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I don't really know what to say other than my thoughts are with you. Awful situation so tragic.
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Hi Debbie,
I am so sorry for your loss.
I read about what happened with tears in my eyes. I can't imagine how you must be feeling but my thoughts are with you and your children. x
I am so sorry for your loss.
I read about what happened with tears in my eyes. I can't imagine how you must be feeling but my thoughts are with you and your children. x
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Hi Debbie
So glad you have family with you and it sounds like you live in a wonderful place. I will be thinking of you and the boys on Monday, and hoping that you knowing your friends on BE will be thinking of you will help a little to give you the strength to get through the day.
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So glad you have family with you and it sounds like you live in a wonderful place. I will be thinking of you and the boys on Monday, and hoping that you knowing your friends on BE will be thinking of you will help a little to give you the strength to get through the day.
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Take care of yourself, glad you have your family with you.
Will be thinking of you all on Monday
God bless,
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Will be thinking of you all on Monday
God bless,
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Firstly I want to thank everyone, I've ummmed and arghhhed over whether to post on here or not, but decided to just to let you all know how we are. Obviously we are all in a state of shock, but we are getting by. I have my family still here and more are going to come out at a later date. Friends have been brilliant and I'm completely overwhelmed by the support I have from the community here in Mandurah.
The funeral is on Monday and I am also planning a memorial service for Paul in the UK. This will be late March - I will be going back for a short time to do this for him and to also let the boys have some much needed time with our families. To be honest I'm not sure what the future holds for us - I'd love to stay and live out the dream that Paul and I wanted so much for us and the boys, but eventually reality will set in and it may be that at some time in the future I will decide to return back to the UK - but these decisions need to be made a few months down the line and not right now.
Once again I want to say a huge thank you to everyone
Take care
Debbie
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The funeral is on Monday and I am also planning a memorial service for Paul in the UK. This will be late March - I will be going back for a short time to do this for him and to also let the boys have some much needed time with our families. To be honest I'm not sure what the future holds for us - I'd love to stay and live out the dream that Paul and I wanted so much for us and the boys, but eventually reality will set in and it may be that at some time in the future I will decide to return back to the UK - but these decisions need to be made a few months down the line and not right now.
Once again I want to say a huge thank you to everyone
Take care
Debbie
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Dear Debbie, thanks for posting. It can't have been easy for you to write that. You are a very strong and brave woman. I cannot express how this has affected our family also. Certainly made us cherish life more. Thank you and many hugs. You are in our thoughts too. xx
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Thankyou for posting,it couldn't of been easy.Thinking of you this coming Monday. Jennyxx
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Debbie,
Our thoughts will be with you & your family tomorrow,
Love
Nicky
Our thoughts will be with you & your family tomorrow,
Love
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Firstly I want to thank everyone, I've ummmed and arghhhed over whether to post on here or not, but decided to just to let you all know how we are. Obviously we are all in a state of shock, but we are getting by. I have my family still here and more are going to come out at a later date. Friends have been brilliant and I'm completely overwhelmed by the support I have from the community here in Mandurah.
The funeral is on Monday and I am also planning a memorial service for Paul in the UK. This will be late March - I will be going back for a short time to do this for him and to also let the boys have some much needed time with our families. To be honest I'm not sure what the future holds for us - I'd love to stay and live out the dream that Paul and I wanted so much for us and the boys, but eventually reality will set in and it may be that at some time in the future I will decide to return back to the UK - but these decisions need to be made a few months down the line and not right now.
Once again I want to say a huge thank you to everyone
Take care
Debbie
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The funeral is on Monday and I am also planning a memorial service for Paul in the UK. This will be late March - I will be going back for a short time to do this for him and to also let the boys have some much needed time with our families. To be honest I'm not sure what the future holds for us - I'd love to stay and live out the dream that Paul and I wanted so much for us and the boys, but eventually reality will set in and it may be that at some time in the future I will decide to return back to the UK - but these decisions need to be made a few months down the line and not right now.
Once again I want to say a huge thank you to everyone
Take care
Debbie
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Hi Debbie
My thoughts are with you at this sad time and me and my family will be thinking of you and your boys tomorrow (Monday)
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Debbie,
Our thoughts are with you at this sad time, will be thinking of you and your boys. You are incredibly strong xx
Niki xx
Our thoughts are with you at this sad time, will be thinking of you and your boys. You are incredibly strong xx
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Hi Debbie
Sending you and the boys huge hugs and we are so sorry for your loss. It is hard to find any words of comfort but know you are all in many peoples thoughts and prayers.Just time..!!!
Love
Paula and Family xx
Sending you and the boys huge hugs and we are so sorry for your loss. It is hard to find any words of comfort but know you are all in many peoples thoughts and prayers.Just time..!!!
Love
Paula and Family xx
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Hi Debbie and boys,
I've been thinking about you all day and hope that you have been able to get through this awful day. Stay strong, and remember I(we) am here for you if you need me(us).
I've been thinking about you all day and hope that you have been able to get through this awful day. Stay strong, and remember I(we) am here for you if you need me(us).
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Me too Debbie... Hoping that the day has been in some way, bearable, though I can't imagine how.
Thoughts to you.
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Thoughts to you.
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