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montreal mike Nov 26th 2013 11:20 pm

gays not welcomed
 
http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-25119158

interesting situation

Is this a case of political correctness gone mad?

or do homosexuals automatically have the gawd-given right to be catered to even if the hotel owner thinks different?

mikelincs Nov 26th 2013 11:24 pm

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Originally Posted by montreal mike (Post 11010057)
http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-25119158

interesting situation

Is this a case of political correctness gone mad?

or do homosexuals automatically have the gawd-given right to be catered to even if the hotel owner thinks different?

That's been going on for months. Discrimination on the basis of race, colour or sexual orientation is illegal in the UK, snd that's why they were prosecuted, they aren't the first, but they should be the last hotel to discriminate as there is now a supreme court ruling that it is illegal to discriminate

montreal mike Nov 26th 2013 11:34 pm

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Originally Posted by mikelincs (Post 11010062)
That's been going on for months. Discrimination on the basis of race, colour or sexual orientation is illegal in the UK, snd that's why they were prosecuted, they aren't the first, but they should be the last hotel to discriminate as there is now a supreme court ruling that it is illegal to discriminate

i see the point but it is their hotel after all isn't it?

the gay couple could have picked another place to stay surely when they were not welcomed?

who wants to stay at a hotel when one is told one is persona non grata?

bottom line here is this: which rights should predominate?

Tangram Nov 26th 2013 11:37 pm

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Originally Posted by montreal mike (Post 11010070)
i see the point but it is their hotel after all isn't it?

the gay couple could have picked another place to stay surely when they were not welcomed?

who wants to stay at a hotel when one is told one is persona non grata?

bottom line here is this: which rights should predominate?

It's discrimination.

Would those who think it's daft say the same if a black couple were rebuffed ?

montreal mike Nov 26th 2013 11:47 pm

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Originally Posted by Tangram (Post 11010075)
It's discrimination.

Would those who think it's daft say the same if a black couple were rebuffed ?

But my question is this: is it really discrimination?

the hotel owners have certain beliefs and values?

so under these circumstances whose rights should predominate?

seems to me to be a grey area and not that not clear cut

mikelincs Nov 26th 2013 11:49 pm

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Originally Posted by montreal mike (Post 11010070)
i see the point but it is their hotel after all isn't it?

the gay couple could have picked another place to stay surely when they were not welcomed?

who wants to stay at a hotel when one is told one is persona non grata?

bottom line here is this: which rights should predominate?

The hotel is open to the public to book, if you book a double room, and then two womwn turned up, then I bet they wouldn't have rejected them, but because it was two men, then they were told, sorry we can't honour your booking. Most people when booking a hotel room just ring up and ask to book a double room, they don't feel they have to say they are two men, or two women, or a mixed gender couple.
Discrimination is illegal, end of, and they were rightly taken to court, and have rightly lost.

There were perhaps a number of gay couple who had been turned away before, but had just accepted it, this couple felt it was worth making a stand about, and I fully agree with them.

Tangram Nov 26th 2013 11:52 pm

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Originally Posted by montreal mike (Post 11010085)
But my question is this: is it really discrimination?

the hotel owners have certain beliefs and values?

so under these circumstances whose rights should predominate?

seems to me to be a grey area and not that not clear cut

Their beliefs in imaginary friends in the sky is not law, discrimination is. As Mike put it, end of.

mikelincs Nov 27th 2013 12:10 am

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Originally Posted by montreal mike (Post 11010085)
But my question is this: is it really discrimination?

the hotel owners have certain beliefs and values?

so under these circumstances whose rights should predominate?

seems to me to be a grey area and not that not clear cut

No, it's not a grey area, discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation is ILLEGAL in the UK, doesn't matter what the orgaanisation is. A few years ago I was PRO for the British Naturism organisation, and we had a number of clubs who were members who were deiscriminating against single people and gay people, they were told if they wanted to continue as members and keep the advantages that gave them, then they had to change their rules. It came about because one club had turned away a gay couple, and were being taken to court, they wanted the organisation to provide legal aid for the club, we refused quoting the discrimination laws, and told asll clubs they had to change their rules, and they did.

ultrarunner Nov 27th 2013 1:20 am

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Originally Posted by Tangram (Post 11010075)
It's discrimination.

Would those who think it's daft say the same if a black couple were rebuffed ?

Just curious...of all the races, why did you pick Black? How about Oriental, Asian, Amazonian et al

It's all relative

Montreal Mike.....you said this "i see the point but it is their hotel after all isn't it?". Am guessing you have kids, brothers and sisters? If what you are saying is, and am assuming here? That in this day and age bigotry has a place?

What would you do if you son/daughter/brother/sister starts dating or marries someone that looks different?

dbd33 Nov 27th 2013 1:23 am

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Originally Posted by ultrarunner (Post 11010197)
It's all relative

It's not relative at all. If you operate an hotel you cannot discriminate against guests based on race or sexual orientation. There's no sliding scale allowing the banning of this combination of races and only mildly brusque treatment of people of some other race or race(s).

not2old Nov 27th 2013 1:27 am

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Originally Posted by montreal mike (Post 11010057)
http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-25119158

interesting situation

Is this a case of political correctness gone mad?

or do homosexuals automatically have the gawd-given right to be catered to even if the hotel owner thinks different?


Originally Posted by montreal mike (Post 11010070)
i see the point but it is their hotel after all isn't it?

the gay couple could have picked another place to stay surely when they were not welcomed?

who wants to stay at a hotel when one is told one is persona non grata?

bottom line here is this: which rights should predominate?

well I tell yer if I had a hotel/BB and needed the business for sure as hell would never discriminate against any paying customers - on second thoughts maybe chavs or those blathered out of their minds footy hooligans.

Then you have to look at the other side - would a gay run hotel discriminate against straight couples & in doing so would the straights scream bloody murder

ultrarunner Nov 27th 2013 1:28 am

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Errrm....that was for Tangram.

This coming from someone that made bigot comments about "Asian students" going to the U of T? :thumbdown:

ultrarunner Nov 27th 2013 1:33 am

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Originally Posted by not2old (Post 11010212)
well I tell yer if I had a hotel/BB and needed the business for sure as hell would never discriminate against any paying customers - on second thoughts maybe chavs or those blathered out of their minds footy hooligans.

Then you have to look at the other side - would a gay run hotel discriminate against straight couples & in doing so would the straights scream bloody murder

I will bloody well hope not...do you think Warren Buffett, Bill Gates, Nike et al....bother about the colour of the people making them money? Heck look at the premiership, you are in business to make wonga, and as long as that wonga keeps rolling in, who cares who your customers are?

I think you will find that a Gay person is more tolerant in their business that the straight person.

geedee Nov 27th 2013 1:38 am

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All they had to do was say they were full, or there'd been a double booking.... some people seem to invite trouble into thier lives!

Tangram Nov 27th 2013 1:38 am

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Originally Posted by ultrarunner (Post 11010197)
Just curious...of all the races, why did you pick Black? How about Oriental, Asian, Amazonian et al

It's all relative

Montreal Mike.....you said this "i see the point but it is their hotel after all isn't it?". Am guessing you have kids, brothers and sisters? If what you are saying is, and am assuming here? That in this day and age bigotry has a place?

What would you do if you son/daughter/brother/sister starts dating or marries someone that looks different?

It was an example, that is all.

not2old Nov 27th 2013 1:38 am

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going back to the OP, just on business basis - I wonder if the owners such as the ones in the link if they have ever thought to discourage customers to simply up the room rate or just say no room at the inn?

This is all for nowt & bloody stupid are those hotel owners imo if they are running a business where they likely see all kinds of funny goings on without worrying about gays occupying the rooms.

not2old Nov 27th 2013 1:39 am

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Originally Posted by ultrarunner (Post 11010220)

I think you will find that a Gay person is more tolerant in their business that the straight person.

eck!

Tangram Nov 27th 2013 1:40 am

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Originally Posted by ultrarunner (Post 11010215)
Errrm....that was for Tangram.

This coming from someone that made bigot comments about "Asian students" going to the U of T? :thumbdown:

Who me ?

not2old Nov 27th 2013 1:41 am

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Originally Posted by geedee (Post 11010234)
All they had to do was say they were full, or there'd been a double booking.... some people seem to invite trouble into thier lives!

:goodpost:

agree & was posting the same thing while you did that

not2old Nov 27th 2013 1:43 am

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on post #11


Originally Posted by ultrarunner (Post 11010215)
Errrm....that was for Tangram.

This coming from someone that made bigot comments about "Asian students" going to the U of T? :thumbdown:


Originally Posted by Tangram (Post 11010241)
Who me ?

maybe he meant me?

dbd33 Nov 27th 2013 1:50 am

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Originally Posted by not2old (Post 11010249)
on post #11





maybe he meant me?

I think he meant me but he's a bit clumsy in using English and so cannot see that a reference to ethnicity, e.g. "there are lots of Asian people in China" is not necessarily insulting, compare "I wouldn't move to China because there are lots of Asian people in China".

Dear Lord (if any), I hope they don't let him near hand grenades.

ultrarunner Nov 27th 2013 2:03 am

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Originally Posted by dbd33 (Post 11010258)
I think he meant me but he's a bit clumsy in using English and so cannot see that a reference to ethnicity, e.g. "there are lots of Asian people in China" is not necessarily insulting, compare "I wouldn't move to China because there are lots of Asian people in China".

Dear Lord (if any), I hope they don't let him near hand grenades.

I hope they don't let you anywhere near a diversed group....you think you are funny, obviously you ain't and others have pointed that out to you recently.

Your comment about University of Toronto being a dumping ground fror Asian students was just classic, and then there was you Escalade comment with regards to Black people

You obviously live by stereotypes, and it's not surprising d(dead) b(beat) d(dad) :rofl:

dbd33 Nov 27th 2013 2:07 am

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Originally Posted by ultrarunner (Post 11010275)
You obviously live by stereotypes, and it's not surprising d(dead) b(beat) d(dad) :rofl:

Well, yes, someone who chooses that poster name would likely know something about stereotypes.

Oh, and, of course, I said nothing of that nature.

Tangram Nov 27th 2013 2:07 am

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Originally Posted by ultrarunner (Post 11010275)
I hope they don't let you anywhere near a diversed group....you think you are funny, obviously you ain't and others have pointed that out to you recently.

Your comment about University of Toronto being a dumping ground fror Asian students was just classic, and then there was you Escalade comment with regards to Black people

You obviously live by stereotypes, and it's not surprising d(dead) b(beat) d(dad) :rofl:

There's no need to get personal. Site Rules and all.

geedee Nov 27th 2013 2:14 am

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Originally Posted by not2old (Post 11010245)
:goodpost:

agree & was posting the same thing while you did that

Hurrah! Another Human! :)

ExKiwilass Nov 27th 2013 2:23 am

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Originally Posted by mikelincs (Post 11010062)
That's been going on for months. Discrimination on the basis of race, colour or sexual orientation is illegal in the UK, snd that's why they were prosecuted, they aren't the first, but they should be the last hotel to discriminate as there is now a supreme court ruling that it is illegal to discriminate

good.

ultrarunner Nov 27th 2013 2:33 am

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Originally Posted by ExKiwilass (Post 11010315)
good.

+10000000000000000000000000000000000000000

Shard Nov 27th 2013 2:36 am

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Originally Posted by montreal mike (Post 11010085)
But my question is this: is it really discrimination?

the hotel owners have certain beliefs and values?

so under these circumstances whose rights should predominate?

seems to me to be a grey area and not that not clear cut

This is a situation where the public mood/opinion has very much moved on from where it was even a decade ago, let alone several decades ago. The court rulings establish in black in white who's values predominate. There is no longer any issue on it, although as with every aspect of living in a society, some will disagree.

ultrarunner Nov 27th 2013 2:41 am

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A very very very wise man once said this...


How can I be expected to believe that this same racial discrimination which has been the cause of so much injustice and suffering right through the years, should now operate here to give me a fair and open trial?....consider myself neither morally nor legally obliged to obey laws made by a Parliament in which I am not represented. That the will of the people is the basis of the authority of government, is a principle universally acknowledged as sacred throughout the civilized world.”
Oh yeah....usual suspects, just google it :D

Shard Nov 27th 2013 2:50 am

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Originally Posted by ultrarunner (Post 11010341)
A very very very wise man once said this...



Oh yeah....usual suspects, just google it :D

Why not just attribute the quotation? I don't think I'll bother looking it up this time, as without knowing who said it, I haven't bothered reading it.

dbd33 Nov 27th 2013 2:53 am

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Originally Posted by Shard (Post 11010354)
Why not just attribute the quotation? I don't think I'll bother looking it up this time, as without knowing who said it, I haven't bothered reading it.

Oscar Wilde. On another bad day.

mikelincs Nov 27th 2013 2:56 am

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Originally Posted by ultrarunner (Post 11010197)
Just curious...of all the races, why did you pick Black? How about Oriental, Asian, Amazonian et al

It's all relative

Montreal Mike.....you said this "i see the point but it is their hotel after all isn't it?". Am guessing you have kids, brothers and sisters? If what you are saying is, and am assuming here? That in this day and age bigotry has a place?

What would you do if you son/daughter/brother/sister starts dating or marries someone that looks different?

Or is the same sex??

ultrarunner Nov 27th 2013 3:01 am

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Originally Posted by mikelincs (Post 11010364)
Or is the same sex??

Thank you...that too.

Am not holding my breathe on a sincere answer by the way, but still just wanted to post the question.

As any rational person will know, happiness in relationships is not restricted to someone that looks like you, and if you are foolish enough to let difference in colour impact your dating decision even when the person happens to meet all your checks in the box, then that is a real shame.

dbd33 Nov 27th 2013 3:09 am

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Originally Posted by ultrarunner (Post 11010374)
As any rational person will know, happiness in relationships is not restricted to someone that looks like you, and if you are foolish enough to let difference in colour impact your dating decision even when the person happens to meet all your checks in the box, then that is a real shame.

"Action Man seeks person for long term relationship, open to any race, gender or configuration, must have tax returns showing last five year's of income within 5% of own (will make exception of 1% of net in one year for large and uncut)".

neilcumming Nov 27th 2013 3:32 am

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Originally Posted by Tangram (Post 11010095)
Their beliefs in imaginary friends in the sky is not law, discrimination is. As Mike put it, end of.

I like this ,very well put.What they going to do if they get to heaven and there are gay people there or are gays not allowed in like their B&B?

Former Lancastrian Nov 27th 2013 4:10 am

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First of all I agree with the ruling but what is discrimination?
dis·crim·i·na·tion [dih-skrim-uh-ney-shuhn] Show IPA
noun
1.
an act or instance of discriminating, or of making a distinction.
2.
treatment or consideration of, or making a distinction in favor of or against, a person or thing based on the group, class, or category to which that person or thing belongs rather than on individual merit: racial and religious intolerance and discrimination.
3.
the power of making fine distinctions; discriminating judgment: She chose the colors with great discrimination.
4.
Archaic. something that serves to differentiate.

Is certain discrimination allowed in law you betcha it is yet we seem to be fine with this:confused:

Lets use these few examples
Gang colours being worn in pubs especially in Canada
Women only gymnasiums
Membership requirements of certain Credit Unions and Royal Canadian Legions
NEXUS membership
Visiting football supporters banned from pubs
Dress codes for certain establishments

Can we argue that some of the above are discriminative?

not2old Nov 27th 2013 4:43 am

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Originally Posted by Former Lancastrian (Post 11010489)

Is certain discrimination allowed in law you betcha it is yet we seem to be fine with this:confused:

Lets use these few examples
Gang colours being worn in pubs especially in Canada
Women only gymnasiums
Membership requirements of certain Credit Unions and Royal Canadian Legions
NEXUS membership
Visiting football supporters banned from pubs
Dress codes for certain establishments

Can we argue that some of the above are discriminative?

all of that & more endless & within the law - in fact,being run of the mill normal (whatever normal is these days) its likely a person can be discriminated against.

anyone remember the lyrics in the song by the 'Five man electrical band' titled "signs"

http://www.oldielyrics.com/lyrics/fi...and/signs.html

ultrarunner Nov 27th 2013 4:55 am

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Originally Posted by not2old (Post 11010550)
all of that & more endless & within the law - in fact,being run of the mill normal (whatever normal is these days) its likely a person can be discriminated against.
anyone remember the lyrics in the song by the 'Five man electrical band' titled "signs"

http://www.oldielyrics.com/lyrics/fi...and/signs.html

True that....usually preceded by the words, "I am not racist, but.....), or "How can I be racist/bigot, I have loadd of <insert race/gender/sexual orientation> friends :D

colchar Nov 27th 2013 6:39 am

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Originally Posted by montreal mike (Post 11010057)
http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-25119158

interesting situation

Is this a case of political correctness gone mad?

or do homosexuals automatically have the gawd-given right to be catered to even if the hotel owner thinks different?


They were not asking to be catered to, they were simply asking to be treated the same as everyone else. If they had been black and the owners had refused them would you think they were asking to be catered to?

paulry Nov 27th 2013 6:53 am

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Oh goody, another moral indignation thread! :thumbsup:


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