And why do you think that?

I did warn you...

(And I hope dingbat doesn't really leave - I like her wry posting style)

linz3112 Aug 9th 2009 7:13 am

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This may be a really dumb question, bearing in mind that i read Butch's last thread but has he gone?? Gutted if he has - he actually did give helpful info and along with some others told it like it was without sugar coating everything!!
I need to check but im sure Steve P posted a couple of days ago too so thats all good!!
:thumbsup:

FlirtyKnickers Aug 9th 2009 7:22 am

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Originally Posted by Alan2005 (Post 7827320)
I did warn you...

(And I hope dingbat doesn't really leave - I like her wry posting style)

I can't say I know what kind of style she has or had to be honest:confused:

I clearly think enough people have left this forum already...it's not a happy place at all now....:(

christmasoompa Aug 9th 2009 7:26 am

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Originally Posted by FlirtyKnickers (Post 7827022)
Can you just please let me know why it's ok for you to call BS a brat? Just because he asked for a vulgar comment to be removed you assume he's some sort of child that needs to be talk to in this manner.:confused:

No, that's not why I compared him to a brat. It's because he's constantly complaining about us not responding to his every whim instantly.

Sue may have taken 10 mins to delete the vulgarity he complained about, but is that any reason to whinge?!? Surely the woman is allowed to answer the phone or similar. We cannot be online all the time and do the best we can, but sometimes it does take a while for us to respond to reported posts.

He's complained about me not moving threads instantly before too, and according to his 'friends', has been whinging on another website about us not acting instantly on his reports too and accusing us of 'favouritism'.

I'm sorry but it reminds me of my daughter when she's in a strop - throwing toys out of the pram because instant attention isn't given, hence the brat comment!

I was very miffed on Sue's behalf, because once again he seems to be expecting us to jump as soon as he clicks his fingers.

But thank you for asking nicely FK, happy to explain. :)

Stonedog Aug 9th 2009 7:26 am

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Originally Posted by FlirtyKnickers (Post 7827341)
I clearly think enough people have left this forum already...it's not a happy place at all now....:(


Aww, don't like to see sad faces, even if you don't ever miss me :p

I'd send you a tree to cheer you up but I'm all out of gifts for today :eek:

Alan2005 Aug 9th 2009 7:27 am

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Originally Posted by FlirtyKnickers (Post 7827341)
I can't say I know what kind of style she has or had to be honest:confused:

I clearly think enough people have left this forum already...it's not a happy place at all now....:(

It's really not that bad. Take a look at some of threads on the main canada page as there are some good debates going on up there (imo anyway). I reckon you are just looking with 18k+ post jaded boredom.

Brownstar Aug 9th 2009 7:30 am

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Right so lets clarify for everone..............

I moaned because a post by me was deleted because 'it was going off topic' 10-15 before the post I reported was edited, and NOT because it the reported post was not deleted immediately......get your facts right!

Perhaps you need to re read the rules and post within them..........YOU ARE A MODERATOR.

You had no need to post what you did in this thread, it was covered provately by Sue and I last night.................you have stirred the pot and if you read the entire thread you would understand the resentment that people are feeling towards to at the moment. Snide comments, derogatory comments to people in PM's are not what a moderator should be doing. Perhaps I should compare you to something derogatory?



Originally Posted by christmasoompa (Post 7827352)
No, that's not why I compared him to a brat. It's because he's constantly complaining about us not responding to his every whim instantly.

Sue may have taken 10 mins to delete the vulgarity he complained about, but is that any reason to whinge?!? Surely the woman is allowed to answer the phone or similar. We cannot be online all the time and do the best we can, but sometimes it does take a while for us to respond to reported posts.

He's complained about me not moving threads instantly before too, and according to his 'friends', has been whinging on another website about us not acting instantly on his reports too and accusing us of 'favouritism'.

I'm sorry but it reminds me of my daughter when she's in a strop - throwing toys out of the pram because instant attention isn't given, hence the brat comment!

I was very miffed on Sue's behalf, because once again he seems to be expecting us to jump as soon as he clicks his fingers.

But thank you for asking nicely FK, happy to explain. :)


FlirtyKnickers Aug 9th 2009 7:31 am

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Originally Posted by Stonedog (Post 7827353)
Aww, don't like to see sad faces, even if you don't ever miss me :p

I'd send you a tree to cheer you up but I'm all out of gifts for today :eek:

How can I miss you, you pissy mare...you're my neighbour and tree hugger....:rofl:

Have some cherries and cheer me up...;)

triumphguy Aug 9th 2009 7:33 am

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Originally Posted by FlirtyKnickers (Post 7827341)
..it's not a happy place at all now....:(

I'm always happy to see you posting!:thumbup:

FlirtyKnickers Aug 9th 2009 7:34 am

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Originally Posted by Alan2005 (Post 7827355)
It's really not that bad. Take a look at some of threads on the main canada page as there are some good debates going on up there (imo anyway). I reckon you are just looking with 18k+ post jaded boredom.

Maybe so Alan....but you have to have noticed a shift in this place, it's like out with the old and in with the new....the only thing is, the new aren't knocking on the door or hanging around for long, thats the sad thing....:(

christmasoompa Aug 9th 2009 7:35 am

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Originally Posted by val50 (Post 7827225)
You have 3 moderators for the Canadian forum, all in different time zones. You also have supermoderators, again in different time zones, so whilst it's true that mods have lives and are not around all the time, your excuse in this instance is not valid - or if it is, someone is not doing their job properly. I would also suggest you also keep site rule 1 in mind., it applies to moderators as well as other members of the forum

Nope, 3 Canada mods but Iaink only has internet access at work, so he and I usually coincide timings wise (I tend to log off about 10pm, and he does around the same time when he leaves work). Plus the supermods don't act on 'minor reports', only major stuff. So it can sometimes be 8 hours before any mod will look at a report I'm afraid, just the nature of it.

FlirtyKnickers Aug 9th 2009 7:35 am

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Originally Posted by triumphguy (Post 7827366)
I'm always happy to see you posting!:thumbup:

Your cheques in the post...;):wub:

Brownstar Aug 9th 2009 7:36 am

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Originally Posted by christmasoompa (Post 7827369)
Nope, 3 Canada mods but Iaink only has internet access at work, so he and I usually coincide timings wise (I tend to log off about 10pm, and he does around the same time when he leaves work). Plus the supermods don't act on 'minor reports', only major stuff. So it can sometimes be 8 hours before any mod will look at a report I'm afraid, just the nature of it.

Then there should be more mods

Alan2005 Aug 9th 2009 7:38 am

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such petulance, such indignation, such entertainment (for me at least)

triumphguy Aug 9th 2009 7:38 am

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Originally Posted by FlirtyKnickers (Post 7827373)
Your cheques in the post...;):wub:

Just send Candian Tire money! My wife keeps the real money!

christmasoompa Aug 9th 2009 7:41 am

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Originally Posted by Brownstar (Post 7827360)
I moaned because a post by me was deleted because 'it was going off topic' 10-15 before the post I reported was edited, and NOT because it the reported post was not deleted immediately......get your facts right!

Does it matter? Perhaps Sue went to answer a phone call! Still no need to complain about it imo, so I stood up for her, particularly as you've been warned before about your constant sniping at mods and criticism of mod actions.


Originally Posted by Brownstar (Post 7827360)
Perhaps you need to re read the rules and post within them..........YOU ARE A MODERATOR.

I haven't broken any site rules! I said you were acting like a spoilt brat - which imo you are repeatedly these days just because you're not happy with us.


Originally Posted by Brownstar (Post 7827360)
You had no need to post what you did in this thread, it was covered provately by Sue and I last night.................

Then why complain about her?


Originally Posted by Brownstar (Post 7827360)
you have stirred the pot and if you read the entire thread you would understand the resentment that people are feeling towards to at the moment.

Resentment that a few people are feeling - the vast majority are thrilled that the forum is a much nicer place to be than it was a few weeks ago. We've had soooooo many PM's from people who are much happier.


Originally Posted by Brownstar (Post 7827360)
Snide comments, derogatory comments to people in PM's are not what a moderator should be doing.

What PM? No idea what you're talking about there I'm afraid.

christmasoompa Aug 9th 2009 7:43 am

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Originally Posted by Brownstar (Post 7827376)
Then there should be more mods

Totally agree. But funnily enough, not many people seem keen on the job!! Can't think why, it's such fun and totally stress free..............:lol:

Stonedog Aug 9th 2009 7:44 am

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Originally Posted by FlirtyKnickers (Post 7827361)
How can I miss you, you pissy mare...you're my neighbour and tree hugger....:rofl:

Have some cherries and cheer me up...;)

I'm actually allergic to cherries and I hate pink, so **** knows why I want so many trees :eek:

I'll cheer you up tomorrow :wink_smile:

FlirtyKnickers Aug 9th 2009 7:44 am

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Originally Posted by triumphguy (Post 7827384)
Just send Candian Tire money! My wife keeps the real money!

Will do, are you another one saving for a sit on mower?:rofl:

FlirtyKnickers Aug 9th 2009 7:46 am

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Originally Posted by Stonedog (Post 7827394)
I'm actually allergic to cherries and I hate pink, so **** knows why I want so many trees :eek:

I'll cheer you up tomorrow :wink_smile:

I'll leave you a note then....i'm in an apricot mood today!:thumbup:

let me know what you fancy next..;)

Alan2005 Aug 9th 2009 7:50 am

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Originally Posted by FlirtyKnickers (Post 7827368)
Maybe so Alan....but you have to have noticed a shift in this place, it's like out with the old and in with the new....the only thing is, the new aren't knocking on the door or hanging around for long, thats the sad thing....:(

Yes it's different - but then i've only been regularly posting here for the last few months (even tho my account is quite old). But ultimately what can you do, the forum is it's posters and as such it's our fault really.

My personal forum philosophy

1 - get as much amusement out as possible
2 - take moderation on the chin and move on
3 - don't report people no matter how bad the abuse
4 - never get annoyed by anything
5 - don't hate people even if you think they hate you

Brownstar Aug 9th 2009 7:54 am

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Again you are putting words at my fingers...............no constant moaning or sniping............its all interpritation in mine and others opinion on this thread you ahve breached Rule 1 by calling me a brat.

The post was done before things were sorted

Why did you have to post what you posted? Don't comment on things that are you don't know about.

Why not get back in your box and stop stirring things up when they had calmed down :frown:



Originally Posted by christmasoompa (Post 7827389)
Does it matter? Perhaps Sue went to answer a phone call! Still no need to complain about it imo, so I stood up for her, particularly as you've been warned before about your constant sniping at mods and criticism of mod actions.



I haven't broken any site rules! I said you were acting like a spoilt brat - which imo you are repeatedly these days just because you're not happy with us.



Then why complain about her?



Resentment that a few people are feeling - the vast majority are thrilled that the forum is a much nicer place to be than it was a few weeks ago. We've had soooooo many PM's from people who are much happier.



What PM? No idea what you're talking about there I'm afraid.


FlirtyKnickers Aug 9th 2009 7:57 am

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Originally Posted by Alan2005 (Post 7827401)
Yes it's different - but then i've only been regularly posting here for the last few months (even tho my account is quite old). But ultimately what can you do, the forum is it's posters and as such it's our fault really.

My personal forum philosophy

1 - get as much amusement out as possible agree
2 - take moderation on the chin and move on agree...for me anyway
3 - don't report people no matter how bad the abuse I've reported one person for a nasty comment, it wasn't removed and I was told to get over it!:blink:
4 - never get annoyed by anything easier said than done for some people
5 - don't hate people even if you think they hate you

agree

This might look like a big red blob of crap but at least I tried!

christmasoompa Aug 9th 2009 8:02 am

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Originally Posted by Brownstar (Post 7827406)
Again you are putting words at my fingers...............no constant moaning or sniping............its all interpritation in mine and others opinion on this thread you ahve breached Rule 1 by calling me a brat.

The post was done before things were sorted

Why did you have to post what you posted? Don't comment on things that are you don't know about.

Why not get back in your box and stop stirring things up when they had calmed down :frown:

I didn't call you a brat, I said you were acting like one. And in any event, if I received a report about the word 'brat', I wouldn't edit that! It's hardly the usual terms of abuse that we get on here. You just reminded me of a child throwing a tantrum!

And yes, it is constant sniping - which is why you've been warned about it before. If you have an issue with a mods actions, then PM us about it as per site rules. Poor Sue gets enough grief to deal with on here, without you publicly complaining about her too.

Brownstar Aug 9th 2009 8:05 am

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Originally Posted by christmasoompa (Post 7827413)
And yes, it is constant sniping

Constant would be every post.................why not take time to gather evidence before casting aspersions that cause people's judgment to be clouded.

Now haven't you got a bratty daughter to look after?

Cassie 10000 Aug 9th 2009 8:06 am

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It's busy in here for a Sunday :p

christmasoompa Aug 9th 2009 8:10 am

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Originally Posted by Brownstar (Post 7827418)
Constant would be every post.................why not take time to gather evidence before casting aspersions that cause people's judgment to be clouded.

Now haven't you got a bratty daughter to look after?

Up until a week or two ago, it was pretty much every post!

And she's asleep and has been for a couple of hours. :fingerscrossed: she'll stay that way, especially as I want to watch Top Gear............hurrah!! :thumbup:

newshoney Aug 9th 2009 8:10 am

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Phew... (fans self vigorously). How did this get so heated so quickly? You turn your back for a second and look what they get up to.

Totally off topic, for some reason I thought Brownstar was a retired female teacher... (obviously got you mixed up with someone else) so I hope it gives you a few laughs to think of me imagining you all skirted and bespectacled harrumphing at the world.

Greenhill Aug 9th 2009 8:11 am

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Is it on there tonight? I thought last week's was the last in the series..?


Originally Posted by christmasoompa (Post 7827428)
especially as I want to watch Top Gear............hurrah!! :thumbup:


FlirtyKnickers Aug 9th 2009 8:13 am

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Originally Posted by Cassie 10000 (Post 7827421)
It's busy in here for a Sunday :p

I was planning a Sunday roast but it all went tits up!:rofl:


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