Hi Smokey,

Just read your bad news about the husband doing the dirty on you. Sorry to hear it - but i'm sure he'l come to his senses, and NOT throw away the last 15 years over a bit-on-the-side! Mind you, that's IF you want him back.

But if you don't, then perhaps I can help.....

I've been training in martial-arts for 30 years and teaching both Karate and JuJitsu for 15, so if you don't want him back, I'm happy to teach you how to beat the cr*p out of him!!!!

Hope that's made you smile a bit. Take care,

Kev.

Cheers Kev....I'll hold that thought...in the meantime I lashed him with my tongue yesterday and boy is it tense here!! I think he was just so shocked that I new so much but he has canclled his afternoon's fun with slappergirl and I think I've given him something to think about (you know the little things like communicable diseases, how her hubby would feel if he knew etc etc... I believe we all have choices in life and if he considers it again...its either divorce or Bobbit time.
In the meantime we read Dr Phil....god I'm depressed (reading that is!)