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Old Jan 17th 2014, 5:56 pm
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Originally Posted by dbd33
They've done that. They don't have a duty to make all children suffer the miserable life to which this one is condemned by her handicap and by her unfortunate choice of parent.
Surely its up to the HRT to decide if they have done that?
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How is this at all different to what parents of peanut allergy kids have already acheived? 30 years ago they would have appeared to be exactly the same, and now no parent in their right mind would expect to be able to send a PB&J sandwich or a Reeses cup to school.

See my comments above - the peanut allergy crowd are overreacting and many of them are full of crap (the real number of people who suffer from this allergy is 0.6% of the population but a damned sight more than 0.6% are claiming to have the allergy and are demanding that others alter their behaviour to suit them). Their child would have to ingest the peanuts in order to have a reaction, a kid eating a sandwich ten feet away isn't going to do a damned thing to their child.

As I said above, I am one of the 0.6% but have only ever had a problem if I ingest peanuts. I've sat within a couple of feet of my university and grad school roommate while he scarfed down PB&J sandwiches and not a damned thing ever happened to me. I've washed his dishes when there were knives covered in peanut butter and when there was peanut butter on the plate and nothing happened to me. Many of these parents are being overly hysterical about this and are making their kids into hypochondriacs.
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Originally Posted by ExKiwilass
exactly.

I just heard her interviewed - the school HAD provided 'reasonable accomodation' by having the girl eat her lunch in a seperate, egg & dairy free classroom with her support worker.

But then she got sad cos she couldn't eat with her friends.

So now her mum wants the school to force all her friends to eat egg and dairy free too, so her child doesn't have to deal with bad feelings.

it's all about her, her, her, her and her.


As it so often is in these cases.
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Are you her allergist then?
Please tell me you just made that word up.
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Old Jan 17th 2014, 6:01 pm
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Originally Posted by colchar
See my comments above - the peanut allergy crowd are overreacting and many of them are full of crap (the real number of people who suffer from this allergy is 0.6% of the population but a damned sight more than 0.6% are claiming to have the allergy and are demanding that others alter their behaviour to suit them). Their child would have to ingest the peanuts in order to have a reaction, a kid eating a sandwich ten feet away isn't going to do a damned thing to their child.

As I said above, I am one of the 0.6% but have only ever had a problem if I ingest peanuts. I've sat within a couple of feet of my university and grad school roommate while he scarfed down PB&J sandwiches and not a damned thing ever happened to me. I've washed his dishes when there were knives covered in peanut butter and when there was peanut butter on the plate and nothing happened to me. Many of these parents are being overly hysterical about this and are making their kids into hypochondriacs.
unfortunately this is what I've found with allergic kids at kid's school. It's frustrating.
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Originally Posted by ExKiwilass

I want someone to find me the science that proves removing allergens improves a child's allergic reactions.

It doesn't. The way to deal with them is through allergy shots which, like the flu shot, introduce the pathogen (or allergen in this case) into the child's system so that they build up a natural immunity to it. Allergy shots worked wonders for me and my younger brother as we both had a ton of allergies as kids (him even worse than me). Now all I am allergic to are peanuts, cats, and oak trees. I can't remember what my brother is still allergic to but when he was younger he often couldn't play with his friends at the park because of his allergies and he is now an avid jogger/marathon runner who is outside in all kinds of weather and never has the problems he had as a kid.
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Originally Posted by colchar
See my comments above - the peanut allergy crowd are overreacting and many of them are full of crap (the real number of people who suffer from this allergy is 0.6% of the population but a damned sight more than 0.6% are claiming to have the allergy and are demanding that others alter their behaviour to suit them). Their child would have to ingest the peanuts in order to have a reaction, a kid eating a sandwich ten feet away isn't going to do a damned thing to their child.

As I said above, I am one of the 0.6% but have only ever had a problem if I ingest peanuts. I've sat within a couple of feet of my university and grad school roommate while he scarfed down PB&J sandwiches and not a damned thing ever happened to me. I've washed his dishes when there were knives covered in peanut butter and when there was peanut butter on the plate and nothing happened to me. Many of these parents are being overly hysterical about this and are making their kids into hypochondriacs.
Many parents are oversensitive for sure, but also some kids are hyper sensitive and can be set off by far lower exposures than you experience.

So its a question of where do you set the protection threshold. Sometimes its just easier to make a simple black and white cut off and avoid any grey areas. Im sure school board lawyers are all in favour of avoiding any areas that require legal interpretation.

In practical terms banning eggs and dairy is not at all viable of course, its barely reasonable for peanuts. However I dont at all see why this parent is being vilified for trying to do whats best for her kid to have a normal school life. They are just following the dispute resolution procedures in the province, and they eventually lead to the Human Rights Tribunal if you cant agree.

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Originally Posted by Jingsamichty
Please tell me you just made that word up.
Er, no.
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I can tell you dont have kids in Canada!
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Originally Posted by iaink
Are you her allergist then?
No, but I am one of the 0.6% of the population that has a peanut allergy and who has personal experience with this.



I call bullshit on that. Many an anaphylactic episode has been triggered by exposure of the skin alone to an allergen. Some people with peanut allergies can be set off by touching the oily residue from someone elses treat and thats the argument behind banning all peanut traces from schools. Its not necessarily about a kid eating someone elses food.

And I call bullshit on most of that - according to my doctors the allergen must be ingested. Yes, there could be a mild reaction to residue if the person then introduced that to their mouth (ie. touching residue then putting their fingers in their mouth) but I would argue that the incidences of this are far far fewer than the crazy allergy crowd would have you believe.

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Originally Posted by iaink
Surely its up to the HRT to decide if they have done that?
I think the mother will still be bothersome no matter what therapy she has. She should accept her child's failings, as should the peanut parents, and not interfere will the lives of children better equipped for living.
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Originally Posted by iaink
I can tell you dont have kids in Canada!
That's it, isn't it? Having children in Canada leads to one being exposed to a level of parental bleating one wouldn't expect even in Islington.
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Originally Posted by iaink
Many parents are oversensitive for sure, but also some kids are hyper sensitive and can be set off by far lower exposures than you experience.

So its a question of where do you set the protection threshold. Sometimes its just easier to make a simple black and white cut off and avoid any grey areas. Im sure school board lawyers are all in favour of avoiding any areas that require legal interpretation.

So everyone else should suffer and have their diets dictated by 0.6% (in the case of peanuts) of the population?


In practical terms banning eggs and dairy is not at all viable of course, its barely reasonable for peanuts. However I dont at all see why this parent is being vilified for trying to do whats best for her kid to have a normal school life. They are just following the dispute resolution procedures in the province, and they eventually lead to the Human Rights Tribunal if you cant agree.

The parent is being vilified because they did accommodate her child but the parent then decided that wasn't enough because her kid was now sad that she couldn't eat with her friends. So the parent isn't doing this to protect her child's health, she is doing it to protect her child's feelings and demanding that everyone else alter their behaviour to suit her child's feelings is selfish in the extreme.
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Please tell me you just made that word up.

No, that is what an allergy specialist is called.
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Originally Posted by colchar
No, but I am one of the 0.6% of the population that has a peanut allergy and who has personal experience with this.






And I call bullshit on most of that - according to my doctors the allergen must be ingested. Yes, there could be a mild reaction to residue if the person then introduced that to their mouth (ie. touching residue then putting their fingers in their mouth) but I would argue that the incidences of this are far far fewer than the crazy allergy crowd would have you believe.
Most of that? So not all of it then

You seem to agree that its possible that a kid can get peanut oil an their hand, stick hands in mouth (in the way that many kids do) and have a reaction that then causes their airway to close.


So,Im curious, in your opinion, how many kids are OK to die that way before its a good idea to introduce a no peanut policy to reduce the slim chances even further?

Are there stats out there for allergy related deaths in schools over time I wonder.
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Most of that? So not all of it then

You seem to agree that its possible that a kid can get peanut oil an their hand, stick hands in mouth (in the way that many kids do) and have a reaction that then causes their airway to close.


So,Im curious, in your opinion, how many kids are OK to die that way before its a good idea to introduce a no peanut policy to reduce the slim chances even further?

Are there stats out there for allergy related deaths in schools over time I wonder.
I also agree that it's possible that a child can stick their pencil in an electric socket and electrocute themselves, but I don't see pencils or electric sockets being banned from classrooms.

Perspective is what's required.
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