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Amazulu Dec 1st 2013 2:19 pm

Re: What's the worst advice you have taken away from B.E
 

Originally Posted by RedT (Post 11016161)
they're friendly but don't want to be friends.

SE England is like that too - superficially friendly but very cliquey

Northern UK is very different though

RedDragon2008 Dec 1st 2013 3:33 pm

Re: What's the worst advice you have taken away from B.E
 
Being patient with "Compulsive" whingers

That is Whinging for the sake of Whinging, not the odd grumple (hmm apple crumble tonight, see how easily I get distracted by food)

If we didn't have a little whinge once in a while we would all go mad.

TheCreature Dec 1st 2013 4:05 pm

Re: What's the worst advice you have taken away from B.E
 

Originally Posted by Amazulu (Post 11016186)
SE England is like that too - superficially friendly but very cliquey

Northern UK is very different though

Yeah, we ******' hate everybody. :)

chris955 Dec 1st 2013 7:44 pm

Re: What's the worst advice you have taken away from B.E
 

Originally Posted by brissybee (Post 11014039)
:rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl:

Australia offers a wonderful quality of life that you just can't get in the UK.

Ah yes, a classic :lol:

TheCreature Dec 1st 2013 8:54 pm

Re: What's the worst advice you have taken away from B.E
 

Originally Posted by chris955 (Post 11016356)
Ah yes, a classic :lol:

Here's an interesting little fact. If you had said "Australia" in that post, it would have been the 999th time you had done so.

Alfresco Dec 1st 2013 8:55 pm

Re: What's the worst advice you have taken away from B.E
 

Originally Posted by chris955 (Post 11016356)
Ah yes, a classic :lol:

Very true. It does indeed have a wonderful quality of life that you just can't get in the UK.

BadgeIsBack Dec 1st 2013 9:22 pm

Re: What's the worst advice you have taken away from B.E
 

Originally Posted by TheCreature (Post 11016405)
Here's an interesting little fact. If you had said "Australia" in that post, it would have been the 999th time you had done so.

Yet again Chris lets on how poor much of his life has been...

BadgeIsBack Dec 1st 2013 9:26 pm

Re: What's the worst advice you have taken away from B.E
 

Originally Posted by paulry (Post 11015258)
You're just normal by the looks of things :)

The expat meets can be a bit overwhelming. I attended a poms in oz meetup 2+ years ago and found it mostly good. Still have a few friends to this day that I'm in contact with from that meet. Had a few individual/family meets and only one has clearly proven to be a true friend from start to now. The rest? Well it's hard to tell. To survive, a friendship has to be consistent and a two way one in my book. :cool:

Aha ! If we're talking about expat meets then maybe.
How many times can you tell your story and discuss the same old same old..I haven't been to one in 9 years and went to one.

But you shouldn't turn down an invite from someone local; unless you have good reason to.

paulry Dec 1st 2013 11:32 pm

Re: What's the worst advice you have taken away from B.E
 

Originally Posted by BadgeIsBack (Post 11016432)
Aha ! If we're talking about expat meets then maybe.
How many times can you tell your story and discuss the same old same old..I haven't been to one in 9 years and went to one.

But you shouldn't turn down an invite from someone local; unless you have good reason to.

:eek: I'd sooner attend the wedding of a friend of a friend. :lol:

I absolutely agree with you about invites from locals. The life of a migrant is more enjoyable for those who assimilate.

chris955 Dec 1st 2013 11:37 pm

Re: What's the worst advice you have taken away from B.E
 

Originally Posted by BadgeIsBack (Post 11016428)
Yet again Chris lets on how poor much of his life has been...

You know **** all about my life so keep your stupid comments to yourself. I have had a wonderful life and lived in 2 great countries. Love the mob mentality in here :lol:

TheCreature Dec 2nd 2013 5:17 am

Re: What's the worst advice you have taken away from B.E
 

Originally Posted by chris955 (Post 11016541)
You know **** all about my life so keep your stupid comments to yourself. I have had a wonderful life and lived in 2 great countries. Love the mob mentality in here :lol:

"mob mentality"

If everybody has the same opinion about you, perhaps you might want to look to yourself, rather than the "mob"?

Pollyana Dec 2nd 2013 5:54 am

Re: What's the worst advice you have taken away from B.E
 

Originally Posted by TheCreature (Post 11017030)
"mob mentality"

If everybody has the same opinion about you, perhaps you might want to look to yourself, rather than the "mob"?

It'll be a cold day in hell before everyone on BE has the same opinion about someone else.........

TheCreature Dec 2nd 2013 6:01 am

Re: What's the worst advice you have taken away from B.E
 

Originally Posted by Pollyana (Post 11017092)
It'll be a cold day in hell before everyone on BE has the same opinion about someone else.........

Oh I dunno. Even fellow posters in the Gloom Room seem to be a bit fed up of seeing the line "in Australia....."

chris955 Dec 2nd 2013 6:28 am

Re: What's the worst advice you have taken away from B.E
 

Originally Posted by Pollyana (Post 11017092)
It'll be a cold day in hell before everyone on BE has the same opinion about someone else.........

:lol: Yes especially when 'everyone' seems to be about 3 people, I can live with that.

TheCreature Dec 2nd 2013 6:57 am

Re: What's the worst advice you have taken away from B.E
 

Originally Posted by chris955 (Post 11017150)
:lol: Yes especially when 'everyone' seems to be about 3 people, I can live with that.

So that would be the "mob mentality" of three then?


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