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BenBuzz Feb 19th 2015 9:28 am

Re: Back in the UK for 9 months and decided we made the wrong choice!
 

Originally Posted by Oink (Post 11570511)
Then why would you move?

In my case; perfectly happy with UK life. Saw job posting, wanted to experience another part of the world, drive a full-size truck, nothing tying me down, 2 year work permit.

Now assessing whether I want to stay or go.

HGerchikov Feb 19th 2015 10:00 am

Re: Back in the UK for 9 months and decided we made the wrong choice!
 

Originally Posted by Oink (Post 11570511)
Then why would you move?

Husband was offered a job out here, more money and better prospects than the one in the UK. They gave me a job too, also for more money than the one I left, they paid all our moving expenses, gave us a house and car for 6 months on arrival plus a substantial 'settling in' allowance. Why would we not?

Oink Feb 19th 2015 10:07 am

Re: Back in the UK for 9 months and decided we made the wrong choice!
 

Originally Posted by HGerchikov (Post 11570550)
Husband was offered a job out here, more money and better prospects than the one in the UK. They gave me a job too, also for more money than the one I left, they paid all our moving expenses, gave us a house and car for 6 months on arrival plus a substantial 'settling in' allowance. Why would we not?

That's fantastic, good for you, that should go some way to compensate you for moving to Ontario. :thumbup:

bananahammock Feb 19th 2015 10:16 am

Re: Back in the UK for 9 months and decided we made the wrong choice!
 
I'm headed back to the UK for a visit in 3 weeks, it'll be my first visit since I moved here 10 years ago :eek: I've always been a bit afraid that when I go back I'll REALLY love it there & won't want to come back ... suppose I'll know more in a month :o:unsure:

not2old Feb 19th 2015 10:23 am

Re: Back in the UK for 9 months and decided we made the wrong choice!
 

Originally Posted by Edo (Post 11570453)
NHS, school system, law and order, rising taxes, lack of new investment in infrastructure, cost vs. quality of life..................................

you could put that label on Canada, so its 'pick the one you feel at home with that meets your needs' - snobs need not apply

Just remember to keep paying the yearly 'National Insurance class 2 voluntary contributions' so that you'll have a few extra Bob when you are OAP age

not2old Feb 19th 2015 10:25 am

Re: Back in the UK for 9 months and decided we made the wrong choice!
 

Originally Posted by orly (Post 11570498)
I'll be the exception to the "usually" then. I much prefer Canada despite growing up in a really nice area, large house, private school etc ;)

:rofl::rofl::rofl:

of course you did!

Shard Feb 19th 2015 10:29 am

Re: Back in the UK for 9 months and decided we made the wrong choice!
 

Originally Posted by bananahammock (Post 11570566)
I'm headed back to the UK for a visit in 3 weeks, it'll be my first visit since I moved here 10 years ago :eek: I've always been a bit afraid that when I go back I'll REALLY love it there & won't want to come back ... suppose I'll know more in a month :o:unsure:

Well, whatever you feel on your visit (good or bad) it's not necessarily the same as actually moving. Which was the OP's very point when she started the thread.

HGerchikov Feb 19th 2015 10:39 am

Re: Back in the UK for 9 months and decided we made the wrong choice!
 

Originally Posted by Oink (Post 11570560)
That's fantastic, good for you, that should go some way to compensate you for moving to Ontario. :thumbup:

:rofl:

Oink Feb 19th 2015 10:49 am

Re: Back in the UK for 9 months and decided we made the wrong choice!
 

Originally Posted by Shard (Post 11570583)
Well, whatever you feel on your visit (good or bad) it's not necessarily the same as actually moving. Which was the OP's very point when she started the thread.

The last extended visited I did was great. I went back at the beginning of June and didn't leave until the second week of Oct. I was there mainly to oversee the renovation of a property but I tbh, I spent most the time, sailing, going down the pub and visiting friends and colleagues. I even took in a couple of festivals for old time's sake. It was great, I bought a little van at the beginning of my trip and sold it for the same amount when I left. It just cost me five months insurance. If I hadn't been teaching that quarter, I wouldn't have come back until after Christmas.

ExKiwilass Feb 19th 2015 10:56 am

Re: Back in the UK for 9 months and decided we made the wrong choice!
 
i moved for sex. But as it turned out, Vancouver is wayhundred times better than NZ in lots of ways.

If the sex had been in, say, Regina. Well, then I don't know if it would have been worth staying for that.

Oink Feb 19th 2015 10:59 am

Re: Back in the UK for 9 months and decided we made the wrong choice!
 

Originally Posted by ExKiwilass (Post 11570604)
i moved for sex. But as it turned out, Vancouver is wayhundred times better than NZ in lots of ways.

If the sex had been in, say, Regina. Well, then I don't know if it would have been worth staying for that.

Proper curious as to why?

Shard Feb 19th 2015 11:56 am

Re: Back in the UK for 9 months and decided we made the wrong choice!
 
For starters, fewer sheep.

JamesM Feb 20th 2015 3:19 am

Re: Back in the UK for 9 months and decided we made the wrong choice!
 

Originally Posted by Oink (Post 11570481)
The point is, if you're happy and contented in the UK you aren't going to go to the expense, time and rigmarole of emigrating to Canada. You must be trying to escape something.

I've realised that your avatar is not only hypnotic but also extenuates hangovers.

maple moments. Feb 20th 2015 3:59 am

Re: Back in the UK for 9 months and decided we made the wrong choice!
 
Hi Manchester,

Just wondered what made you move back to the UK? I can understand you wanting to return, but think about your reasons to return. Must've been a good motivator. For me I came back to see my young adult kids. Thought of staying on in the UK, but knew I'd return to Canada. It'll be about a year in the UK when I plan to head back to Canada. 9 months for you? I guess you built up the realisation you'd like to return. For sure as many have said on this site, people ping pong lots.
I find the UK crowded with a kind of dullness can't explain. But many nice areas too. Have relatives in Manchester, they like it. Lots of gigs and events.
Anyway, a hotbed of opinions on here about UK /Canada good /bad points. I did notice in Canada, it was difficult to make good, long term friends. People have bright surface friendliness but don't take the road of deeper friendship with regular meet ups etc. Anyway that's aside, wishing you the Very Best on plans to return.

Oink Feb 20th 2015 4:06 am

Re: Back in the UK for 9 months and decided we made the wrong choice!
 

Originally Posted by JamesM (Post 11571156)
I've realised that your avatar is not only hypnotic but also extenuates hangovers.

Weird but interesting. Anyway, after a rather messy night out last Saturday where I apparently snogged the party host's wife in the kitchen, I've given up alcohol for foreseeable future so I'm only drinking lager now. :thumbup:


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