Originally Posted by bananahammock (Post 7490279)

'Oooh, that place sounds like Nanny Moe .... let's go there!!' :eek:

Originally Posted by iaink (Post 7500883)

Or not....It really can be that easy.

Thank you!!

As I have said before (over and over now in fact) we all get a few free passes at starting dumb threads...its almost a right of initiation.

As a mod I only have a problem with it if it turns into a pattern of attention seeking behaviour, or if people are nasty to newbies in the process of guiding them to previously posted information.

Absolutely agree with you on this.

I think to some extent the formation of cliques is inevitable, through geography, age group, and other general common ground, but that doesnt mean we cant at least try to get along, or failing that at least ignore each other in the pursuit of peaceful coexistance.

Cliques are forming all the time, obviously people going through the process at the same time will meet up, or email and PM and so it goes on. However, there seems to be an inner core of people on here that just will not live and let live.

I suppose I should have a go at the original question while I am here...
Has this forum changed my mind? No, Im still always right about everything:sneaky::lol:

Originally Posted by Butch Cassidy (Post 7500887)

I cant be arsed, I feel my first ignore could be round the corner.

Originally Posted by Sleeping_Beauty45 (Post 7500916)

See you're learning! :lol:

Originally Posted by Butch Cassidy (Post 7501055)

:curse:
shame you cant
:curse:

Originally Posted by Butch Cassidy (Post 7501055)

:curse:
shame you cant
:curse:

Originally Posted by Sleeping_Beauty45 (Post 7501060)

Leave and let leave or ignore.

Originally Posted by Butch Cassidy (Post 7501119)

What a good idea. Please dont let the door hit your (fat) arse on the way out.

Originally Posted by Sleeping_Beauty45 (Post 7501128)

Nice.

Originally Posted by FlirtyKnickers (Post 7501073)

Leave it Butch....it's not worth the hassle;)

Originally Posted by mandymoochops (Post 7501189)

Quite agree - theres an arguement thread now - take it in there ;)

Originally Posted by Sleeping_Beauty45 (Post 7501060)

See you have just proved my point beyond any reasonable doubt. Live and let live or ignore.

Originally Posted by Butch Cassidy (Post 7501183)

Ah, so you do recognise intelligence and wit then?

Originally Posted by Sleeping_Beauty45 (Post 7500912)

I just don't understand why everything has to be a fight, problem is people hide behind their keyboard, I think it gives people extra bravado that they wouldn't have in "real life". My dad always used to say "if you have nothing nice to say, then say nothing at all" and I guess I've lived my life by that moto, there is just no need to be nasty to people, I'd like to think that I treat people how I'd like to be treated, giving people the benefit of the doubt until they prove differently. I always think of that poor woman on here that came on asking advice about her disabled son who was been turfed out - she was obviously in desperate need of help and support and was absolutely lamblasted and yet it turned out she was a genuine person really in great need of help.

Originally Posted by Sue (Post 7501255)

Please, if you two can't get along either agree to disagree, put each other on ignore, or take your issues with each other to pm rather than in a thread.

Thanks

Sue

Originally Posted by Sleeping_Beauty45 (Post 7501268)

I don't have an issue with him, although it seems to be that he didn't like my comments about people having every right to co-exist on this (or any) forum. If you read back you will see exactly what I have written and that absolutely none of it warranted any personal attacks at all.

I do however have an issue with bullies whether in real life or on a forum.

I certainly have no desire to enter into any sort of private messaging with him.