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redmoose Jul 12th 2011 8:52 am

Re: Reasons for emigrating?
 

Originally Posted by dbd33 (Post 9491530)
I don't think this holds. I fancy that cutting down the trees in High Park to build a cabin would be frowned upon by the Parks and Rec department, they don't even like people playing ball games in the park. You describe a rural lifestyle but most people in Canada live in cities, to them it's not more accessible than it would be in Kilburn (granted most are likely glad about that).

I can only really make a comparison between rural life in the two countries and between city life in Scotland and rural life in Canada. What I see from friends in more urban areas here, however, is that the tree-felling-moose-hunting thing is still part of life for many - if not on such a regular basis. For many more urbanites, weekend trips to the cabin/ cottage with all that that entails, are very much part of their lives - in a way which is inconceivable for your average UK townie.

One key distinction between the two countries is that rural life in the UK is pretty much off limits to the average citizen. Not only is there little employment but house prices are at least as ridiculously unaffordable as in the cities. In Canada, jobs (especially well paid ones) can still be hard to find in rural areas but if you can find one then you can probably afford to live reasonable comfortably. It is also worth a mention that most rural villages in the UK have few services, necessitating lengthy drives for everything from fuel to fuel to groceries. Because small towns are usually further apart here, vital services tend to be closer by, making it easier for young families in particular to be more "self sufficient" in their communities.

Seeing the same faces at the bank, grocery store, swimming pool, church and office (while no doubt a nightmare for some) is part of what can create the welcoming small town feel which seems to be attractive to so many immigrants.

Almost Canadian Jul 12th 2011 8:59 am

Re: Reasons for emigrating?
 

Originally Posted by redmoose (Post 9491506)
OK - I accept the challenge.

(1) More opportunities for more people.

OK housing has been mentioned but that needs further clarification. Not everyone will be able to afford a larger home but most people will be able to afford some kind of home somewhere. Many people in the UK, particularly of the OP's generation, cannot afford to buy a home anywhere. Home ownership tends to rank fairly highly on most people's wish lists. Car ownership (again important to many people with the freedom it can bring) is more affordable here too.

What do all these people do for a living that can afford to buy the houses that others can't?


Originally Posted by redmoose (Post 9491506)
How many people here do you know with cabins, trailers, ATVs snowmobiles, boats etc? How many do you know who have these things in the UK? Are they important? To a lot of people "yes" would seem to be the answer. It's not just the material possessions but the lifestyle which accompanies these things - something sought by many immigrants - which is accessible to a good proportion of the population.

I don't know anyone with a boat, an ATV or a snowmobile. Granted, I know a few with trailers, I didn't know enough old people to know anyone with a caravan in England, but I saw way more of them en route to the mountains in the UK than I have ever seen en route to the Rockies here.:p


Originally Posted by redmoose (Post 9491506)
(2) Sports for kids.

That one is easy. I live in a tiny town in the middle of nowhere and my children have had swimming, skiing , hockey/ figure skating, gymnastics and soccer in the last 6 months or so - all for next to nothing and that is outside school sports. When they are older, there will be even more opportunities for them. As a straight comparison I grew up in a small town in rural Ireland and had a choice of rugby or, let me see .... rugby. Every town, village or suburb in Canada appears to have similar opportunities as sports for children seem to be more highly valued.

I would love to know how kitting out and paying for children to attend skiing, hockey/figure skating and gymnastics in Canada is cheaper than kids attending swimming, tennis, cricket lessons in the UK. We live close to the Rockies. To get one's child into a decent ski school here (not lessons on how to ski, but lessons to improve one's race performance) costs mega money.

If you are talking about locals playing on an outdoor rink in Canada, I would imagine the same number of kids would be playing soccer at their local park in the UK.


Originally Posted by redmoose (Post 9491506)
(3) Do you think Yahk, Likely, or 100 mile house would offer a "better" life than Glasgow? If so, why?

Absolutely. I have visited a number of towns in rural BC, including 100 mile, (and have friends in several) - none is well off but all can afford, with one working parent, their own homes and vehicles and a great life for their kids.

I suspect that there are just as many families in Canada as there are in the UK that have both parents working.

el_richo Jul 12th 2011 9:17 am

Re: Reasons for emigrating?
 

Originally Posted by redmoose (Post 9491506)
OK - I accept the challenge.

(1) More opportunities for more people.

OK housing has been mentioned but that needs further clarification. Not everyone will be able to afford a larger home but most people will be able to afford some kind of home somewhere. Many people in the UK, particularly of the OP's generation, cannot afford to buy a home anywhere. Home ownership tends to rank fairly highly on most people's wish lists. Car ownership (again important to many people with the freedom it can bring) is more affordable here too.

How many people here do you know with cabins, trailers, ATVs snowmobiles, boats etc? How many do you know who have these things in the UK? Are they important? To a lot of people "yes" would seem to be the answer. It's not just the material possessions but the lifestyle which accompanies these things - something sought by many immigrants - which is accessible to a good proportion of the population.

(2) Sports for kids.

That one is easy. I live in a tiny town in the middle of nowhere and my children have had swimming, skiing , hockey/ figure skating, gymnastics and soccer in the last 6 months or so - all for next to nothing and that is outside school sports. When they are older, there will be even more opportunities for them. As a straight comparison I grew up in a small town in rural Ireland and had a choice of rugby or, let me see .... rugby. Every town, village or suburb in Canada appears to have similar opportunities as sports for children seem to be more highly valued.

So you're saying the opportunities are DIFFERENT. That makes more sense now :thumbup:


Originally Posted by redmoose (Post 9491506)
(3) Do you think Yahk, Likely, or 100 mile house would offer a "better" life than Glasgow? If so, why?

Absolutely. I have visited a number of towns in rural BC, including 100 mile, (and have friends in several) - none is well off but all can afford, with one working parent, their own homes and vehicles and a great life for their kids.

You still didn't give a reason why.

MikeUK Jul 12th 2011 9:18 am

Re: Reasons for emigrating?
 

Originally Posted by Almost Canadian (Post 9491647)
If you are talking about locals playing on an outdoor rink in Canada, I would imagine the same number of kids would be playing soccer at their local park in the UK.

My quick thoughts are, back in the Uk we played football with a tennis ball almost every lunch time.

I know times have changed and exchange rates could be factored in, but I expect 1 new tennis ball will still be cheaper when spread over a minimum of two indivduals than would be two pairs of second hand skates?

Oink Jul 12th 2011 9:19 am

Re: Reasons for emigrating?
 

Originally Posted by el_richo (Post 9491704)


You still didn't give a reason why.

I thought I cleared it up. :confused:

alcat2010 Jul 12th 2011 9:20 am

Re: Reasons for emigrating?
 

Originally Posted by redmoose (Post 9491339)
Just catching up with this thread now. Your posts and Izzi's were a reminder of some of the reasons my family left the UK. 5 years in Govan were as much as any sane man should have to bear.

I remember the night we were showing our flat to a potential buyer and the teenage gangs outside were chasing each other with golf clubs and hammers. They took a break eventually though to set fire to a tree in the park for some more light hearted entertainment.

West/ central Scotland has to be one of the most difficult parts of the country to live in - widespread poverty, miserable weather and huge social issues. I can appreciate why you would wish to leave. I have had 3 children since moving to Canada and could not imagine living with them in Glasgow.

One of the principal reasons for emigration is to enjoy a better quality of life for oneself and/ or one's family. From my experiences in Canada more people have access to more opportunities here. It is possible for almost any working person here to afford a home (even if it is a trailer) and a car - things that are important to most families. Children are also likely to have access to sports opportunities which are harder to come by in the UK. One can definitely enjoy a great quality of life in the UK living in a cute home counties' village but unfortunately those areas are going to be out of reach for the vast majority of young families.

Some very wise words have been offered here but please don't be put off following your dream. I would think that the chances of having a better life in Canada than in Glasgow are fairly high!


Thanks for your post mate,

And not just because you are "saying what I want to hear" as some people on here might think..

It's good to see that someone actually gets what I was trying to say..

I didnt want to say it earlier, but comparing a childhood growing up in leafy Berkshire or wherever, compared to the West of Scotland really is night and day..

Now when I started this thread, I was looking to hear peoples reasons for wanting to leave the UK, (majority of folk must have thought Canada would be better at some point as why would they go?)..

But what I didnt expect was certain people (who probably sit on the internet just a little too much :blink: and take out there frustrations on a keyboard) try and make out other peoples reasons as being the wrong ones.. ?

iaink Jul 12th 2011 9:24 am

Re: Reasons for emigrating?
 

Originally Posted by el_richo (Post 9491704)
You still didn't give a reason why.

Why should they have to? They expressed their view, if you dont happen to agree thats fine, but it neednt become a pissing contest.

alcat2010 Jul 12th 2011 9:32 am

Re: Reasons for emigrating?
 

Originally Posted by iaink (Post 9491724)
Why should they have to? They expressed their view, if you dont happen to agree thats fine, but it neednt become a pissing contest.

Carefull..... you wouldn't like him when he's angry.....:p

iaink Jul 12th 2011 9:32 am

Re: Reasons for emigrating?
 

Originally Posted by alcat2010 (Post 9491711)
I didnt want to say it earlier, but comparing a childhood growing up in leafy Berkshire or wherever, compared to the West of Scotland really is night and day..

But thats not really the point. Ill take your word for it that the west of scotland isnt the greatest, and the decision to leave that area is yours to make.

What Im not clear on is why go from there to Canada, with all those immigration hoops to jump through and all the expense of the process and a transatlantic move and finding jobs in a foreign culture that doesnt understand or care for UK school exams or NVQs, not to mention a rather alternative climate to the UK.. Why not set off for somewhere closer to home, like leafy Berkshire, or somewhere more affordable like sleepy Norfolk or wherever...

Personally I dont care, but I do know that if emmigrating is to work out, in most cases you need to have a firm handle on your motivation for doing it when the going gets tough. Are you drawn to something inextricably canadian, or running from something peculiarly british...

Its seldom as clear cut as all that of course, but you get the idea.

iaink Jul 12th 2011 9:36 am

Re: Reasons for emigrating?
 

Originally Posted by Almost Canadian (Post 9491647)

I suspect that there are just as many families in Canada as there are in the UK that have both parents working.

Thats could be, but there are two and a half times as many people living in the UK, so the maths is in Canadas favour;)

Surely there is census info for the UK and Canada that records the number of dual income households, should anyone care to confirm or deny the facts...

MikeUK Jul 12th 2011 9:37 am

Re: Reasons for emigrating?
 

Originally Posted by alcat2010 (Post 9491711)
Now when I started this thread, I was looking to hear peoples reasons for wanting to leave the UK, (majority of folk must have thought Canada would be better at some point as why would they go?)..

its an assumption

Many of us or at least many of those I know followed a job i.e. applied for or was approached to take a job in Canada that would either be an improvement on the one we had or would improve prospects for career improvement.

I left to get a couple of years international experience to enable me to boost my salary expectations when I returned to the UK, it worked, it got me from a UK based role to a European based role, however I’m back in Canada having now played in a North American level role and working towards a Global role.

I don’t think Canada “the place” factored in to any of those decisions, other than perhaps being considered an equivalent 1st world nation, with very little consideration to be being different, more just working on the assumption that what I had seen seems to be very similar to what I knew at home, enough so that I knew I could cope with a new job without worrying about where and how I would live.

iaink Jul 12th 2011 9:41 am

Re: Reasons for emigrating?
 

Originally Posted by MikeUK (Post 9491755)
its an assumption

Many of us or at least many of those I know followed a job i.e. applied for or was approached to take a job in Canada that would either be an improvement on the one we had or would improve prospects for career improvement.

I left to get a couple of years international experience to enable me to boost my salary expectations when I returned to the UK, it worked, it got me from a UK based role to a European based role, however I’m back in Canada having now played in a North American level role and working towards a Global role.

I don’t think Canada “the place” factored in to any of those decisions, other than perhaps being considered an equivalent 1st world nation, with very little consideration to be being different, more just working on the assumption that what I had seen seems to be very similar to what I knew at home, enough so that I knew I could cope with a new job without worrying about where and how I would live.

Thats broadly why I came (although without all the career progression considerations.)

Its not why I am happy to stay here though.

Comparing my lifestyle and that of my kids, with friends and relatives in the UK, personally I think Canada has more to offer to a middle income earner like myself. I can afford a nicer home (yes, that again), a few toys, and my stress level is a lot lower (probably not true if I lived in a city instead) My kids dont seem to be placed under as much pressure here, both time pressure and the pressure of being categorised and evaluated at an early age. To me it seems that they have more time to grow up, but with plenty of opportunities to do kids stuff, as well as all the stuff they get enrolled in, music, sports, reading clubs etc etc. It could be that we would have struck that balance in the UK, and it could be that we are lucky in the location we ended up in that skiing (yes, even the race training), skating, soccer, music lessons etc are not prohibitively expensive.

Lychee Jul 12th 2011 9:41 am

Re: Reasons for emigrating?
 
When you flee the worst of UK culture (yobs, drinking, etc.) for Canada, you're also fleeing the best of UK culture - the very fabric of your day to day life, the things you take for granted in the UK. The shopping, the like-minded mentality, the humour, the driving habits, the seasons, the countryside, etc. and you're replacing it with the best and the worst of Canadian culture - wherever in Canada you happen to end up. Keep this in mind. You're replacing your entire society with a foreign society. For all intents and purposes, Canadian society will be foreign to you.

MikeUK Jul 12th 2011 9:49 am

Re: Reasons for emigrating?
 

Originally Posted by iaink (Post 9491762)
Thats broadly why I came (although without all the career progression considerations.)

Its not why I am happy to stay here though.

My gut feel is many of those that come here not expecting uptopia, have a pleasent time and like myself end up staying

I see so many come trying to escape something that was never that real, that often existed inside their head, and as a result it came with them, some times resulting in the very bitter opinions we see in MBTUK forum.

iaink Jul 12th 2011 9:53 am

Re: Reasons for emigrating?
 

Originally Posted by MikeUK (Post 9491781)
My gut feel is many of those that come here not expecting uptopia, have a pleasent time and like myself end up staying

I see so many come trying to escape something that was never that real, that often existed inside their head, and as a result it came with them, some times resulting in the very bitter opinions we see in MBTUK forum.

Could be, after all if you come with unrealistic expectations they can never be met and you are setting yourself up for disappointment. I certainly had no preconceptions when I got of the plane, and have mostly had a positive experience here.


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