Can he stop me taking my kids?
#16
Re: Can he stop me taking my kids?
I notice one on the children is 16, does anyone know if he is excluded from these legalities? I was under the impression once the 16th birthday is reached any decision is theirs (the child) by law and no parent needs any kind of court order to move country unless the child is disabled, in which case it is increased to the age of 18.
#19
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Re: Can he stop me taking my kids?
From previous threads on here I thought that if no father was listed on the birth certificate then there are no legal obligations or privileges for the father and that all that was needed for CIC was a letter from a solicitor outlining the law in Britain.
#21
Joined: Sep 2008
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Re: Can he stop me taking my kids?
I have moved over here from the Uk with my partner and both daughters from a previous marriage. I eventually got my PITA ex husband to sign a letter through a solicitor allowing me to remove the children from the duristiction to Canada......to date i have never been asked for it. Am now in the process of PR and they have asked for this letter......i would get one done just to be on the safe side.
Best of luck with you forthcoming move
Lorraine
Best of luck with you forthcoming move
Lorraine
#23
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Joined: Oct 2002
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Re: Can he stop me taking my kids?
Oh. Well the system over here can hold you hostage, for years, if the other biological parent involved wants to exercise his/her rights. There is bugger all relationship between rights and obligations, and most of them know it.
#25
Re: Can he stop me taking my kids?
When i booked mine into school they wanted to see the paperwork, just for there records.
Immagration didnt bat an eyelid, but then id already changed her name by deedpoll and by her request
Its better to get the stuff whilst in the uk, i really didnt want to drag this up before we left, but as long as have made her safe then that is important.
MIKE - The father area on the birth cert is left blank, the mother is asked if she wants the name adding or not, as they are unmarried she has this right.
Immagration didnt bat an eyelid, but then id already changed her name by deedpoll and by her request
Its better to get the stuff whilst in the uk, i really didnt want to drag this up before we left, but as long as have made her safe then that is important.
MIKE - The father area on the birth cert is left blank, the mother is asked if she wants the name adding or not, as they are unmarried she has this right.
Yes lots of the time the fathers don't bother seeing there children been there got the Tshirt, but there is also the flip side like my son that is desperate to see his son
#26
Re: Can he stop me taking my kids?
But you must know that it's much more common for the mother to hold the father hostage. The support laws in Ontario (specifically Ontario as I'm not familiar with those in other provinces) may be phrased to include same-sex couples and high earning female partners but, in practise, they're about redressing systemic discrimination against generations of women by exacting revenge on the current generation of men.
#27
Re: Can he stop me taking my kids?
I can see this drifting off topic into a rant ... Whoa there neddy
#29
Joined: Dec 1969
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Re: Can he stop me taking my kids?
Unless he goes to court and gets a DNA if proved the bio father he can ask to be added to the Birth certificate under recent changes this the mother has no con trol over, in doing this the father then has shared responsabilities.
Yes lots of the time the fathers don't bother seeing there children been there got the Tshirt, but there is also the flip side like my son that is desperate to see his son
Yes lots of the time the fathers don't bother seeing there children been there got the Tshirt, but there is also the flip side like my son that is desperate to see his son
I did try, but sadly he wasn't interested blablabla and i walked away and brought my child up, i would never ask him for a penny and told CSA to go and :curse::curse: as i worked and paid my own way...........life
MY advise to the OP is get the info before you leave the UK, like rainey advised she needs the info now for PR, i needed it for school, but my kids are younger than hers, so same town, different experience
Good luck and i hope you get it
#30
Re: Can he stop me taking my kids?
http://www.gro.gov.uk/gro/content/bi...te/birth3e.asp
Answered for England and Wales only.