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A setback
Hi Guys had my medical today and its's a bit of a setback.
as you know I had an accident in April and damaged my neck got spinal cord compression. I had my medical today,they said they will wait for a year to see if I improve if not they will then see about an op, I may be deteriorating as my face has recently gone numb or I may have fluctuating symptoms only time will tell. but it may mean the end of Oz for me as I want my OH with me he has been in Oz since January and we are on his sponsored visa. He can't have more compassionate leave, so if he comes back to be with me it means the end of Oz. am feeling a bit choked. |
Re: A setback
oh babes, thats awful news :(
**big hugs** isnt there anything else that can be done??? |
Re: A setback
Originally Posted by asher
(Post 5285154)
Hi Guys had my medical today and its's a bit of a setback.
as you know I had an accident in April and damaged my neck got spinal cord compression. I had my medical today,they said they will wait for a year to see if I improve if not they will then see about an op, I may be deteriorating as my face has recently gone numb or I may have fluctuating symptoms only time will tell. but it may mean the end of Oz for me as I want my OH with me he has been in Oz since January and we are on his sponsored visa. He can't have more compassionate leave, so if he comes back to be with me it means the end of Oz. am feeling a bit choked. Hey Kim , man i'm so sorry to hear that turned out like this . Was really possitive the last time you spoke of it . man , i'm choked too now . huggs ain't enough am praying that it improves |
Re: A setback
Originally Posted by penky
(Post 5285165)
oh babes, thats awful news :(
**big hugs** isnt there anything else that can be done???
Originally Posted by scott&rachel
(Post 5285175)
Hey Kim , man i'm so sorry to hear that turned out like this . Was really possitive the last time you spoke of it . man , i'm choked too now .
huggs ain't enough am praying that it improves any ideas gratefully recieved :thumbsup: |
Re: A setback
Originally Posted by asher
(Post 5285154)
Hi Guys had my medical today and its's a bit of a setback.
as you know I had an accident in April and damaged my neck got spinal cord compression. I had my medical today,they said they will wait for a year to see if I improve if not they will then see about an op, I may be deteriorating as my face has recently gone numb or I may have fluctuating symptoms only time will tell. but it may mean the end of Oz for me as I want my OH with me he has been in Oz since January and we are on his sponsored visa. He can't have more compassionate leave, so if he comes back to be with me it means the end of Oz. am feeling a bit choked. Probably saying something really stupid, so please forgive me in advance if I am, but can you get treatment overthere?:confused: Take care, hugs and karma sent:wub: Emma xxx |
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What shity news Kim! I hope you get some better news soon it must be rough knowing that once your OH comes back that maybe it. Thinking of you:) hugs Axxxx
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Re: A setback
Originally Posted by asher
(Post 5285154)
Hi Guys had my medical today and its's a bit of a setback.
as you know I had an accident in April and damaged my neck got spinal cord compression. I had my medical today,they said they will wait for a year to see if I improve if not they will then see about an op, I may be deteriorating as my face has recently gone numb or I may have fluctuating symptoms only time will tell. but it may mean the end of Oz for me as I want my OH with me he has been in Oz since January and we are on his sponsored visa. He can't have more compassionate leave, so if he comes back to be with me it means the end of Oz. am feeling a bit choked. Sending positive vibes and hugs in case it helps <<<<<<<<hugs>>>>>>>>> |
Re: A setback
Originally Posted by asher
(Post 5285154)
Hi Guys had my medical today and its's a bit of a setback.
as you know I had an accident in April and damaged my neck got spinal cord compression. I had my medical today,they said they will wait for a year to see if I improve if not they will then see about an op, I may be deteriorating as my face has recently gone numb or I may have fluctuating symptoms only time will tell. but it may mean the end of Oz for me as I want my OH with me he has been in Oz since January and we are on his sponsored visa. He can't have more compassionate leave, so if he comes back to be with me it means the end of Oz. am feeling a bit choked. only hope every thing works out for you. K sent you |
Re: A setback
Thanks for your support Guys there must be a way around this I just haven't thought of it yet ;)
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Re: A setback
Sorry to hear that Asher.
I'm sure there must be a way round it and hope you find it :) |
Re: A setback
Originally Posted by asher
(Post 5285154)
Hi Guys had my medical today and its's a bit of a setback.
as you know I had an accident in April and damaged my neck got spinal cord compression. I had my medical today,they said they will wait for a year to see if I improve if not they will then see about an op, I may be deteriorating as my face has recently gone numb or I may have fluctuating symptoms only time will tell. but it may mean the end of Oz for me as I want my OH with me he has been in Oz since January and we are on his sponsored visa. He can't have more compassionate leave, so if he comes back to be with me it means the end of Oz. am feeling a bit choked. Thats terrible. Is there no way they can run tests nowthat will say one way or the other. I can't believe it. Can you not have this op in Oz? I don't really know what to sya to make you feel any better hun i'm so sorry. Always here if you want to chat ok?:wub::wub: Jen |
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Really sorry to hear your news. Hugs & Karma sent:wub:
Sorry, need to go spread some K around B4 I can send you more! |
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My thoughts are with you Asher, but you'll find a way alright!
Don't let your dream die. You helped me when I thought mine had died and I appreciated it. There is only one outcome Ash, your going to oz! Jazzys;) |
Re: A setback
Originally Posted by JenJen
(Post 5286033)
Oh no hun :(
Thats terrible. Is there no way they can run tests nowthat will say one way or the other. I can't believe it. Can you not have this op in Oz? I don't really know what to sya to make you feel any better hun i'm so sorry. Always here if you want to chat ok?:wub::wub: Jen I could have the op in Oz , however on a 457 visa we couldn't afford neurosurgery.as this is one of the most expensive forms of surgery!! besides which the NHS owe it to me;) I can of course leave OH in Oz , go through another 7 months on my own and join him when I am sorted, but I really feel I need him here with me, I'm a bit selfish I know. I am trying to work out ways and means of us being together and also keeping Oz. If I come to Oz now the NHS would wipe its hands of me and I would be jobless and broke. :unsure: |
Re: A setback
Originally Posted by asher
(Post 5286066)
Thanks babe
I could have the op in Oz , however on a 457 visa we couldn't afford neurosurgery.as this is one of the most expensive forms of surgery!! besides which the NHS owe it to me;) I can of course leave OH in Oz , go through another 7 months on my own and join him when I am sorted, but I really feel I need him here with me, I'm a bit selfish I know. I am trying to work out ways and means of us being together and also keeping Oz. If I come to Oz now the NHS would wipe its hands of me and I would be jobless and broke. :unsure: I know it's alot of what if's and uncertainty but is it worth trying anything? |
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