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Ross224 Sep 15th 2009 5:46 pm

no friends here and bored out of my mind
 
Im in vasto , abruzzo at the moment working on putting an album together i also DJ but the club scene here is worse than awful.

I have no friends here and im going out of my mind!! I have nothing to do in my spare time no decent parties, no decent clubs, not even anyone to go to a bar with for a drink.

anyone near me (pescara area) who likes going out , living it up ;-) etc. please get in touch.

...... also i dont suppose anyone knows where i can get some some different foods from like a curry or a decent Chinese or even something english like a sunday roast please let me know (i'd drive 100km right now for a curry) Im sick to death of eating Italian food.

Peace

TestaRossa Sep 15th 2009 7:06 pm

Re: no friends here and bored out of my mind
 
I know others are probably eventually going to recommend their neck of the woods to you but I'd take a look at coming over to Florence for a weekend. It has a good club scene - not that I'd know, but I have friends that do and the US students have to do something in the evenings plus there are a few decent Chinese, Japanes, Mexican, Indian etc. restaurants. Might be worth a break for you! I know some cheap places to stay unless that isn't a consideration, in which case I know some expensive ones too!

Pace! :)

Ross224 Sep 15th 2009 8:35 pm

Re: no friends here and bored out of my mind
 
Thankyou very much for your reply, I will be sure to come and check out Florence.

I've just been looking into it and its a good 6-8 hour drive from where I am however I think it will defiantly be worth it as from what i can see from the net it looks like fun and a hell of a lot more lively than where I am at the moment.

:)

TestaRossa Sep 15th 2009 8:51 pm

Re: no friends here and bored out of my mind
 
No problem! As I say if you need any feedback on where to stay let me know! You can stay in a hostel or a Leading Hotel of the World, the choice is yours!:)

duffer Sep 16th 2009 12:39 pm

Re: no friends here and bored out of my mind
 
If you're recording an album, not only is committing suicide is a good career move but it will rid you of your Italian problems.
;)

Lorna at Vicenza Sep 16th 2009 1:57 pm

Re: no friends here and bored out of my mind
 

Originally Posted by duffer (Post 7935818)
If you're recording an album, not only is committing suicide is a good career move but it will rid you of your Italian problems.
;)

Once again Duffer - you're no help at all are you.
I hope new members realise you're pretty harmless - that you just happen to have a warped sense of humour.

duffer Sep 16th 2009 7:24 pm

Re: no friends here and bored out of my mind
 
It's a good bit of advice. I'm sure Michael Jackson isn't complaining. He sold more albums after he OD'd than he had for years before.

Ross224 Sep 16th 2009 8:23 pm

Re: no friends here and bored out of my mind
 

Originally Posted by duffer (Post 7935818)
If you're recording an album, not only is committing suicide is a good career move but it will rid you of your Italian problems.
;)

very true indeed ... I'll bear this in mind :p

Lorna at Vicenza Sep 16th 2009 8:39 pm

Re: no friends here and bored out of my mind
 
:eek::eek:

Originally Posted by Ross224 (Post 7937036)
very true indeed ... I'll bear this in mind :p

you still have to be world wide famous before contemplating anything else:eek:

wanabethere Sep 17th 2009 2:39 pm

Re: no friends here and bored out of my mind
 

Originally Posted by Ross224 (Post 7933722)
Im in vasto , abruzzo at the moment working on putting an album together i also DJ but the club scene here is worse than awful.

I have no friends here and im going out of my mind!! I have nothing to do in my spare time no decent parties, no decent clubs, not even anyone to go to a bar with for a drink.

anyone near me (pescara area) who likes going out , living it up ;-) etc. please get in touch.

...... also i dont suppose anyone knows where i can get some some different foods from like a curry or a decent Chinese or even something english like a sunday roast please let me know (i'd drive 100km right now for a curry) Im sick to death of eating Italian food.

Peace

There is a chinese in lanciano and Pescara is supposed to have a very good one. There is even a lap dancing club in one of the tiny villages in Val Di Sangro (Not our one Thank godness) There is an Italian teaching school in Lanciano and there are a lot of English speaking teenagers and people in their early twenties around. You would usually find them in the cafes on the main street. Did you think of putting up a notice or something in the local area to see if there are people of like minds.

Scratcher Sep 23rd 2009 11:44 am

Re: no friends here and bored out of my mind
 

Originally Posted by Ross224 (Post 7933722)
Im in vasto , abruzzo at the moment working on putting an album together i also DJ but the club scene here is worse than awful.

I have no friends here and im going out of my mind!! I have nothing to do in my spare time no decent parties, no decent clubs, not even anyone to go to a bar with for a drink.

anyone near me (pescara area) who likes going out , living it up ;-) etc. please get in touch.

...... also i dont suppose anyone knows where i can get some some different foods from like a curry or a decent Chinese or even something english like a sunday roast please let me know (i'd drive 100km right now for a curry) Im sick to death of eating Italian food.

Peace

Ross224,

I had the dubious pleasure of working in Termoli for a year, which is about 20km down the coast. I remember the chinese restaurant in Termoli was terrible so we went to the one in the Vasto main street, going up the hill on the right hand side. Can't remember the name, it was several years back.

There is a Mexican restaurant in Termoli, not excellent by any stretch of the imagination, but definitely something different than the usual Italian fare. Sells the usual mexican beers as well.

I never found a curry house or a shop to even buy the ingredients. I traveled as far as Pescara and Bari looking, but to no avail.

Anyway, won't be long until the end of September and then most of the bars and restaurants will shut till spring. Then you will be really bored.

Good Luck,
Scratcher

.Ariel. Sep 24th 2009 7:17 pm

Re: no friends here and bored out of my mind
 
Hi Ross,
Sorry to hear you're feeling lonely. I remember a time when i was in Italy with no friends... that didn't last long though. Get out and about, and eventually you'll make a meet someone who'll introduce you to others.
I'm wondering why you are here ....

Paul.Redmond Sep 25th 2009 11:58 pm

Re: no friends here and bored out of my mind
 
Hi Ross,

Maybe you are not too far from Rome. There is a big expat scene here and normally 2-3 meetings each week for organised expat function. There are several groups on facebook. if you want the info let me know. Cheers Paul (British expat in Rome)

Ross224 Sep 27th 2009 1:51 pm

Re: no friends here and bored out of my mind
 
Thanks guys,

Paul that would be great if you could let me know the details, I'm happy to travel about a bit :)

Ariel the reason why I am here is because my mum had an unused house here and said I could set up my studio here to work on producing. since its unused it makes financial sense for me to live here so I can devote all my time to my work . However I Didn't anticipate it being so hard to fit in with the locals.

Mr Posh Sep 27th 2009 5:05 pm

Re: no friends here and bored out of my mind
 
Sorry to hear that you are sad and alone........So why pick "vasto" if there is nothing to do....

NOTHING to DO!!!! you are living in the Biggest open air museum in the world...get in your car and visit this great country...

Pull yourself together...get a nice Italian Woman or Man and....... well you know ;)


PS...MAKE FRIENDS!!!!...Just start going to the bar in the mornings and start talking, unles vasto is so so small that there is no bars.


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