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Auld Yin Sep 23rd 2009 12:02 pm

WHY
 
So, you have a nice middle-class or better lifestyle in a nice part of England/Scotland/Wales/NI. You own or are buying a nice house, you both have or one of you has a good job with an income(s) sufficient to support your lifestyle/family. You get 30-40 days vacation a year and take two or more family vacations each year. Two cars are on your driveway and you have all the boy’s/girl’s toys you want. Your children are happy in and doing well in school. You’re close physically to your families and value that greatly.

So why are you contemplating abandoning all this and travelling between 3,000 and 10,000 miles to move to Canada/Australia/New Zealand for, hopefully, a similar or perhaps slightly better lifestyle? The move will cost you a considerable amount of money to say nothing of the stress factors involved for all in the family.

There are a number of people on this site who have posted describing such a UK lifestyle. So what's in it for you?

Novocastrian Sep 23rd 2009 12:04 pm

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Originally Posted by Auld Yin (Post 7959256)
So, you have a nice middle-class or better lifestyle in a nice part of England/Scotland/Wales/NI. You own or are buying a nice house, you both have or one of you has a good job with an income(s) sufficient to support your lifestyle/family. You get 30-40 days vacation a year and take two or more family vacations each year. Two cars are on your driveway and you have all the boy’s/girl’s toys you want. Your children are happy in and doing well in school. You’re close physically to your families and value that greatly.

So why are you contemplating abandoning all this and travelling between 3,000 and 10,000 miles to move to Canada/Australia/New Zealand for, hopefully, a similar or perhaps slightly better lifestyle? The move will cost you a considerable amount of money to say nothing of the stress factors involved for all in the family.

There are a number of people on this site who have posted describing such a UK lifestyle. So what's in it for you?

Far too many Brits in the UK.

geedee Sep 23rd 2009 12:09 pm

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Originally Posted by Novocastrian (Post 7959263)
Far too many Brits in the UK.

Far too many non-Brits in the UK!

Butch Cassidy Sep 23rd 2009 12:17 pm

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Originally Posted by Auld Yin (Post 7959256)
So, you have a nice middle-class or better lifestyle in a nice part of England/Scotland/Wales/NI. You own or are buying a nice house, you both have or one of you has a good job with an income(s) sufficient to support your lifestyle/family. You get 30-40 days vacation a year and take two or more family vacations each year. Two cars are on your driveway and you have all the boy’s/girl’s toys you want. Your children are happy in and doing well in school. You’re close physically to your families and value that greatly.

So why are you contemplating abandoning all this and travelling between 3,000 and 10,000 miles to move to Canada/Australia/New Zealand for, hopefully, a similar or perhaps slightly better lifestyle? The move will cost you a considerable amount of money to say nothing of the stress factors involved for all in the family.

There are a number of people on this site who have posted describing such a UK lifestyle. So what's in it for you?

Weather, proximity to the mountains and an adventure

bsmith Sep 23rd 2009 12:26 pm

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Originally Posted by Auld Yin (Post 7959256)
So, you have a nice middle-class or better lifestyle in a nice part of England/Scotland/Wales/NI. You own or are buying a nice house, you both have or one of you has a good job with an income(s) sufficient to support your lifestyle/family. You get 30-40 days vacation a year and take two or more family vacations each year. Two cars are on your driveway and you have all the boy’s/girl’s toys you want. Your children are happy in and doing well in school. You’re close physically to your families and value that greatly.

So why are you contemplating abandoning all this and travelling between 3,000 and 10,000 miles to move to Canada/Australia/New Zealand for, hopefully, a similar or perhaps slightly better lifestyle? The move will cost you a considerable amount of money to say nothing of the stress factors involved for all in the family.

There are a number of people on this site who have posted describing such a UK lifestyle. So what's in it for you?

....they're the ones that'll go back in a few years.

Aviator Sep 23rd 2009 12:27 pm

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Originally Posted by bsmith (Post 7959314)
....they're the ones that'll go back in a few years.

Or months!

ScottDrummer Sep 23rd 2009 12:28 pm

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Because (to me) life is not about toys, money, having two cars on the drive, Canada offers me a million things UK cannot regardless of money.

Scott


Originally Posted by Auld Yin (Post 7959256)
So, you have a nice middle-class or better lifestyle in a nice part of England/Scotland/Wales/NI. You own or are buying a nice house, you both have or one of you has a good job with an income(s) sufficient to support your lifestyle/family. You get 30-40 days vacation a year and take two or more family vacations each year. Two cars are on your driveway and you have all the boy’s/girl’s toys you want. Your children are happy in and doing well in school. You’re close physically to your families and value that greatly.

So why are you contemplating abandoning all this and travelling between 3,000 and 10,000 miles to move to Canada/Australia/New Zealand for, hopefully, a similar or perhaps slightly better lifestyle? The move will cost you a considerable amount of money to say nothing of the stress factors involved for all in the family.

There are a number of people on this site who have posted describing such a UK lifestyle. So what's in it for you?


dbd33 Sep 23rd 2009 12:34 pm

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Originally Posted by ScottDrummer (Post 7959322)
Because (to me) life is not about toys, money, having two cars on the drive, Canada offers me a million things UK cannot regardless of money.

Scott


Apart from customer service in French, what does it offer ?

mandymoochops Sep 23rd 2009 12:36 pm

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Originally Posted by dbd33 (Post 7959328)
Apart from customer service in French, what does it offer ?

<feels a Python moment coming on>

bsmith Sep 23rd 2009 12:38 pm

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Originally Posted by geedee (Post 7959272)
Far too many non-Brits in the UK!

..far too many Daily Express readers in Canada.

ScottDrummer Sep 23rd 2009 12:38 pm

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Originally Posted by dbd33 (Post 7959328)
Apart from customer service in French, what does it offer ?

not worth biting tbh, but I believe it depends on your lifestyle, and what area of Canada you choose to live.

dbd33 Sep 23rd 2009 12:40 pm

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Originally Posted by ScottDrummer (Post 7959345)
not worth biting tbh, but I believe it depends on your lifestyle, and what area of Canada you choose to live.

I see that as rather backing down. If your argument is that living in Whistler offers you more than living in London because you're keen on skiing, I can see that, but I don't see how it applies to living in Mississauga vs. living in Basildon.

Alan2005 Sep 23rd 2009 12:43 pm

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Originally Posted by Auld Yin (Post 7959256)
So, you have a nice middle-class or better lifestyle in a nice part of England/Scotland/Wales/NI. You own or are buying a nice house, you both have or one of you has a good job with an income(s) sufficient to support your lifestyle/family. You get 30-40 days vacation a year and take two or more family vacations each year. Two cars are on your driveway and you have all the boy’s/girl’s toys you want. Your children are happy in and doing well in school. You’re close physically to your families and value that greatly.

So why are you contemplating abandoning all this and travelling between 3,000 and 10,000 miles to move to Canada/Australia/New Zealand for, hopefully, a similar or perhaps slightly better lifestyle? The move will cost you a considerable amount of money to say nothing of the stress factors involved for all in the family.

There are a number of people on this site who have posted describing such a UK lifestyle. So what's in it for you?

The group you are asking this question to is going to be self selecting. You are also asking it in a slightly leading way (nobody is going to admit to being materialistic or that material things are important to them on BE). The fact is that we are all leading middle class aspirational lifestyles and that's the way we like it. I doubt many of us are living from pay-day to pay-day working in a factory or a coal mine (either now or before we came).

For me the reason is that I like it here (mostly), I like being an expat, I like travelling, I like skiing, I can afford to do it. The real question is why wouldn't you if you had the opportunity?

ScottDrummer Sep 23rd 2009 12:45 pm

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I agree, which is why I said it depends on the area you move to and your intended lifestyle.
Personally Whistler offers mountains, skiing, a particular lifestyle, relaxed (sometimes too relaxed) attitude from people - a general sunny attitude, Biking, leisure, and 999,997 other things.

I don't see why the reason needs to be justified to anyone, as long as your happy thats all that matters.



Originally Posted by dbd33 (Post 7959348)
I see that as rather backing down. If your argument is that living in Whistler offers you more than living in London because you're keen on skiing, I can see that, but I don't see how it applies to living in Mississauga vs. living in Basildon.


dbd33 Sep 23rd 2009 12:48 pm

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Originally Posted by ScottDrummer (Post 7959362)
I agree, which is why I said it depends on the area you move to and your intended lifestyle.
Personally Whistler offers mountains, skiing, a particular lifestyle, relaxed (sometimes too relaxed) attitude from people - a general sunny attitude, Biking, leisure, and 999,997 other things.

I don't see why the reason needs to be justified to anyone, as long as your happy thats all that matters.

Fair enough, parts of Canada offer something you can't find in the UK. It's worth noting though that the reverse applies, whatever Conrad Black wanted was offered there but not here.

Novocastrian Sep 23rd 2009 12:54 pm

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Good point. But you also have to wonder whether this isn't basically a troll thread?

Auld Yin Sep 23rd 2009 12:59 pm

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Originally Posted by Alan2005 (Post 7959355)
The group you are asking this question to is going to be self selecting. You are also asking it in a slightly leading way (nobody is going to admit to being materialistic or that material things are important to them on BE). The fact is that we are all leading middle class aspirational lifestyles and that's the way we like it. I doubt many of us are living from pay-day to pay-day working in a factory or a coal mine (either now or before we came).

For me the reason is that I like it here (mostly), I like being an expat, I like travelling, I like skiing, I can afford to do it. The real question is why wouldn't you if you had the opportunity?

With respect, my question assumed most materialistic things were already available. One can easily travel from UK into the many countries of Europe and beyond and, of course, ski there. The point was, if you can do all these things already, what was/is it that drove you all those miles away?
I can understand more if one is living day-to-day and working in a factory. Canada, I think, offers more to such people, assuming they can find work in today's Canada.
BTW, what does "I like being an expat" mean? I don't understand that.

Novocastrian Sep 23rd 2009 1:03 pm

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Originally Posted by Auld Yin (Post 7959395)
With respect, my question assumed most materialistic things were already available. One can easily travel from UK into the many countries of Europe and beyond and, of course, ski there. The point was, if you can do all these things already, what was/is it that drove you all those miles away?
I can understand more if one is living day-to-day and working in a factory. Canada, I think, offers more to such people, assuming they can find work in today's Canada.
BTW, what does"I like being an expat" mean? I don't understand that.

I can answer that, but first, convince me that you're not just doing a wind up.

Danny B Sep 23rd 2009 1:04 pm

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Originally Posted by Auld Yin (Post 7959256)
There are a number of people on this site who have posted describing such a UK lifestyle. So what's in it for you?

The ease of obtaining a firearm, jacked up 4x4, hunting season, wearing a baseball cap and not being called a Chav, Canadian Tire, extra large double double, cheap petrol, cheap houses, Hockey September till June. Need I go on?

Beats a 3 bed semi in Middlesex any day of the week.

Auld Yin Sep 23rd 2009 1:07 pm

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Originally Posted by Novocastrian (Post 7959385)
Good point. But you also have to wonder whether this isn't basically a troll thread?

Why would you think it to be a troll thread? I've been on this site for almost a year now and the question(s) is/are genuine. Many threads/posts decry many aspects of this country and from what they say, they left a good, solid life in the UK and things seem to be no better here, for some even worse.
I just don't get it. What did they expect Canada to provide them that they didn't already have?

ann m Sep 23rd 2009 1:08 pm

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Originally Posted by Auld Yin (Post 7959256)
So, you have a nice middle-class or better lifestyle in a nice part of England/Scotland/Wales/NI. You own or are buying a nice house, you both have or one of you has a good job with an income(s) sufficient to support your lifestyle/family. You get 30-40 days vacation a year and take two or more family vacations each year. Two cars are on your driveway and you have all the boy’s/girl’s toys you want. Your children are happy in and doing well in school. You’re close physically to your families and value that greatly.

So why are you contemplating abandoning all this .....So what's in it for you?

I think that is a fair question ....


Originally Posted by dbd33 (Post 7959328)
Apart from customer service in French, what does it offer ?

I knew you'd come back with something like this .... :sneaky::lol::thumbup:


Originally Posted by Alan2005 (Post 7959355)
(nobody is going to admit to being materialistic or that material things are important to them on BE).

I can afford to do it. The real question is why wouldn't you if you had the opportunity?

I will admit that ....

And I agree - if I did not have much of my middle-class assets, I would not have taken the leap. I had no illusions that life would be 'cheaper' on this side - so I knew we could afford to risk a loss (and would be willing to take it on the chin) if it all went horribly wrong. It was definitely an opportunity worth exploring to us. Whether it was all worthwhile is still, on some days, up for debate .... but I was able to step off the treadmill for a while and take a breath, which was 'worth' a lot to me, and us regardless ...

I admire those that come with meagre savings because they have far more to lose - but also perhaps a stronger impetus to make it work out well. :sneaky:

Auld Yin Sep 23rd 2009 1:09 pm

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wearing a baseball cap

Have you checked out the spectators at a UK soccer match lately?

Auld Yin Sep 23rd 2009 1:14 pm

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Originally Posted by Novocastrian (Post 7959407)
I can answer that, but first, convince me that you're not just doing a wind up.

I wouldn't know how to convince you. I am sincerely interested in what it means. If you'd said you enjoyed being a UK'er or a Canadian, that I can get, but an ex-pat?

ray1968 Sep 23rd 2009 1:19 pm

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For me basically was to get away from the yob culture - Canada has it problems but we don't have fraction of the yob culture the UK does

geedee Sep 23rd 2009 1:22 pm

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Originally Posted by bsmith (Post 7959344)
..far too many Daily Express readers in Canada.

I beg your pardon? What on earth has that got to do with my post? I assume it's aimed at my post as you quoted me? I have to ask for clarification because the Daily Express was not a 'news'paper that I ever read in the UK.

Alan2005 Sep 23rd 2009 1:35 pm

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Originally Posted by Auld Yin (Post 7959433)
I wouldn't know how to convince you. I am sincerely interested in what it means. If you'd said you enjoyed being a UK'er or a Canadian, that I can get, but an ex-pat?

How many countries have you lived in?

Alan2005 Sep 23rd 2009 1:39 pm

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Originally Posted by geedee (Post 7959456)
I beg your pardon? What on earth has that got to do with my post? I assume it's aimed at my post as you quoted me? I have to ask for clarification because the Daily Express was not a 'news'paper that I ever read in the UK.

You have to admit that emigrating because of immigrants is odd.

Auld Yin Sep 23rd 2009 1:41 pm

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Originally Posted by Alan2005 (Post 7959481)
How many countries have you lived in?

What has that got to do with it?

geedee Sep 23rd 2009 1:49 pm

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Originally Posted by Alan2005 (Post 7959488)
You have to admit that emigrating because of immigrants is odd.

Not really. If you're watching the Country you grew up in disintegrate before your eyes as swathes of foreigners move in, it can trigger an 'escape' reaction, especially to places like Australia and Canada.

There are posts on this site, and other sites, where people have stated that as being a reason for moving.

And before anyone asks.... I am not an emigrant! I am in Canada because my Company sent me here!

Any way... what on earth has the daily express got to do with it???/

Alan2005 Sep 23rd 2009 1:50 pm

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Originally Posted by Auld Yin (Post 7959490)
What has that got to do with it?

Nothing really - it wasn't meant in a boastful way. It was a genuine question - this is my second time being an ex-pat and that feeling you have when you live abroad is great. It's not quite the same as being on holiday, but it's similar. The feeling that there is all that opportunity to experience new things there for the taking. It's nice. Not sure what Novo's take is, but that's what I mean.

Alan2005 Sep 23rd 2009 1:52 pm

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Originally Posted by geedee (Post 7959502)
Not really. If you're watching the Country you grew up in disintegrate before your eyes as swathes of foreigners move in, it can trigger an 'escape' reaction, especially to places like Australia and Canada.

There are posts on this site, and other sites, where people have stated that as being a reason for moving.

And before anyone asks.... I am not an emigrant! I am in Canada because my Company sent me here!

Any way... what on earth has the daily express got to do with it???/

It's an attitude beholden to daily express and daily mail readers. They blame immigrants for the 'disintegration' of their own country even though the changes for the worse are nothing to do with immigrants.

Lisa1910 Sep 23rd 2009 1:56 pm

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Originally Posted by dbd33 (Post 7959348)
I see that as rather backing down. If your argument is that living in Whistler offers you more than living in London because you're keen on skiing, I can see that, but I don't see how it applies to living in Mississauga vs. living in Basildon.

Tee hee - that's funny. I used to live in Basildon and I'm looking to move to Toronto - so that's pretty close to my exact situation! Before anyone gets the wrong idea - it's not quite as straightforward as that though.

There's many reasons to change location. The idea isn't just to trade one destination for another, but to learn from what the new destination has to offer and to be able to improve the quality of life you have. One of my biggest draws to Canada is the scenery. There's not much of it around Basildon these days. Having said that, I've not been to the UK in six years, so perhaps there's more than when I left! I seriously doubt it though...

My overriding reasons though, are purely that I truly believe that it will offer my kids better opportunities, and a better all-round lifestyle than that which they would have grown up into where we were.

Each to his own, and - as I say - there's plenty more to it than that - but that's the crux of the matter for us! I think both Ray1968 and Alan2005 touched on two of our reasons... and all the 'little' reasons add up eventually!

Lisa.

geedee Sep 23rd 2009 1:58 pm

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Originally Posted by Alan2005 (Post 7959513)
It's an attitude beholden to daily express and daily mail readers. They blame immigrants for the 'disintegration' of their own country even though the changes for the worse are nothing to do with immigrants.

Says who!? Unemployment in Britain is nearly 2.5 million.... when did you last see a Brit working in a London Hotel?? How many Polish electricians are touting for your jobs?

I thought the Patriotic papers were the Telegraph and sometimes the Times? Yes, I know the Daily Mail can get on its high horse too... but the express? I thought that was a 'flip-flop say whatever is necessary to sell more papers' type of paper...

Alan2005 Sep 23rd 2009 2:05 pm

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Originally Posted by geedee (Post 7959529)
Says who!? Unemployment in Britain is nearly 2.5 million.... when did you last see a Brit in a London Hotel?? How many Polish electricians are touting for your jobs?

I thought the Patriotic papers were the Telegraph and sometimes the Times? Yes, I know the Daily Mail can get on its high horse too... but the express? I thought that was a 'flip-flop say whatever is necessary to sell more papers' type of paper...

What paper you actually read isn't really the point. Other than that the gist of your post is idiotic. There isn't a finite number of jobs which immigrants then come and steal. Think about it some more, ask yourself how jobs are created and lost. It isn't anything to do with immigration - or at least in the way you think.

geedee Sep 23rd 2009 2:23 pm

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Originally Posted by Alan2005 (Post 7959545)
What paper you actually read isn't really the point. Other than that the gist of your post is idiotic. There isn't a finite number of jobs which immigrants then come and steal. Think about it some more, ask yourself how jobs are created and lost. It isn't anything to do with immigration - or at least in the way you think.

Firstly, there is no need to be insulting.

Secondly, you are obviously far more clever than most people on here... please explain why there is not a finite number of jobs in the UK, how jobs are created and lost and why immigrants from Eastern Europe and elsewhere do not actually deprive a UK Citizen of a job when they take one on?

Alan2005 Sep 23rd 2009 3:12 pm

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Originally Posted by geedee (Post 7959585)
Firstly, there is no need to be insulting.

Secondly, you are obviously far more clever than most people on here... please explain why there is not a finite number of jobs in the UK, how jobs are created and lost and why immigrants from Eastern Europe and elsewhere do not actually deprive a UK Citizen of a job when they take one on?

There is no finite number of jobs. The number of jobs available is based on the how much activity there is in the economy. The more activity there is the more jobs - it's that simple. To clarify even further, the more people there are, the more there is demand for goods and services, more food is required, more entertainments are required, more cars are required etc etc. You really can't blame the failure of the UK economic miracle on immigrants.

This is way off topic, but if you want to look at the cause of the recession then you will find it's government policy that was there purely for the benefit of the banks. The banks encouraged us to borrow and borrow for real estate, such that pretty much our entire collective productive output was sucked up into interest payments on loans to purchase it. There was no money left over for anyone to spend on other things, let alone on the debt repayment - hence the shit we are in now. I repeat... nothing to do with immigration at all!!

guardianx Sep 23rd 2009 6:25 pm

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There are people in Canada right now looking forward to their move to the UK in the same way as people here are planning to go to Van or To.

It isn't always that the grass is greener more than you have been in the UK for xx years now and on the premise that you only get one go at life maybe you should have some adventure and try other ways of life...

Strawberry Sep 23rd 2009 8:23 pm

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Originally Posted by bsmith (Post 7959314)
....they're the ones that'll go back in a few years.

rubbish........ sometimes its to change your lifestyle

Londonuck Sep 23rd 2009 10:30 pm

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Originally Posted by Auld Yin (Post 7959256)
So, you have a nice middle-class or better lifestyle in a nice part of England/Scotland/Wales/NI. You own or are buying a nice house, you both have or one of you has a good job with an income(s) sufficient to support your lifestyle/family. You get 30-40 days vacation a year and take two or more family vacations each year. Two cars are on your driveway and you have all the boy’s/girl’s toys you want. Your children are happy in and doing well in school. You’re close physically to your families and value that greatly.

So why are you contemplating abandoning all this and travelling between 3,000 and 10,000 miles to move to Canada/Australia/New Zealand for, hopefully, a similar or perhaps slightly better lifestyle? The move will cost you a considerable amount of money to say nothing of the stress factors involved for all in the family.

There are a number of people on this site who have posted describing such a UK lifestyle. So what's in it for you?



Met a lovely lady called Mary Juana. Man she made me laugh a lot.

micknev Sep 23rd 2009 10:40 pm

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Originally Posted by guardianx (Post 7960014)
There are people in Canada right now looking forward to their move to the UK in the same way as people here are planning to go to Van or To.

It isn't always that the grass is greener more than you have been in the UK for xx years now and on the premise that you only get one go at life maybe you should have some adventure and try other ways of life...

Exactly.:thumbsup:


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