DENIAL ...Not Just a River in Egypt
#32
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Re: DENIAL ...Not Just a River in Egypt
Is it? Google maps shows there are Utopias in Texas, Ontario, New York and New Brunswick.
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I know exactly where you are coming from. By 1996, I was disillusioned with my life in Glasgow, by 2003, I was disillusioned with life in Toronto, and yes - you guessed it - in 2012, I'm disillusioned with my life in Glasgow. Planning now to return to Toronto - I think I was less disillusioned there, maybe.
Ha Ha Ha. I'm not laughing at you mate. I've gone through exactly the same thing.
Here's the bottom line: Life in Glasgow is shit mixed with joy. Life in Canada is a different flavour of shit mixed with joy.
#38
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What I would say is that the work culture in Canada reminds of the UK in the 1970s, before Thatcher-ism. It's not quite that bad but there are similarities.
+ Easy to become friends with Canadians - seperation by same language not such a big deal especially if you're British
- They take everything literally, are painfully politically correct and sarcasm 'does not compute'
- They take everything literally, are painfully politically correct and sarcasm 'does not compute'
Sense of humour, sarcasm, etc. is pretty much the same, but not as sophisticated.
+ Driving in Canada is easy with careful courteous drivers
- Overtaking can be done from anywhere and the combination of bad weather and inconsiderate drivers make it just as 'touch and go' as in UK.
- Overtaking can be done from anywhere and the combination of bad weather and inconsiderate drivers make it just as 'touch and go' as in UK.
But the major factor is that road engineering is simply worse. I've seen roads with virtually no road markings on them for example. And not just because of weather, they just never bothered to paint them.
+ Houses are affordable compared to the UK
- Thanks to a cr*ppy exchange rate and an overheated housing market, affordable now means having to get a 'fixer upper' in a scummy area OR miles away from where you need to be
- Thanks to a cr*ppy exchange rate and an overheated housing market, affordable now means having to get a 'fixer upper' in a scummy area OR miles away from where you need to be
+ Cost of living is comparable if not better than UK
- UK is generally much cheaper (I still can't get over how unbelievably expensive Canadian car insurance is??)
- UK is generally much cheaper (I still can't get over how unbelievably expensive Canadian car insurance is??)
I never quite get the comments about car insurance, my rate is only a bit higher than what I paid in the UK for an equivalent car, I did have a hell of a job getting them to accept my UK insurance history though, so if you didn't do that or couldn't manage it, then obviously you're going to be paying more.
+ Winters seem to be getting milder (less cold and shorter) in and around Toronto/GTA area so 'surviving winter' is not such an ordeal
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- ???
So...moving to Canada doesn't seem to be a 'slam dunk' option. At best it's a DIFFERENT way to live your life but is different enough? Doesn't the novelty wear off eventually so that you end up in the same disillusioned state that made you want to emigrate in the first place?
I wouldn't say it's a terribly different way to live your life either, the Queen is still the head of state, lot of British influences.
#39
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Re: DENIAL ...Not Just a River in Egypt
Just have to decide where offers less shit than joy,,,, just wish it was that easy
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The pound is the weakest it has ever been against various major currencies, including the Canadian dollar.
#41
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'When you close your curtains at night, your house could be anywhere in the world'. At the end of the day it is what you make of it. I would be happy living in the UK, but my circumstances lead me to Canada right now, but as long as I have my child and husband and we are happy, I wouldn't care if it was the north pole...
#42
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+ Canadians are generally welcoming to immigrants
Agreed, but probably depends where you end up. Lots of British-descent Canadians here in London so there's an easy commonality there. Also lots of Dutch in the countryside (farmers) and I've always found them friendly toward Brits. Not sure that's the case in Quebec necessarily, unless you speak le lingo.
+ Easy to become friends with Canadians - seperation by same language not such a big deal especially if you're British
- They take everything literally, are painfully politically correct and sarcasm 'does not compute'
Varies - you get used to different turns of phrase (NB. you NEVER stroke a dog, you PET it) PCness - maybe a little more than in the UK on average. Humour - Sometimes on a different page, but sarcasm isn't unknown. I've always enjoyed the humour of my friends and colleagues here. You will miss British TV comedies.
+ Driving in Canada is easy with careful courteous drivers
- Overtaking can be done from anywhere and the combination of bad weather and inconsiderate drivers make it just as 'touch and go' as in UK.
Courteous, no. Not even remotely. Especially in Toronto. And tailgating seems the norm here. Undertaking/weaving in and out are also common. Dangerous if you are not used to cars appearing on your inside and sitting in your blindspot. Idiots are everywhere, but I find more of them on the road here than back in the UK.
+ Houses are affordable compared to the UK
I'd agree with that, even with current exchange rate. Again, depends on what areas you are looking at. A house in Toronto went for $400k over ask recently.
+ Winters seem to be getting milder (less cold and shorter) in and around Toronto/GTA area so 'surviving winter' is not such an ordeal
This year was v.mild. I'm not one to jump on the "global warming bandwagon" though. Snow is still a welcome novelty for me, so I don't mind Winter.
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Agreed, but probably depends where you end up. Lots of British-descent Canadians here in London so there's an easy commonality there. Also lots of Dutch in the countryside (farmers) and I've always found them friendly toward Brits. Not sure that's the case in Quebec necessarily, unless you speak le lingo.
+ Easy to become friends with Canadians - seperation by same language not such a big deal especially if you're British
- They take everything literally, are painfully politically correct and sarcasm 'does not compute'
Varies - you get used to different turns of phrase (NB. you NEVER stroke a dog, you PET it) PCness - maybe a little more than in the UK on average. Humour - Sometimes on a different page, but sarcasm isn't unknown. I've always enjoyed the humour of my friends and colleagues here. You will miss British TV comedies.
+ Driving in Canada is easy with careful courteous drivers
- Overtaking can be done from anywhere and the combination of bad weather and inconsiderate drivers make it just as 'touch and go' as in UK.
Courteous, no. Not even remotely. Especially in Toronto. And tailgating seems the norm here. Undertaking/weaving in and out are also common. Dangerous if you are not used to cars appearing on your inside and sitting in your blindspot. Idiots are everywhere, but I find more of them on the road here than back in the UK.
+ Houses are affordable compared to the UK
I'd agree with that, even with current exchange rate. Again, depends on what areas you are looking at. A house in Toronto went for $400k over ask recently.
+ Winters seem to be getting milder (less cold and shorter) in and around Toronto/GTA area so 'surviving winter' is not such an ordeal
This year was v.mild. I'm not one to jump on the "global warming bandwagon" though. Snow is still a welcome novelty for me, so I don't mind Winter.
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#43
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'When you close your curtains at night, your house could be anywhere in the world'. At the end of the day it is what you make of it. I would be happy living in the UK, but my circumstances lead me to Canada right now, but as long as I have my child and husband and we are happy, I wouldn't care if it was the north pole...
#44
Re: DENIAL ...Not Just a River in Egypt
+ Canadians are generally welcoming to immigrants
Agreed, but probably depends where you end up. Lots of British-descent Canadians here in London so there's an easy commonality there. Also lots of Dutch in the countryside (farmers) and I've always found them friendly toward Brits. Not sure that's the case in Quebec necessarily, unless you speak le lingo.
+ Easy to become friends with Canadians - seperation by same language not such a big deal especially if you're British
- They take everything literally, are painfully politically correct and sarcasm 'does not compute'
Varies - you get used to different turns of phrase (NB. you NEVER stroke a dog, you PET it) PCness - maybe a little more than in the UK on average. Humour - Sometimes on a different page, but sarcasm isn't unknown. I've always enjoyed the humour of my friends and colleagues here. You will miss British TV comedies.
+ Driving in Canada is easy with careful courteous drivers
- Overtaking can be done from anywhere and the combination of bad weather and inconsiderate drivers make it just as 'touch and go' as in UK.
Courteous, no. Not even remotely. Especially in Toronto. And tailgating seems the norm here. Undertaking/weaving in and out are also common. Dangerous if you are not used to cars appearing on your inside and sitting in your blindspot. Idiots are everywhere, but I find more of them on the road here than back in the UK.
+ Houses are affordable compared to the UK
I'd agree with that, even with current exchange rate. Again, depends on what areas you are looking at. A house in Toronto went for $400k over ask recently.
+ Winters seem to be getting milder (less cold and shorter) in and around Toronto/GTA area so 'surviving winter' is not such an ordeal
This year was v.mild. I'm not one to jump on the "global warming bandwagon" though. Snow is still a welcome novelty for me, so I don't mind Winter.
Agreed, but probably depends where you end up. Lots of British-descent Canadians here in London so there's an easy commonality there. Also lots of Dutch in the countryside (farmers) and I've always found them friendly toward Brits. Not sure that's the case in Quebec necessarily, unless you speak le lingo.
+ Easy to become friends with Canadians - seperation by same language not such a big deal especially if you're British
- They take everything literally, are painfully politically correct and sarcasm 'does not compute'
Varies - you get used to different turns of phrase (NB. you NEVER stroke a dog, you PET it) PCness - maybe a little more than in the UK on average. Humour - Sometimes on a different page, but sarcasm isn't unknown. I've always enjoyed the humour of my friends and colleagues here. You will miss British TV comedies.
+ Driving in Canada is easy with careful courteous drivers
- Overtaking can be done from anywhere and the combination of bad weather and inconsiderate drivers make it just as 'touch and go' as in UK.
Courteous, no. Not even remotely. Especially in Toronto. And tailgating seems the norm here. Undertaking/weaving in and out are also common. Dangerous if you are not used to cars appearing on your inside and sitting in your blindspot. Idiots are everywhere, but I find more of them on the road here than back in the UK.
+ Houses are affordable compared to the UK
I'd agree with that, even with current exchange rate. Again, depends on what areas you are looking at. A house in Toronto went for $400k over ask recently.
+ Winters seem to be getting milder (less cold and shorter) in and around Toronto/GTA area so 'surviving winter' is not such an ordeal
This year was v.mild. I'm not one to jump on the "global warming bandwagon" though. Snow is still a welcome novelty for me, so I don't mind Winter.
I have to agree with your reply's to everything especially the not so courteous drivers. I can even say my hubby is one of those not so courteous drivers and the speed he drives at...there always in a hurry. Its a good job we have decided to move there cause he would not have the patience to drive in the UK.
#45
Re: DENIAL ...Not Just a River in Egypt
'When you close your curtains at night, your house could be anywhere in the world'. At the end of the day it is what you make of it. I would be happy living in the UK, but my circumstances lead me to Canada right now, but as long as I have my child and husband and we are happy, I wouldn't care if it was the north pole...