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MarylandNed Nov 30th 2015 3:18 am

Re: How do you handle it?
 

Originally Posted by Steve_ (Post 11793534)
It's not really that big of a problem nowadays with Skype etc.

Agreed. I keep in touch with various apps like Skype, Facebook, Viber etc.


Originally Posted by Steve_ (Post 11793534)
The only thing that is slightly annoying is the time difference.

More annoying in Alberta than on the east coast.

It's hard to be away when people get sick. Missing weddings, births, funerals etc is also tough.

It's even tougher (and more expensive) if you have kids yourself and need to visit the UK. Kids also mean that your vacation time is restricted due to school.

Decisive moment Nov 30th 2015 6:58 am

Re: How do you handle it?
 
Yes its tough, leaving my family (not to mention friends) behind was a MASSIVE decision for me. But I absolutely love it here, and my own little family is really benefiting from the lifestyle. What my kids are missing out on not being close to their cousins etc they gain in the space and fresh air.

But, I've only been here a few months so time will tell, right now facetime, skype etc definitely makes it easier.

Good luck! Its a hard choice to make but you only have one life. Go with your heart : )

BristolUK Nov 30th 2015 7:10 am

Re: How do you handle it?
 

Originally Posted by Decisive moment (Post 11805349)
... But I absolutely love it here...

Mono....are you near this place?

http://vacay1.vacayca.netdna-cdn.com...cliffs-inn.jpg

Decisive moment Nov 30th 2015 7:14 am

Re: How do you handle it?
 

Originally Posted by BristolUK (Post 11805358)

yep!

Partially discharged Nov 30th 2015 7:26 am

Re: How do you handle it?
 

Originally Posted by BristolUK (Post 11805358)

Great place. I remember going there in 1992 on my 2nd or 3rd date with my now wife after skiing in Collingwood. Great food and a fun crowd. Back then it was owned by a real character from Australia. On the ground floor it was a high(ish) end restaurant and downstairs was a cozy pub. Is the setup still the same?

dbd33 Nov 30th 2015 7:38 am

Re: How do you handle it?
 

Originally Posted by Partially discharged (Post 11805365)
Great place. I remember going there in 1992 on my 2nd or 3rd date with my now wife after skiing in Collingwood. Great food and a fun crowd. Back then it was owned by a real character from Australia.

He's from Brighton; the only person I've ever met who pretended to be an Australian. Perhaps he's a Pakistani now.

Decisive moment Nov 30th 2015 7:41 am

Re: How do you handle it?
 

Originally Posted by Partially discharged (Post 11805365)
Great place. I remember going there in 1992 on my 2nd or 3rd date with my now wife after skiing in Collingwood. Great food and a fun crowd. Back then it was owned by a real character from Australia. On the ground floor it was a high(ish) end restaurant and downstairs was a cozy pub. Is the setup still the same?

small world : )

Only actually been in once, we live on the other side of Highway 10 to Mono Central and having no family here means no babysitting service!
But yes we had a nice meal in the upstairs and I believe there's a bar downstairs, although have heard rumours its a 'members only' type situation.

Decisive moment Nov 30th 2015 7:42 am

Re: How do you handle it?
 

Originally Posted by dbd33 (Post 11805377)
He's from Brighton; the only person I've ever met who pretended to be an Australian. Perhaps he's a Pakistani now.

this is another rumour that i've heard ; )

dbd33 Nov 30th 2015 7:43 am

Re: How do you handle it?
 

Originally Posted by Decisive moment (Post 11805380)
there's a bar downstairs, although have heard rumours its a 'members only' type situation.

Just a bit cliquey.

Partially discharged Nov 30th 2015 7:56 am

Re: How do you handle it?
 

Originally Posted by dbd33 (Post 11805377)
He's from Brighton; the only person I've ever met who pretended to be an Australian. Perhaps he's a Pakistani now.

When I went it was noisy and the place downstairs was called Peter's Cellar or something like that. Why if you were from Brighton would you pretend to be Australian.?

The lady behind the bar serving drinks had a striking resemblance to Juliette Binoche which was rather distracting. :thumbsup:

I hadn't heard that it had become a members club. The website doesn't seem to indicate that.

dbd33 Nov 30th 2015 11:13 am

Re: How do you handle it?
 

Originally Posted by Partially discharged (Post 11805391)
When I went it was noisy and the place downstairs was called Peter's Cellar or something like that. Why if you were from Brighton would you pretend to be Australian.?

That, Sir, is one of the great imponderables of our time. I suppose it's better than posing as a saffer.


Originally Posted by Partially discharged (Post 11805391)
The lady behind the bar serving drinks had a striking resemblance to Juliette Binoche which was rather distracting. :thumbsup:

Only Peter served me. iirc that`s not his actual name either, it`s a place of many mysteries, Mono.


Originally Posted by Partially discharged (Post 11805391)
I hadn't heard that it had become a members club. The website doesn't seem to indicate that.

I suspect that`s a suggestion that many of the customers might choose to live in Brighton but as I say, I only went to be served by Peter.

irfyg Dec 6th 2015 2:08 pm

Re: How do you handle it?
 

Originally Posted by el_richo (Post 11804195)
We all chase a dream, but often we must realise accepting reality is the better path.

A Canadian acquaintance who wants to move to Europe for a "better" lifestyle for him and his family asked me what i loved about Canada that you can't get in the UK. Other than access to mountains and related activities, i couldn't think of a single thing. He then asked me, is it worth leaving your longtime friends and close family for that?

I told him it may be different if you're moving from a not so nice area to a nicer environment, but he countered with "surely you can do that within the UK anyway and not lose touch with those who matter in your life".

Genuine questions and i didn't have many answers.

These are the questions I'm asking myself right now, my spouse is in the UK and working on moving to Canada. The biggest issue we're dealing with is that she has been a practising OT for 3 years now; I'm just finishing my student placement at the end of my degree.

We're debating whether we should consider me moving there since she has to go through so much to transfer her profession to Canadian standards and already has a foundation set up there.


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