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Biiiiink Feb 6th 2007 3:21 am

Re: Confused
 

Originally Posted by Kittykerr (Post 4370701)
so why did CIC london bother giving me a travel permit?

Is it fair that an Chinese PR needs one, but a German PR doesn't? The card is supposed to quash a two-tier PR system.

That's why CHC issued you with a travel permit. And because you asked.

Kittykerr Feb 6th 2007 3:25 am

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Originally Posted by Biiiiink (Post 4370717)
Is it fair that an Chinese PR needs one, but a German PR doesn't? The card is supposed to quash a two-tier PR system.

That's why CHC issued you with a travel permit. And because you asked.

well not exactly, i asked them to agree i was still a PR despite being out of the country. which they did, and then gave me the travel visa.
however as for ties etc i have already proven that to their satisfaction. i had to show them all my family live there and that i am activley apllying for the police there.

Souvenir Feb 6th 2007 3:43 am

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Originally Posted by smelly (Post 4370673)
Yes I have noticed this. I wasn't overly happy giving it up anyway, it does sound like a lot of hassle. Thought about doing the double barrelled thing but it just doesn't work. Its still seems quiet a tradition in the UK. I am in no hurry, I will do it eventually though.

One thing I do need to do is get a will.

Actually, if you get married in Quebec, you have to keep your maiden name unless you go through all the rigmarole of changing it by deed poll. Not that it makes much difference. Quebec has the country's lowest marriage rate after Nunavut and by quite a long way. We also have the highest shack-up rate, at 30% of couples (three times the national average) and easily the highest divorce rate (roughly 50%).

Mountain Girl Feb 6th 2007 3:51 am

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Originally Posted by Souvenir (Post 4370782)
Actually, if you get married in Quebec, you have to keep your maiden name unless you go through all the rigmarole of changing it by deed poll. Not that it makes much difference. Quebec has the country's lowest marriage rate after Nunavut and by quite a long way. We also have the highest shack-up rate, at 30% of couples (three times the national average) and easily the highest divorce rate (roughly 50%).

Yeah that sounds like a con just to get more money out of people.

Does that mean I am considered a Mz/ Ms or would they still say Mrs ---Maiden name?

Butch Cassidy Feb 6th 2007 4:08 am

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Originally Posted by smelly (Post 4370809)
Yeah that sounds like a con just to get more money out of people.

Does that mean I am considered a Mz/ Ms or would they still say Mrs ---Maiden name?

you actually have a choice Mrs L or Miss\Ms P. Both are acceptable but only one is your LEGAL name.

Souvenir Feb 6th 2007 4:23 am

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Originally Posted by smelly (Post 4370809)
Yeah that sounds like a con just to get more money out of people.

Does that mean I am considered a Mz/ Ms or would they still say Mrs ---Maiden name?

I don't think it's a con. I used to believe it had something to do with women's rights (the rule was introduced in 1981) but I'm not sure any more. It could also be because Quebec law is codified and stuff has to be done by the book. Other parts of Canada are more in line with English law, ie convention and precedent.

The "names" thing is a bit of a muddle. Much of the mail we get has only our names (no Mr etc). Junk mail, cold callers and shop assistants often use Monsieur and Madame. Cold callers will also often use our names and nothing else. I have no knowledge of there being a French equivalent of Ms. The term "Madame" is not an indicator of marital status. It just means you're too old to be a mademoiselle.

hot wasabi peas Feb 6th 2007 4:28 am

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Originally Posted by smelly (Post 4370809)
Yeah that sounds like a con just to get more money out of people.

Does that mean I am considered a Mz/ Ms or would they still say Mrs ---Maiden name?

IMO, just use Ms Maiden name - it's the norm in Canada for women your age. Miss and Mrs are considered quite old fashioned.

Steve_P Feb 6th 2007 4:29 am

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Originally Posted by hot wasabi peas (Post 4370941)
IMO, just use Ms Maiden name - it's the norm in Canada for women your age. Miss and Mrs are considered quite old fashioned.

Are you living in the same Calgary I am Ma'am?!!:confused::confused::p

hot wasabi peas Feb 6th 2007 4:30 am

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Originally Posted by Steve_P (Post 4370948)
Are you living in the same Calgary I am? :confused::confused::p

You hanging out with lots of women in their 30s Steve? ;) :D


OI!!! I saw that edit!!! http://www.clicksmilies.com/s1106/ak...smiley-060.gif

Steve_P Feb 6th 2007 4:33 am

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Originally Posted by hot wasabi peas (Post 4370956)
You hanging out with lots of women in their 30s Steve? ;) :D

As a matter of fact yes.

Mondays and Wednesdays.:p:rofl:

You see there's more to me than meets the eye. :D:D

iaink Feb 6th 2007 4:33 am

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My wife is canadain and made all the changes to me MrsK. Its fairly normal round here, although we know people who didnt bother (usually for professional reasons). Nothing to do with me by the way, I didnt really care either way (as long as shes vaguely nice to me;))

Beebop Feb 6th 2007 4:34 am

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Originally Posted by hot wasabi peas (Post 4370646)
I was just going to say... I didn't realise women still did this. :blink:

I didn't change my name but almost everyone I know (including my mother) insists on using my "married name". I get quite wound up, moan a bit and then get told it's disrespecting my OH, who doesn't give a **** what I'm called so long as I am vaguely nice to him.

Worse, under Scottish law, my married name really is my name (apparently, according to my solicitor who insists on calling me Mrs....he's going to lose part of his anatomy one of these days...) and it has to be all over various legal documents. If you then get divorced & remarried, you get all your names on the paperwork, including the previous married name....:mad:

Right, rant over, pleased there may be a chance I get known by my actual name name when I finally get to emigrate. :D

daft batty Feb 6th 2007 4:41 am

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My problem is that i changed my first name when i was about 14, so many, many, years ago. All my UK documents except my passport used the new first name, but since i have been in Canada I cannot get anyone to use the name I am used to being called.

Even my family use it so when i hear my childhood name being used i rarely realise its me- and when i do i think I'm being told off! you know the thing when your mum uses your full name to make you realise just how bad you have been.

hot wasabi peas Feb 6th 2007 4:43 am

Re: Confused
 

Originally Posted by Beebop (Post 4370967)
I didn't change my name but almost everyone I know (including my mother) insists on using my "married name". I get quite wound up, moan a bit and then get told it's disrespecting my OH, who doesn't give a **** what I'm called so long as I am vaguely nice to him.

That's creepy...



Originally Posted by Beebop (Post 4370967)
Right, rant over, pleased there may be a chance I get known by my actual name name when I finally get to emigrate. :D

Rant on Ms Beebop! :thumbup:

Mountain Girl Feb 6th 2007 4:45 am

Re: Confused
 

Originally Posted by Beebop (Post 4370967)
I didn't change my name but almost everyone I know (including my mother) insists on using my "married name". I get quite wound up, moan a bit and then get told it's disrespecting my OH, who doesn't give a **** what I'm called so long as I am vaguely nice to him.

Worse, under Scottish law, my married name really is my name (apparently, according to my solicitor who insists on calling me Mrs....he's going to lose part of his anatomy one of these days...) and it has to be all over various legal documents. If you then get divorced & remarried, you get all your names on the paperwork, including the previous married name....:mad:

Right, rant over, pleased there may be a chance I get known by my actual name name when I finally get to emigrate. :D

yeah my husbands family insist on using the Mrs and the married name.


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