TiddlyPom

Best wishes Sas.

Hang in there honey. Thinking about you.

xxx

sasbear

Thanks tiddlypom - been a bugger of a day tbh - you know how you can love someone so much and then you can almost kill them???

let's see what tomorrow brings - not just pressies from santa

Weirdstone

Hope it all goes alright ...Christmas can be such a bugger ... like treading on eggshells - and then bang !!

sasbear

BANG is right - I thought I was going mad with all 3 of them screeching and shouting like mad people!

I just want to get the next 2 days out of the way - ex has no where else to stay knows no one here - so feel in a corner - should have known this would happen - bloody hell

Weirdstone

Is there somewhere/someone you can go to for timeout if you need it?

sasbear

Yeah - I have the keys for our office! At least there is a supply of alcoho there. I think I will have to take hubby out for the day boxing day - that is the only way we will get through this.

Weirdstone

Stay strong till then Sarah.. and remember...you are not alone - you just feel a little lonely at present ...get my drift?

sasbear

Thanks - I am going to try and get some sleep now - no use trying to make sense out of anything tonight.

Thanks again - never know how isolated you can feel when something happens and you dont know who to call- night

Weirdstone

I do know....but there are folk around for you.

Clippy

Oh Sas, only just noticed this, hope you're ok love

xx

TiddlyPom

I think it must be very difficult for you, but also very difficult for your OH. Your step daughter is just going along with the way the adults are behaving by the sound of it.
Your other half must feel quite confused.... torn between the two of you... the mother of his child and you, the person he's actually with.
And then to top it off, you're in the same house and it's Christmas...

Recipe for disaster... Almost reminds me of having one's mother to stay for three months whilst one has marital problems....
Freaking awful.

I think next time, she needs to stay elsewhere, regardless of who or what she knows. She needs to respect your space and your family....
Sounds like it's all about boundaries. I don't think you should have to be put in this situation in the first place.

Get through the next couple of days but do try to clear the air...
for all your sakes.... Being the mother of a child and having to stay at your ex husband's place must be tricky too.....

Nothing like feeling your way in the dark is there?

Good luck Sas. You'll be ok.

moneypenny20

Pleased you got him back home. With any luck you'll get some sort of apology from the ex in the morning. Don't think I was of much use but something is better than nothing Stay strong hon and try to have a reasonable day tomorrow.

tyke

Hi Sas

Hope things seem a little better today.

Time is a kind gentleman.

Wendy

Aw Sas, sorry to hear things are crap

If it makes you feel any better you aren't the only one who had a blazing row yesterday But things are fine again this morning, even though I packed a bag last night.

Sally Simpson

Sas,
thinking of you & hope you are OK. Christmas can be a really cr***y time sometimes
Think your idea for Boxing day is excellent, get the hell away from it!
Best wishes honey!