The Whinging Pom (whine bar).......warning may contain nuts
May 4th 2008, 4:42 am
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May 4th 2008, 4:46 am
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Re: The Whinging Pom (whine bar).......warning may contain nuts
And to make matters worse he deleated his account off his game so now he his under my ****ing feet saying that he did it for me
. I've told him he is just making things worse but he wont listen, so now, we have a puta sat here doing nothing if Im not on it!:curse: we both have a face on and I am conviced I now have 3 kids to deal with.He threw his toys out of the cot and now I'm feeling guilty because of it. All because I wanted Friday night on the puta!
May 4th 2008, 4:49 am
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Re: The Whinging Pom (whine bar).......warning may contain nuts
Hi ladies 
May 4th 2008, 4:53 am
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Re: The Whinging Pom (whine bar).......warning may contain nuts
yep he is.
And to make matters worse he deleated his account off his game so now he his under my ****ing feet saying that he did it for me. I've told him he is just making things worse but he wont listen, so now, we have a puta sat here doing nothing if Im not on it!:curse: we both have a face on and I am conviced I now have 3 kids to deal with.
He threw his toys out of the cot and now I'm feeling guilty because of it. All because I wanted Friday night on the puta!
And to make matters worse he deleated his account off his game so now he his under my ****ing feet saying that he did it for me
. I've told him he is just making things worse but he wont listen, so now, we have a puta sat here doing nothing if Im not on it!:curse: we both have a face on and I am conviced I now have 3 kids to deal with.He threw his toys out of the cot and now I'm feeling guilty because of it. All because I wanted Friday night on the puta!
Sounds like the two of you need to have a good row & clear the air!
It is probably deeper than computer use but could you not agree on days when you each can go on & evenings when you spend time together? I have limited my evening time on here because of OH. Compromise?
Is he really sure that he wants to move to Oz as he does not seem very driven to move things along?
Sorry if I speak out of turn, just my impression! Sorry
May 4th 2008, 4:56 am
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Re: The Whinging Pom (whine bar).......warning may contain nuts
Sounds like the two of you need to have a good row & clear the air!
It is probably deeper than computer use but could you not agree on days when you each can go on & evenings when you spend time together? I have limited my evening time on here because of OH. Compromise?
Is he really sure that he wants to move to Oz as he does not seem very driven to move things along?
Sorry if I speak out of turn, just my impression! Sorry
It is probably deeper than computer use but could you not agree on days when you each can go on & evenings when you spend time together? I have limited my evening time on here because of OH. Compromise?
Is he really sure that he wants to move to Oz as he does not seem very driven to move things along?
Sorry if I speak out of turn, just my impression! Sorry
Some days he's rearing to go others he seems as if he just cant even be bothered to get out of bed.
May 4th 2008, 5:02 am
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Re: The Whinging Pom (whine bar).......warning may contain nuts
I really don't want to sound patronising but being in your 40's does funny things to your brain & certainly makes you review your life so far & where you are going. maybe he is very unhappy with how he views he is providing for you & the kids & as he's a bloke, does not express any of this in any kind of straightforward or meaningful way? just a thought H, feel free to tell me to sod off!
May 4th 2008, 5:06 am
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Re: The Whinging Pom (whine bar).......warning may contain nuts
9 years
no, I need all the help I can get at the moment. Yes I think he is depressed but he wont say anything about it. I also know that him stopping smoking hasnt helped but I dont know what to do. He doesnt want to talk and if I just leave him alone he gets a face on for not giving him any attention.
I may be playing devil's advocate here, but what the hell! Could he be depressed? Also, he may be going through a bit of ' I'm in my 40's & wtf?'
I really don't want to sound patronising but being in your 40's does funny things to your brain & certainly makes you review your life so far & where you are going. maybe he is very unhappy with how he views he is providing for you & the kids & as he's a bloke, does not express any of this in any kind of straightforward or meaningful way? just a thought H, feel free to tell me to sod off!
I really don't want to sound patronising but being in your 40's does funny things to your brain & certainly makes you review your life so far & where you are going. maybe he is very unhappy with how he views he is providing for you & the kids & as he's a bloke, does not express any of this in any kind of straightforward or meaningful way? just a thought H, feel free to tell me to sod off!
May 4th 2008, 5:09 am
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Re: The Whinging Pom (whine bar).......warning may contain nuts
9 years
no, I need all the help I can get at the moment. Yes I think he is depressed but he wont say anything about it. I also know that him stopping smoking hasnt helped but I dont know what to do. He doesnt want to talk and if I just leave him alone he gets a face on for not giving him any attention.
no, I need all the help I can get at the moment. Yes I think he is depressed but he wont say anything about it. I also know that him stopping smoking hasnt helped but I dont know what to do. He doesnt want to talk and if I just leave him alone he gets a face on for not giving him any attention.
May 4th 2008, 5:22 am
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May 4th 2008, 5:36 am
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