Guys sorry, but need some help to be able to think laterally.....

been offered another job subject to references, which would be right up my street I think.....still in education, more about what I did my NVQ for....all good so far.

Trouble is...where I am at the mo, is spitting distance of where I live, I don't have to drive to work, however, I am bored and want a new challenge, which I told the head about last week and also my line manager.....the hours in the new job are more and I have just negoticated and my current job to have Friday's off.....new place want to approach for references and have offered me more money as I was the person they wanted the most from the interview ( don't mean to sound big headed ) ... I am also due in court at least twice in September with all the other rubbish, which new job doesn't yet know about....waiting to speak with the head there....
and then there is the thought, that I still want to emigrate.......and will start TRA process next week, although I know there is still alot of other rubbish to go through......(TRA process not mine)

help I am so confused, like I don't have enough confusion in my life and to top it off got to go and see family support worker tomorrow.....and it looks like rain....

Your comments always appreciated....sorry if this bubbled on, its how I am in my head at the mo.....Ems xx

Go for it, you have nothing to lose. So what you are emmigrating, they don't need to know just yet. We all put our lives on hold for the big move, and every decision we make is made with that in the back of our minds. Really it doesn't have to be that way, you can still make the most of here and now.

Only thing I would say against it is, that if you are applying for migration through your skills, just make sure that you will still meet all the requirements for your visa before you move jobs.

go for it

weigh up the travelling time and time spent with kids to a happier you, which means happier kids, which wins?
court time they will have to give you

emigration may take years, besides you need the money!!

thanks Wendy, thanks Asher......trying to get hold of the head at the new job at the mo, just to run some bits past her......o my head is spinning.....OH would like me to take, as he says he worries about me getting really stressed where I am, there is no support there....the new job is within a unit and only has appx 55 kids in total, ranging from year 5 upwards......thanks again gals! Em x