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Luke I Amyofath Oct 11th 2009 3:34 pm

Re: Stephen Gately
 

Originally Posted by Louiseh86 (Post 8009263)
Really? You know this how?

Ummmm, try google "gays rally" or "us military gays"

The point is: sexuality has no bearing on what you can do as an employee, so why would you want to fight for a question on a job application that asks if you are gay ?

Oh, something else too; I've never seen a "hetrosexual pride day", I don't think it would sit well with gays who only ever have one answer on that point:
"every day is hetrosexual day".......... Oh, please spare me the drama

LouiseR Oct 11th 2009 3:43 pm

Re: Stephen Gately
 

Originally Posted by Luke I Amyofath (Post 8009275)
Ummmm, try google "gays rally" or "us military gays"

The point is: sexuality has no bearing on what you can do as an employee, so why would you want to fight for a question on a job application that asks if you are gay ?

Oh, something else too; I've never seen a "hetrosexual pride day", I don't think it would sit well with gays who only ever have one answer on that point:
"every day is hetrosexual day".......... Oh, please spare me the drama

What on earth has the American Military got to do with Stephen Gately (who happened to be gay...) dying?

As far as I'm aware he never signed an application form for Boyzone that said he was gay, from what I understand he hid it for years, hardly fits your view that "gays want everyone to know their sexuality"...

Luke I Amyofath Oct 11th 2009 3:50 pm

Re: Stephen Gately
 

Originally Posted by Louiseh86 (Post 8009284)
What on earth has the American Military got to do with Stephen Gately (who happened to be gay...) dying?

If threads remaind entirely on topic, people wouldn't bother reading replies in threads since they would all be identical....... (not to mention, bloody boring as hell)

LouiseR Oct 11th 2009 3:57 pm

Re: Stephen Gately
 

Originally Posted by Luke I Amyofath (Post 8009290)
If threads remaind entirely on topic, people wouldn't bother reading replies in threads since they would all be identical....... (not to mention, bloody boring as hell)

:rolleyes:

bcworld Oct 11th 2009 3:58 pm

Re: Stephen Gately
 

Originally Posted by Luke I Amyofath (Post 8009275)
The point is: sexuality has no bearing on what you can do as an employee, so why would you want to fight for a question on a job application that asks if you are gay ?

The present law is that if you are openly gay you cannot serve in the US military. It's not a question of ticking a box on the application form, it's a question of having to conceal a part of your life, for which you are breaking no law, or lose your job.

Many people would describe that as discriminatory. Hence the rallies; many groups of society who have felt discriminated against have taken part in rallies through history....women, black people, etc.

I take your point about pride marches etc....much of the political side of these means little to many of the people who take part. As laws like the one mentioned above slowly disappear though there will be less and less justification for organising them in the first place.

Luke I Amyofath Oct 11th 2009 4:06 pm

Re: Stephen Gately
 

Originally Posted by bcworld (Post 8009300)
The present law is that if you are openly gay you cannot serve in the US military. It's not a question of ticking a box on the application form, it's a question of having to conceal a part of your life, for which you are breaking no law, or lose your job.

Many people would describe that as discriminatory. Hence the rallies; many groups of society who have felt discriminated against have taken part in rallies through history....women, black people, etc.

I take your point about pride marches etc....much of the political side of these means little to many of the people who take part. As laws like the one mentioned above slowly disappear though there will be less and less justification for organising them in the first place.

Oh, I agree totally, I enjoy lively debate, questioning many aspects, and of course it is wrong for gays to have to feel the need to hide their sexuality.
I suppose my real point is that there shouldn't be a need for gays to either hide, or flaunt being gay.

iamthecreaturefromuranus Oct 11th 2009 4:18 pm

Re: Stephen Gately
 

Originally Posted by Scubaemma (Post 8007408)
That's really sad. I went to school with his husband Andrew.... really sad for him.

How does that work then? Husband and Husband... or was Gately the wife?

Luke I Amyofath Oct 11th 2009 4:21 pm

Re: Stephen Gately
 

Originally Posted by iamthecreaturefromuranus (Post 8009318)
How does that work then? Husband and Husband... or was Gately the wife?

Youll have to start a new thread with that question, the lounge may be a good place for it

Three Legs Oct 11th 2009 4:22 pm

Re: Stephen Gately
 
What a bummer ... must of been on one bender too many :blink:

Bernieboy Oct 11th 2009 5:16 pm

Re: Stephen Gately
 
Personally im not gay....... but my boyfriend is:blink:

bcworld Oct 11th 2009 5:19 pm

Re: Stephen Gately
 

Originally Posted by Bernieboy (Post 8009365)
Personally im not gay....... but my boyfriend is:blink:

Funny that.....so's mine! ;)

Bernieboy Oct 11th 2009 5:22 pm

Re: Stephen Gately
 

Originally Posted by bcworld (Post 8009369)
Funny that.....so's mine! ;)

Good onya mate,sex with woman is great and i love it but ya cant beat the real thing:lol:

Luke I Amyofath Oct 11th 2009 5:30 pm

Re: Stephen Gately
 
To quote one of my favourite gays of all time "It's all done in the best possible taste"


Sally Redux Oct 11th 2009 5:41 pm

Re: Stephen Gately
 

Originally Posted by Three Legs (Post 8009323)
What a bummer ... must of been on one bender too many :blink:

Yes we've heard that one :zzz: and it's 'must have'.

Luke I Amyofath Oct 11th 2009 5:51 pm

Re: Stephen Gately
 

Originally Posted by Sally Redux (Post 8009395)
Yes we've heard that one :zzz: and it's 'must have'.

Oh no, the grammatical police are now involved in this thread.....

Sally Redux Oct 11th 2009 5:53 pm

Re: Stephen Gately
 

Originally Posted by Luke I Amyofath (Post 8009408)
Oh no, the grammatical police are now involved in this thread.....

You slaaaaag.

lapin_windstar Oct 11th 2009 6:50 pm

Re: Stephen Gately
 

Originally Posted by Luke I Amyofath (Post 8009247)
gays want everyone to know their sexuality

You can hardly use Gately as proof of that - he preferred to keep his private life private and was outed by The Scum.

Your post is, however, proof of the claim that idiots want everyone to know their idiocy. I mean, God, OK, you're a moron and you're happy that way, but do you have to ram it down everyone's throat by highlighting it in every thread you post on? Every single one of your posts is halfwitted but do you want to keep your stupidity to yourself? Noooooo, you go on parading it on every occasion. I don't really care if people like you are dim in private but you don't have to make a big song and dance about it in front of the rest of us.

:p :p :p :p :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

Luke I Amyofath Oct 11th 2009 7:01 pm

Re: Stephen Gately
 

Originally Posted by lapin_windstar (Post 8009481)
You can hardly use Gately as proof of that - he preferred to keep his private life private and was outed by The Scum.

Your post is, however, proof of the claim that idiots want everyone to know their idiocy. I mean, God, OK, you're a moron and you're happy that way, but do you have to ram it down everyone's throat by highlighting it in every thread you post on? Every single one of your posts is halfwitted but do you want to keep your stupidity to yourself? Noooooo, you go on parading it on every occasion. I don't really care if people like you are dim in private but you don't have to make a big song and dance about it in front of the rest of us.

:p :p :p :p :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

May I take this opportunity to point you in the direction of site rule #1

1. BritishExpats.com is an interactive site, and everyone who participates is "in it together", please treat others the way you wish to be treated. Personal attacks will not be tolerated. Challenge others' points of view and opinions, but do so respectfully and thoughtfully ... without insult or personal attack.

lapin_windstar Oct 11th 2009 7:59 pm

"save me the drama"
 

Originally Posted by Luke I Amyofath (Post 8009502)
please treat others the way you wish to be treated.

I do apologise - you're such a delicate flower and so polite when you reply to or describe other people that I should have known you'd wanted to be treated the same way in return. :p

Luke I Amyofath Oct 11th 2009 8:24 pm

Re: "save me the drama"
 

Originally Posted by lapin_windstar (Post 8009614)
I do apologise - you're such a delicate flower and so polite when you reply to or describe other people that I should have known you'd wanted to be treated the same way in return. :p

I wonder if you managed to get the pepper spray you wanted to buy here:
http://britishexpats.com/forum/showthread.php?t=573112

I'm not quite sure where you belong actually. After a brief thought the conclusion is well away from life, I believe lt escapes you.
Thanks for your interest, I am subject to a disability, what exactly ails you ?

Pollyana Oct 11th 2009 8:50 pm

Re: "save me the drama"
 
OK, can we cut out the sniping please, otherwise the thread will hit the bin pretty soon.
Thanks

Luke I Amyofath Oct 11th 2009 8:58 pm

Re: "save me the drama"
 

Originally Posted by Pollyana (Post 8009700)
OK, can we cut out the sniping please, otherwise the thread will hit the bin pretty soon.
Thanks

come on polly, come on polly, you know you want to..... Ummm, unsaid words, will that mean "Thread Closed" ? God, you have the power, use it....
(The above comments did, (in now way) constitute a breach of any BE Rule...)
I'd grow up if I could. My disability doesn't let me. There's no excuse for others not growing up though is there ?...........

Bernieboy Oct 11th 2009 9:38 pm

Re: "save me the drama"
 

Originally Posted by Luke I Amyofath (Post 8009715)
come on polly, come on polly, you know you want to..... Ummm, unsaid words, will that mean "Thread Closed" ? God, you have the power, use it....
(The above comments did, (in now way) constitute a breach of any BE Rule...)
I'd grow up if I could. My disability doesn't let me. There's no excuse for others not growing up though is there ?...........

Shut up ya boring b'stard:frown:

iamthecreaturefromuranus Oct 11th 2009 9:41 pm

Re: "save me the drama"
 

Originally Posted by Luke I Amyofath (Post 8009715)
I'd grow up if I could. My disability doesn't let me. There's no excuse for others not growing up though is there ?...........

What disability would that be then?

Bernieboy Oct 11th 2009 9:43 pm

Re: "save me the drama"
 

Originally Posted by iamthecreaturefromuranus (Post 8009815)
What disability would that be then?

His brain,read more sense from a premmie baby:thumbdown:

Luke I Amyofath Oct 11th 2009 9:44 pm

Re: "save me the drama"
 

Originally Posted by Bernieboy (Post 8009805)
Shut up ya boring b'stard:frown:

Brisbane is shite & you also bore me (with no disrepsect)
got a bone for polly have ya ?

Bernieboy Oct 11th 2009 9:45 pm

Re: "save me the drama"
 

Originally Posted by Pollyana (Post 8009700)
OK, can we cut out the sniping please, otherwise the thread will hit the bin pretty soon.
Thanks

I aint sniped anybody................. yet;)

Luke I Amyofath Oct 11th 2009 9:45 pm

Re: "save me the drama"
 

Originally Posted by iamthecreaturefromuranus (Post 8009815)
What disability would that be then?

You wanna be in violation of my human rights do ya ? hehehehe

Bernieboy Oct 11th 2009 9:47 pm

Re: "save me the drama"
 

Originally Posted by Luke I Amyofath (Post 8009822)
Brisbane is shite & you also bore me (with no disrepsect)
got a bone for polly have ya ?

Nah mate you just post some shite.....no disrespect,you have to earn that and unless yer a buddhist and come back many times that aint going to happen.

iamthecreaturefromuranus Oct 11th 2009 9:50 pm

Re: "save me the drama"
 

Originally Posted by Luke I Amyofath (Post 8009832)
You wanna be in violation of my human rights do ya ? hehehehe

Just thought you might want to enlighten us... I guess not.

Bernieboy Oct 11th 2009 9:52 pm

Re: "save me the drama"
 

Originally Posted by iamthecreaturefromuranus (Post 8009845)
Just thought you might want to enlighten us... I guess not.

He cant enlighten us,he aint a buddhist.

Luke I Amyofath Oct 11th 2009 9:54 pm

Re: "save me the drama"
 

Originally Posted by Bernieboy (Post 8009836)
Nah mate you just post some shite.....no disrespect,you have to earn that and unless yer a buddhist and come back many times that aint going to happen.

You are young boy, enjoy your youth, grow up later... thanks, have a nice day............

Dorothy Oct 11th 2009 9:57 pm

Re: Stephen Gately
 
Well, if Polly won't do it I will. I don't even know who Stephen Gately is/was, but the tone of this thread has degenerated from an obituary for someone to gay bashing to personal insults.

For heaven's sake people grow the hell up or piss off somewhere that allows for that type of crap.

On that note I suggest you all take a read of the site rules and thread closed.


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