Long distance hellationship
Jun 27th 2007 | 5:48 am
#1
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Long distance hellationship
Hi everyone,
Just wondering if anyone else applying for a visa with their loved one is on the other side of the planet is feeling the strain.
I'm really panicking. I just got off the phone with my husband - another bickering session - and am feeling really low. I just want to be with him. We've been three months apart at this stage and in our first year of marriage. He's struggling and I'm trying my best to keep it together but I'm losing it. I'm getting tired. He's working ridiculous hours to try to get money together for us and the exhaustion and worry is getting to him. I'm trying my best to keep reassuring him and keep his spirits up and faith alive but it's getting too much.
I've so much on my plate with work (it's the busiest time of year) and trying to get my stuff moved for when/if the visa comes through. The thought that whether or not we see eachother depends on someone sitting in an office scouring our personal documents, judging us and our relationship scares the hell out of me. I am checking my e-mail morning, noon, afternoon and evening for any news but nothing. I know I'm being impatient, it's been 13 days since the application was lodged but we're both finding it so tough.
I know life was never meant to be easy but this feels awful. I miss my husband.
Just wondering if anyone else applying for a visa with their loved one is on the other side of the planet is feeling the strain.
I'm really panicking. I just got off the phone with my husband - another bickering session - and am feeling really low. I just want to be with him. We've been three months apart at this stage and in our first year of marriage. He's struggling and I'm trying my best to keep it together but I'm losing it. I'm getting tired. He's working ridiculous hours to try to get money together for us and the exhaustion and worry is getting to him. I'm trying my best to keep reassuring him and keep his spirits up and faith alive but it's getting too much.
I've so much on my plate with work (it's the busiest time of year) and trying to get my stuff moved for when/if the visa comes through. The thought that whether or not we see eachother depends on someone sitting in an office scouring our personal documents, judging us and our relationship scares the hell out of me. I am checking my e-mail morning, noon, afternoon and evening for any news but nothing. I know I'm being impatient, it's been 13 days since the application was lodged but we're both finding it so tough.
I know life was never meant to be easy but this feels awful. I miss my husband.
Jun 27th 2007 | 5:55 am
#2
visa holder
Joined: Jan 2006
Posts: 1,964
From: Thornlands, Bayside
Re: Long distance hellationship
Hi Sorry cant offer any advice. Just wanted to say hang in there and hopefully you will be back together soon.,
Hugs
Joex
Hugs
Joex
Jun 27th 2007 | 6:48 am
#3
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Joined: Apr 2007
Posts: 45
Re: Long distance hellationship
Thanks Joe. Appreciate it.
Jun 27th 2007 | 8:20 am
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Joined: Mar 2007
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Re: Long distance hellationship
Hi everyone,
Just wondering if anyone else applying for a visa with their loved one is on the other side of the planet is feeling the strain.
I'm really panicking. I just got off the phone with my husband - another bickering session - and am feeling really low. I just want to be with him. We've been three months apart at this stage and in our first year of marriage. He's struggling and I'm trying my best to keep it together but I'm losing it. I'm getting tired. He's working ridiculous hours to try to get money together for us and the exhaustion and worry is getting to him. I'm trying my best to keep reassuring him and keep his spirits up and faith alive but it's getting too much.
I've so much on my plate with work (it's the busiest time of year) and trying to get my stuff moved for when/if the visa comes through. The thought that whether or not we see eachother depends on someone sitting in an office scouring our personal documents, judging us and our relationship scares the hell out of me. I am checking my e-mail morning, noon, afternoon and evening for any news but nothing. I know I'm being impatient, it's been 13 days since the application was lodged but we're both finding it so tough.
I know life was never meant to be easy but this feels awful. I miss my husband.
Just wondering if anyone else applying for a visa with their loved one is on the other side of the planet is feeling the strain.
I'm really panicking. I just got off the phone with my husband - another bickering session - and am feeling really low. I just want to be with him. We've been three months apart at this stage and in our first year of marriage. He's struggling and I'm trying my best to keep it together but I'm losing it. I'm getting tired. He's working ridiculous hours to try to get money together for us and the exhaustion and worry is getting to him. I'm trying my best to keep reassuring him and keep his spirits up and faith alive but it's getting too much.
I've so much on my plate with work (it's the busiest time of year) and trying to get my stuff moved for when/if the visa comes through. The thought that whether or not we see eachother depends on someone sitting in an office scouring our personal documents, judging us and our relationship scares the hell out of me. I am checking my e-mail morning, noon, afternoon and evening for any news but nothing. I know I'm being impatient, it's been 13 days since the application was lodged but we're both finding it so tough.
I know life was never meant to be easy but this feels awful. I miss my husband.
Hope you post this in with your application. Sure seems to affirm the relationship
