Don't want to aproach dodgey ex-employer?
#1
Don't want to aproach dodgey ex-employer?
I left my very first job (1yr) on bad terms after I got chemical
poisoning and reported my employers for health and safety.
Thing is I REALLY don't want go back to them for a ref as I still
fear repocusions.
This guy sacked his own nephew for not wanting to work with
chemicals that had been banned
I have no proof of myself woking there and was thinking of
writing a stat dec.
Has anyone else been in a similar situation where you can't/won't
aproach an ex-employer for a ref?
If so what did you do?
poisoning and reported my employers for health and safety.
Thing is I REALLY don't want go back to them for a ref as I still
fear repocusions.
This guy sacked his own nephew for not wanting to work with
chemicals that had been banned
I have no proof of myself woking there and was thinking of
writing a stat dec.
Has anyone else been in a similar situation where you can't/won't
aproach an ex-employer for a ref?
If so what did you do?
#2
Re: Don't want to aproach dodgey ex-employer?
I left my very first job (1yr) on bad terms after I got chemical
poisoning and reported my employers for health and safety.
Thing is I REALLY don't want go back to them for a ref as I still
fear repocusions.
This guy sacked his own nephew for not wanting to work with
chemicals that had been banned
I have no proof of myself woking there and was thinking of
writing a stat dec.
Has anyone else been in a similar situation where you can't/won't
aproach an ex-employer for a ref?
If so what did you do?
poisoning and reported my employers for health and safety.
Thing is I REALLY don't want go back to them for a ref as I still
fear repocusions.
This guy sacked his own nephew for not wanting to work with
chemicals that had been banned
I have no proof of myself woking there and was thinking of
writing a stat dec.
Has anyone else been in a similar situation where you can't/won't
aproach an ex-employer for a ref?
If so what did you do?
Is there anyone else at the company (not Mr Nasty!) that might do another stat dec to confirm you worked there, or even a brief "Scottyboy worked for C**pCo from date to date as jobtitle" on headed paper?
And do you actually need a ref from them? How far back into your working history are you going?
Last edited by Iwannabethere; Feb 28th 2007 at 12:27 pm. Reason: spelling
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Re: Don't want to aproach dodgey ex-employer?
I left my very first job (1yr) on bad terms after I got chemical
poisoning and reported my employers for health and safety.
Thing is I REALLY don't want go back to them for a ref as I still
fear repocusions.
This guy sacked his own nephew for not wanting to work with
chemicals that had been banned
I have no proof of myself woking there and was thinking of
writing a stat dec.
Has anyone else been in a similar situation where you can't/won't
aproach an ex-employer for a ref?
If so what did you do?
poisoning and reported my employers for health and safety.
Thing is I REALLY don't want go back to them for a ref as I still
fear repocusions.
This guy sacked his own nephew for not wanting to work with
chemicals that had been banned
I have no proof of myself woking there and was thinking of
writing a stat dec.
Has anyone else been in a similar situation where you can't/won't
aproach an ex-employer for a ref?
If so what did you do?
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Re: Don't want to aproach dodgey ex-employer?
Let's face it in general they are EX employers either because they hated you, you hated them or because you had a better offer (in which case you were disloyal). Unless you were made redundant, in which case they obviously thought you werent important.
I nearly took one of my employers to court for cutting my wages and changing my conditions, but got another job instead. One redundancy due to a company merger, and the boss disliked me anyway. Several companies I was happy to leave and would have preferred not to have to sweet-talk to.
The Oz government really expects a lot in return for giving a sticker in your passport
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Re: Don't want to aproach dodgey ex-employer?
I am dreading having to approach any of my ex-employers.
Let's face it in general they are EX employers either because they hated you, you hated them or because you had a better offer (in which case you were disloyal). Unless you were made redundant, in which case they obviously thought you werent important.
I nearly took one of my employers to court for cutting my wages and changing my conditions, but got another job instead. One redundancy due to a company merger, and the boss disliked me anyway. Several companies I was happy to leave and would have preferred not to have to sweet-talk to.
The Oz government really expects a lot in return for giving a sticker in your passport
Let's face it in general they are EX employers either because they hated you, you hated them or because you had a better offer (in which case you were disloyal). Unless you were made redundant, in which case they obviously thought you werent important.
I nearly took one of my employers to court for cutting my wages and changing my conditions, but got another job instead. One redundancy due to a company merger, and the boss disliked me anyway. Several companies I was happy to leave and would have preferred not to have to sweet-talk to.
The Oz government really expects a lot in return for giving a sticker in your passport
I dont know - i dont think that applies to all people's trades.....where my OH is concerned because he's sub-contracted to various people it just means that contracts dont last long so there's always going to be a long list of ex employees...
he's always worked using the motto of not burning any bridges or leaving on bad terms. (i know that isnt always possible for everyone)...
and as for OZ expecting a lot - arent we expecting the country to provide what we're lacking here in the UK (whatever each of ours ambitions are?).
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Re: Don't want to aproach dodgey ex-employer?
Quote - Let's face it in general they are EX employers either because they hated you, you hated them or because you had a better offer (in which case you were disloyal). Unless you were made redundant, in which case they obviously thought you werent important.
I dont know - i dont think that applies to all people's trades.....where my OH is concerned because he's sub-contracted to various people it just means that contracts dont last long so there's always going to be a long list of ex employees...
he's always worked using the motto of not burning any bridges or leaving on bad terms. (i know that isnt always possible for everyone)...
and as for OZ expecting a lot - arent we expecting the country to provide what we're lacking here in the UK (whatever each of ours ambitions are?).
I dont know - i dont think that applies to all people's trades.....where my OH is concerned because he's sub-contracted to various people it just means that contracts dont last long so there's always going to be a long list of ex employees...
he's always worked using the motto of not burning any bridges or leaving on bad terms. (i know that isnt always possible for everyone)...
and as for OZ expecting a lot - arent we expecting the country to provide what we're lacking here in the UK (whatever each of ours ambitions are?).
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Re: Don't want to aproach dodgey ex-employer?
I left my very first job (1yr) on bad terms after I got chemical
poisoning and reported my employers for health and safety.
Thing is I REALLY don't want go back to them for a ref as I still
fear repocusions.
This guy sacked his own nephew for not wanting to work with
chemicals that had been banned
I have no proof of myself woking there and was thinking of
writing a stat dec.
Has anyone else been in a similar situation where you can't/won't
aproach an ex-employer for a ref?
If so what did you do?
poisoning and reported my employers for health and safety.
Thing is I REALLY don't want go back to them for a ref as I still
fear repocusions.
This guy sacked his own nephew for not wanting to work with
chemicals that had been banned
I have no proof of myself woking there and was thinking of
writing a stat dec.
Has anyone else been in a similar situation where you can't/won't
aproach an ex-employer for a ref?
If so what did you do?
Hope you can work around this but the stat dec option is there for just this reason.
good luck
Rob
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Re: Don't want to aproach dodgey ex-employer?
Can you use the Stat Dec as a way round the present employer having to give a reference? Got bank slips, contract of employment, annual bonus letters etc.
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Re: Don't want to aproach dodgey ex-employer?
he's always worked using the motto of not burning any bridges or leaving on bad terms. (i know that isnt always possible for everyone)...
and as for OZ expecting a lot - arent we expecting the country to provide what we're lacking here in the UK (whatever each of ours ambitions are?)
#12
Re: Don't want to aproach dodgey ex-employer?
It's kind of reassuring to know I'm not the only one to miss out on the
Employee of the Year award.
I think past and present employers have always regarded me as a
necessary evil.
Employee of the Year award.
I think past and present employers have always regarded me as a
necessary evil.
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Re: Don't want to aproach dodgey ex-employer?
Haha, you sound like me. I was in one job for a further 12 months after the initial vibes that the boss wanted to get rid of me, while they tried desperately to figure out how they could manage without me. Damn, I sound real big-headed and arrogant saying that. It was a small company and I had a lot of responsibility, a fact the boss realised but didn't appreciate if you know what I mean.