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Old Apr 11th 2010 | 6:50 am
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Hi, I am planning on moving to Vancouver later this year hopefully to begin a Diploma in Accountancy programme. I am nearly 34 and will be moving completely by myself. I have a sister who lives in Massachusetts, but thats obviously miles away. So is it quite easy to meet people in Vancouver, and are there plenty of singles in their 30s over there to meet? I hopefully would like to get married and have a family sometime this lifetime.
 
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Hi, I am planning on moving to Vancouver later this year hopefully to begin a Diploma in Accountancy programme. I am nearly 34 and will be moving completely by myself. I have a sister who lives in Massachusetts, but thats obviously miles away. So is it quite easy to meet people in Vancouver, and are there plenty of singles in their 30s over there to meet? I hopefully would like to get married and have a family sometime this lifetime.
Hello,

I dont live in Vancouver, but I made the move to Canada alone, I found that if you just get yourself out to a few bars there are always people that want to talk to you.....including the ladies!! Its a bit lonely at first, but you start to make a few aquaintences after a while, whcih could lead to deeper freindships.

The workplace is always a good way to meet people too, and failing that I found when I worked in a bar (not my usual job - I now have a job in my usual field) but this is really good for meeting and getting to know people in a new area very quickly, I would consider this if I ever moved areas again, I would consider doing it alongside my day job, as it really does accelerate the process of getting to know people.

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Old Apr 12th 2010 | 5:14 am
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I wasnt (quite) on my thirties, or on the West coast, but arrived on my own and managed to become attached to a wife, kids, associated cars, mortgage and 3 family pets. In short I've turned into an old man (approaching the big 4 Oh) with more responsibilities than I ever hoped for There is hope for everyone

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thanks for advice! i may not get married but i guess i would rather be single elsewhere than the UK. i live in colchester right now and to say its boring is an understatement.
 
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Canadians are very friendly (most of the time) so you do not have any problem meeting new people
 
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i live in colchester right now and to say its boring is an understatement.
Get ready for the excitement that is Vancouver
 
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Get ready for the excitement that is Vancouver
That's very funny.
 
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Hi, I am planning on moving to Vancouver later this year hopefully to begin a Diploma in Accountancy programme. I am nearly 34 and will be moving completely by myself. I have a sister who lives in Massachusetts, but thats obviously miles away. So is it quite easy to meet people in Vancouver, and are there plenty of singles in their 30s over there to meet? I hopefully would like to get married and have a family sometime this lifetime.
Good God man. You'll be at UBC. More totty than you can shake a blunt stick at. And you are single. You lucky, lucky barsteward.
 
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Good God man. You'll be at UBC. More totty than you can shake a blunt stick at. And you are single. You lucky, lucky barsteward.
The OP is attending an Accountancy related course so he may struggle, even there.
 
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I moved alone to Toronto (June 2008) and it is just as hard (or easy) to find a partner in Canada as in any other place of the world.

But since Canada is a place where lots of people are moving to at different ages you will meet many people who are in your shoes!

try www.meetup.com and start connecting with new friends in your area. You'll be surprised! I met lots of people through those "organized" social events and it's always fun. Once you are settled you can of course try eharmony.ca and other online dating sites. But give meetup a try - it's the cheaper and nicer way to connect!!

all the best!
 
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Originally Posted by bobbarker12345
Hi, I am planning on moving to Vancouver later this year hopefully to begin a Diploma in Accountancy programme. I am nearly 34 and will be moving completely by myself. I have a sister who lives in Massachusetts, but thats obviously miles away. So is it quite easy to meet people in Vancouver, and are there plenty of singles in their 30s over there to meet? I hopefully would like to get married and have a family sometime this lifetime.
I am in a same position. It is daunting to move alone, however when I was on my recce trip to Vancouver in December, I found everyone to be really friendly so I think you will have no problem. I hope to get out there in the autumn.
 
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Don't forget your accent will be a chick magnet.

That's what a woman in Shoppers DrugMart told me.
 
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My son has kept his accent and is a chick magnet - my daughter has lost hers but is pretty anyway.

Everyone comments on it!
 
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Originally Posted by bobbarker12345
Hi, I am planning on moving to Vancouver later this year hopefully to begin a Diploma in Accountancy programme. I am nearly 34 and will be moving completely by myself. I have a sister who lives in Massachusetts, but thats obviously miles away. So is it quite easy to meet people in Vancouver, and are there plenty of singles in their 30s over there to meet? I hopefully would like to get married and have a family sometime this lifetime.
Vancouver is a very lively and exciting place, especially when you get to the downtown area, I've been there on two different occasions and had no difficulties attracting company of different kinds. You'll be fine.
 
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Originally Posted by BristolUK
Don't forget your accent will be a chick magnet.

That's what a woman in Shoppers DrugMart told me.
Yeah it is in some ways, I also find that some are a bit wary of you too tho, as they have trouble understanding everything you say, unless thats just me!! Apprently we talk to fast! and some shortened/slang words are not understood.

It mostly works for you tho I find! LOL

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