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herrchook Sep 1st 2009 11:29 pm

A Sad Day for One Expat Returning to The Land He Loved
 
Last Saturday, a friend of ours died suddenly during a soccer game. He was 37 years old with a wife and 3 young children.

Yesterday, we attended Darren's memorial service which saw a church filled to capacity for a man who's only been in the country for 3 years. A huge testament to what a lovely guy he was.

Darren's heart was always in Scotland, but he stayed here to be with his beloved wife and children. A Scottish flag adorned his coffin and a piper led the congregation in a walk behind his coffin.

Tonight, Darren's family are taking his body back to Scotland for burial in what will probably be the most difficult journey anyone could ever imagine.

It is truly shocking for such a young, and seemingly fit man to lose his life in such an unexpected way, and his death has deeply touched all those who knew him. It has however been heartening to see how the local expat community of Caroline Springs, and the soccer communities of Essendon have rallied round to try and help Jen and the children get through this tragic mess.

My heart and love is with Jen, Liam, Jack and Darren Jnr as they travel tonight and lay Darren to rest on Tuesday in his beloved Scotland.

The bonds forged amongst the expat communities are strong. For some, we are family to each other, and personally, I have seen this proven time and time again in the past 10 days or so.

Never take for granted that you'll have tomorrow. Make today count.

Rest in peace Darren. :(

Lord_Farquar Sep 1st 2009 11:41 pm

Re: A Sad Day for One Expat Returning to The Land He Loved
 
That is terrible news. RIP.


Originally Posted by herrchook (Post 7895558)
Last Saturday, a friend of ours died suddenly during a soccer game. He was 37 years old with a wife and 3 young children.

Yesterday, we attended Darren's memorial service which saw a church filled to capacity for a man who's only been in the country for 3 years. A huge testament to what a lovely guy he was.

Darren's heart was always in Scotland, but he stayed here to be with his beloved wife and children. A Scottish flag adorned his coffin and a piper led the congregation in a walk behind his coffin.

Tonight, Darren's family are taking his body back to Scotland for burial in what will probably be the most difficult journey anyone could ever imagine.

It is truly shocking for such a young, and seemingly fit man to lose his life in such an unexpected way, and his death has deeply touched all those who knew him. It has however been heartening to see how the local expat community of Caroline Springs, and the soccer communities of Essendon have rallied round to try and help Jen and the children get through this tragic mess.

My heart and love is with Jen, Liam, Jack and Darren Jnr as they travel tonight and lay Darren to rest on Tuesday in his beloved Scotland.

The bonds forged amongst the expat communities are strong. For some, we are family to each other, and personally, I have seen this proven time and time again in the past 10 days or so.

Never take for granted that you'll have tomorrow. Make today count.

Rest in peace Darren. :(


paulry Sep 1st 2009 11:55 pm

Re: A Sad Day for One Expat Returning to The Land He Loved
 

Originally Posted by herrchook (Post 7895558)
Last Saturday, a friend of ours died suddenly during a soccer game. He was 37 years old with a wife and 3 young children.

Yesterday, we attended Darren's memorial service which saw a church filled to capacity for a man who's only been in the country for 3 years. A huge testament to what a lovely guy he was.

Darren's heart was always in Scotland, but he stayed here to be with his beloved wife and children. A Scottish flag adorned his coffin and a piper led the congregation in a walk behind his coffin.

Tonight, Darren's family are taking his body back to Scotland for burial in what will probably be the most difficult journey anyone could ever imagine.

It is truly shocking for such a young, and seemingly fit man to lose his life in such an unexpected way, and his death has deeply touched all those who knew him. It has however been heartening to see how the local expat community of Caroline Springs, and the soccer communities of Essendon have rallied round to try and help Jen and the children get through this tragic mess.

My heart and love is with Jen, Liam, Jack and Darren Jnr as they travel tonight and lay Darren to rest on Tuesday in his beloved Scotland.

The bonds forged amongst the expat communities are strong. For some, we are family to each other, and personally, I have seen this proven time and time again in the past 10 days or so.

Never take for granted that you'll have tomorrow. Make today count.

Rest in peace Darren. :(

I've just read this, its so very sad. So young and so much to live for.

My thoughts and prayers are with his family.

moneypenny20 Sep 2nd 2009 12:15 am

Re: A Sad Day for One Expat Returning to The Land He Loved
 
That journey doesn't bear thinking about. Very very sad.

emelems Sep 2nd 2009 5:38 am

Re: A Sad Day for One Expat Returning to The Land He Loved
 
How awful :( Rest in Peace and my thoughts are with his wife and the children... and of course, you guys too..

Em x

Juliecabs Sep 2nd 2009 7:49 am

Re: A Sad Day for One Expat Returning to The Land He Loved
 
:( Condolences to his family and friends.

Julie. x

herrchook Sep 2nd 2009 7:56 am

Re: A Sad Day for One Expat Returning to The Land He Loved
 
Thanks for all the well wishes. Jen and the boys' flight leaves in 10 minutes. I can't begin to imagine how she's feeling right now :(.

I guess we just have to hope Emirates look after them and are sensitive to their needs. A few of us have all contacted them to ensure the onboard staff know the circumstances. Last thing they need tonight is some stroppy stewardess!

framac67 Sep 2nd 2009 8:07 am

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There for the grace of god go I. Sad time for all. May he rest in peace.:(

Sally Simpson Sep 2nd 2009 8:29 am

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I don't have anything to say other than what has already been said.
Thinking of you all.xx

aglassofwinehelps Sep 2nd 2009 9:02 am

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Some years ago I witnessed a young man in his 30's collapse and die on the football field and my sons 16 year old friend died 2 years ago on the training ground.
It's so very very sad. :(

kporte Sep 2nd 2009 9:04 am

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So sad.... Lost for words.

PAP01 Sep 2nd 2009 9:06 am

Re: A Sad Day for One Expat Returning to The Land He Loved
 
How sad ,may he RIP, and the family have a safe trip to Scotland :(

Bernieboy Sep 2nd 2009 1:43 pm

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Some men spend their youth and their lives fighting wars and the pain and sorrow that follow....some men polish their footy boots,put on their freshly washed footy gear,step on the pitch dreaming of scoring the winning goal,some never make it, but i know the man i would want to be......RIP :beer:

merleoberon Sep 2nd 2009 2:47 pm

Re: A Sad Day for One Expat Returning to The Land He Loved
 

Originally Posted by herrchook (Post 7895558)
Last Saturday, a friend of ours died suddenly during a soccer game. He was 37 years old with a wife and 3 young children.

Yesterday, we attended Darren's memorial service which saw a church filled to capacity for a man who's only been in the country for 3 years. A huge testament to what a lovely guy he was.

Darren's heart was always in Scotland, but he stayed here to be with his beloved wife and children. A Scottish flag adorned his coffin and a piper led the congregation in a walk behind his coffin.

Tonight, Darren's family are taking his body back to Scotland for burial in what will probably be the most difficult journey anyone could ever imagine.

It is truly shocking for such a young, and seemingly fit man to lose his life in such an unexpected way, and his death has deeply touched all those who knew him. It has however been heartening to see how the local expat community of Caroline Springs, and the soccer communities of Essendon have rallied round to try and help Jen and the children get through this tragic mess.

My heart and love is with Jen, Liam, Jack and Darren Jnr as they travel tonight and lay Darren to rest on Tuesday in his beloved Scotland.

The bonds forged amongst the expat communities are strong. For some, we are family to each other, and personally, I have seen this proven time and time again in the past 10 days or so.

Never take for granted that you'll have tomorrow. Make today count.

Rest in peace Darren. :(


tragic and certainly puts things in perspective. best wishes to all who knew him.

hettie Sep 3rd 2009 7:49 am

Re: A Sad Day for One Expat Returning to The Land He Loved
 

Originally Posted by herrchook (Post 7895558)
Last Saturday, a friend of ours died suddenly during a soccer game. He was 37 years old with a wife and 3 young children.

Yesterday, we attended Darren's memorial service which saw a church filled to capacity for a man who's only been in the country for 3 years. A huge testament to what a lovely guy he was.

Darren's heart was always in Scotland, but he stayed here to be with his beloved wife and children. A Scottish flag adorned his coffin and a piper led the congregation in a walk behind his coffin.

Tonight, Darren's family are taking his body back to Scotland for burial in what will probably be the most difficult journey anyone could ever imagine.

It is truly shocking for such a young, and seemingly fit man to lose his life in such an unexpected way, and his death has deeply touched all those who knew him. It has however been heartening to see how the local expat community of Caroline Springs, and the soccer communities of Essendon have rallied round to try and help Jen and the children get through this tragic mess.

My heart and love is with Jen, Liam, Jack and Darren Jnr as they travel tonight and lay Darren to rest on Tuesday in his beloved Scotland.

The bonds forged amongst the expat communities are strong. For some, we are family to each other, and personally, I have seen this proven time and time again in the past 10 days or so.

Never take for granted that you'll have tomorrow. Make today count.

Rest in peace Darren. :(

So tragic. RIP,thinking of you all ....xx


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