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no good name Jun 6th 2019 11:23 pm

Re: Moving to Canada is like.......(insert here)
 
Is like...……..

Attending the highly anticipated and promoted mansion party of the year, the one everyone says they would love to go to..

You have daydreamed for years to get the invite.

You sell a few things, use all your savings to buy the most expensive suit you can afford. And to pay the admission fees.

Only when you get there it's overcrowded, music is crap, room full of fake laughter and pretentiousness, food is bland, the temperature is excessively humid inside the main hall but freezing outside in the garden which you also must pay an fee to sit in. You take a sneaky peek around the mansion only to discover it is like a cartoon background reel where every room is decorated exactly the same.

You are disappointingly underwhelmed. You sit in the corner looking at this charade by the mass crowd thinking, get me out of here

Oakvillian Jun 7th 2019 1:19 am

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Moving to Canada is an awful lot like moving to anywhere else, really. Some things are similar, some things are different, it takes a couple of weeks to get used to the small stuff, a bit longer to get used to the big stuff, but the constants in life remain pretty much constant.

I can see that for people who have never lived anywhere else than the village they grew up in it must be a bit of a shock to the system, but there's no aspect of life in Canada that's not so dissimilar to life in Europe that it's an insurmountable obstacle.

Oakvillian Jun 7th 2019 1:21 am

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Originally Posted by no good name (Post 12694679)
Is like...……..

Attending the highly anticipated and promoted mansion party of the year, the one everyone says they would love to go to..

You have daydreamed for years to get the invite.

You sell a few things, use all your savings to buy the most expensive suit you can afford. And to pay the admission fees.

Only when you get there it's overcrowded, music is crap, room full of fake laughter and pretentiousness, food is bland, the temperature is excessively humid inside the main hall but freezing outside in the garden which you also must pay an fee to sit in. You take a sneaky peek around the mansion only to discover it is like a cartoon background reel where every room is decorated exactly the same.

You are disappointingly underwhelmed. You sit in the corner looking at this charade by the mass crowd thinking, get me out of here

See, that last sentence is where you start to lose sympathy. Get up out of your corner and hit the dance floor. Or at least talk to the people sitting next to you. If you hide in the corner and mope, it's hardly surprising that you don't enjoy the party.

caretaker Jun 7th 2019 1:47 am

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Originally Posted by Oakvillian (Post 12694754)
See, that last sentence is where you start to lose sympathy. Get up out of your corner and hit the dance floor. Or at least talk to the people sitting next to you. If you hide in the corner and mope, it's hardly surprising that you don't enjoy the party.

A party like that might as well be advertised as pretentious, I call author of his own misfortunes.


Partially discharged Jun 7th 2019 2:16 am

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Originally Posted by Oakvillian (Post 12694754)
See, that last sentence is where you start to lose sympathy. Get up out of your corner and hit the dance floor. Or at least talk to the people sitting next to you. If you hide in the corner and mope, it's hardly surprising that you don't enjoy the party.

Well put...I"ve met expats like that who complain about how everything isn't like it is 'back 'ome' etc and frankly it gets tiresome quite quickly. If you don't like, leave and if you can't leave stop complaining so much and dragging everyone down around you.

A few years ago, I was considering joining a new old timers footie team and went to watch them ahead of time. Three of the players (all subs at the time) and all ex-pats (Chelsea fans) were complaining about the 'immigrant' nature of the opponents (all Vietnamese guys) and how they couldn't understand what they were saying to each other. I had a beer with the guys after the game and frankly their ironic complaints about immigrants was not for me and I didn't join the team.

dbd33 Jun 7th 2019 3:05 am

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Originally Posted by Partially discharged (Post 12694800)
Well put...I"ve met expats like that who complain about how everything isn't like it is 'back 'ome' etc and frankly it gets tiresome quite quickly.

I don't find that. I work in a room with ex-pats and find it interesting how things are not like home for them. I suppose if two of them had the same home it'd be less interesting but I haven't had to deal with that circumstance.

shelley748 Jun 7th 2019 7:17 am

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going back in time if you live in rural area's like we do! Having to rely on shite internet provider like Xplornet.

dbd33 Jun 7th 2019 7:21 am

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Originally Posted by shelley748 (Post 12694944)
going back in time if you live in rural area's like we do! Having to rely on shite internet provider like Xplornet.

What's the problem with xplornet?

Almost Canadian Jun 7th 2019 8:00 am

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Originally Posted by dbd33 (Post 12694947)
What's the problem with xplornet?

I was going to ask the same thing.

We get download speeds of around 30 meg. I accept the upload speeds aren't particularly great, but then I don't need to post videos to YouTube.

no good name Jun 7th 2019 11:55 am

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Originally Posted by macadian (Post 12689465)
Moving to Canada is being able to afford a home on the water, buy a Provincial fishing licence and being able to fish almost anywhere in the province, rather than in the UK paying through the nose for a days fishing to some individual the family were granted the land etc to back in the days of Henry the eighth or before......

You honestly struggled to find a fishing spot in Scotland?? C'mon mate

no good name Jun 7th 2019 11:57 am

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Originally Posted by Oakvillian (Post 12694752)
Moving to Canada is an awful lot like moving to anywhere else, really. Some things are similar, some things are different, it takes a couple of weeks to get used to the small stuff, a bit longer to get used to the big stuff, but the constants in life remain pretty much constant.

I can see that for people who have never lived anywhere else than the village they grew up in it must be a bit of a shock to the system, but there's no aspect of life in Canada that's not so dissimilar to life in Europe that it's an insurmountable obstacle.

Except house prices in Oakville


no good name Jun 7th 2019 12:03 pm

Re: Moving to Canada is like.......(insert here)
 

Originally Posted by Oakvillian (Post 12694754)
See, that last sentence is where you start to lose sympathy.

Get up out of your corner and hit the dance floor. Or at least talk to the people sitting next to you. If you hide in the corner and mope, it's hardly surprising that you don't enjoy the party.

Oh I have. I've been to invites, dinners, gyms, lunches, coffees, bbq's, pubs, propped up a bar or two, had a hangover or two, spoke to many locals, many non locals from many backgrounds, heard many stories.. I haven't hidden

macadian Jun 7th 2019 12:13 pm

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Originally Posted by no good name (Post 12695069)
You honestly struggled to find a fishing spot in Scotland?? C'mon mate

Not at all. Fished all over the UK but much more costly and access to many waters outrageously expensive and access (legally) often denied. I guess you have to have experienced fishing in both countries to fully appreciate where I am coming from relative to my post regarding Ontario in comparison to the UK generally regarding accessibility and cost.

dbd33 Jun 7th 2019 1:55 pm

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Originally Posted by Almost Canadian (Post 12694959)
I was going to ask the same thing.

We get download speeds of around 30 meg. I accept the upload speeds aren't particularly great, but then I don't need to post videos to YouTube.

The one criticism I have is that the service is a bit "weathery". In ferocious storms it doesn't work at all. At such times I switch to using Bluetooth to the phone (Bell), that's agonisingly slow by comparison and costs about $300 per day to use. I'm less keen on Bell than xplornet.

Almost Canadian Jun 8th 2019 4:17 am

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Originally Posted by dbd33 (Post 12695092)
The one criticism I have is that the service is a bit "weathery". In ferocious storms it doesn't work at all. At such times I switch to using Bluetooth to the phone (Bell), that's agonisingly slow by comparison and costs about $300 per day to use. I'm less keen on Bell than xplornet.

We must be lucky then as we can always achieve around 3 mb. I can't recall ever being disconnected in the 6 and a half years we have been here. Of course, it doesn't compare with the 300/600 mb they get 15 mins up the road.


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