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Lucas_Dad Aug 6th 2018 1:05 pm

What do you do that your parents did, but thought you never would
 
What I mean is those kinda silly, doesn't really matter, kind of things. My mum is always letting cups of tea go cold. I used to tell her off for the wasted ingredients and electricity to boil the kettle.

This morning I have made 5 cups of tea, actually finished only one. The others went cold well before half way. I could zap it in the microwave but that's not quite the same to me. Got to be fresh made - splash of milk, strong, no sugar, thanks.

I'm on my sixth cuppa now. Determined to finish this one.

moneypenny20 Aug 7th 2018 1:17 am

Re: What do you do that your parents did, but thought you never would
 
I drive like my dad. I do absolutely nothing like my mother because she was not someone you would look up to or pick up habits from and I made a point as soon as I had kids that if I found myself doing something the same way she did, I'd stop and ensure I did it another way. :lol:

Pica Aug 7th 2018 1:35 am

Re: What do you do that your parents did, but thought you never would
 

Originally Posted by moneypenny20 (Post 12544418)
I do absolutely nothing like my mother because she was not someone you would look up to or pick up habits from and I made a point as soon as I had kids that if I found myself doing something the same way she did, I'd stop and ensure I did it another way. :lol:

I'm with you on this one-all the way.

scottishcelts Aug 7th 2018 2:50 am

Re: What do you do that your parents did, but thought you never would
 
Nothing. Nothing at all. Just as well.

Gordon Barlow Aug 7th 2018 7:15 am

Re: What do you do that your parents did, but thought you never would
 
Forget the names of relatives and friends. (Not all the time, just sometimes!) My grandmother in Queensland often had to go through the family pedigree before she got to mine - including her son Stace who was killed in New Guinea in 1942. Go figure!

quoll Aug 11th 2018 5:46 pm

Re: What do you do that your parents did, but thought you never would
 
I knit! My mother was an excellent knitter so I never saw the need for me to do it because I knew that she was always going to be much much better at it than I could ever be. So I tatted and cross stitched and macramed and tapestried until carpal tunnel meant I could no longer hold a needle. Then along came grandkids, the carpal tunnel got fixed and while recovering from the surgery I thought I should do the grandmotherly thing and knit something for the munchkins, then my DH suggested that he would like a pair of socks ...... talk about addiction! Anyway as my knitting skill slowly increased my mother’s dementia combined with her still perfectionist tendency meant that she struggled with even the most basic garter stitch square. Then came the day (which still astonishes me) when my mother told me she thought I was an excellent knitter and could I please make her a couple of pairs of socks and a hat for a funeral. I did, of course. If you’d have told me 10 years ago that I would be knitting lace, fairisle, Aran, double knitting and going to knitting groups for making new friendships I’d have laughed in your face but there ya go! Mind you there are still lots of things my mum did that I’ve told my DH he may shoot me should I ever start on the way she did!

Gordon Barlow Aug 12th 2018 4:39 am

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One of my earliest memories is of my Mum saving string, even bits that were two or three inches long. I don't do that, but I do save those twisty things that are used to keep plastic bags closed. Same principle. Come to think of it, I've never seen those things for sale anywhere. Are they sold in shops, like rubber bands?

daveincolchester Aug 12th 2018 1:21 pm

Re: What do you do that your parents did, but thought you never would
 
Those twisty things are now sold in long rolls on a cardboard backing which holds a little clipper so you can cut them to any length.

They are available in most hardware stores and garden centers.

Gordon Barlow Aug 12th 2018 1:41 pm

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Thanks for the tip, dave: the two places I try my best not to go into!

Lucas_Dad Aug 12th 2018 6:40 pm

Re: What do you do that your parents did, but thought you never would
 

Originally Posted by Gordon Barlow (Post 12547258)
One of my earliest memories is of my Mum saving string, even bits that were two or three inches long. I don't do that, but I do save those twisty things that are used to keep plastic bags closed. Same principle. Come to think of it, I've never seen those things for sale anywhere. Are they sold in shops, like rubber bands?

When we buy own-brand freezer bags from woolies (100 for very cheap) they come with 100 of those twisty things too. Most recent use for one was on one of my boys' toys - little toy truck' towbar broke. Two or three twisty things twisted together, then twisted around the toy to make a new tow bar/rope/thing.

Let's twist again...

paulry Aug 12th 2018 7:55 pm

Re: What do you do that your parents did, but thought you never would
 

Originally Posted by Lucas_Dad (Post 12547443)
When we buy own-brand freezer bags from woolies (100 for very cheap) they come with 100 of those twisty things too. Most recent use for one was on one of my boys' toys - little toy truck' towbar broke. Two or three twisty things twisted together, then twisted around the toy to make a new tow bar/rope/thing.

Let's twist again...

When my sons were kids I used to collect those twisty things that came with the various toys (water cannons, remote controlled cars, etc) that we bought them. They were extra long and strong too so very versatile. I have a huge tub of them (probably a life time's supply - or at least until the grand-children come along) that followed us to Australia along with all the other tins and plastic jars of screws, curtain rail clips, screw driver and drill bits, washers, you name it. I have about 25 such containers all lined up nicely on a shelf in my workshop for easy access - just as my dad used to do. :thumbsup:

paulry Aug 12th 2018 8:01 pm

Re: What do you do that your parents did, but thought you never would
 
Bits and pieces of timber, plate steel, brackets, and general junk for use when making something new from old or improvising materials for carrying out repairs. I always keep a keen eye open for potential re-usable objects - just like dad did.

scrubbedexpat098 Aug 15th 2018 9:01 am

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Swinging

moneypenny20 Aug 15th 2018 8:52 pm

Re: What do you do that your parents did, but thought you never would
 

Originally Posted by stevenglish1 (Post 12548966)
Swinging

Just so long as you're not swinging with your parents....

scrubbedexpat098 Aug 15th 2018 9:44 pm

Re: What do you do that your parents did, but thought you never would
 

Originally Posted by moneypenny20 (Post 12549184)
Just so long as you're not swinging with your parents....

:lol: Just after the 2 hours elapsed I thought bugger, I should've put dogging :rofl:


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